How to get my FB back?

[elaiinee]

Would like to get advise from bros here....

I had a FB a mth ago....all was well till I ruin things n now he is avoidin mi....can advise how can I get him back? Things got a little messy till the so-called wife noe abt mi. But dunno that I slept with him. I really wan to have my tis FB back.....can advise mi?

[sammyboyfor]

Would like to get advise from bros here....


Should be "Would like to get ADVICE from bros here...".

"Advise" is a verb.

[Darkstorm]

Would like to get advise from bros here....

I had a FB a mth ago....all was well till I ruin things n now he is avoidin mi....can advise how can I get him back? Things got a little messy till the so-called wife noe abt mi. But dunno that I slept with him. I really wan to have my tis FB back.....can advise mi?

Sorry. My only advice is: don't break up people's marriage.

[uiop]

my tis FB back.....can advise mi?

You are sure a bitch. :rolleyes:

[flowerpot]

Let me be your FB ba....

[ekemono]

Would like to get advise from bros here....

I had a FB a mth ago....all was well till I ruin things n now he is avoidin mi

Emotions are a curse in a FB relationship

[Highjoys]

Hi Elaiine.. getting a married FB is really an uphill task and may not put u in good light. I had emailed to u here to give u some advice. ope u will think about it :)

[pewpew]

Would like to get advise from bros here....

I had a FB a mth ago....all was well till I ruin things n now he is avoidin mi....can advise how can I get him back? Things got a little messy till the so-called wife noe abt mi. But dunno that I slept with him. I really wan to have my tis FB back.....can advise mi?

Will you like to disclose more on what happened or maybe more details of the incident?

Anyway, sad to hear from you about the relationship but hope you don't mind our bros here as some of them are kinda crud :o

[EtherC]

Incoming PM spam.

[geckoSG]

If he calls quit, move on bah... I believe you have got a bit way too sticky
for comfort, that's why he choose to leave you. Dun forget, he has a family.

In the first place, you should know where you stand. Since its over, just
move on, I'm sure SBF has many guys who are keen in being your FB.

Peace

[jojogigi]

she needs a opinion and u guys are tellin her to be their Fbs.... omg. testerone high issit....lol

anyway if you really need him back i seriously think not to get sticky with him. If he wants you back for a fuck. he WILL call you. he's a FB not a BF. If he wants a fuck.. go to a hotel or his house.... do everything.. until when the sex comes in. Say you are bored and tired liao. don't give it to him and go home. He will crawl back to you. Give yourself some respect. don't always give in when he asks. And you'll be of value. my personal opinion no pun intended

[gimmeporn]

Would like to get advise from bros here....

I had a FB a mth ago....all was well till I ruin things n now he is avoidin mi....can advise how can I get him back? Things got a little messy till the so-called wife noe abt mi. But dunno that I slept with him. I really wan to have my tis FB back.....can advise mi?

Get another one, life goes on, U looking for a lover or FB? sonds like lover

[jasdude]

its a thin grey line thats easily crossed . to differentiate btw love and lust ! that you have to ask yourself! But it takes two hands to clap ! since he is avoiding you; let go and live anew ! Plenty of BROs in here will gladly stand in queue for a chance of being your FB ! ME for one !:D

[populex]

I guess life goes on, you just have to let go for better things to come in life.

good luck

[suteerak1099]

Would like to get advise from bros here....

I had a FB a mth ago....all was well till I ruin things n now he is avoidin mi....can advise how can I get him back? Things got a little messy till the so-called wife noe abt mi. But dunno that I slept with him. I really wan to have my tis FB back.....can advise mi? as u already mentioned, he's just a FB. hence, u just gotta send him a sms on prefered venue & time. if he responds, nothing to fret about. if he doesnt, then time for u to find a new FB... his OC probably has his dragon on a leash.

[slider_72]

Sigh... a man's mind can be so one-dimensional at times. I see a number of posts from a few bros offering to be the replacement FB. I believe none of us here even know how the TS looks like. For all you know, she could be a 500 lb "beauty" which the FB "scored" in a drunken stupor which is why he is now running like crazy. Note TS made reference to his "so-called wife" meaning that the FB is not married.

By the way, there is no compelling evidence that the TS is a woman. We are all assuming the TS is a woman. Could be a sequel to "The Crying Game". Anyone saw that movie? It was damn good actually.

[Leeson]

Sigh... a man's mind can be so one-dimensional at times. I see a number of posts from a few bros offering to be the replacement FB. I believe none of us here even know how the TS looks like. For all you know, she could be a 500 lb "beauty" which the FB "scored" in a drunken stupor which is why he is now running like crazy. Note TS made reference to his "so-called wife" meaning that the FB is not married.

By the way, there is no compelling evidence that the TS is a woman. We are all assuming the TS is a woman. Could be a sequel to "The Crying Game". Anyone saw that movie? It was damn good actually.

maybe it can be a case of the "500 pounds beauty" movie instead? :D

[aczeta76]

FB means no attachment... machiam like longterm ONS with some feelings (which can be quickly recalled)... u become too sticky and he will move away more

[slider_72]

maybe it can be a case of the "500 pounds beauty" movie instead? :D

Although the actress in that movie looked really delicious, but if she had to go through so much of plastic surgery to get there, I am sure I don't want to bonk her. What happen if kiss halfway the nose came off, or when you do the doggie, she gets her bum misaligned? Actually I can't even stand groping enhanced boobs. Feels really strange to me.

[mi.chi.eru]

Sigh... a man's mind can be so one-dimensional at times. I see a number of posts from a few bros offering to be the replacement FB.

It has been like this for as long as I can remember.
As long as its perceived that the person is a female samster, "she" will be whacked with a torrent of PMs..

Those long enough will prolly take all things with a pinch of salt.:p

[superchevy]

Let me be your FB ba....

ya bro agree with u up u for the good statement hahha :)

[elaiinee]

I am not lookin for a new FB but nit advice on how to get back my FB which I have ruin things......

Thanks to bros who gave mi a reply....

[Mr Smith]

Would like to get advise from bros here....

I had a FB a mth ago....all was well till I ruin things n now he is avoidin mi....can advise how can I get him back? Things got a little messy till the so-called wife noe abt mi. But dunno that I slept with him. I really wan to have my tis FB back.....can advise mi?

School holiday?

[jojogigi]

I am not lookin for a new FB but nit advice on how to get back my FB which I have ruin things......

Thanks to bros who gave mi a reply....

if u need us to help you... you need to give more detail. what u've done. nobody knows who are you. so no harm done.

[colins]

I am not lookin for a new FB but nit advice on how to get back my FB which I have ruin things......

Thanks to bros who gave mi a reply....

This is the reason why you attracted so many FB offers. If you never say what happened, nobody is interested in looking into your FB issues even if they really want to help you. They can only BE your new FB in order to help you, cos we all know that you lost one.

Its like, a man drives a car into a 2nd hand car mart. Then he loudly proclaims, 'my car is now out of service cos I ruined it. Pls help me cos I need to have a functional car'.

What will happen? All the car salesmen will come and try to sell a new car to him.

[demonhunter]

well well

the solution to your problems are ....Make me your New FB
you wont regret it .

1) 8 Inches long
2) thick and rock hard without using medications
3) will last at least 30 mins of penetration , usually longer
4) good painter
5) willing to do kinky stuffs
6) knows many different positions
7) will definitely pay for everything incl meals , outings ,5 star hotels etc ..
8) 30 days money back guarantee

call now ...er i mean PM me if interested .;)

[warbird]

I am not lookin for a new FB but nit advice on how to get back my FB which I have ruin things......

Thanks to bros who gave mi a reply....

Hi TS,

Let me give my perspective on the subject. I had my share of FBs who were either students or sales gals/OLs when I was very young n single.

Although the sex was very good, fantastic w/ a few of them, I never had any feelings for them. I usually had one FB at a time. I saw them about every 4-5 days n each session we would fxxked for 2-3 hrs...we rarely went to dinner or nite club.

This was BEFORE the era of HIV n most of the FJs were done raw but I put on CD just before ejaculation to prevent any unwanted pregancy. While having a FB, I would still go for ONS n WLs when I would always used CD.

I left them after 3-5 months on average. Why? I either got bored or had found another FB or becos the gal wanted a "deeper" rs!:eek:

They would call to lure me back but I never saw them again, except for a M'sian gal whom I stopped seeing 2 yrs previously. When her older sister told me she was engaged in M'sia, my interest was rekindled. A few months later, she came to SGP n we became FB again which lasted almost 5 months. Even though she was very sexy n wonderful in bed, I had zero feelings for her at the time. But strangely, after she had left, I longed for her sexy body n very wet pussy. I had even PCCed thinking of her!:confused:

My advice to u is to forget ur FB. Dun even ctc him. It's much easier to get another FB than trying to get him back.

Good luck!

[jasdude]

Dear TS

The way to a man's heart is not only thru his pants ! Think hard about this !. If your ultimate goal is more than being his FB . think thrice cos he has a family . Yes it hurts but a new replacement or something that will keep you occupied will lessen the pain and in time make you realise what you truly deserve .

[jojogigi]

well well

the solution to your problems are ....Make me your New FB
you wont regret it .

1) 8 Inches long
2) thick and rock hard without using medications
3) will last at least 30 mins of penetration , usually longer
4) good painter
5) willing to do kinky stuffs
6) knows many different positions
7) will definitely pay for everything incl meals , outings ,5 star hotels etc ..
8) 30 days money back guarantee

call now ...er i mean PM me if interested .;)

dude sibeh out of pt.....

[elaiinee]

More details? Okie...

Everything was fine till I wrote him a letter of confession sayin I want to see him happy as he is not happy at all with the current so-called wife. They r not legally married. He is with her by force I can say...bros out here....as a guy...would u like ur wife to control ur finances? I think so rite? He did share with mi that he is with her is more for responsibility...n he have his needs...thats y he dun think twice if he got the chance to have a FB...cos he say in his 1st marriage he was really faithful to his wife...he got 4 kids from the 1st marriage....

Anyway, I pass him the letter n the nxt day as it was rainin so I SMS him n told him how I wish I could go pick him up as it is rainin...n ended the SMS with miss him lots as usual.....then his reply was he read the letter n he wish to stop n he said sorry...thats when I started to call him but he refuse to pick up as he is at work....then when he finally pick up he say he is busy when I ask whether can we mit up that nite or the nxt nite but he say he is busy n hang up.

I jus wan an answer n a chance to explain to him so ended up I keep on callin him n he off his phone. Cos I regretted writing him the letter cos I realise it is not wat I wan...I jus wan him for sex n nothing else..not like wat I wrote in the letter. After callin him a few more times in the evenin n he din pick up...I gave up...then came his reply tellin mi not to keep on callin....so I reply him tellin him to forgive mi n sorry abt it n promise I will b good....end up his reply was dun b irritating..my wife dun like...pls mind ur words....

At that moment then I realise he was with the wife...cos the wife checks his phone....end up in the middle of the nite I got a SMS send from his phone n not by him...tellin mi off....which is send by the wife...

As it was the wkends so I din call or SMS him. Tried callin him only on Wed but he jus refuse to answer....then on the same nite I got SMS from the wife threaten mi....2 SMS in fact....sayin whether I am in love with her hubby...say she will make sure I will have no face or pride to stay at my workplace if I continue to pester her hubby...both SMS threaten mi....y she say that cos she used to work at the same company as the hubby...thats where they noe each other....

Enough details?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Enough details?

Hell yeah...tons infact.
Actually, if you really read your own post, you'll know where and what went wrong.
The cause of HELL for him and the 2 of you is actually you yourself!!!!
Why?
Cos you did not follow the basic rules of being the other 1! Period.
Very simple, how would you react if you're married, had a FB who doesnt stick to the rules and get caught by your husband cos your FB is a dumb arse player who sms you in the wee hours of the morning, calls & sms you in the weekends???????
It's all there!
As a neutral, cut the dude some slack...you've caused him BIG misery.....let him go & find yourself another meat stick!;)

[flowerpot]

your FB also have got no choice but to do this to you....

He is monitored by his so-called wife now.... who knows which sms-es could be seen by his wife....

give him some time, for things to cool down, after probation period is over, than the animal in him will be released......

[jasdude]

The cause of HELL for him and the 2 of you is actually you yourself!!!!



Agree with BRO DO_YOU_BJ TOTALLY !

As a FB , you should be as transparent in the lives as the other FB . Your emotions for your FB got the better of you ! Now the worst has being done , your FB has to do damage control .

THINK HARD GAL! if you are that important to him NOW ! would he be by your side or the side of his so call wife NOW ! wake up and move on! You need a hard knock to get on track !

[slider_72]

Sheesh... head bang wall also don't know what happened. Make up your mind TS, whether you want to remain as FB or become his mistress. You think you are just FB but behave like a kept woman. You crossed the line and now he suffers. I pity the poor chap. Probably sleeping on the sofa now.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Sheesh... head bang wall also don't know what happened. Make up your mind TS, whether you want to remain as FB or become his mistress. You think you are just FB but behave like a kept woman. You crossed the line and now he suffers. I pity the poor chap. Probably sleeping on the sofa now.

Worst, knelling on durian husks pulling his ears...bwahahahahha

[colins]

More details? Okie...
...
...
Enough details?

Yeah. As his 'FB', you were unconsciously relying on him for emotional support, something which FBs do not share. FBs share physical support only.

Your action has led to the discovery of this relationship by his wife. He is now going thru emotional roller coaster stage trying to get her favours back.

My advice is, stop all communications. When the storm blows over on his side, he will come and find you. When that happens, he will come to EXPLAIN TO YOU why he cannot contact you. If he doesn't come back, pls forget about him. 连偷吃都不会的男人，只能一辈子被一个女人喂。

[DTCEPL]

连偷吃都不会的男人，只能一辈子被一个女人喂。

I am simply amazed how do you people become so learned......:D

The phases used nevered failed to enlighten me.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

I am simply amazed how do you people become so learned......:D

The phases used nevered failed to enlighten me.

DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF THE FORCE my brudder!:D

[buducidal]

Gentlemen I fear that your logical arguments will not appeal to the feminine psyche. They will only act if they an emotional motivation otherwise we are just trying to water the concrete and expect it to magically grow grass :(

[DTCEPL]

DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF THE FORCE my brudder!:D

I think we must also thank the power of all the PRC mei mei(s):rolleyes:

They helped us to improve our 2nd Language and also bed skills......;), last but not least, also suck us dry dry, both in terms of Money and Sperm.:D

[slider_72]

Gentlemen I fear that your logical arguments will not appeal to the feminine psyche. They will only act if they an emotional motivation otherwise we are just trying to water the concrete and expect it to magically grow grass :(

In that case, I will have to plagarise a phrase from Bro DYBJ's signature. TS 是你的，就是你的。不是你的，不要抢！

[demonorc]

Hi Elaine,

I guess the best way to get back your FB is to first give him some time.. maybe alot of time as well.

First of all, he needs to get his wife to trust him all over again, then next, he will then be able to come out again.

Who knows, when you sms him, his hp will be vetted by the wife, and then, the waiting time gets longer again.

Once he gain the trust of his wife again, maybe only then he is able to come and find you ,or he might just find another fb. That, noone will know in the future.

I guess in life, a relationship with a married person is always like this, we must be prepare for the worst to happen.

Enjoy while it last and sighs when it is over.

Give him lots of time and meantime, if someone else comes along, do consider him. Thats what I can advice you.

[uiop]

This is the worst thread that i ever seen, there are still some morons advice on how TS going back to her FB. :eek:

No wonder the divorced rate in Singapore are getting higher and higher. :rolleyes:

[pewpew]

Dear, that is a relationship that you are trying to find, not a FB from the way you mentioned, start moving on, forget about him, treat it as a lost relationship.

Just remember what is a partner and what is a FB or else you will hurt yourself again and again.

Hope your wound will heal soon and take care.

Sending this to cheer you up

q(^oo^)p

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Dear, that is a relationship that you are trying to find, not a FB from the way you mentioned, start moving on, forget about him, treat it as a lost relationship.

Just remember what is a partner and what is a FB or else you will hurt yourself again and again.

Hope your wound will heal soon and take care.

Sending this to cheer you up

q(^oo^)p

Very warm words.......upz u 7

[HCKing]

Gentlemen I fear that your logical arguments will not appeal to the feminine psyche. They will only act if they an emotional motivation otherwise we are just trying to water the concrete and expect it to magically grow grass :(

hehehe spot on man. wat they need r charbo KC master/guru/expert to help them.

[geckoSG]

TS. U have breached the rule of an FB for a attached/married man.

Now that his partner knows about you, please let him go. If he still wants
to continue with you, he will contact you later. In the mean time, move
on...

If he doesn't continue with you, move on... If you keep insisting on clinging
onto him, its no longer FB status, U have already emotionally attached to
him... Since he asked for stop. U should know how to back off.

Give yourself some respect that you deserve, why continue to pester him?
Will you want to stop only when his partner makes a big fuss at your office
and make you lose your job?

Think it this way, the happy moments are over, cherish the memories and
move on... Both of you will be happier this way.

[wolfgang999]

Would like to get advise from bros here....

I had a FB a mth ago....all was well till I ruin things n now he is avoidin mi....can advise how can I get him back?

you can't get him back, move on and find another FB lah. Lots of horny guys out there anyway, and next time dun be too sticky. :D

[jojogigi]

Everything was fine till I wrote him a letter of confession sayin I want to see him happy as he is not happy at all with the current so-called wife. They r not legally married. He is with her by force I can say...bros out here....as a guy...would u like ur wife to control ur finances? I think so rite? He did share with mi that he is with her is more for responsibility...n he have his needs...thats y he dun think twice if he got the chance to have a FB...cos he say in his 1st marriage he was really faithful to his wife...he got 4 kids from the 1st marriage....

Anyway, I pass him the letter n the nxt day as it was rainin so I SMS him n told him how I wish I could go pick him up as it is rainin...n ended the SMS with miss him lots as usual.....then his reply was he read the letter n he wish to stop n he said sorry...thats when I started to call him but he refuse to pick up as he is at work....then when he finally pick up he say he is busy when I ask whether can we mit up that nite or the nxt nite but he say he is busy n hang up.

I jus wan an answer n a chance to explain to him so ended up I keep on callin him n he off his phone. Cos I regretted writing him the letter cos I realise it is not wat I wan...I jus wan him for sex n nothing else..not like wat I wrote in the letter. After callin him a few more times in the evenin n he din pick up...I gave up...then came his reply tellin mi not to keep on callin....so I reply him tellin him to forgive mi n sorry abt it n promise I will b good....end up his reply was dun b irritating..my wife dun like...pls mind ur words....

At that moment then I realise he was with the wife...cos the wife checks his phone....end up in the middle of the nite I got a SMS send from his phone n not by him...tellin mi off....which is send by the wife...

As it was the wkends so I din call or SMS him. Tried callin him only on Wed but he jus refuse to answer....then on the same nite I got SMS from the wife threaten mi....2 SMS in fact....sayin whether I am in love with her hubby...say she will make sure I will have no face or pride to stay at my workplace if I continue to pester her hubby...both SMS threaten mi....y she say that cos she used to work at the same company as the hubby...thats where they noe each other....

Enough details?

it seems u have alot feelings for this guy that is more than a FB. 1st u must accept u like/love him. Ur actions says it all. 2nd thing. is you need to realise this problem. If he's refusing to meet or talk to you only means one thing. You are irrtating and he's doesnt want you anymore. As hard as the fact is. Its the truth. And the truth is hard to swallow like a bitter medicine. But how hard this bitter medicine is.. you must swallow. Cause its good for you.
3rd is the solution. You have to let go. I dunno how you gonna do it... find another FB... go disco.. find some other guys to replace him. I'm sure it can be done. Not easy but can be done. You see.. so many potential FBs willing to show you their stick. (sorry... im gay. I like to be arse fugged) hohoho.

i believe you have all ur answers here by our bros. You just need to accept the fact and apply the solution.

[darkangel]

The qoutes and sayings in this thread are so enlightening and entertaining, 2 thumbs up to all. :D

[silent:hunter]

Elieen,

We are all born differntly. In terms of looks, thinking, lust... Surely the methods that each individuals handles issues are different.

Totally agree with some bros here. First, you need to understand the rules of the game. It seems that you have breached it in the first place by sending the letter. And probably scares him alittle. And by the persistant calls and smses, it made things worst. What is the ulitamate that you have done that you persistantly, stickly, smsed him. By , i reckon, at that point of time, his wife probably has seen the smses. And the guy is already in deep shit.. and probably there is a HUGH quarrels, in the midst of your smses.. what do u expect him to do at that moment?

my guess is that probably his wife has confiscated his hp in waiting for more of your sms. To really "find" out what is happening between you and him. And from your smses, she probably would have know most of the things.. So wat do u expect him(yr FB) to do? My guess is that he is probably at the mercy of the wife... sadly.

Advise is common. To stop watever you are doing. If u even thing of getting the FB back, then give him some time to sort out his own mess. Stay clear.. by persisting, it would make matter worst. If in the end, things does not work out, then their are always so many "cars" in the car-mart that you can get. why still presist on the old car when it has already a very "controlling" owner? she will never sell you the car, and the car would probably never prefer you as a owner too.

thus, advise is to stay far. find a new car..

enjoy life, dont complicate it. :o