Anyone like me just broke up? Feel like chatting?

[Gingerman]

Sigh, just broke up with my gf of 2 years today. Feeling down and depressed. Tried talking to friends but it seems they dont understand coz they are not in the same shoes as me.

Anyone just broken up recently and wanna share their feelings? Drop me a pm if u do.

[crazydog_19]

Brother,

dont be upset, maybe some cooling time is good for both. look at the bright side, maybe a month or so you may patch up.

Or looking at a better brighter side, she is not good enough for you, someone is on the way for you which is better.

Is always easy for me to say now, but you have to solve the unhappiness yourself.

As there is a chinese saying "If it is yours, is yours, If not yours, it will not be"

Take-care.
Dont over bonking. (2cents worth idea):(

[anchoisg]

Hope you can find another one will fit with your di di.
Keep smilling.

[big_dick]

Bro,

Feel for you bro. Chin up!!!! You will find one lagi even much better than this outgoing one very quickly and wonder why u ever felt this way. :o

[Darkrunner]

Ocean and Forest so big... as long as u dun give up, still got chances of finding someone else...

[colins]

Sigh, just broke up with my gf of 2 years today. Feeling down and depressed. Tried talking to friends but it seems they dont understand coz they are not in the same shoes as me.

Anyone just broken up recently and wanna share their feelings? Drop me a pm if u do.

Dude, lots of activities are opened to you now, take it easy, life is more than just one relationship.

Oh pls try not to look for a fellow heartbroken bro, you know the thing about why you can easily see one heartbroken guy sitting next to the sea but never TWO heartbroken guys doing the same? Becos they already jumped INTO the sea, bro. You need a lifeguard bro. ;)

[leecs]

Right now, its time to enjoy your singlehood. You will be able to find 1 better than your ex.

[Sexrider]

Sigh, just broke up with my gf of 2 years today. Feeling down and depressed. Tried talking to friends but it seems they dont understand coz they are not in the same shoes as me.

Anyone just broken up recently and wanna share their feelings? Drop me a pm if u do.

Bro, why your rank so high one, got (eP) behind your "samster"?

Anyway, bro, I lagi worse loh. Mine one (look at my another "funny" thread of my story) even worse loh. Even though I ownself make it that way (getting seriously over a worthless girl), but still feel paint. 3years plus of cohabit, now you see her, then suddenly you don't see her anymore at night, morning, afternoon! :eek:

But that is life. I think it is part of life loh. Get over it. Bro, you can PM me. See whether we can arrange a chionging session to start forget your EX (if it is destined to be ended, if not, it stands for your EXisting one).

[yy0202]

bro, enjoy ur singlehood..... enjoy the lonliness.... enjoy having all the time you have on your own... catch up with all friends that you neglect during the time u with you
EX... engage in sports, take up new hoobies, time flies.... once u have fully enjoyed singlehood.. u will truthly enjoy the next relationship that comes by.. let fate decides...

i have 'enjoy' 8 yrs of singlehood, had my share of lonliness... get to know a bunch of friends who i hang out with when i had time.. im just started to enjoy my 2nd relationship with different perspective than b4..

u can lose everything, but dun lose urself...

breaking up at this time isnt gd, somemore val day is coming... ur frens may not have time for u, u will feel lonely and sad, go for a jog, meet a few single frenz, go down to the redlight district, u will find all the brothers of the singlehood is there, drinking, watching soccer, inspecting "parade" etc... lifes not that bad afterall... ur frenz can comfort u days after days, but if u dun comfort urself, willing to stay happy... u wont be happy...

just my opinion...

[HeadOn]

cheer up...

there're many things in life apart from having a gf/wf, start a family etc...

losing a gf mean u gain freedom too..just think of wat u cant do when u r in a r/s, u will be glad u r single now!!

[macrotouch]

Sigh, just broke up with my gf of 2 years today. Feeling down and depressed. Tried talking to friends but it seems they dont understand coz they are not in the same shoes as me.

Anyone just broken up recently and wanna share their feelings? Drop me a pm if u do.

Cheer up Dude, it's not the end of the world, there are many many flowers still around waitin for you:p:p

[fee3fow]

Try not to ponder about it everyday. Get on with your daily life as normal and engage in other activities to keep yourself occupy. Remember: Time may not heal all wounds, but it will certainly lighten them :).

[Jarko]

bro broke up onli. its nt even end of the world.

[Tai_zi21]

Time Will Heal All Wounds... :)

Cheers

[pussyman72]

You need a lifeguard bro. ;)

lol my life guard is my part time lovers :p :D

[Super~Kids]

Dun feel sad. Life still need to carry on.

Hope u get to know yr loved one coming Valentine's Day.

[sammyboyfor]

Everyone's chatting except the thread starter.:eek:

[stdioh]

Cheer up bro,

Time is the best medicine, time will definitely heal all wounds, :)

But if this is your first real love, (Not puppy Love)
then a lot of medicine (TIME) is needed.

Try to do something, like focus on your work, take up a new "hobby" :D
catch up with old friends, have coffee with them.

[old_yet_horny]

TS... Dun like that la..

Dun mind telling us what is the reason for the breakup??

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Break break lor
Ya heart pain pain but life still goes on wat.
TS, you how old? 1st time 浪漫浪漫is it???????

[leecs]

Old 1 dont go, new 1 how to come? You'll definitely find a better 1 than her.

[walabis]

Sigh, just broke up with my gf of 2 years today. Feeling down and depressed. Tried talking to friends but it seems they dont understand coz they are not in the same shoes as me.

If it your first time, I understand how you feel. It is not end of the world, the old dun go, the new dun come....Opps ! is the bad dun go, the good dun come.. :D

[DRSG]

Sigh, just broke up with my gf of 2 years today. Feeling down and depressed. Tried talking to friends but it seems they dont understand coz they are not in the same shoes as me.

Anyone just broken up recently and wanna share their feelings? Drop me a pm if u do.


No need to look back just look forward and celebrate.A new one will come along and you will look back with gladness.

[lcbguy]

Hi brother.Take care.Visit SBF often to laugh at some of the very funny jokes and comments.Go to GL to view pretty PRC gals at night which I always do to destress or feeling bored.Join SDU/SDS and then recommend a girlfriend to me also lah, haha......

[slider_72]

The grass is always greener on the other side. Those who are single envy those who are attached. Those who are attached envy those who are married. Those who are married envy the freedom enjoyed by the singles. Just like a child wanting to become an adult fast, whilst an adult laments why the innocence of childhood passed by so quickly.

Breaking up with your girlfriend can also mean the start of new opportunities. A fresh chance to re-align your life and livestyle. May seem like your world crashed on you but always look at the bright side of things bro.

[MrBombastic]

Sigh, just broke up with my gf of 2 years today. Feeling down and depressed. Tried talking to friends but it seems they dont understand coz they are not in the same shoes as me.

Anyone just broken up recently and wanna share their feelings? Drop me a pm if u do.

bro gingerman... im sorry to hear that. breaking up is not something that we all want, however there r times that it's beyond our control. me too, broke up with my gf of 8 years 2 years ago. till now i still think of her, but my rational mind tell me that she's no longer with me and married.

this is just bits of pixel in our life. no matter what, life goes on for us. if it's urs, it will always be urs... no point forcing it if it's not not meant to be urs...

[mike1304k]

Bro Gingerman,

A few years ago I broke up with my local ex who was with me thru thick and thin as I was with her thru her thick and thin. We had been thru the thick and thin together for 4 years. But because I was again facing a bit of bad health, she decided that she had enough.

I would say that we will feel lost, miserable and maybe even get depressed. My ex was really in shit state for a while. I was lucky not to have also followed her. For me I was more stable and decided that if she could not be by my side through this new period of struggle, then so be it. I was lonely and also miserable, but it helped me to take the step back to see what I wanted in my life. I was already facing age at that time, (35 liao!!) and wondering if I should just get a dog and be happy with it. I found that the best thing to do is to do something like buying something to make you happy. I bought a car!! It made me happy. I had extra money from not spending on girlfriend, so I spent on the car. It made me feel even better. But the spending also made me want to concentrate on my work to make more money and it gave me the chance to find my wife.

So I guess that the moral of the story is to allow yourself the chance to move on. Do not flog a dead horse. I am still in contact with my ex and we have a very good friendly relationship. If it is yours, let it go and it will come back. If it not yours, you keep it beside you, it will still not be yours.

[Lubber]

Go find some online games to indulge in. Better than keep thinking of what has happened.

[HCKing]

TS no more posting liao, maybe found new gf oredi.:D

[kiko]

Hi bro Gingerman:

My name is kiko, right now re u feeling better, if not u can pm me . i will give u my contact. I will maybe chat with u say maybe mac on weekends!. Tell me your problem, speak it out , u will feel better, I will try to give u some solution or any advice if i can . Take care bro!

[colins]

Everyone's chatting except the thread starter.:eek:

HAHAHAHAHa.......


Hi bro Gingerman:

My name is kiko, right now re u feeling better, if not u can pm me . i will give u my contact. I will maybe chat with u say maybe mac on weekends!. Tell me your problem, speak it out , u will feel better, I will try to give u some solution or any advice if i can . Take care bro!

Sir would you like to upsaiz?

[kiko]

Bro Colins: I feel that when a fellow brother got problem is down . My idea is help him, give him solution. If he is feeling better, motivate him and help him move on with his life.

Making a difference in people's life, motivate and encourage them , when they are down. Changing from darkness to light in their life will make it a better world for them to live in. Cheers!:D

[slider_72]

Sir would you like to upsaiz?

Bro, for him, at KTV run tips, at Macs I think after order food liao will straightaway go to the table and run bill. Hahaha. Free Happy Meal liao, upsaiz somemore!

[cablesnwires]

.... I will try to give u some solution or any advice if i can . Take care bro!

Bro kiko solution and advice very good one...

He got the "An Idiot Guide to 1001 ways of KC PRC girl with the meanest budget"

[slider_72]

He got the "An Idiot Guide to 1001 ways of KC PRC girl with the meanest budget"

That is just book 1. Got others in the series as well. "An Idiot's Guide to 1001 ways of running tips at KTV" plus "Handbook for Newbies at KTV on what to do when being raped by KTV girls."

[Gingerman]

Hi everyone, sorry for the late reply.... Thanks for all the concerns and advise given out.

Reason why i replied so late was i went back packing by myself in thailand. It sure helped to an extend and i was able to gather my thoughts.

For those wondering why we broke up, it was coz she was cheating on me. Well, my ex's pretty attractive so she gathers alot of pple's attention.

I've always placed looks one of the top priorities when finding my suitable partner. But so far, all the girls have just been beautiful but theres no real chemistry. This girl so far we've manage to click rather well, as she's a very good conversationalist.

Well, i guess now being single's pretty good for me as well coz my finances are pretty drastic during this bad economical times (furthermore just spent all my little savings in thailand :rolleyes:)

[DO_YOU_BJ]

When u buy a vase, a real nice esquisite one, you dun display them in public.
You keep it away from public eyes...........
The golden rule.
So all answered in 1 line!

[ekemono]

Bro kiko solution and advice very good one...


His level 10 kungfu is the most potent; can win KTV gal's heart with $30 sunglasses and Mark & Spencer chocolate.

It's an eye-opener !!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

His level 10 kungfu is the most potent; can win KTV gal's heart with $30 sunglasses and Mark & Spencer chocolate.

It's an eye-opener !!

bwahahahahahahahahahahaha

[HCKing]

His level 10 kungfu is the most potent; can win KTV gal's heart with $30 sunglasses and Mark & Spencer chocolate.

It's an eye-opener !!

wat abt cry rape after song treatment by the gal and got away with it FOC? level 11?

[HCKing]

Hi everyone, sorry for the late reply.... Thanks for all the concerns and advise given out.

Reason why i replied so late was i went back packing by myself in thailand. It sure helped to an extend and i was able to gather my thoughts.

For those wondering why we broke up, it was coz she was cheating on me. Well, my ex's pretty attractive so she gathers alot of pple's attention.

I've always placed looks one of the top priorities when finding my suitable partner. But so far, all the girls have just been beautiful but theres no real chemistry. This girl so far we've manage to click rather well, as she's a very good conversationalist.

Well, i guess now being single's pretty good for me as well coz my finances are pretty drastic during this bad economical times (furthermore just spent all my little savings in thailand :rolleyes:)

no real chemistry cos u r attracted to the girl mainly by her looks and nt compactibility. relationship is a test of time, if no chemistry, no matter hw passionate the love is at the start or hw chio or yandao the guy is it will whither in time to come. who knws there might be someone really compactible with u just tat she isnt chio enough 4 u to check her out. widen your scope bro, focus more on common interest, communication, chemistry etc. dont be restricted by external beauty.

[bigboy30boy]

Bro Gingerman,
i knw how you feel cause i just broke up with my girl too right now im still dont feel good.
but i think you feel better already now where i still in pain.
anyway best of luck to you.

[slider_72]

wat abt cry rape after song treatment by the gal and got away with it FOC? level 11?

Better yet, after crying rape, come back to the forum and invite senior bros to go cheonging with him. Claims that the KTV gals boob-fuck him damn song. Level 20 liao.

[Aokin]

I don't even have a chance to break up ....

Single and desperate and lonely :(

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Look for Kiko dude...he your man......

[gimmeporn]

Sigh, just broke up with my gf of 2 years today. Feeling down and depressed. Tried talking to friends but it seems they dont understand coz they are not in the same shoes as me.

Anyone just broken up recently and wanna share their feelings? Drop me a pm if u do.

bro, like u i just broken up with my gf...again! after 10 years of separation, we got back together and after 6 months, PIAK!

If i am not upset, i am fucking lying to you but i am choosing to take this positively. There are still issues between me and her that we cannot resolve in one day and still present after 10 years.

Here's what i suggest

1. Love yourself first, don't talk abt loving someone else if you are not capable of loving yourself first. Go out and have fun, talk to people, make new friends, stop wallowing in the mire. It is not going to change things.

2. Scrap the emotional part. This is not easy, i'll be fucking lying to you again if i said i am not sad but i am channeling this sadness into something positive, this takes time. I took 2 days to accept things and moving on.

3. Positive not for a reason. Look, crying, begging, threatening and bugging her won't get her back. For a simple reason, you are just going to scare her off because she don't want to see you or talk to you now. More words = more frustration. Being restless will make you kan cheong and you can't have a clear frame of mind. Only when you have clarity, you have solutions on that...

4. A plan. List out the things you want to do and what you want to do and achieve for the next 1 year. Meanwhile keep talking to her as a friend here and there. Bro, show that you are still concerned about her but keep a bit of distance for a while. Make her comfortable again in your presence to reignite the old feelings.

5. Know yourself and her. Bro, im sorry abt being longwinded but i am going to finish this up once and for all. I do plan to get back together with her because i do love her and i vice versa but our current situation is keeping us apart and our issues cannot be solved with a magic chant or a wand. Keep communications channel open and your options too. I suddenly realised there's so many chicks out there too. After 6 months - 1 year, see how you both feel about each other. Learn how to take things as it is and be calm, then you shall have clarity. :D

[pussyman72]

His level 10 kungfu is the most potent; can win KTV gal's heart with $30 sunglasses and Mark & Spencer chocolate.

It's an eye-opener !!

aye bro how about me ah. I only use 10 sgd pay food and use cock n tongue to win her heart good bo LOL kekekkeeke :p

[colins]

aye bro how about me ah. I only use 10 sgd pay food and use cock n tongue to win her heart good bo LOL kekekkeeke :p

BRO, you're tell me the ways to their heart is thru the mouth and pussy? Man...I've been doing all the wrong things for decades....

[Cheri Bebe]

Hey TS, I totally feel what you're going through. The initial recovery stage will always be hell, I felt like the whole world came crashing down on me when I finally mustered the courage to leave my ex-boyfriend for good. The emptiness alone is enough to kill, but these are the words I held on tightly to keep myself hanging in there. I sincerely hope that it'd be of some use to you too. ;)

There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go.

What made you happy once, might not make you happy now, & love doesn't walk away, people do.
Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.

And last but not the least, happiness is not a station you arrive at, but a manner of traveling. Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.

Hope that helps. Stay strong!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Love is but a metaphore.
It's not forever.
Many matured married for ages people will tell you that.
Once the dust settles, everything is like normal, and one day you'll ask yourself, what's love?
This, everyone will go thru sometime in their lives....sonner or later.....

[Panamera]

Sigh, just broke up with my gf of 2 years today. Feeling down and depressed. Tried talking to friends but it seems they dont understand coz they are not in the same shoes as me.

Anyone just broken up recently and wanna share their feelings? Drop me a pm if u do.

Bro Gingerman - Any good after reading so many postings from sis and bros here? Feeling better? .....How long will this feeling good last? 5 mins?? Dont mean to be rude..If your close friends dont even understand you, how could we (strangers) understand you? You are not trying to form a club so all broken hearted members will feel together....It is matter of the heart - YOUR HEART!!!! Only you know what went wrong in the relationship...Have YOU try to gather your courage, overcome YOUR fear of rejection, putting YOUR broken heart back into 1 piece, reflect on the relationship (What went wrong) and try to win HER back? BE BRAVE, GO FIGHTAND WIN HER BACK LA IF YOU THINK SHE IS WORTH IT TO YOU, YOUR HEART AND YOUR DIDI !

[Panamera]

Hi everyone, sorry for the late reply.... Thanks for all the concerns and advise given out.

Reason why i replied so late was i went back packing by myself in thailand. It sure helped to an extend and i was able to gather my thoughts.

For those wondering why we broke up, it was coz she was cheating on me. Well, my ex's pretty attractive so she gathers alot of pple's attention.

I've always placed looks one of the top priorities when finding my suitable partner. But so far, all the girls have just been beautiful but theres no real chemistry. This girl so far we've manage to click rather well, as she's a very good conversationalist.

Well, i guess now being single's pretty good for me as well coz my finances are pretty drastic during this bad economical times (furthermore just spent all my little savings in thailand :rolleyes:)

Sorry, I didnt read this reply..Forget what I have said above, just move on and find next better galfrd...BTW, dont worry, cheating gals always come back to ex for more..just keep your finger cross and try to keep the friendship with her, you be surprise you might just be an ex with benefits (but please dont bring feeling out when bonking her as ex, no offend).
:D

[Panamera]

Hi bro Gingerman:

My name is kiko, right now re u feeling better, if not u can pm me . i will give u my contact. I will maybe chat with u say maybe mac on weekends!. Tell me your problem, speak it out , u will feel better, I will try to give u some solution or any advice if i can . Take care bro!

Bro Kiko, whats the latest promotion at Macs this week? I got a problem, PRC gals take like Burger King or Mac...or KFC?

[slider_72]

Bro Kiko, whats the latest promotion at Macs this week? I got a problem, PRC gals take like Burger King or Mac...or KFC?

Bro Kiko wouldn't know the answer to this question bro. As far as he is concerned, PRC girls don't like burgers or KFC, they only like his hotdog. That was why he kanna raped by PRC girls at the KTV until must hide one corner and cry.

[HCKing]

bro kiko, whats the latest promotion at macs this week? I got a problem, prc gals take like burger king or mac...or kfc?

wahahaha. this is really a big problem bro.:D

[colins]

Bro Kiko wouldn't know the answer to this question bro. As far as he is concerned, PRC girls don't like burgers or KFC, they only like his hotdog. That was why he kanna raped by PRC girls at the KTV until must hide one corner and cry.

A person who hurts so bad that he needs to hide and cry won't post it here for EVERYBODY to know. Ah....poor boy needs a hankie. Next thing is he jio bro DYBJ to go back for that same fun, very very shiok feeling he said. I know this is just a forum but...come on.

[BKnight]

Hi bro Gingerman:

My name is kiko, right now re u feeling better, if not u can pm me . i will give u my contact. I will maybe chat with u say maybe mac on weekends!. Tell me your problem, speak it out , u will feel better, I will try to give u some solution or any advice if i can . Take care bro!

Hmmm...my skin at the base of the body hairs involuntarily develop bumps...Gosh!...Its Goose bumps!!! :eek: Let me tell you a story...When we were a child, our grandparents warned us of "金鱼佬", do not take any sweet from him because he will kidnapped us and sold us away to far far away land...OMG! ..He is back!!!! Help! I dont want to go Macs liao.. (BTW, 1920s was White Rabbit Candy or char siew pau as baits, no mac yet) !!! Kiko佬, I am a easy pray for beers, though....

[HCKing]

Hmmm...my skin at the base of the body hairs involuntarily develop bumps...Gosh!...Its Goose bumps!!! :eek: Let me tell you a story...When we were a child, our grandparents warned us of "金鱼佬", do not take any sweet from him because he will kidnapped us and sold us away to far far away land...OMG! ..He is back!!!! Help! I dont want to go Macs liao.. (BTW, 1920s was White Rabbit Candy or char siew pau as baits, no mac yet) !!! Kiko佬, I am a easy pray for beers, though....

did u received his pm? lol.:D

[BKnight]

did u received his pm? lol.:D

Yup, he pm for other thread ..

[kiko]

Bro Gingerman : How re u , re u feeling better now. If not we can meet up, we meet up at burger king or mac. Pm me bro. we have a good chat!

[limchuanpoh]

Bro Ginger

it is usually hard and painful

in psychology terms
but for each yr of ur r/s
it will take u 1/2 that time, in this instance to completely forget abt her and not let her name or places or words or smell affect you

you will feel pain, shock, anger, blame, negotiate to get back, denial that it happened, be depressed then acceptance and recover

replacement theory says that once u taste a better sweeter pussy you will forget faster

She is not the only pebble on the beach and not the only grain of sand on the island

If it is not mean to be, just take it as a full dress rehearal and be thankful for the time u had, unless u din fucked her, then better be smarter with the next one

visit Chapman Capital L.L.C (http://www.breakup.com)

[glooper83]

Sigh, just broke up with my gf of 2 years today. Feeling down and depressed. Tried talking to friends but it seems they dont understand coz they are not in the same shoes as me.

Anyone just broken up recently and wanna share their feelings? Drop me a pm if u do.

Bro, i was in your exact same shoes 1year ago when my gf of 3yrs+ broke up with me during my most important time of my life. I was balancing work and the bad break up, really wanted to die then and there but simply did not have the guts to do so. Plus i felt it wud be very stupid to do such a thing.. I tried reasoning myself to forget her and so on. I still tried to patch up with her 2mths after she broke up, to convince her that i have changed for the better. Ultimately, i gave up.

You may find it hard to swallow, just as i did back then but.. Time heals all wounds. 1year on, i am way over her, cant imagine that there was a time i couldnt live without her but now i am doing fine. So bro, u may cry and feel sad but let me tell you, do not do anything stupid, give it time and you will get over her. Be more outgoing, make new friends, life does not revolve only around her.

Cheers

ps: i know u need to chat to get it out of your system. I also felt the same way. If u want, jus pm me or the bros here. I am sure that we have some very good uncle agony here in sbf.