How Close????

[JoJo]

Just wondering how close in terms of relationship our brothers here have gotten with the girls. I mean some ask u to send them home, some ask u out for supper, even some all u to chit chat over the phone and call u friend friend.

I mean getting emotionally attached etc. sounds stupid but sometimes cannot be help, in the head I am sure they are only aftering money but the heart ... sigh.

Someone give me a WAKE UP call....

[Piranas]

WAKE UP!

Originally posted by JoJo
Just wondering how close in terms of relationship our brothers here have gotten with the girls. I mean some ask u to send them home, some ask u out for supper, even some all u to chit chat over the phone and call u friend friend.

I mean getting emotionally attached etc. sounds stupid but sometimes cannot be help, in the head I am sure they are only aftering money but the heart ... sigh.

Someone give me a WAKE UP call....

[KCLIM73]

Originally posted by JoJo
Just wondering how close in terms of relationship our brothers here have gotten with the girls. I mean some ask u to send them home, some ask u out for supper, even some all u to chit chat over the phone and call u friend friend.

I mean getting emotionally attached etc. sounds stupid but sometimes cannot be help, in the head I am sure they are only aftering money but the heart ... sigh.

Someone give me a WAKE UP call....

Actually, it's simple. But I just have to ask if you have a regular partner or relationship. GF or wife already. If have, it's not difficult to resist all others... ;)

[Piranas]

I have heard and seen too much stories about emotionally getting involved with gals in the line. Up to now, I have not known of any successful cases.

[JoJo]

Even with close partners ... well that is why we are in this forum right? we have different needs met by different people and this girls I tell u they are good.....at what they do.

[Piranas]

These girls? Seems like you got too much load on your shoulder. Let me help you to off-load some

Originally posted by JoJo
Even with close partners ... well that is why we are in this forum right? we have different needs met by different people and this girls I tell u they are good.....at what they do.

[teraterm55]

well some of these girls are not really after your money
more of your company. they know its impossible
but once in a while they want someone to treat them
like a normal lady. Sometimes they will pay
for the meals when you all go out to dine. and
share cab fare(3M sticky)

And then there are those that are only after your money.
they will start off lovingly and then proceed to ask
you to buy small items, send them to work etc.
if they dont see you resisting then they will ask
for bigger items and cash. (Vampire sticky)

they will usually use the excuse of :
- cannot pay phone bills ask you to buy top up cards
- ask you to send them to work (save on cab fare)
- ask you to lend them money to pay rent or other stuff.
- when they go out with you they will want you
to buy them things.

if your sticky is a vampire. i would say.. GIVE IT UP.
they are just after your money. they are no different
from a social escort. to give you a "first love" feeling
in return for your money.

if you get really attached to them the only person
that will lose in the end is you.

they wont care if you jump off a building or get
fired from your job. they just want your money.
they will offer consolation words or pretend to care
but in the end they will still go after your money
like a vampire they will suck you dry,
smash your bones and then
dump you dried carcas into a boiling pot to make soup.

[rambochan]

You are right ! They don't care what you have done for them
in the past , when you have no $ , they dump you.
Don't be taken in by their pitifulness or crocodile tears , don't
spend any of your hard earned money without any returns.
We are gentleman , we pay for their service but the same cannot
be said of them.

[rambochan]

You are right ! They don't care what you have done for them
in the past , when you have no $ , they dump you.
Don't be taken in by their pitifulness or crocodile tears , don't
spend any of your hard earned money without any returns.
We are gentleman , we pay for their service but the same cannot
be said of them.

[Piranas]

But what you have done for them? Pay $$$$ and f u c K them?

Originally posted by rambochan
You are right ! They don't care what you have done for them
in the past , when you have no $ , they dump you.
Don't be taken in by their pitifulness or crocodile tears , don't
spend any of your hard earned money without any returns.
We are gentleman , we pay for their service but the same cannot
be said of them.

[rambochan]

This is a mutual agreement between us, we pay and they let us ...
On the other hand, they are taking advantage of our inborn kind-heartedness - no money to pay this and that ..........
So try to be firm , help once OK , help second time also OK ,
but third time Sorry man , we become their ATM oredi.

[cheongkid]

I think bro JoJo had started the thread in the wrong section. Should be better off in the Adult Discussions. But anyway, which cat doesn't like fish? To fall into the KC trap is both emotionally and financially draining, regardless of whether you are attached or not.

[KlubMad]

Originally posted by rambochan
You are right ! They don't care what you have done for them
in the past , when you have no $ , they dump you.
Don't be taken in by their pitifulness or crocodile tears , don't
spend any of your hard earned money without any returns.
We are gentleman , we pay for their service but the same cannot
be said of them.

You are right too, I have a friend who started out with one of the FL (Filipina) at Orchard Towers. Initially he was made to feel top of the world, and soon after personal msg and sms came his way.

It started to go downhill when he was 'given' 'free' service (overnight). The rest is classic tirak.

Shoppings started and then 'loans' for every conceivable reason.

I had warned him but he was so 'drawn' to her and maybe 'charmed' that there was no use talking to her.

He even bought her 'two' way ticket back to Philippines !
(So he thought, that she would return)....and then she called 'collect' with sob sob stories, and got him to send money to Phillipines....What a sucker!!

The last straw was when she asked for another US$500 to be sent there...

Now I gotta buy him beer to cheer him up.

[KCLIM73]

Dun let lonliness rule your head. Remember this.

[cheongkid]

Originally posted by KCLIM73
Dun let lonliness rule your head. Remember this.
and don't be a mobile ATM.

[MrDevil]

Originally posted by KlubMad
You are right too, I have a friend who started out with one of the FL (Filipina) at Orchard Towers. Initially he was made to feel top of the world, and soon after personal msg and sms came his way.

It started to go downhill when he was 'given' 'free' service (overnight). The rest is classic tirak.

Shoppings started and then 'loans' for every conceivable reason.

I had warned him but he was so 'drawn' to her and maybe 'charmed' that there was no use talking to her.

He even bought her 'two' way ticket back to Philippines !
(So he thought, that she would return)....and then she called 'collect' with sob sob stories, and got him to send money to Phillipines....What a sucker!!

The last straw was when she asked for another US$500 to be sent there...

Now I gotta buy him beer to cheer him up.

If he still dont wake up, give a big big slap until his teeth drop out, then he will probably feel better. Sober Man

[cheongkid]

Originally posted by MrDevil
If he still dont wake up, give a big big slap until his teeth drop out, then he will probably feel better. Sober Man
MrDevil, I think you have the honour of doing so. :D

[SilkStalk.]

It happened to me as well.... but mine not so bad..... she gave me a laptop for my birthday.... showered me with gifts and even wanted to give me money when I'm outta job, which of cos was rejected by me...... call me dumb but it's against my principle to live off women.......

She'd not taken a single cent from me..... well I guess not all girls are bad....... I loved her a lot but I left her cos' I realised she's been doing things behind my back.... At least I thought she did....
Though she claimed she truely loved me & would never be unfaithful to me, I just can't stand being lied to.... I felt like a complete idiot........

Personally, I don't think such relationship will last..... I got to as far as having keys to her house, met her parents etc.... but FRs here ruined our relationship....... I chose to believe brothers in this forum in good faith.........

[MrDevil]

Originally posted by cheongkid
MrDevil, I think you have the honour of doing so. :D

No No, i very gentlemen, dont use violence... heng arr not my friend.., reached till this stage still dont wake up...

[dl2734]

I guess one has to be careful when getting involved in this type relationship.

i got to know a girl from HC (town area)
When i gave me a nice bracelet from taka and what i get in retun is that i do get special treats or privileges like licking her pussy which i enjoy very much. I get to suck her solid breasts and get to make her wet and she will moans my name and i gave her about $150 each time even though it is not the market rate and of course i have her mobile.

Well, you are in it for the sex (great sex for me that is) what else don't expect too much as anything more will be bonus.

My 2 cents worth:D

[MrDevil]

Originally posted by dl2734
I guess one has to be careful when getting involved in this type relationship.

i got to know a girl from HC (town area)
When i gave me a nice bracelet from taka and what i get in retun is that i do get special treats or privileges like licking her pussy which i enjoy very much. I get to suck her solid breasts and get to make her wet and she will moans my name and i gave her about $150 each time even though it is not the market rate and of course i have her mobile.

Well, you are in it for the sex (great sex for me that is) what else don't expect too much as anything more will be bonus.

My 2 cents worth:D

well, if you shower a WL or FL with motive of getting better service, then at least you know what you are after... at least you could get value from the money you spent on her but if you shower her with love and expect her love in returns, expect heavy loses then...

But hey, you dont need to buy her bracelet or pay higher than market rate to enjoy all that, probably lots of other bros here enjoying that at normal rate too.... dont spoil the girl

[cheongkid]

Originally posted by SilkStalk
It happened to me as well.... but mine not so bad..... she gave me a laptop for my birthday.... showered me with gifts and even wanted to give me money when I'm outta job, which of cos was rejected by me...... call me dumb but it's against my principle to live off women.......

She'd not taken a single cent from me..... well I guess not all girls are bad....... I loved her a lot but I left her cos' I realised she's been doing things behind my back.... At least I thought she did....
Though she claimed she truely loved me & would never be unfaithful to me, I just can't stand being lied to.... I felt like a complete idiot........

Personally, I don't think such relationship will last..... I got to as far as having keys to her house, met her parents etc.... but FRs here ruined our relationship....... I chose to believe brothers in this forum in good faith.........
Excuse me for saying this bro, are you nuts? You chose to believe your unfounded suspicions and let some crap in this forum (no offence bros here) to ruin your relationship than to trust her? Is she very much older than you and earning much more? I think your ego had got the better of you. But anyway, it was all over and I respect your decision.

[MrDevil]

Originally posted by cheongkid
Excuse me for saying this bro, are you nuts? You chose to believe your unfounded suspicions and let some crap in this forum (no offence bros here) to ruin your relationship than to trust her? Is she very much older than you and earning much more? I think your ego had got the better of you. But anyway, it was all over and I respect your decision.

No lar, Bro CheongKid, he ended that on his own lar for what he suspect that the girl playing behind his back lar, read properly mah..

[cheongkid]

Originally posted by MrDevil
No lar, Bro CheongKid, he ended that on his own lar for what he suspect that the girl playing behind his back lar, read properly mah..
ok lor, anyway me got no gf yet, so not in a position to advise people lor.

[CPTMiller]

You need self control.


Originally posted by JoJo
Just wondering how close in terms of relationship our brothers here have gotten with the girls. I mean some ask u to send them home, some ask u out for supper, even some all u to chit chat over the phone and call u friend friend.

I mean getting emotionally attached etc. sounds stupid but sometimes cannot be help, in the head I am sure they are only aftering money but the heart ... sigh.

Someone give me a WAKE UP call....

[SilkStalk.]

Originally posted by cheongkid
Excuse me for saying this bro, are you nuts? You chose to believe your unfounded suspicions and let some crap in this forum (no offence bros here) to ruin your relationship than to trust her? Is she very much older than you and earning much more? I think your ego had got the better of you. But anyway, it was all over and I respect your decision.


You're right bro, she very much older than me & I don't know if she's earning much more than me.... It's definitely not because of ego problem.....

She told me she don't do FJ, just merely HJ and she don't allow touching, all for my sake and her feelings for me.....
However, there were several times when she accidentally "called" me while she's in the room, ie she redialled my number while ransacking her bag for stuffs & I could clearly hear her moaning...... when questioned, she claimed that the customer wanted her to fake moaning so that he could cum......

Well this is just one of the things that sparked off the "distrust" in her..... Not just one person claimed that she does provide FJ, BJ..... since the time of Delphi forum, I'll get FRs on her occasionally saying her FJ, BJ skill sucks etc..... while some other bros sweared by her skills, her friendliness etc.....Pardon my ignorance, but why would some many guys want to write FRs if they were not true? Why would so many different people say that she does FJ when she doesn't? Well, I for one, don't go around writing fake FRs that is different from the service that I get.......Anyway, there were many other cases other than her job that I exposed her to be lying ..........

She did promised me to leave & twice she tried...... but it was short-lived.... she went back to it after a mere few days claiming other jobs don't offer as much......

Well I guess I'm in no position to blame her cos' I don't earn enough to support her, thus not able to "force" her into leaving..... Anyway, it's all over & I'm grateful that you could be so objective, respecting my decision......Thank you.... NOT forgetting bro MrDevil for your concern.......

This relationship has been bothering me for 2 years & it has taken the toil on me.... some things are just not meant to be......

[Piranas]

And you don't call this ego problem?

Originally posted by SilkStalk
You're right bro, she very much older than me & I don't know if she's earning much more than me.... It's definitely not because of ego problem.....

She told me she don't do FJ, just merely HJ and she don't allow touching, all for my sake and her feelings for me.....
However, there were several times when she accidentally "called" me while she's in the room, ie she redialled my number while ransacking her bag for stuffs & I could clearly hear her moaning...... when questioned, she claimed that the customer wanted her to fake moaning so that he could cum......

Well this is just one of the things that sparked off the "distrust" in her..... Not just one person claimed that she does provide FJ, BJ..... since the time of Delphi forum, I'll get FRs on her occasionally saying her FJ, BJ skill sucks etc..... while some other bros sweared by her skills, her friendliness etc.....There were many other cases other than her job that I exposed her to be lying ..........

She did promised me to leave & twice she tried...... but it was short-lived.... she went back to it after a mere few days claiming other jobs don't offer as much......

Well I guess I'm in no position to blame her cos' I don't earn enough to support her, thus not able to "force" her into leaving..... Anyway, it's all over & I'm grateful that you could be so objective, respecting my decision......Thank you.... NOT forgetting bro MrDevil for your concern.......

This relationship has been bothering me for 2 years & it has taken the toil on me.... some things are just not meant to be......

[SilkStalk.]

Originally posted by Piranas
And you don't call this ego problem?

Maybe it is.........

[Piranas]

Any clues on the HC, I have came across a gal telling me something like what he said

Originally posted by SilkStalk
Maybe it is.........

[SilkStalk.]

Originally posted by Piranas
Any clues on the HC, I have came across a gal telling me something like what he said

Why would you wanna find out? It's just a personal experience and I was just sharing my thoughts.....

I would like the girl to remain anonymous if you don't mind....

For further queries, I do hope you'll PM me direct....

The poor girl still has to make a living and I do not wish to jeopardise her work in a way or another because of this......

Please do me a favour by not discussing this matter any further.....

Your kind understanding is very much appreciated.....

Thank you........

[KCLIM73]

Originally posted by SilkStalk
Why would you wanna find out? It's just a personal experience and I was just sharing my thoughts.....

I would like the girl to remain anonymous if you don't mind....

Thank you........

Hey brothers, cut Bro SS some slack yah? I mean, if all he wants is to share his feelings with the anonymity that this board provides, we should respect that.

Bro SS, if there is a trust problem, fuck it. Really really fuck it. For any men, if there is no trust for the girl, it's game over. Can you carry on living a normal life if you just whole life thinking that she is lying here and there and everywhere? Fuck it. Women all over. The next one will love you more.

[SilkStalk.]

Originally posted by KCLIM73
Hey brothers, cut Bro SS some slack yah? I mean, if all he wants is to share his feelings with the anonymity that this board provides, we should respect that.

Bro SS, if there is a trust problem, fuck it. Really really fuck it. For any men, if there is no trust for the girl, it's game over. Can you carry on living a normal life if you just whole life thinking that she is lying here and there and everywhere? Fuck it. Women all over. The next one will love you more.

Thanks bro....... your words are very much comforting.... not to mention supportive as well.......

Sincerely appreciative.......

[Piranas]

OK, it's just that I still find the story about the HP thingy astonishing after I have heard it a few years back then.......

I shall not speak another word on this matter....

Cheers

Originally posted by SilkStalk
Why would you wanna find out? It's just a personal experience and I was just sharing my thoughts.....

I would like the girl to remain anonymous if you don't mind....

For further queries, I do hope you'll PM me direct....

The poor girl still has to make a living and I do not wish to jeopardise her work in a way or another because of this......

Please do me a favour by not discussing this matter any further.....

Your kind understanding is very much appreciated.....

Thank you........

[cheongkid]

Originally posted by SilkStalk
She told me she don't do FJ, just merely HJ and she don't allow touching, all for my sake and her feelings for me.....
However, there were several times when she accidentally "called" me while she's in the room, ie she redialled my number while ransacking her bag for stuffs & I could clearly hear her moaning...... when questioned, she claimed that the customer wanted her to fake moaning so that he could cum......
She did promised me to leave & twice she tried...... but it was short-lived.... she went back to it after a mere few days claiming other jobs don't offer as much......
Initially I thought the lead actress was just a normal (decent) lady, but alas, she was just another WL......now I get the picture.

[lament]

Guess there are many kinds of love but with this gals... love should be limited to lip service else u suffer.... seen many friends kena from those gals with "horns"

i have a few gals of varying nationality with me. there's a period when i was out of job but theres my most fruitful period and so i always tell the gals then they i m not able to take care of the financially now "but maybe in future".

besides i told them that i would never get pissed with them over their work but ask them to spend watever time they have with me when they have none. Never interfere with their work as its a signal that u have fallen 2 deeply and thats when u have 2 be careful.

[SilkStalk.]

Originally posted by Piranas
OK, it's just that I still find the story about the HP thingy astonishing after I have heard it a few years back then.......

I shall not speak another word on this matter....

Cheers

Thank you so much...........