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STUD100
19-01-2005, 07:23 PM
Any recomended ones?Blackmarket or legal ones?which is better?As long as dun becum robert can liao...any ??

sexlover
19-01-2005, 07:39 PM
wah piang bro,,,,, tio la bi?

Personally no exp,,, but advise never ever go black market.... Girl definately at high risk. :eek:

globetrotter
19-01-2005, 07:49 PM
Any recomended ones?Blackmarket or legal ones?which is better?As long as dun becum robert can liao...any ??

Go only to legal ones, please, anything happen if you go to illegal ones (if there is any in Singapore), then can become police case.

Can go to the expensive specialists in ME and other private hospitals, or can go to your friendly neighbourhood bany and child clinics. Costs should be around $500. Morning go, afternoon can discharged liao.

Why I know. Well, my ex kenna by me before and I brought her to this baby and child clinic in the East. Had to pretend we were going to get married, but don;t want baby too soon. Anyway, he did an examination first, confirmed pregnancy and fixed an appointment the next morning for the procedure. Next morning went, paid up, he did procedure, my ex stayed in his clinic (which also has a surgery) to rest and recover, afternoon go home liao.

Cheers

diesel
19-01-2005, 09:21 PM
I strongly do not think there is any illegal abortion surgery can be done in Singapore.

I can recommend you to an O&G specialist in J.B., Malaysia. He graduated with a medical degree from University of Malaya and later pursued his Master of Medicine in NUS.

Perhaps, you can make an appointment to see a specialist at Twin-Tower Medical City in KLCC Suria. They are professional. Trust me! Their fees are reasonable and definitely cheaper than in Singapore.

Orgasmic
20-01-2005, 10:11 AM
Diseal - no need go to Twin towers la.

I know of one Gynae in JB Taman perling. Discreet somemore. RM 800 i think.. but plus reg and admin about RM1,000 or less ( S$400 )

Morning op, 2-3pm fark off. I strongly do not think there is any illegal abortion surgery can be done in Singapore.

I can recommend you to an O&G specialist in J.B., Malaysia. He graduated with a medical degree from University of Malaya and later pursued his Master of Medicine in NUS.

Perhaps, you can make an appointment to see a specialist at Twin-Tower Medical City in KLCC Suria. They are professional. Trust me! Their fees are reasonable and definitely cheaper than in Singapore.

Happosai
20-01-2005, 10:19 AM
Blackmarket or legal ones?

Dude, the least you can do now is be a bit more resposible, dont risk her life by going to "blackmarket" kind. Abortions, if not done properly, might result in failure to give birth in future and in extreme case, the gal might even lose her life. Legal kind might set you back about S$500, money can earn back, life lost cannot be rectified. So think carefully.

Frankiestine
20-01-2005, 10:46 AM
Any recomended ones?Blackmarket or legal ones?which is better?As long as dun becum robert can liao...any ??
Brudder there in no need for black market in Singapore since abortions is legalised here not unless you are telling me the gal is under 16...which doc have to report to authorities...

sawzhai28
20-01-2005, 12:21 PM
yah agree with all the bros.. most important is the girl's life and future implications!

you could go to any polyclinic first.. get them to refer you (your friend) to kk hospital or other hospitals.. it's cheaper this way than walk-in at a hospital..

kk is $400 without complications during the operation.. entire process from consultation, fixing an appointment to operation is around 2 weeks..

it's a day operation.. meaning morning go in evening can come out already..

take care bro..

Five Stone
20-01-2005, 12:45 PM
Any recomended ones?Blackmarket or legal ones?which is better?As long as dun becum robert can liao...any ??
Since you ask this, I assume some gal related to you may require this surgery. Honestly I wanted to flame you but since I do not know the whole story, I reserve my right for the time being.

Perhaps you had not the experience of visiting a gynae wanting an abortion, the mental and emotions stress that one has to go through, the counseling and shock behind. Some will even want you to view a video first, cool off for a day for two before coming back for the procedure. Abortion are meant for purposes such as baby found unhealthy, deform while developing or even the result of a rape, not just because you have your three minutes of fun and forgot the rubber. Whatever the reasons you have, it is not valid for the gal to go to an unlicensed gynae for this procedure. Assuming you are the one who dealt the blow, then the more you should sent her to a proper gynae if the circumstances do not allow the both of you to keep the baby. If it is a friend, then are you in the right mind to sent her to go thru hell, some sort of friend you are?

Seriously, you deserve a good fark with the things you posted, as long as dont become robert can already, tell you what, why not wait till eight weeks old and shove her down the stairs or give her a kick in the stomach? This simple post show that how fark up a person can be, what kind of man you are, one who had his pleasure but shunt the responsibilities. I am truly ashame to be of the same gender as you. :mad:

Well, if you come forward to explain further, I am willing to offer my apology if I had wronged you.

trymeout
20-01-2005, 01:07 PM
i dunno how true this is...

but heard before that if the girl is above 18, n willing to do at polyclinic where they will show u all the tapes bout abortion to dissuade you, you can get it done for $12.

Snuber
20-01-2005, 01:23 PM
Perhaps you had not the experience of visiting a gynae wanting an abortion......
Seriously, you deserve a good fark with the things you posted, as long as dont become robert can already......
This simple post show that how fark up a person can be, what kind of man you are, one who had his pleasure but shunt the responsibilities.

Share the same views here. Going for abortion is akin to commiting a murder. We men can never understand the trauma & stress the girl is going through. We can only imagine.

Let it be the very last resort, or dun ever let it cross your mind. Do consider all the other options carefully first. Lastly, be responsible for your actions.

Whatever goes round, comes round.

Frankiestine
20-01-2005, 01:23 PM
i dunno how true this is...

but heard before that if the girl is above 18, n willing to do at polyclinic where they will show u all the tapes bout abortion to dissuade you, you can get it done for $12.
If not wrong it is actually mandatory by law to show tapes of abortion to would be aborters.....

badboyxtreme
20-01-2005, 02:00 PM
We always think of abortion as an easy way out, but brothers, try safe sex so the need for abortion is not there. Ever wondered what happens to babies that are aborted???? See this :(

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Happosai
20-01-2005, 02:28 PM
To add on to my post, perhaps you should check with the doctors about some kind of adoption scheme. AFAIK, there are childless couple who will be more than happy to adopt unwanted babies. Perhaps the doctors in charge of abortion might have some links or provide some links to these couples. If I didnt remember wrongly, the childless couple might even give the gal a lump sum of money(S$10k perhaps) for the pain she has to go thru during conceiving, all medical bills will be borne by the childless couple. There you have it, can get rid of the baby and can make $$$. Only drawback is that the gal giving birth cannot claim back her child in the future regardless of situation.

I dont normally do this, but next time you shag, for heaven sake think of the consequences and take necessary precautions! Ye money face baby killing scum :mad:

95-emperor
20-01-2005, 04:03 PM
Hi bro,

There is no need for you to go those illegal clinc
TAMPINES ST81 there is 1 clinic
"VENGA CLINIC"

As long as the girl is above 16 yrs old, no questions will be ask
The doc will give you the checkup + a scan
(Show how old is the baby)
Then they ask if you really want to abort , if yes then the docwill give you
another timeslot ( another day) for you to go home re-consider

If you confirm and go then the small operation will last about 20- 30 mins
It is a small operation ( guys better dont go in as the sight is unbearable)

The girl is put to sleep and then the doc will insert a metal tube ( size of a pen) and link it to a glass tube.

The tube is actually to smash the egg and suck it all out ( the dead matter so call the body of the foertus ) But actually you can only see blood in the glass tube.

Later the girl will wake up and look pale , giddy and also vomit ( Vomit is green in colour, no scare it just the medicine)

After you go pay $480 exclude the first checkup and photo of the scan

Anymore information you need to know
The

collin_23
20-01-2005, 04:06 PM
To threadstarter there's plenty of info on abortions supplied by bros here. Do a search and u should find the relevant info.

U need any help look under my helpline I remember posting a link to the thread under my helpline.

Look under page 3 of my helpline got 2 threads on abortion.

ps: Do think twice b4 u decided to go ahead for the abortion.

STUD100
20-01-2005, 10:19 PM
haha..relax to all bros here. Not me lah, but my fren lah. I wudnt reveal his name here but he oso a member here lah. Well, posted this thread to have more info to help him on deciding lah. Me personaly hear cases on black market abortions, belif it up to u lah. Abortions means, clear everything in the female stomach to be simple. But then, the ger will be slping here way till the medicina ends effect. Got a case where those doctor or surgeons, b4 clearing the things inside the wombs, they will fuck..eject...n then help to clear off everything on the gers womb..just imagine ur gf slping there in the ops room..but kena F..wa lau....well..like i mention..belif it or not..up to u lah..ive been in the police unit b4..all sort of case i hear b4 liao..hehe..

chick
21-01-2005, 02:51 AM
Here is some information shared to me by a colleague (foreigner) who is here but gf got pregnant, so they checked out from professionals and shared with some of us:

1. If it's just a few weeks (cannot recall the exact number, but I think it's 6 weeks) into pregnancy, there is other options to abort besides surgery.

2. If it's more than that, then have to do the surgery.

You can call up hospitals and consult too. No need to be shy, juz ask for professional advice. If you ask those family clinic, sometimes they will recommend you do the surgery way of abortion, and recommend a gnae to u (maybe like recommend biz to their circle of family or friends).

Do some checking up on options available.....

watmidoin
21-01-2005, 03:39 AM
... As long as dun becum robert can liao...any ??

u or ur frnd. whoever it is, go n die. wtf. "ren min guan tian" still tinking abt robert not robert. if its u, i say this to u "go n die" if its ur frnd, help me tell him to "go n die". such scumbags die better than the baby die :mad: wtf. this world is really fucked up man.

STUD100
21-01-2005, 01:09 PM
u or ur frnd. whoever it is, go n die. wtf. "ren min guan tian" still tinking abt robert not robert. if its u, i say this to u "go n die" if its ur frnd, help me tell him to "go n die". such scumbags die better than the baby die :mad: wtf. this world is really fucked up man.

haha..yeah..whoever it is..im just asking for opinions..n of cos..options..but not individuals accusing..started a thread to let my fren who didnt wana post such things..i will help u to tell him go n die provided u dare to show me ur face.if u r so holy, u shdnt be surfing sbf instead of having a pacifier all time rd in ur dirty vulgar mouth...early morning hari raya haji kena F..ouch! :(

STUD100
21-01-2005, 01:13 PM
once again, i aint any abortions specialise, n i dun have any lobang for such deals. A fren PM me n ask for my opinions, but too bad i din cum across such things b4. I told him to start a thread but he was shy or watever, n i told him i will help using my nick wud be a beter choice then. Have stated im here to help n b4 u start F**king me, do read up all the post in this thread b4 u start bombing. Im sure pissed off just lucky u tat ive not reach 50.

PS: Bro *****, u really got me into this shit! :cool:

watmidoin
22-01-2005, 05:31 AM
haha..yeah..whoever it is..im just asking for opinions..n of cos..options..but not individuals accusing..started a thread to let my fren who didnt wana post such things..i will help u to tell him go n die provided u dare to show me ur face.if u r so holy, u shdnt be surfing sbf instead of having a pacifier all time rd in ur dirty vulgar mouth...early morning hari raya haji kena F..ouch!

Yo bro, i not holy. never claim to be also. n i read thru ur thread also. dats y say "u or ur frnd whoever it is". (u'll be surprised how many ppl hide behind "posting for a friend" if u wan take this personally as attack, go ahead "sensitive" guy - one hell of a bloody snag u r. if not, den obviously no effect on u) otherwise one head wack u only. juz imagine. u r stuck inside a room and the air will run out in 20mins. imagine dat the one and only way to save u is to get locksmith open lock. got one 10 mins away. but if ur frnd go to him sure become robert. there's another locksmith 1hr away. he go there not robert but by that time he come back u dead liao. like i say. ren ming guan tian. u wan ur frnd to tink of saving u or robert not robert? my mouth is vulgar. so be it. u want vulgar mouth but keep ur life or u want ppl say "it would please me very much if you don't mind me blah blah blah.." and tok till u die :rolleyes:

duno how to hide behind all the courtesies. juz saying wat i want. u not happy by all means after u hit 50 zap me. (well done. rep points more impt than saving a gers life? wtf. i hope this world is not that fucked yet.) i know i vulgar. u r not only person offended. but i take it. wat i say, wat i do, i know n i take the results as a man :cool:

"i will help u to tell him go n die provided u dare to show me ur face." n pls. dun try to tok punk. so wat if i dun show u my face? why shld i anyways? ur frnd also samster rite? he sure can read this "oi guy who doesn't robert, go n die!" better den ur frnd hide behind computer also no balls to ask wat he need to know.

watmidoin
22-01-2005, 06:11 AM
watmidoin here zap u first. u 8 more posts can hit me back liao. i oni 10 pts. by all means go ahead. first time never zap u cause tink u might be posting for frnd. u can say my mouth vulgar. thats true. u can't say i have pacifier. wtf.

Five Stone
22-01-2005, 09:17 AM
haha..yeah..whoever it is..im just asking for opinions..n of cos..options..but not individuals accusing..started a thread to let my fren who didnt wana post such things..(
Let's not start this all over again, as you claimed if this is your friend's problem and since he is a samster here, I guess he should have read all these. This is a forum, one can claim anything but he himself will knows better. :cool:

I will apologise to you for the earlier harsh words but drive please all these points to his brain. It is not because of I objecting abortions but the conquences and process are too grueling and traumatic for some to bear. Do really consider and plan accordingly prior to any further decisions.

Five Stone
22-01-2005, 09:24 AM
watmidoin here zap u first. u 8 more posts can hit me back liao. i oni 10 pts. by all means go ahead. first time never zap u cause tink u might be posting for frnd. u can say my mouth vulgar. thats true. u can't say i have pacifier. wtf.
Bro, relax, there is no need to get so worked up, he explained that he did it on behalf a fellow samster then so be it but whoever is the fellow, he himself will know better. I myself was also pissed off with his ostentatious and pompous style of posting but nevertheless, I do hope the culprit will handle the matter appropriately. :cool:

STUD100
22-01-2005, 09:28 AM
Bro, relax, there is no need to get so worked up, he explained that he did it on behalf a fellow samster then so be it but whoever is the fellow, he himself will know better. I myself was also pissed off with his ostentatious and pompous style of posting but nevertheless, I do hope the culprit will handle the matter appropriately. :cool:

hao ren nan chuo. wu yuan wu gu pei ren kai pao. suan le ba, da ren bu ji xiao ren guo. One must be sensetive by calling someone sensetive.. end of everything. ;)

liverpool_kop
22-01-2005, 09:30 AM
Bro, please remember that it is a law in singapore that if the girl is more than 3 months pregnant, you cannot go for abortion.

And please do not go for those illegal abortion. Abortion itself is bad enough for a gal. Don't let her suffer for the rest of her life.

Most abortion in singapore will cost roughly around $500.

We guys although play around, but we must also be responsible of what happend lah.

Take care, bro!!

Five Stone
22-01-2005, 10:28 AM
hao ren nan chuo. wu yuan wu gu pei ren kai pao. suan le ba, da ren bu ji xiao ren guo. One must be sensetive by calling someone sensetive.. end of everything. ;)
Actually the way when you initially posted, really kiam gan. Please lah, next time when asking such sensitive question, try to elaborate more, you put it short and sweet of course people get hot mah. Cannot blame the bros here, though we dwell in commercial sex but there are still certain unofficial " rules of games" we do abide. Next time be more "goot lark", spell out the whole scenario, then we will not misunderstood lor. :D

watmidoin
22-01-2005, 05:53 PM
hao ren nan chuo. wu yuan wu gu pei ren kai pao. suan le ba, da ren bu ji xiao ren guo. One must be sensetive by calling someone sensetive.. end of everything.

hao ren not so nan zuo. juz need to tell ur frnd he happy screw arnd liao. now wan girl go abortion. like anothe bro say already. the VERY LEAST he can do for the ger now is get a PROPER doctor. how to get the other bros describe before already.

PS: "One must be sensetive by calling someone sensetive.." u still bu xi xin. still wan 1 last jab. u understand wat u wrote ornot? i said u will be bothered if u are "sensitive". u fight back meaning i might be rite. n the way u fight back also shoot ur own feet. i call u sensitive, u call me back - meaning u call urself also. now i call u again. and the cycle goes on. i tink we need to grow up lar :rolleyes: like bro said. ur writing "ostentatious and pompous". dun tink u gd enuf to match ur own words. to be hao lian urself muz have "liao" understand.

u wana end everythind so do i. :cool:

bohya
23-01-2005, 08:17 PM
two thumbs up for watmidoin :D *respect*

aman
24-01-2005, 05:42 PM
Hi bro,

There is no need for you to go those illegal clinc
TAMPINES ST81 there is 1 clinic
"VENGA CLINIC"

As long as the girl is above 16 yrs old, no questions will be ask
The doc will give you the checkup + a scan
(Show how old is the baby)
Then they ask if you really want to abort , if yes then the docwill give you
another timeslot ( another day) for you to go home re-consider

If you confirm and go then the small operation will last about 20- 30 mins
It is a small operation ( guys better dont go in as the sight is unbearable)

The girl is put to sleep and then the doc will insert a metal tube ( size of a pen) and link it to a glass tube.

The tube is actually to smash the egg and suck it all out ( the dead matter so call the body of the foertus ) But actually you can only see blood in the glass tube.

Later the girl will wake up and look pale , giddy and also vomit ( Vomit is green in colour, no scare it just the medicine)

After you go pay $480 exclude the first checkup and photo of the scan

Anymore information you need to know
The

bro i knw a women clinic in hougang.
1st checkup photo of the scan s$70.00
operation all in S$350.00.
pm me if u want!

carol888
21-03-2005, 07:11 PM
bro i knw a women clinic in hougang.
1st checkup photo of the scan s$70.00
operation all in S$350.00.
pm me if u want!hi, can send me the details - contact and location

ryanlim
21-03-2005, 09:42 PM
pm me if u want!

hi, can send me the details - contact and location
Reply With Quote


hello Bro Aman has said to PM him.......anyway since you can access this website, i dun see the point why you can't do a search on the list of abortion clinic on the net........ :(

*sigh* this page (http://www.getforme.com/health_abortioninstitutions_list.htm) is the list of Approved Institutions for Termination of Pregnancy (abortion) in Singapore *sigh*

Blue_gal
21-03-2005, 10:33 PM
Abortions means, clear everything in the female stomach to be simple. But then, the ger will be slping here way till the medicina ends effect. Got a case where those doctor or surgeons, b4 clearing the things inside the wombs, they will fuck..eject...n then help to clear off everything on the gers womb..just imagine ur gf slping there in the ops room..but kena F..wa lau....well..like i mention..belif it or not..up to u lah..ive been in the police unit b4..all sort of case i hear b4 liao..hehe..

I would like to share here...

For your information, it not just "CLEAR EVERYTHING IN THE WOMB" that easy ...and if the "black market" doctor didn't do it properly the person who will SUFFER is not you its the GER.....Maybe i can't feel that type of pressure on the "abortion" because i am not the one DOING ... but i would like to say this " IF U WAN FUCK BE RESPONSIBLE of WHAT WILL HAPPEND LATER! DON"T JUST FUCK, MOAN, CUM, SHIOK and Forget about everything....." Sorry if i sound a bit "not so friendly...

i Dont encourage BABY when you are not ready....so abortion is acceptable however, PLEASE DO IT PROPERLY FOR THE GER!! SHE will suffer more than what you will be going thru. MONEY i bet you can find and EARN BACK...More ever it will not cost that MUCH to get a properly doctor... and tio kan by the doctor what so big DEAL..(when you shiok shiok enjoy KAN that time will you ever tots of this happend? ask yourself...)

BE RESPONSIBLE......

:mad: BitChy Blue AUnt|e

smiler
21-03-2005, 11:38 PM
Wow! Auntie Blue blue..........you still as "hot" as before.............I like it.

But hor.........relax lah........mai "hot".

So just to ask, have you ever gone for an abortion?

owen10
22-03-2005, 12:32 AM
juz happen to have a casual chat with a fren last wk on d abortion topic. he said that for those students who r still schooling, n they go for an abortion at a legal clinic/hospital in sg, it's compulsory for d education institution to be informed that d child had undergone an abortion so that they would not be subjected any strenuous exercise/activities. i thk shd b true since my fren's wkg in d education sector. any bro can verify this info?

itsabt6x
22-03-2005, 08:44 AM
dear bros & sistas here,

wif all these talks on abortion, i was just wondering waht if the gal is a foreign domestic maid? can she have it done at a legal clinic without getting reported/deported? if not, where can she go to?

justo
22-03-2005, 09:11 AM
not sure if they take down particulars of school when they register you but i think if you are too young below age legal age of 16 they are sure to ask coz it'll be statutory rape and they may need to report to police?

it's compulsory for d education institution to be informed that d child had undergone an abortion so that they would not be subjected any strenuous exercise/activities. i thk shd b true since my fren's wkg in d education sector. any bro can verify this info?

collin_23
22-03-2005, 10:23 AM
Dear friend,

I personally hope u r not having this situation yourself nor it happens to your friend now. If the forum people tells u that she will get reported and deported, will the lady be afraid and hence decided to keep 'mum' about the whole thing or run away or even give birth quietly than throw the baby away?
I hope not. We have witnessed enough cases of infanticides recent days and don't wish to see such events happen again. :(

There was a Straits Times report whereby a help line by sms was available and I have added it to my helpline. U can check under my signature. There r some links and lines to professional counsellors also in my thread.

I would encourage those facing problems of this sort to try to calm down and think of the best possible solution. If really abortions is necessary, safety is most important and not 'secrecy' . We will definitely not want to lose both mother and baby together.

Cheers

dear bros & sistas here,

wif all these talks on abortion, i was just wondering waht if the gal is a foreign domestic maid? can she have it done at a legal clinic without getting reported/deported? if not, where can she go to?

maverick88
22-03-2005, 11:23 AM
Be responsible and save the baby.

itsabt6x
22-03-2005, 11:26 AM
Dear friend,

I personally hope u r not having this situation yourself nor it happens to your friend now.Cheers

Thx bro...no it's not a situation im in now nor would i wished to be in....but it's an issue that bothers me as i do know afew maids who party on their off days, but they r no FL, that may land themselves into such trouble if they slip up...and their so called BFs (married local men)may juz be one of those irresponsible jerk who'll disappear after leaving the poor gal on her own...

personally, i do hv a fancy for maids here but it's the above issue that make me stay away from them....

Blue_gal
22-03-2005, 09:23 PM
Wow! Auntie Blue blue..........you still as "hot" as before.............I like it.

But hor.........relax lah........mai "hot".

So just to ask, have you ever gone for an abortion?
CHOI!!!! dUN HAVE LAH!!! i am just speaking from what i know/hear about on abortions......n personnal feeling against abortions....

I would go for abortion if i bad luck bad luck "tiO"...Because i dUn wanT to have "family planing" now...HOWever if want to go thru the abortion...pls go for the proper ONE..you never know what will lead/cause to the GER infuture......

$$ can earn BACK but HEALTH CAN"T!!!

GOod Luck!
BitChy Blue AUnt|e

wishing
23-03-2005, 01:55 PM
Any recomended ones?Blackmarket or legal ones?which is better?As long as dun becum robert can liao...any ??
Never. Drop the idea friend. Dun go abort.

maverick88
23-03-2005, 02:46 PM
drop the idea of abortion. U will regret it.

collin_23
23-03-2005, 10:07 PM
Just imagine this scenario in your mind..... sometime in your life, u saw a child dying on the streets cause just got knocked down by a car. However, u r rushing on your car to a very important meeting which will help u to get promoted and double even triple your current salary. If u r late, u will not get the promotion and hence although u can help the child and save a life by rushing the child to hospital, u simply ignore the child and carry on rushing to your meeting.

Indeed, u got the job in the end and command a high salary but later on u saw on newspaper that the child whom u could have saved had died and the doctor mentioned in the post that had anyone rushed him to hospital earlier they could have saved him. Guilt stricken but what can u do? The rice is cooked, not u want to fry the cooked rice than people will let u. Life lost is lost.

Human beings make mistakes in life. No one is infallible. If really u have to have sex without protection do consult the doctor for other contraceptive ways.

ps: What they mean by black market? It means illegal and high risk. Abortion or giving birth is like a big surgery or operation not to be taken lightly. This kinda things if need to do after careful thought I would strongly advise to see a professional doctor. U need help , find an adult or family members. If not when u old than regret, it will be too late... :(

lawry
24-03-2005, 11:40 AM
ahem,

base on my own experience..

better do the abortion as early as possible to save money and risk for the gal.. dont wait!!!

the longer u wait.. the more expensive it is going to be..

after 12 weeks u need to go to hospital to do it...

I paid around 3k to do one at the hospital.. sigh.. big money..

but if less than 8 weeks.. easy lah... the most 600 ~ 400 only..

or take oral abortion pills.. recommend for preg within 8 weeks..

very common in china... those who have PRC lovers one.. can ask them bring some over..

Castrol
24-03-2005, 11:59 AM
ahem,

base on my own experience..

better do the abortion as early as possible to save money and risk for the gal.. dont wait!!!

..

it is extremely good if can detect early, decide early, save cost and cut risk...

but being a father with kids now, i look at abortion from a totally different angle, unlike when i was single.

if my wife happens to be pregnant again (thanks to me), and God knows we cant really afford to have another one, the decision to abort will surely be an emotionally painful one.

i look at my lovely kids everyday, well "lovely" at least in my own standards heh heh...,
and i wonder how i am going to convince myself to decide against bringing another lovely child to our family... :(

sorry, all that are about Castrol the father, of course for single couples, then will have other sets of issues.

Ice2005
24-03-2005, 12:02 PM
Hey Abort or keep the baby, you will have to take your own decision wheather if you are prepare for a family. There is more to it than only just a baby, it is the responsibility.

If decided to abort, than please go for a proper one as I have heard some bad experience that after the abortion, the ger cannot conceived any more or worse 2 life in one operation. Think carefully, money can be earn but health cannot.

My 2 cents worth.

straven
24-03-2005, 01:39 PM
if abortion is the only way out,then please go for a license clinic for abortion.it will do the mother a great deal.cos it is safer and if u go for those illegal one..chances is that the risk is there and the health of the ger will be affected.and it might lead to damage and might not be able to conceive again.think thrice bro :o

easyeasy
24-03-2005, 02:37 PM
do you guys have any idea what is an abortion. an abortion is a act of irresponsibility and cruelty.

imagine the parents fuck, the baby fucked. before you decide to go for the abortion had you ever speak to your baby and ask him/her, hey child are you willing to die for us so that we could further enjoy ourself without you as a burden.

nakamara
24-03-2005, 05:21 PM
do you guys have any idea what is an abortion. an abortion is a act of irresponsibility and cruelty.

imagine the parents fuck, the baby fucked. before you decide to go for the abortion had you ever speak to your baby and ask him/her, hey child are you willing to die for us so that we could further enjoy ourself without you as a burden.

in my humble opinion i think that everything should be view based on circumstances. When i was 16+ i had a 14+ gf who got pregnant. Felt very lost and borrowed money to abort the baby as that was the first thing that came to my mind. After aborting the baby then only i felt that I've indirectly killed a little life. Was feeling quite fucked up for 1mth plus. But come to think of it...i think what we did was right as we doesn't have the maturity nor financial stability to handle a newborn. Bringing it into this world would only bring hardship not only to my baby but my gf and i too. Having a unplanned pregnancy is one of the worst senerios to happen to anyone so i'd advise all bros out there to keep the prevention discipline. :)

zickie
25-03-2005, 02:18 PM
kinda agree with bro nakamara.good luck to all bros who face such problem :o