Marrying A Thai ger

[Mr.romance]

Hi all,

Just happened to tink of this topic after having drinking session with a few samsters a few days back:

I had heard stories whereby Thai gers(whether WL or Non WL) tend to lagai (cheat on hubby)when their hubby not ard. This is especially when we are in Sg & they are at their hometown....I heard stories whereby the gal can even fall in love with a contractor who is there to repair their houses at the hometown.

From my point of view,I guess chances of WL lagai is higher than those non WL...But all in all it depends on the gal's character....To me, even Sg gals tend to lagai as I had been personally involved with a Sg married woman before (Non WL) & she had lagai once even before me. She had even told her husband about me... I had even bonked her twice at Hotel81

I was having a drinking session at one time with a samster with 3 thai gers & they are all non WL...All 3 tend to lagai also....

Waiting for more comments to flow in & I know some will start to flame me...But its fine with me...

:)

[toothbrush]

Waiting for more comments to flow in & I know some will start to flame me...But its fine with me...

:)

Some people say u want to attract attention :D

[siamcutey]

if you read the thread title and the content you wrote, it actually don't make sense.

Lar-kai and Marry Thai Girl don't rhyme

*If u read carefully what you wrote, you said your samster fren had 3 thai girls at 1 time. He already have 3 giks, how you expect the 3 giks not to have giks for themselves when the samster also lar-kai-ing?

Tio boh? :rolleyes:

SC

[toothbrush]

if you read the thread title and the content you wrote, it actually don't make sense.

Lar-kai and Marry Thai Girl don't rhyme

SC

That is why Mr Romance very frequent in thailand to learn more about thai gal ma :p

[Mr.romance]

Some people say u want to attract attention :D
Kai? Mai pern rai krup

[DNAT]

with 3 thai gers & they are all non WL...All 3 tend to lagai also....

Waiting for more comments to flow in & I know some will start to flame me...But its fine with me...

:)
I find this is a good thread for discussion. Why flame?

Maybe that samster his 运 on woman not very good ....

[DNAT]

if you read the thread title and the content you wrote, it actually don't make sense.

Lar-kai and Marry Thai Girl don't rhyme

*If u read carefully what you wrote, you said your samster fren had 3 thai girls at 1 time. He already have 3 giks, how you expect the 3 giks not to have giks for themselves when the samster also lar-kai-ing?

Tio boh? :rolleyes:

SC

"I was having a drinking session at one time with a samster with 3 thai gers & they are all non WL...All 3 tend to lagai also...."

SC, I read it as Mr Romance was drinking with a samster at one time .. not the samster have 3 Thai gal frens at one time.

[singrakthai]

I heard stories whereby the gal can even fall in love with a contractor who is there to repair their houses at the hometown.
He must really be a very handsome contractor! :D sounds just like plot from some porn flick! The Thai contractors I know here are ah lau leh... haha :D

[serembanmen]

Hi all,

I was having a drinking session at one time with a samster with 3 thai gers & they are all non WL...All 3 tend to lagai also....




I think should call "Chao Choo"

[singrakthai]

I think should call "Chao Choo"
chao choo is Thai language.. lagai is what language? :)

[serembanmen]

chao choo is Thai language.. lagai is what language? :)


I think hatyai language!! muahahahaha , a word using by hatyai WL

[WorldSexGuide]

I had heard stories whereby Thai gers(whether WL or Non WL) tend to lagai (cheat on hubby)when their hubby not ard. :)

Think you watched too many episodes of Desperate Housewives :D .

BTW, I also heard many thai girls say singapore men cheat on their gf/wives when their gf/wives not around.

[Mr.romance]

Think you watched too many episodes of Desperate Housewives

BTW, I also heard many thai girls say singapore men cheat on their gf/wives when their gf/wives not around.
I guess some could be too lonely..& furthermore some are in their early 20s..They wont wan to stay at home all the time...So they rather "lagai" or "Chao cho"

[Mr.romance]

He must really be a very handsome contractor!sounds just like plot from some porn flick! The Thai contractors I know here are ah lau leh... haha
haha..Maybe out of 10 ah lao who are contractors...that ah lao look more younger & "Law"...;)

[siamcutey]

"I was having a drinking session at one time with a samster with 3 thai gers & they are all non WL...All 3 tend to lagai also...."

SC, I read it as Mr Romance was drinking with a samster at one time .. not the samster have 3 Thai gal frens at one time.

Actually 1 man with 3 girls go drinking is normal, till it was mentioned all 3 lar kai.

I wonder how the man know all 3 lark kai?
And nothing wrong if the girls lark kai too.
Not gf, not wife. cannot lark kai meh?

I think we more jialat than these girls.:rolleyes: :D

SC

[naemlo]

I was having a drinking session at one time with a samster with 3 thai gers & they are all non WL...All 3 tend to lagai also....



Recently u kept starting thread on Thai ger... u crazy in love with Thai gers n marry someone soon?? So have u wish, u r not born in SG but instead in Thailand?? If u feel so unsecure then dun marry?? Y will someone marry when u have so many doubts on your ger??

BTW how u know the 3 Thai gers lagai also?? Your that samster friend told u?? U or your friend bonked 3 of them b4?? The 3 gers personally told u?? The 3 thai gers in SG for tour, study, dancers or do nothing??

[naemlo]

if you read the thread title and the content you wrote, it actually don't make sense.

Lar-kai and Marry Thai Girl don't rhyme


He is just feeling unsecure abt her future wife.... so ask question here n check whether it is true, Thai gers like to 偷吃...:eek:

[naemlo]

Think you watched too many episodes of Desperate Housewives


Desperate husband instead.... :D

[siamcutey]

If u feel so unsecure then dun marry?? Y will someone marry when u have so many doubts on your ger??


Seriously, when one start to look for the wrong kind of girl at the wrong kind of place, of course have to start asking questions on whether the girl he going to marry will lark kai or not.

I see so many of my friends got married have kids and they are enjoying family life. They never come and ask me will their wife lark kai or not when they out at work.

Why?

Because they know their wives better than I do.

If one has confidence on himself, confidence on his girl, sure no doubts.

Haven marry already thinking of lark kai, if one night the wife don't come home, I am sure the hair all turn white overnight.:rolleyes:

hehehe
SC

[naemlo]

start to look for the wrong kind of girl at the wrong kind of place


If one has confidence on himself, confidence on his girl, sure no doubts.




Sure no confidence. :rolleyes: Cos u can forgive her but cannot forget the past. :D

[mr.lomantic]

Waiting for more comments to flow in & I know some will start to flame me...But its fine with me...:)I also marrying a Thai free lancer I met in Hatyai. Any advise? :)

[curiosityz]

agree with what you said,naemlo ... so sad but true... it is always hard... had friend commited in it last time too so i know...

[Raak]

Romance's wife is not a Thai. She is from Burma, just happen to have Thai ID.

Romance, you are really a shame. If your decision is to marry her, you should placed your committment and trust towards her.

Have you ever think what if she knows that you ask these kinda lousy, lowgraded questions here?

Lark Gai? I do not think you should worry about this. In fact , it should be the other way round. You silly chap.

[Raak]

Because they know their wives better than I do.

If one has confidence on himself, confidence on his girl, sure no doubts.

Haven marry already thinking of lark kai, if one night the wife don't come home, I am sure the hair all turn white overnight.:rolleyes:

hehehe
SC

What to do?
he already a person with different mindset, not forgetting to mention his multiple characters and double-cross attitude towards his friends.
Personally I think he is always having nightmares of thinking back how the 'customers' make love to her too. White hair? I doubt so. Fallen hair, gradually bald, perhaps.

[GLHunter]

He is just feeling unsecure abt her future wife.... so ask question here n check whether it is true, Thai gers like to 偷吃...:eek:

some bros here met good thai gers, some met bad. they tell u their stories, so thai gers good or bad?

ur gf is unqiuely she herself, u may be the best person to judge your gf, not us.

[Cheri_Popper]

The nationalities of the girls does not determine that they will or will not have an affair outside.

It is up to each individual's thinking.

[Mr.romance]

What to do?
he already a person with different mindset, not forgetting to mention his multiple characters and double-cross attitude towards his friends.
Personally I think he is always having nightmares of thinking back how the 'customers' make love to her too. White hair? I doubt so. Fallen hair, gradually bald, perhaps.

get your facts right before u come stir shit. U are a good for nothing who is hiding in a clone to stir shit. Use your original nicks to post if u had the balls.
meet me if u dare. I will be waiting. this applies to lomantic also.

Now I had fallen for Lady Boy. SO hw? Anybody can Help?
:D

[dominion]

I'm wondering how to meet and get to know a nice Thai ger. Preferably without all the complications of a ex-WL.

Any advice?

[rinpoche]

I'm wondering how to meet and get to know a nice Thai ger. Preferably without all the complications of a ex-WL.
Any advice?

IMO, a little controversy, if really want to marry a any ger, not just from Thai.
1. Don't care about complications of a ex-WL.
2. As long your wife love you 51% or more than other.
3. Tell her home allowance not to use of other guys. If she have other guys, then they must pay her allowances.
4. When you are with her, she must devote 100% attention on you.

If basic 4 points are acceptable, then the gal can come from any part of the world and no more worry.:D If like these also can, then 'marry' more than one wife also can.

But if she prefers 100% love you forever, the problem is, are you going to love 100% her. If both also 100%, then you are luckly, may be no more problem. But you only can have one wife lah.

[ragnarclaw]

I've a thai friend whom i've know quite a few year. I know that she's aleast 5 year older then me and she like me alot after we've a ONS( that quite a few year back). We chat alot on msn about everything and we get along quite well, but the problem is that i'm not sure if i should go into a long distance relationship with her or not. Any advice from bro here...

[vkoolboi]

Bro Romance, I think if the ger loves you, she will not lakai outside. I think most gers will not larkai outside marriage.

What I think the gers will do is to ask you for money to send back home, whether it is China or Thailand or one of the IndoChina countries. If the money you give for her to send back is a little, I think ok lah. If you need to send lots of money regularly, then I think you better think again. A bit or a lot is subjective and you are the one who know best. To a rich romance, the money is nothing, to a poor romance, this money can be used for so many expenses in the house. Of course, the ger might also got her commitments to her sliblings, parents, uncles, aunties and maybe even children of her own.

There is a thread by Singviet on Vietnamese partners sending money back and some write up by bros. You can read them.

If ger send lots of money back, I think she loves her family more than you. This is ok as long as you can win her back over time but be prepared to spend for now.

Hope bros here can give good advice to Mr Romance rather than to flame him. His question seem sensible to me. Cheers.

[dominion]

Im looking for a relationship with a Thai cuz I have too much difficulty with locals. I'm not like trying to be a tirak or something, more like exploring the option of a foreign bride but would want to get to know her first instead of being a mail order bride

[vkoolboi]

You can try to search for Thai marriage agency or through pen pal. I think the modern Thai gers with education can speak English.

There is usually a trade off when you marry a foreigner such as possibly higher dependence on you. Not all local women cannot meet your requirement. You may want to try the local marriage agency too.

Im looking for a relationship with a Thai cuz I have too much difficulty with locals. I'm not like trying to be a tirak or something, more like exploring the option of a foreign bride but would want to get to know her first instead of being a mail order bride

[dominion]

Local Agencies sure wouldnt consider me because I'm too young and no $$$, for now at least.

I'm very disappointed with local girls that's why want to see whether I can meet Thai girls and explore the possibility of marrying one instead.

[vkoolboi]

I think for guys without money, it is very difficult. Living expenses, medical care, etc... all need money. Gers need some financial security.

If no money but you are young and you have good potential, I think gers will still be interested. Can start with courtship. If no money, better to differ marriage, than to quarrel over money in a marriage.

I am quite old and no money and little potential. Veri hard to find gers to like me. so in a way, you are still better than me. Good luck.

Local Agencies sure wouldnt consider me because I'm too young and no $$$, for now at least.

I'm very disappointed with local girls that's why want to see whether I can meet Thai girls and explore the possibility of marrying one instead.

[yinyang]

..problem is that i'm not sure if i should go into a long distance relationship with her or not..
LDTR has its pitfalls, so be wary. 1 big challenge (aka problem) is your peace of mind, which is priceless. Read up on (old) thread on this tipic somewhere here, lotsa discussions and helpful advice for you thinking of embarking same. Many bros been there and done it. Some made it, others no.:p

[yinyang]

LDTR ..(old) thread on this topic, lotsa discussions and helpful advice for you thinking of embarking same. Many bros been there and done it.
Here you are, in case:

http://forum.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?t=33577&highlight=LDTR

[Hakoshu]

Almost 2 years back, i encountered my first married thai woman affair.. met her in a thai pub, chatted and told me got no bf and husband.. initially we were normal frens until one rainy night.. she wants to come to my house after her work.. then its history.. we got very close, she was very attractive too, got plans to serious with her liao..

She bought me to chiangrai and meet her family.. She got a house and car over there.. Told me tat she wants to settle down there.. I'm fine with it of cos.. Then she start telling me a secret tat i last imagined...

She had husband and kid in sg.. She's a PR there... Then she told me no feelings with the husband liao.. love me now but i must love her kid too if she gets the custody..

[vkoolboi]

Thanks for the story. It is a good reminder for those planning to marry. If married already, then everything must be able to close one eye, otherwise life becomes very hard to swallow.

Almost 2 years back, i encountered my first married thai woman affair.. met her in a thai pub, chatted and told me got no bf and husband.. initially we were normal frens until one rainy night.. she wants to come to my house after her work.. then its history.. we got very close, she was very attractive too, got plans to serious with her liao..

She bought me to chiangrai and meet her family.. She got a house and car over there.. Told me tat she wants to settle down there.. I'm fine with it of cos.. Then she start telling me a secret tat i last imagined...

She had husband and kid in sg.. She's a PR there... Then she told me no feelings with the husband liao.. love me now but i must love her kid too if she gets the custody..

[yinyang]

Almost 2 years back, i encountered my first married thai woman affair.. told me got no bf and husband.. Then she start telling me a secret...
This happens, for simple and obvious reason not to turn off any (potential) suitors. Met 1 (non-WL) tg in Bkk some years back. Same story, no bf never mind being married. Knn, it was her mom who broke the news from family album of wedding + 1 kid. My take is that openess will go a long way (for a relationship), there is no shame for a misadventure like failed marriage. It didn't end here, her ex (some thong lor policeman) came to harass her at her apartment 2X, once with a cutter. Even threatened me over the phone 1X, but he was man enough to apologise. Boy, did I have a rude intro to LOS:D

Point is that be prepared for some surprises with cultural diff, social norms. Seems to be more single mothers around, statistically evident so.

[vkoolboi]

Some guys may like to marry WL with children. Different samsters, different strokes.

One thing that is common is samsters will need money and quite a lot of it if he wants to marry a Thai woman. Money to support the other family in Thailand, Burma, Laos, Vietnam, etc whichever the ger comes from can be quite substantial. Besides, the ger's expenses will have to be paid by the husband.

I think marrying local ger can be more economical because she can work and support the family jointly.

This happens,

Point is that be prepared for some surprises with cultural diff, social norms. Seems to be more single mothers around, statistically evident so.

[dominion]

I think for guys without money, it is very difficult. Living expenses, medical care, etc... all need money. Gers need some financial security.

If no money but you are young and you have good potential, I think gers will still be interested. Can start with courtship. If no money, better to differ marriage, than to quarrel over money in a marriage.

I am quite old and no money and little potential. Veri hard to find gers to like me. so in a way, you are still better than me. Good luck.

thanx bro for advice will put you on up list

i have little money now is because i young. I'm university bound and therefore think I can provide a decent living. Although I might not make good money, I think a uni grad should be able to provide the decent living.

The girls here make a lot of demands want this and that, not only must be able to spend on them now, but everything must also give in to them, treat them like queen. Since all of them so called want financial security anyway I might as well look for girls with better attitude. So I'm thinking of getting to know Thai girls.

[mr.lomantic]

get your facts right before u come stir shit. U are a good for nothing who is hiding in a clone to stir shit. Use your original nicks to post if u had the balls.
meet me if u dare. I will be waiting. this applies to lomantic also.
Now I had fallen for Lady Boy. SO hw? Anybody can Help?Silly Raak. She is not from Burma but from Lao la. Now change taste go for Lady Boy? Why? Ang pai from hatyai not tight for you already huh? :D No need help la. You are Mr Romance lei. Got Poseidon model support last time lei. Walk from Nataree to Poseidon and then back to Nataree and got suan by papasan. No one can top you lei. :D

[mr.lomantic]

Hope bros here can give good advice to Mr Romance rather than to flame him. His question seem sensible to me. Cheers.Sensible? What sensible? He asked this question when he just knew that Hatyai ang pai and was having doubt about marrying her la. You know the whole story or not? When he with her, he also larkai outside. In the end marry her already also still larkai outside. Still got the cheek to ask whether Thai or for his case Lao wife will larkai or not. So you see for yourself this kind of man must slap his own face or not? :rolleyes:

[mr.lomantic]

meet me if u dare. I will be waiting. this applies to lomantic also.Inviting me for threesome? But I don't fuck asshole one. Especially one like you. :D

[mr.lomantic]

Im looking for a relationship with a Thai cuz I have too much difficulty with locals. I'm not like trying to be a tirak or something, more like exploring the option of a foreign bride but would want to get to know her first instead of being a mail order brideFind foreigner wife can. But don't be like our Mr.romance walk from nataree to poseidon and then back to nataree and got asked by the papa san if he is looking for wife. :D I know people romantic can tell people he got poseidon model girl friend drive him here and there and stay at her apartment last time. But also don't need to purposely go find girlfriend or wife among prostitutes. :D

[Happywheel]

Some guys may like to marry WL with children. Different samsters, different strokes.

One thing that is common is samsters will need money and quite a lot of it if he wants to marry a Thai woman. Money to support the other family in Thailand, Burma, Laos, Vietnam, etc whichever the ger comes from can be quite substantial. Besides, the ger's expenses will have to be paid by the husband.

I think marrying local ger can be more economical because she can work and support the family jointly.

If married local gal, most not willing to stay together with parents which is my main concern...and sharing same faith/belief is also impt.
Very independent with strong $$ power..:)

Married foreign wife, you will be head of the family...everything you say your wife will agree but sibeh siong. wife not dependent..everything will ask you for help and advice....:(

In the end, best to be pratical

[High till Dry]

I've a thai friend whom i've know quite a few year. I know that she's aleast 5 year older then me and she like me alot after we've a ONS( that quite a few year back). We chat alot on msn about everything and we get along quite well, but the problem is that i'm not sure if i should go into a long distance relationship with her or not. Any advice from bro here...

To me there are 2 other elements besides whether she is loyal to u.

1. Time (Leave)
Can u afford to go Thailand and visit her regularly?
2. Money
Do u have the finance to go there month after month?

If u can, at the same time u r ok being single in Singapore, then imo by all means...

[Cheri_Popper]

I guess marrying a foreigner or a local all will have some problem sooner or later. The best is don't get married.

Marriage was never meant as a bed of roses. Even how beautiful the roses might be, there are still thorns attached to it.

Get the drift?

[High till Dry]

Im looking for a relationship with a Thai cuz I have too much difficulty with locals. I'm not like trying to be a tirak or something, more like exploring the option of a foreign bride but would want to get to know her first instead of being a mail order bride

Personally I think we'll have more issues with regards to foreigners than locals....

[Cheri_Popper]

Personally I think we'll have more issues with regards to foreigners than locals....

One Thai tirak expert once told me "MARRY A THAI GAL, YOU WILL END UP MARRYING HER FAMILY OR EVEN WORSE HER ENTIRE CLAN"! ;)

[naemlo]

One Thai tirak expert once told me "MARRY A THAI GAL, YOU WILL END UP MARRYING HER FAMILY OR EVEN WORSE HER ENTIRE CLAN"! ;)


This applies to China, Vietnam, Thailand n those developing countries not only Thailand.... :eek:

[Cheri_Popper]

This applies to China, Vietnam, Thailand n those developing countries not only Thailand.... :eek:

Peng you,

Just when I thought of getting married, you give me this type of remarks! :D

[naemlo]

Just when I thought of getting married, you give me this type of remarks! :D

Hehehhehe it is the truth.... :D

[Cheri_Popper]

Hehehhehe it is the truth.... :D

Peng You,
You think it is a myth or the truth? :p

[Disgusted]

thanx bro for advice will put you on up list

i have little money now is because i young. I'm university bound and therefore think I can provide a decent living. Although I might not make good money, I think a uni grad should be able to provide the decent living.

The girls here make a lot of demands want this and that, not only must be able to spend on them now, but everything must also give in to them, treat them like queen. Since all of them so called want financial security anyway I might as well look for girls with better attitude. So I'm thinking of getting to know Thai girls.


Hi Bro,

As you said you are young, no need to think about marriage yet. Take your time, learn their culture. Most(Not all) Thai girls have been brought up the old fashioned way where they are supposed to take care of their man, Singapore girls nowadays is the exact opposite. If you can take your time to find a partner MUST be able to communicate with you, you might not need much money. As long as you give her a home and food, maybe get her an easy job at say 7-11 something along that line, just top up what she earns to about $1200 a month and transfer back to her immediate family can liao. Maybe festive season can a bit more. Aunts and uncles all no need to bother. Make sure you spend time with them, if you spend enough time with them, they won't cheat on you. Many of those who give them money, then only visit them once in a while, will usually find them out cheating. Marriage takes effort from both ends, not just what you want, she has got to want it too.

No rush bro, the Thai's have a beautiful lifestyle and culture, take your time to learn and enjoy it, I'm sure you find a few bad apples along the way, don't let that discourage you. Don't give up on our locals girls as well, I'm sure there are still a few gems out there.

[Mr.romance]

One Thai tirak expert once told me "MARRY A THAI GAL, YOU WILL END UP MARRYING HER FAMILY OR EVEN WORSE HER ENTIRE CLAN"! ;)

clan seems to be a funny word to use. btw is her neighbour consider in the clan?
this statements sounds very familiar. is it from someone who is going to get married in bkk?

[Cheri_Popper]

clan seems to be a funny word to use. btw is her neighbour consider in the clan?
this statements sounds very familiar. is it from someone who is going to get married in bkk?

Clan means her entire extended family including aunties, uncles, cousins, niece, nephew, etc. ;)

I think that person you are talking about has already signed his "Imprisonment form" in BKK liao. :D

[Nucleus2006]

clan seems to be a funny word to use. btw is her neighbour consider in the clan?
this statements sounds very familiar. is it from someone who is going to get married in bkk?Hi Bro, how married life treating you? Send my regards to Fon. :)

[Nucleus2006]

Find foreigner wife can. But don't be like our Mr.romance walk from nataree to poseidon and then back to nataree and got asked by the papa san if he is looking for wife. :D I know people romantic can tell people he got poseidon model girl friend drive him here and there and stay at her apartment last time. But also don't need to purposely go find girlfriend or wife among prostitutes. :DYou sound like eating sour grape bro.

[Malaysian Datuk]

Wah who dig up ancient thread just to chak some bro?

I got something to share regarding this topic.....recently went to Poseidon....end up fell in love with the girl.....what should I do now?

Sorrie Mr Romance.....no shows recently....I start my own:D

[Mr.romance]

Wah who dig up ancient thread just to chak some bro?

I got something to share regarding this topic.....recently went to Poseidon....end up fell in love with the girl.....what should I do now?

Sorrie Mr Romance.....no shows recently....I start my own:D

I also fell in love. But this time with "LADYBOY". how? any advise?
:D

[Mr.romance]

Hi Bro, how married life treating you? Send my regards to Fon. :)

Read my Signature u stupid fool.
I had fallen for Ladyboy now
any bros please help?
I understand u are the great ladyboy expert. Pls help

[Nucleus2006]

Read my Signature u stupid fool.
I had fallen for Ladyboy now
any bros please help?
I understand u are the great ladyboy expert. Pls helpYou just married Fon and now you fallen in love for ladyboy? What is wrong with you bro? Although she used to be WL but she is a good girl please cherish her! Don't play with her heart! :mad:

[Mr.romance]

You just married Fon and now you fallen in love for ladyboy? What is wrong with you bro? Although she used to be WL but she is a good girl please cherish her! Don't play with her heart! :mad:

I repeat again. I LOVE LADYBOY NOW

[Mr.romantic]

I repeat again. I LOVE LADYBOY NOWHAHAHA WE ALL LONG TIME KNOW ALREADY LAH. YOU THIS KIND OF PERSON ENJOY GOING BEHIND PEOPLE'S BACK! WE ALL KNOW YOU LIKE TO FUCK ASSHOLE LAH! KNN NOW I PITY YOUR WIFE LEH. :rolleyes:

[Mr.romantic]

Find foreigner wife can. But don't be like our Mr.romance walk from nataree to poseidon and then back to nataree and got asked by the papa san if he is looking for wife. I know people romantic can tell people he got poseidon model girl friend drive him here and there and stay at her apartment last time. But also don't need to purposely go find girlfriend or wife among prostitutes. WOW NOW SO MANY PEOPLE WANT TO BE LOMANTIC HUH??? THAT SIGNATURE IS COPYRIGHT OK? ONLY GOT MR.ROMANCE HIMSELF SO BO LIAO WILL WALK SUCH DISTANCE TO FIND A WIFE! :D

[Mr.romantic]

Wah who dig up ancient thread just to chak some bro?
I got something to share regarding this topic.....recently went to Poseidon....end up fell in love with the girl.....what should I do now?
Sorrie Mr Romance.....no shows recently....I start my own:DTHIS ONE YOU REALLY MUST CONSULT MR.ROMANCE! HE USED TO HAVE POSEIDON MODEL GF LEH! HE GOES AROUND TELLING PEOPLE HE DOESN'T PAY FOR HER SERVICES! IF HE SO GOOD STILL MUST MARRY A WL? WHY DON'T MARRY TCS ACTRESS? HAHAHA :D

[DOM.]

I got something to share regarding this topic.....recently went to Poseidon....end up fell in love with the girl.....what should I do now?



Man with brain in the ass will always fall for a Poseidon/ WL ger... the reasons are simple, u can get to choose your dream ger there, pay n bonk but in reality, u can't approach a ger on the street n say, "can i ask u out for a dinner.".

U can fall easily for a WL, y can't u find a decent ger in Thailand n love her???:eek: Y must u pay, bonk n later fall for that ger???

[Mr.romance]

HAHAHA WE ALL LONG TIME KNOW ALREADY LAH. YOU THIS KIND OF PERSON ENJOY GOING BEHIND PEOPLE'S BACK! WE ALL KNOW YOU LIKE TO FUCK ASSHOLE LAH! KNN NOW I PITY YOUR WIFE LEH. :rolleyes:

Y not all ur clones come at the same time. I shall not be talking to clones.
Used ur own nick if u had the balls, I repeat again & again.
talking about fuck asshole, u had offended those who has ladyboy gfs.
slap ur own face la.
Use ur original nick to post then i will entertain u again, this will be my last posting to u

[vkoolboi]

Bro Mr Romance,

I don't think you should worry too much about whether your Thai or Laos wife will cheat you. Treat her well and have faith in her.

Only thing you need to worry is supporting her financially because I heard that foreigner wives rely heavily on their husband to support their extended family back in their home country. If you are comfortable with the support, I think all should be fine.

I think it is fine to marry a WL as long as she is no longer a WL after you married her. Only problem is you must accept the fact that your wife had slept with many many men before.

On marrying a ladyboy, that is beyond me but I have no discrimination against your choice.

[Nucleus2006]

Read my Signature u stupid fool.
I had fallen for Ladyboy now
any bros please help?
I understand u are the great ladyboy expert. Pls helpDoes that mean you are divorcing Fon already? So I can contact her now? I'm sorry bro, I don't like ladyboy. With your permission, can I contact Fon since you now like ladyboy? Same rate? Please PM me for arrangment bro. :)

[korb]

I've a thai friend whom i've know quite a few year. I know that she's aleast 5 year older then me and she like me alot after we've a ONS( that quite a few year back). We chat alot on msn about everything and we get along quite well, but the problem is that i'm not sure if i should go into a long distance relationship with her or not. Any advice from bro here...

you have to ask yourself this question,after all.you are the one gonna go through.for me ,i met my wife in cyber world.for 7yrs long dist relationship.just got married last mths.it all depend on you.

[stella artois]

Bro Mr Romance,

I don't think you should worry too much about whether your Thai or Laos wife will cheat you. Treat her well and have faith in her.

Only thing you need to worry is supporting her financially because I heard that foreigner wives rely heavily on their husband to support their extended family back in their home country. If you are comfortable with the support, I think all should be fine.

I think it is fine to marry a WL as long as she is no longer a WL after you married her. Only problem is you must accept the fact that your wife had slept with many many men before.

On marrying a ladyboy, that is beyond me but I have no discrimination against your choice.

the problem with him is that he is a CHEAPO! he is already slapping himself by asking this stupid question in the forum.

for those who had known him will know that he's a stingy fella who wants to have everything for free. he does not understand that theres not free meal in this world. whatever nationality doesnt matters it only matters whether are u willing to trust or spend $$$ on the person u r going to marry.

the best solution for him is dun get marry n stay at to wank yrself off because its FREE!

[Cheri_Popper]

i met my wife in cyber world.for 7yrs long dist relationship.just got married last mths.

Congrats! I guess you are one of the few to succeed. :)

It is never easy to have a long distance relationship. However there is a saying "Absense Makes The Heart Fonder" ;)

[mr.lomantic]

the problem with him is that he is a CHEAPO! he is already slapping himself by asking this stupid question in the forum.
for those who had known him will know that he's a stingy fella who wants to have everything for free. he does not understand that theres not free meal in this world. whatever nationality doesnt matters it only matters whether are u willing to trust or spend $$$ on the person u r going to marry.
the best solution for him is dun get marry n stay at to wank yrself off because its FREE!Hello brudder! Share with us how he boast to everyone about his poseidon model girl friend pay for everything lei! :D Is that why he walk from nataree to poseidon and then back to nataree? Hoping to get free? Maybe now his ladyboy will give him free. :D

[mr.lomantic]

WOW NOW SO MANY PEOPLE WANT TO BE LOMANTIC HUH??? THAT SIGNATURE IS COPYRIGHT OK? ONLY GOT MR.ROMANCE HIMSELF SO BO LIAO WILL WALK SUCH DISTANCE TO FIND A WIFE! :DThis story so funny I share with every brudders I know who take very long time to pick the girl at fishtank! They hear already pai say quickly pick. :D

[10/10]

I just want to share this interesting article by someone who married an thai lady.

Problems with Having an Asian Wife
I have traveled in SE Asia for many years and one of the main attractions for me is the delights of the local women. For many westerners including myself, Asian women are an addiction with no return ticket. Try one and it is hard to go back to western women.
So what is it about Asian women? They look so cute and feminine. They have usually got good bodies and keep their figures much longer than western women do. They instinctively know how please a man, to make him feel special, and they use this same talent in bed. In short, they are loving, caring - and sexy too. What more could a man ask?

Not surprisingly, I now have an Asian wife. She's of Chinese origin but was born in Thailand. She is wonderful in many ways but there are 2 major problems that I will have to come to terms with if we are to continue together. The problems are firstly money and secondly her family: and of course the 2 problems are interlinked.

Firstly about her family. There is an endless procession of relatives who need help with this or that, and their demands can never be satisfied. The family is like a bottomless pit into which I throw my time, energy and money. Her relatives have a trusting faith that they can keep on milking me for ever, and my patience and the money will never run out. Of course we have drawn the line many times but there is always another desperate case around the next corner. A cousin who will die if she doesn't have an operation soon, or a child who has to pay his school fees today or lose his place in school.

We now live in the Middle East and have had a long line of friends and relatives descending on us. All of them have been demanding and ultimately ungrateful. We are shortly moving to live in Britain and despite my wife's promises, we will no doubt have a queue at our door there too.

What is more disappointing than all this though is my wife's attitude to our money. She, like her relatives, thinks that I have an inexhaustible supply of the stuff. Apart from the fact that she is an expert at flushing it down the toilet, she is hopeless at managing money and never seems to grasp the idea of a budget. I have explained to her how much money we will need in Britain. Once I finished explaining everything to her and she understood how tight our budget will be, she then said "And can I have my own car too?" And she doesn't even have a British driving license!

Perhaps as you read this you are thinking that Western women are just the same. Maybe a few are but the difference is that my wife was trained from birth by her society to be like this

[High till Dry]

I just want to share this interesting article by someone who married an thai lady.

Problems with Having an Asian Wife
I have traveled in SE Asia for many years and one of the main attractions for me is the delights of the local women. For many westerners including myself, Asian women are an addiction with no return ticket. Try one and it is hard to go back to western women.
So what is it about Asian women? They look so cute and feminine. They have usually got good bodies and keep their figures much longer than western women do. They instinctively know how please a man, to make him feel special, and they use this same talent in bed. In short, they are loving, caring - and sexy too. What more could a man ask?

Not surprisingly, I now have an Asian wife. She's of Chinese origin but was born in Thailand. She is wonderful in many ways but there are 2 major problems that I will have to come to terms with if we are to continue together. The problems are firstly money and secondly her family: and of course the 2 problems are interlinked.

Firstly about her family. There is an endless procession of relatives who need help with this or that, and their demands can never be satisfied. The family is like a bottomless pit into which I throw my time, energy and money. Her relatives have a trusting faith that they can keep on milking me for ever, and my patience and the money will never run out. Of course we have drawn the line many times but there is always another desperate case around the next corner. A cousin who will die if she doesn't have an operation soon, or a child who has to pay his school fees today or lose his place in school.

We now live in the Middle East and have had a long line of friends and relatives descending on us. All of them have been demanding and ultimately ungrateful. We are shortly moving to live in Britain and despite my wife's promises, we will no doubt have a queue at our door there too.

What is more disappointing than all this though is my wife's attitude to our money. She, like her relatives, thinks that I have an inexhaustible supply of the stuff. Apart from the fact that she is an expert at flushing it down the toilet, she is hopeless at managing money and never seems to grasp the idea of a budget. I have explained to her how much money we will need in Britain. Once I finished explaining everything to her and she understood how tight our budget will be, she then said "And can I have my own car too?" And she doesn't even have a British driving license!

Perhaps as you read this you are thinking that Western women are just the same. Maybe a few are but the difference is that my wife was trained from birth by her society to be like this

Well said.

With my limited exposure on thai gals, that's exactly how I feel.

Due to their sanook culture, they just live life for today. There is no such thing as budget & savings less to say investment or insurance. Even though I explained so many times to my ex gf, she would said she got "no mood" whenever I talk about money. When having fun dun talk about money. But the problem is whose $$? It's never her $$...

No matter how I much spent on her, she will still take things for granted. She doesn't seems to be touched by the scarifices I made. :mad: :mad:

[vmtech]

Well said.

With my limited exposure on thai gals, that's exactly how I feel.

Due to their sanook culture, they just live life for today. There is no such thing as budget & savings less to say investment or insurance. Even though I explained so many times to my ex gf, she would said she got "no mood" whenever I talk about money. When having fun dun talk about money. But the problem is whose $$? It's never her $$...

No matter how I much spent on her, she will still take things for granted. She doesn't seems to be touched by the scarifices I made. :mad: :mad:

den it's really time u dumped her bro. otherwise you're the next one that'll be sacrificed, after ur wallet's done its job

[High till Dry]

den it's really time u dumped her bro. otherwise you're the next one that'll be sacrificed, after ur wallet's done its job

Oredi told u she is my ex liao... kao jai mai?:confused: :D

[High till Dry]

Who the fukk are you to tell people to dump their girlfriend? You really have a big ego problem! :mad:

Relax bro. He mend well. Sometimes we need friends like that to "WAKE U UP" :p

[Cheri_Popper]

No matter how I much spent on her, she will still take things for granted. She doesn't seems to be touched by the scarifices I made.

One day, she might understand the scarifices that you went thru for her. That will be the day when she realised how good you had been to her.

Your story or history is just what someone I know is going thru' presently. They does take things for granted. Haizzzz!:(

[High till Dry]

One day, she might understand the scarifices that you went thru for her. That will be the day when she realised how good you had been to her.

Your story or history is just what someone I know is going thru' presently. They does take things for granted. Haizzzz!:(

Another thing... they ko hok tee sood. Really know how to lie with their ears. One lesson I've learnt: Don't trust wat they say (trust 50% can liao). Observe carefully how they treat u. That is what really matters at the end of the day....

[parn_t]

Well said.

With my limited exposure on thai gals, that's exactly how I feel.

Due to their sanook culture, they just live life for today. There is no such thing as budget & savings less to say investment or insurance. Even though I explained so many times to my ex gf, she would said she got "no mood" whenever I talk about money. When having fun dun talk about money. But the problem is whose $$? It's never her $$...

No matter how I much spent on her, she will still take things for granted. She doesn't seems to be touched by the scarifices I made. :mad: :mad:

Bros,

I could not agree more with u and that story.
Thai gals are like that, the same experience that I had before.
Same goes to my friends.

I had only one friend who are successful and actually marry a thai gal. The rest end up nothing but spending a lot.
I really wonder why these gals think that men had a deep valley of money.
Their problems seem endless and endless.

Also, if you seriously want to marry a thai, you will face the PR problem.
It is very difficult to get PR for thai. I hear that the quotas is very little.

Better fling and forget about these....
I still remember my friends who travel frequently to BKK by air just to meet their "thiruk" until had to travel by bus.
Just imagine...

[ansonlky]

Who the fukk are you to tell people to dump their girlfriend? You really have a big ego problem! :mad:


u heard that Lamer Zhou. u are making a clown out of yourself.. u claim to be at bkk now, but i see your post abt bonking a cat40 ger in a particular thread.... u seems to be able to teleport and cross over boundaries...

I empathize u Mr Zhou....get a life little brother..

Kekeke

[ah_phah]

Due to their sanook culture, they just live life for today. There is no such thing as budget & savings less to say investment or insurance. Even though I explained so many times to my ex gf, she would said she got "no mood" whenever I talk about money. When having fun dun talk about money. But the problem is whose $$? It's never her $$...

No matter how I much spent on her, she will still take things for granted. She doesn't seems to be touched by the scarifices I made. :mad: :mad: Actually its not 100% about sanook culture. If you make closer observations about the livelihood of thai people, especially those in the poorer provinces, life is tough & spartan. So, when there's a chance to enjoy and be happy. They drown away their sorrows in happiness no matter how short the happiness may be.

Its not true that the thai don't worry about $. The difference is, when the $ is not from their own pocket, they never feel the pinch. But when there's need for them to part with the $ for some mundane reaon. You will see them shake head & sigh loud loud.

[High till Dry]

Bros,

I still remember my friends who travel frequently to BKK by air just to meet their "thiruk" until had to travel by bus.
Just imagine...

Taking leave is another issue for many. 21 days of leave a year for me is not enuff....

[High till Dry]

Actually its not 100% about sanook culture. If you make closer observations about the livelihood of thai people, especially those in the poorer provinces, life is tough & spartan. So, when there's a chance to enjoy and be happy. They drown away their sorrows in happiness no matter how short the happiness may be.

Its not true that the thai don't worry about $. The difference is, when the $ is not from their own pocket, they never feel the pinch. But when there's need for them to part with the $ for some mundane reaon. You will see them shake head & sigh loud loud.

Ya I can agree with the poverty aspect. In Esarn, the starting salary is only around 5-6k baht. Imagine, in the past when I went disco with her, 1 nite is more than her monthly income? Again, it's not their money. They will never feel the pinch...:rolleyes:

[druid]

hi all,

I'm very low profile so guess nobody here knows me. anyway, I'm in the same situation as others here as in im seeing a thai girl now. sorta been tog for about 8mths now. started off straight by telling her that im not rich and cannot afford to pay stuff. over these 8mths, she had been calling me much more then my calls to her. overall, treats me really well and never demanded or asked me for money before. in fact, got scolded by her when i went bkk to visit her brought her to stay in a suite. scolded me for wasting money and that any simple hotel will do.

however, there are 2 catches....which im not sure or should i say im not confident how my family will take it.
1. she is a bar top dancer aka coyete.
2. she is a single mum.

im pretty serious about her and im really thinking of ways to resolve these pbms....anyone here can offer advice or share their experience?

[Raak]

get your facts right before u come stir shit. U are a good for nothing who is hiding in a clone to stir shit. Use your original nicks to post if u had the balls.
meet me if u dare. I will be waiting. this applies to lomantic also.

Now I had fallen for Lady Boy. SO hw? Anybody can Help?
:D

Whoa Baby. *LOL*

[Cheri_Popper]

however, there are 2 catches....which im not sure or should i say im not confident how my family will take it.
1. she is a bar top dancer aka coyete.
2. she is a single mum.


Firstly, how old are you?

Secondly, what century do you live in? :rolleyes:

Come on lah....we are living in the 21st Century liao. Whether your family members like her or not is secondary. The choice of who to select to be your life partner is yours to make and nobody else.

If you really love her, you will accept her as she is. If you decide to marry her against your parents' wishes, it is your choice to make. ;)

[Cheri_Popper]

21 days of leave a year for me is not enuff....

You did not factor that you are also entitled to 14 days of medical leaves.

21+14 = 35 days. You can spend a total of 7 different weeks there. You fly there by Monday and fly back by Sunday each time. :D

[Disgusted]

hi all,

I'm very low profile so guess nobody here knows me. anyway, I'm in the same situation as others here as in im seeing a thai girl now. sorta been tog for about 8mths now. started off straight by telling her that im not rich and cannot afford to pay stuff. over these 8mths, she had been calling me much more then my calls to her. overall, treats me really well and never demanded or asked me for money before. in fact, got scolded by her when i went bkk to visit her brought her to stay in a suite. scolded me for wasting money and that any simple hotel will do.

however, there are 2 catches....which im not sure or should i say im not confident how my family will take it.
1. she is a bar top dancer aka coyete.
2. she is a single mum.

im pretty serious about her and im really thinking of ways to resolve these pbms....anyone here can offer advice or share their experience?

Bro, I've been with mine for 3 years already, she has met my family and I have met hers. She stills works in a massage parlour and has sex with customers daily, no choice, family to feed and I am not rich. My family does not know her real line of work, we told them she is in fashion, and that she earns peanuts. We are both saving up, hopefully, within the next 2 years we can end this long distance thing and she can move to Spore with me.

Your family does not need to know the truth, but make sure you get your story straight. My mum's 1st thought when she heard Thai girl was prostitute, which is true, but I made sure they spent a day or 2 together at home while I went to work and my mum started to believe me, cos my girl does what she has to for a living, she is not proud of it, she behaves like a well brought up girl. I've introduced her to all my friends as well, I want her to be part of my life. If you are afraid and keep hiding her, people will talk and come to their own conclusions.

[parn_t]

im pretty serious about her and im really thinking of ways to resolve these pbms....anyone here can offer advice or share their experience?[/QUOTE]


Bros,

What she does is not important.
Most important is that both of you had to decide where do you want to stay?
SGP or Thai???

PR status, ROM in where? House, .....

[ansonlky]

You stupid idiot. There is a transportion called 'airplane'. Buzz off homo! You can only pretend you are in Thailand all the time. I pity you.


Hey joker,when did i ever tell u i was at thailand now oh please get u life i am luffing my heads off each time u reply me u r a great source of entertainment...

KEKEKe

[druid]

thanks for the replies so far..

due to some famly issues, i will have to stay with my mum all the way even after marridge thus its very impt to me that my mum likes the girl.cos end of the day. all under the same roof....im sure u guys know wat i mean

im 28 tis year by the way.

im comfortable with wat she do...had been slowly introducing her to my circle of friends...not hiding her at all. so far...my family seems to b ok with her...just worried cos a very conservative n traditional fmily n im the "rebel" in the family in terms of thinking n attitude twds life.

im wondering abt possibility of staying in sg n thai...cos i do wish to do some biz in thai....thats my ambition all the while...

anyway...prety confused in terms of how to handle the rlsp n making sure it lasts....

thanks for the comments so far

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Come on lah....we are living in the 21st Century liao. Whether your family members like her or not is secondary. The choice of who to select to be your life partner is yours to make and nobody else.

If you really love her, you will accept her as she is. If you decide to marry her against your parents' wishes, it is your choice to make. ;)

i agree wholeheartedly.We are living in a modern world of choices.We live our own life so we are free to do what we wish but just dont regret the decision we make along the way.To Bro Druid,wish u two all the best and to all the rest of the lovers out there,u hv my more sincere blessings. :)

[Cheri_Popper]

due to some famly issues, i will have to stay with my mum all the way even after marridge thus its very impt to me that my mum likes the girl.cos end of the day. all under the same roof....im sure u guys know wat i mean


You will be the meat in the HAMBURGER! Its only a matter of time! ;)

No matter how good they are at the beginning, cracks will appears in due time.

Ask yourself this, I believed that you had previous BGR relationships before right? No matter how close a couple is, there will be disagreements or quarrels. Don't tell me that you and your mom or siblings never quarrelled before. The point is that no matter how close the relationship between your wife and your mom, there will bound to be some dispute and when the dispute gets overboard, you will feel like the meat between the 2 buns in a hamburger.

Get the drift? :D

[SexFreak]

You did not factor that you are also entitled to 14 days of medical leaves.

CP !!! :D It seems that you have not consumed your annual leaves / medical leaves for quite sometime liao :p


Cheers !!!

[Cheri_Popper]

CP !!! :D It seems that you have not consumed your annual leaves / medical leaves for quite sometime liao


Cheers !!!

You very free in your new office to monitor my leaves hor Mr. HR Manager! :p

[druid]

hey cheri..

ya, i know that there will be tiffs and such and can never be happy ever after type of scenario. what i mean is that its ok for those normal small scale tiffs and such between the "buns"... what im trying to avoid is daily constant battle between the "buns". in such a scenario, i think the meat will be better off without any buns at all.

dun wan my family life in future to be like tcs drama. never ending fights between wife and mum day after day night after night.....

[Cheri_Popper]

hey cheri..
ya, i know that there will be tiffs and such and can never be happy ever after type of scenario. what i mean is that its ok for those normal small scale tiffs and such between the "buns"


Ya! Good luck to you!

I thought that I could have avoided the problem but it just GREW & GREW! Until I dun want to be the meat between the buns. Thats why I am seperated.

[MrBeeRocks]

He is just feeling unsecure abt her future wife.... so ask question here n check whether it is true, Thai gers like to 偷吃...:eek:

errr... Mr Romance marrying a Thai Ger??? no shit??? hahahahah...

congrats man... when is the stag night??? hehehehe

[dominion]

heh perhaps some bro misunderstood me
i meant i was trying to explore the possibility of meeting thai girls, decent ones. I'm not like must marry a WL guy. I just thought that thai girls just give me a better impression than SG girls and I would like to find out whether this is true and mayb can date one and mayb marry one some day

[Cheri_Popper]

i meant i was trying to explore the possibility of meeting thai girls, decent ones.

Take the next flight to BKK, there are many decent SYT working normal 9-5 jobs.

You might want to hang around at SATHORN. ;)

[High till Dry]

heh perhaps some bro misunderstood me
i meant i was trying to explore the possibility of meeting thai girls, decent ones. I'm not like must marry a WL guy. I just thought that thai girls just give me a better impression than SG girls and I would like to find out whether this is true and mayb can date one and mayb marry one some day

On the whole, I think thai gals are like high risk stocks that can yield higher returns as compared to our Singtel or DBS shares....:p

[High till Dry]

Take the next flight to BKK, there are many decent SYT working normal 9-5 jobs.

You might want to hang around at SATHORN. ;)

When r u heading there?

Punching card later?? :D

[Cheri_Popper]

When r u heading there?

Punching card later?? :D

Heading to SATHORN to get myself a nice THAI SYT officegirl in SATHORN. ...hehehe! :rolleyes:

[Red_Perrier1099]

heh perhaps some bro misunderstood me
i meant i was trying to explore the possibility of meeting thai girls, decent ones. I'm not like must marry a WL guy. I just thought that thai girls just give me a better impression than SG girls and I would like to find out whether this is true and mayb can date one and mayb marry one some day

You can always try internet chat rooms. I have met a few decent thai girls on the internet.

I recently got to know 1 uni girl in the chat room. She is coming to sg next month with her friends!! they are here as exchange students. Not only do I get to meet her, I get to know her friends as well!!

[BkkResident]

You can always try internet chat rooms. I have met a few decent thai girls on the internet.

I recently got to know 1 uni girl in the chat room. She is coming to sg next month with her friends!! they are here as exchange students. Not only do I get to meet her, I get to know her friends as well!!


Mind revealing what kind of chatrooms u are using?;)

Anyway "decent" thai gals on internet making friends with overseas friends are rather similiar,just that they used internet as a hunting ground.

[Cheri_Popper]

Mind revealing what kind of chatrooms u are using?;)


I also want to know so that I can brush up my Thai with them. :)

[Red_Perrier1099]

Mind revealing what kind of chatrooms u are using?;)

Anyway "decent" thai gals on internet making friends with overseas friends are rather similiar,just that they used internet as a hunting ground.

Yahoo chat rooms.

[BkkResident]

I also want to know so that I can brush up my Thai with them.

haha,u want to type "karaoke" thai in the chatroom with them huh? :p

[BkkResident]

Yahoo chat rooms.

Can bro be more specific,perhaps provide link easier for us here.:D

Yahoo so BIG,hard to find thai DECENT university gals,wait find wrongly find WLs looking for carrots.:o

[dominion]

You can always try internet chat rooms. I have met a few decent thai girls on the internet.

I recently got to know 1 uni girl in the chat room. She is coming to sg next month with her friends!! they are here as exchange students. Not only do I get to meet her, I get to know her friends as well!!


was seh... what would it take for you to jio me along hehe :D so envious sia.

[Cheri_Popper]

haha,u want to type "karaoke" thai in the chatroom with them huh? :p

Well it is still "practise" meh! ;)

[BkkResident]

Well it is still "practise" meh!

Have to ask RP how he search out those thai university gals loh. I very keen to know also. :p

[Cheri_Popper]

Have to ask RP how he search out those thai university gals loh. I very keen to know also.

Me too! ;)

But RP only posted yahoo chatroom leh. Hopefully he should be more specific. ;)

[BkkResident]

Me too!

But RP only posted yahoo chatroom leh. Hopefully he should be more specific.

He does have a "way" with thai girls. Be it in GM / GL / chatrooms. Maybe u could meet up with him at GM. :p

For me,i tried those thai chatrooms with dek thais inside typing thai,so no way to understand. :confused:

[Red_Perrier1099]

Can bro be more specific,perhaps provide link easier for us here.:D

Yahoo so BIG,hard to find thai DECENT university gals,wait find wrongly find WLs looking for carrots.


Walau, how specific you want?
Just go to Thailand rooms or hang around Singapore rooms. Most of the time they will hunt in singapore rooms. Those in thailand rooms mostly go for ang mohs. Those who come to singapore rooms are usually quite good in english.

Again, I must emphasize that luck is very important to find real Uni gals!! Not those WL looking for carrot. :D

And also, most of the time is they PM me, I dont go and hunt for them.

[BkkResident]

Walau, how specific you want?
Just go to Thailand rooms or hang around Singapore rooms. Most of the time they will hunt in singapore rooms. Those in thailand rooms mostly go for ang mohs. Those who come to singapore rooms are usually quite good in english.

Again, I must emphasize that luck is very important to find real Uni gals!! Not those WL looking for carrot.

And also, most of the time is they PM me, I dont go and hunt for them.


Never try before chatrooms to know thai gals mah.:o

So u meant those nice "DECENT" thai girls go hunting around in singapore rooms as well as camping in their thai chatrooms waiting to hook farangs? This type of girls considered "DECENT" huh?

If these girls not looking for a rich "carrot",then what they looking for? Tourist to bring them around in singapore? :confused:

U Best lah,even the NICK u use in chatroom also got so much "charm" that they are attracted to u. U do not hunt for them,then u "park" your nick there awaiting for the "decent" gals? Can i borrow your nick?

Also,how to differentiate WLs waiting for carrots and decent thai girls? I think u need to explain or else many here will think the ones they got from chatrooms are "Decent" thai girls which in fact are WLs at work via chatrooms.

[Red_Perrier1099]

Also,how to differentiate WLs waiting for carrots and decent thai girls? I think u need to explain or else many here will think the ones they got from chatrooms are "Decent" thai girls which in fact are WLs at work via chatrooms.

How to differentiate?

Cheong more you will know lah.

If not just open a thread here in this forum and ask loh...like "Advise Please", very popular thread... :p

[BkkResident]

How to differentiate?

Cheong more you will know lah.

If not just open a thread here in this forum and ask loh...like "Advise Please", very popular thread...

True,compared with old birds like u here,really need to cheong more with people like u. :p

No need to create extra thread for such chatrooms lobangs,since u are the only expert in such kangtaos.:p

[dominion]

wa since got expert here
Can share how to get to know decent Thai girls ornot :D ?

[BkkResident]

wa since got expert here
Can share how to get to know decent Thai girls ornot ?

I ask u, "decent" girls will go chatrooms and purposely look for guy's nick outside their usual thai chatrooms or not? :rolleyes:

Furthermore decent does not meant pretty girls. Pretty girls do not need to go chatrooms and hunt for guys. They have enough handsome thai guys ard them to keep them busy.

Only Red Boy thinks his exchange students are "Decent" enough to find him in chatrooms. :rolleyes:

[dominion]

haha i dunno sia... im just a newbie, dunno abt thai gals. havent even visited the cathouses in GL before.

but my main aim is to get to know decent thai girls. u got any way u can reccommend?

[BkkResident]

haha i dunno sia... im just a newbie, dunno abt thai gals. havent even visited the cathouses in GL before.

but my main aim is to get to know decent thai girls. u got any way u can reccommend?


Let Red Boy showhand first,since he said he is good at getting decent thai girls. Then we see how from there. ;)

[Cheri_Popper]

I ask u, "decent" girls will go chatrooms and purposely look for guy's nick outside their usual thai chatrooms or not?


There are decent girls as well as not so decent girls in every country. It is your fate and destiny whether you meet the decent or the not so decent type. :p

As long as you know what you are doing, you will be fine. ;)

[BkkResident]

There are decent girls as well as not so decent girls in every country. It is your fate and destiny whether you meet the decent or the not so decent type.

As long as you know what you are doing, you will be fine.

I agree with that statement,but i beg to differ on Red Boy's Luck in chatrooms with decent gals. :rolleyes:

What's ur take on Red Boy's way of knowing decent girls?:p

[Red_Perrier1099]

There are decent girls as well as not so decent girls in every country. It is your fate and destiny whether you meet the decent or the not so decent type.

As long as you know what you are doing, you will be fine. ;)

I guess I am fated and destined to meet decent girls then :D

Whereas some people only meet indecent ones, that is why they say only indecent girls go to chat rooms. hahaha...

Funny sia...I got luck to know thai uni girls (confirmed decent lah) in chat rooms people dont believe. I got FOC at GoldenMile, people also dont believe. But I think got people believe I got FOC at Paramount pubs lah. hahaha...

[Cheri_Popper]

I agree with that statement,but i beg to differ on Red Boy's Luck in chatrooms with decent gals.

What's ur take on Red Boy's way of knowing decent girls?

Bro,
This is the internet, whether is he boasting or not, does it really matters? We should take everything we hear with a pinch of salt.

RP had also claimed that he got free ONS at GM, well if its the truth, then good for him.

To fish at chatroom, who knows who is the other party at the opposite end. It might be a totally CMI gal or a SYT or a granny or a Ladyboy or even a man. :p

The chance of finding a decent gal there might be slim but even how slim, there is a chance. Everytime, ppl also kanna TOTO or 4D meh, it depends on your luck. Just like real fishing, sometimes you fish whole day but caught no fish but sometimes you caught many fishes. It just your fate, destiny or luck. ;)

[Red_Perrier1099]

I agree with that statement,but i beg to differ on Red Boy's Luck in chatrooms with decent gals. :rolleyes:

What's ur take on Red Boy's way of knowing decent girls?:p

Some one mentioned he can make $2000 per month betting soccer (but still work 9 to 5). what's your take on his way of earning a living? haha

[Cheri_Popper]

Some one mentioned he can make $2000 per month betting soccer (but still work 9 to 5). what's your take on his way of earning a living? haha

There are ppl making more $ then that and yet they are working. The simple truth is that, you can win all the time and it is highly unstable whereas a job is.

[BkkResident]

I guess I am fated and destined to meet decent girls then

Whereas some people only meet indecent ones, that is why they say only indecent girls go to chat rooms. hahaha...

Somehow i never need to use chatrooms to get my fair share of fun in my life. Perhaps someone of your calibre needs to find romance at such venues.:p

My conjectures were that decent girls should be doing what they should,instead of parking their time in some chatrooms like yahoo getting to know FOC people like Red Boy. I guess they did not have much educations either to realise that. :rolleyes:

I know of a thai girl for 2 years. She has a network of farangs shared with friends of the same livelihood.They are not WLs. They belong to a different level of game altogether. They get to know all this rich farangs and when they come,they bring them ard, just like social escorts ( with a personal touch ). And get sponsorships from them eventually. I told her about yahoo chatrooms and Red Boy incident,and she think likewise.

[Red_Perrier1099]

Bro,
This is the internet, whether is he boasting or not, does it really matters? We should take everything we hear with a pinch of salt.

RP had also claimed that he got free ONS at GM, well if its the truth, then good for him.
people buay song it's becuase the way i post seems like boasting. But you can see so many people post thier ONS encounters, especially those at Devil's (i am sure you cheong with them before too) and Lovethai at Zouk. I never get any ONS at discos and pubs, but that doesnt mean what they posted is not believable.


The chance of finding a decent gal there might be slim but even how slim, there is a chance.
Are you saying that most girls in chat rooms are indecent? That means if you really get to know them, you can ONS with them easily?


Everytime, ppl also kanna TOTO or 4D meh, it depends on your luck. Just like real fishing, sometimes you fish whole day but caught no fish but sometimes you caught many fishes. It just your fate, destiny or luck. ;)
Why you never post this in GM thread? No goot lah you. hahaha..

[BkkResident]

Bro,
This is the internet, whether is he boasting or not, does it really matters? We should take everything we hear with a pinch of salt.

RP had also claimed that he got free ONS at GM, well if its the truth, then good for him.

To fish at chatroom, who knows who is the other party at the opposite end. It might be a totally CMI gal or a SYT or a granny or a Ladyboy or even a man.

I never took him seriously in the first place. I read all about his FOC incident in the other thread.:p

Sometimes want to tua kang also dun tua kang until like that mah. Say the decent gals come looking for him in chatrooms. That is why i chak him. :D

U know hor,those thai websites chatrooms,some of the dek thais pixs are katoeys. But maybe some do not know,and happily thought they got a good catch here.

[BkkResident]

There are ppl making more $ then that and yet they are working. The simple truth is that, you can win all the time and it is highly unstable whereas a job is.

That is why i feel this Red Boy is really a young boy. The way he boast about his FOCs in front of those laujiaos who cheong GM for so long,and the low mentality that a person cannot have sidelines besides his/her main job. Inflexibility i call it. :rolleyes:

So Red boy u telling me those OKTs here only earn income from their girls,they just sit at home and shake leg and wait for cuts from clients? :eek:

[Cheri_Popper]

especially those at Devil's (i am sure you cheong with them before too) and Lovethai at Zouk. I never get any ONS at discos and pubs, but that doesnt mean what they posted is not believable.

Are you saying that most girls in chat rooms are indecent? That means if you really get to know them, you can ONS with them easily?

Why you never post this in GM thread? No goot lah you. hahaha..

Firstly, I do believed Ppl does get ONS at Disco/Pubs. I had seen it before. It does help if the person is either damn rich or handsome or the gal is simply too horny. Btw....I don't go to Devil's Bar.

I am not saying that most of the gals in the chatroom are indecent but if they are "good looking" would they be looking for a BF or a fuck there? Chances are that they are looking for a sponser or fishing for Chai Tao. We also go fishing there, so does they. There are of cos decent gals there, but the ratio could be 10 to 1. It really depends on your luck.

I dun post at GM cos that is not my type of joint but I do go there once awhile with friends cos they happen to like the place.

[Red_Perrier1099]

Somehow i never need to use chatrooms to get my fair share of fun in my life. Perhaps someone of your calibre needs to find romance at such venues.:p
Look who's boasting now?

Chatrooms is only one of my avenue, after reading so many of my posts, you should know lah.. Hehe... Chat rooms not easy you know... You never need to use chat rooms or is it because can't get any in chat rooms? hahaha..


My conjectures were that decent girls should be doing what they should,instead of parking their time in some chatrooms like yahoo getting to know FOC people like Red Boy. I guess they did not have much educations either to realise that. :rolleyes:
That is why you are wrong! So many decent and lonely girls in chat rooms waiting to meet someone..just that there are too many indecent guys. And all the thai girls that i have met (known in chat rooms) are uni educated and do not hang around places like ratchada or Sukhumvit at night. Oh, I also dont have to pay them after they bring me around bkk, pattaya, phuket....


I know of a thai girl for 2 years. She has a network of farangs shared with friends of the same livelihood.They are not WLs. They belong to a different level of game altogether. They get to know all this rich farangs and when they come,they bring them ard, just like social escorts ( with a personal touch ). And get sponsorships from them eventually. I told her about yahoo chatrooms and Red Boy incident,and she think likewise.
I am not sure if it's fortunate or unfortunate for you to only know these kind of girls.

Why dont you go ask some decent girls...oops sorry you dont know any. ahaha

[Cheri_Popper]

That is why i feel this Red Boy is really a young boy.

From what I heard from some Samsters whom had met him, RP is an elderly man. How true I really don't know. :p

I do agreed with you that sometimes his postings are quite incredible but again whether it is a fact or fiction, only RP knows. We are not here to judge or comment on him or any other samsters. If he is boasting to boost his ego, so be it. Does it really matters?

Just take everything you hear with a pinch of salt.

Peace to both of you. :)

[BkkResident]

Look who's boasting now?

Chatrooms is only one of my avenue, after reading so many of my posts, you should know lah.. Hehe... Chat rooms not easy you know... You never need to use chat rooms or is it because can't get any in chat rooms? hahaha..

What for waste time in chatrooms when i get to see them "live" everyday? :p

That is why you are wrong! So many decent and lonely girls in chat rooms waiting to meet someone..just that there are too many indecent guys. And all the thai girls that i have met (known in chat rooms) are uni educated and do not hang around places like ratchada or Sukhumvit at night.

Are u one of the indecent guys then? :rolleyes: How u know they dun? They told u? Did u believed them as well?

I am not sure if it's fortunate or unfortunate for you to only know these kind of girls.

Why dont you go ask some decent girls...oops sorry you dont know any. ahaha

Well,this girl friend of mine happens to be cash rich/assets rich than many of us here. At least for me to know. I am not even sure u have S$40k in your bank to start with.*LOL*

[Red_Perrier1099]

I am not saying that most of the gals in the chatroom are indecent but if they are "good looking" would they be looking for a BF or a fuck there? Chances are that they are looking for a sponser or fishing for Chai Tao. We also go fishing there, so does they. There are of cos decent gals there, but the ratio could be 10 to 1. It really depends on your luck.

.

Please lah, not all girls in chat rooms are looking for a fuck ok.

As for those looking for sponsors...again I have not met any of those yet, lucky me.

[Cheri_Popper]

Please lah, not all girls in chat rooms are looking for a fuck ok.

As for those looking for sponsors...again I have not met any of those yet, lucky me.

Some of them are actually looking to make friends from other culture and nationalities. :p

as for sponsers, they must have the patience and time for the "fish" to bite and to reel it in for the "kill". I guess that you are probably that "fish" that always gets away by hook or by crook. ;)

[Red_Perrier1099]

Well,this girl friend of mine happens to be cash rich/assets rich than many of us here. At least for me to know. I am not even sure u have S$40k in your bank to start with.*LOL*

Well this uni girl friend of mine, only 20 years old. SHe is also assest rich with a few houses in her name already and I bet also waiting to inherit some money in future. The difference? She dont need to open her legs. *lol*

[BkkResident]

From what I heard from some Samsters whom had met him, RP is an elderly man. How true I really don't know.

I do agreed with you that sometimes his postings are quite incredible but again whether it is a fact or fiction, only RP knows. We are not here to judge or comment on him or any other samsters. If he is boasting to boost his ego, so be it. Does it really matters?

Just take everything you hear with a pinch of salt.

Peace to both of you.

If Red Boy or Red Ahpek happens to come bkk in the near future,do not hesitate to pm me here. I buy u a drink at The Resort ok? I stay nearby.:p

Not incredible lah,postings on internet like u said are just for leisure reading. That is the way to get the most entertainment out of it. Believe or not, it does not matter.

Today got mood to chak him mah.Anyway he still have not told us how to get about the chatrooms. :confused:

[BkkResident]

Please lah, not all girls in chat rooms are looking for a fuck ok.

As for those looking for sponsors...again I have not met any of those yet, lucky me.

Not u lucky,is they are smart to filter out the worthless guys to even PM u.:D

[Cheri_Popper]

If Red Boy or Red Ahpek happens to come bkk in the near future,do not hesitate to pm me here. I buy u a drink at The Resort ok? I stay nearby.


I have not have the pleasure of meeting RP. So I really won't know if when is he going to BKK. :(

Anyway thansk for the offer. I just came back from BKK myself recently. Was staying at Rachada in Hui Kuang area. :D

[BkkResident]

Well this uni girl friend of mine, only 20 years old. SHe is also assest rich with a few houses in her name already and I bet also waiting to inherit some money in future. The difference? She dont need to open her legs. *lol*


People have this kind of friend,u also have. Next time i let u say first ok. :D

How come u never make her yours? She dun want u,or u dun want her? Then u can also live like a King in thailand already. Still need to go GM and find FOCs,duno what TP find filipinos or what?

U should be cruising every night at G clubs/KTVs getting FOCs from the ladies here. :p

[BkkResident]

I have not have the pleasure of meeting RP. So I really won't know if when is he going to BKK.

Anyway thansk for the offer. I just came back from BKK myself recently. Was staying at Rachada in Hui Kuang area.

Hotel or lady's apartment? :D

[Cheri_Popper]

Hotel or lady's apartment? :D

Rachada City Hotel la....went on a working trip...I don't have any Tirak leh...I waiting to pick up DECENT gals from the Chatroom too leh...maybe she is 19 yrs old SYT Uni student with billions of bahts in her name....hehehe!:p

[BkkResident]

Rachada City Hotel la....went on a working trip...I don't have any Tirak leh...I waiting to pick up DECENT gals from the Chatroom too leh...maybe she is 19 yrs old SYT Uni student with billions of bahts in her name....hehehe!

Quite many good looking university girls stay around Pracharajbumphen Road along Ratchada City Hotel. But not sure if they are billionaires or decent? No need to pick up from chatroom lah,outside your hotel got a few lan shops at night got tight fitting uniform/long wavy hair/slim body uni girls using LAN there,sending emails. Better than chatting up thru chatrooms with a katoey. :D

[ansonlky]

Quite many good looking university girls stay around Pracharajbumphen Road along Ratchada City Hotel. But not sure if they are billionaires or decent? No need to pick up from chatroom lah,outside your hotel got a few lan shops at night got tight fitting uniform/long wavy hair/slim body uni girls using LAN there,sending emails. Better than chatting up thru chatrooms with a katoey. :D

Oh bro u near Pracharat Bumphen? Next time we meet at the 24hrs dim sum restaurant and go for recce together hahah....

[naemlo]

Anyway thansk for the offer. I just came back from BKK myself recently. Was staying at Rachada in Hui Kuang area. :D


Peng you, u diam diam go BKK. U lidat goot meh??

[naemlo]

I waiting to pick up DECENT gals from the Chatroom too leh...maybe she is 19 yrs old SYT Uni student with billions of bahts in her name....hehehe!:p

Next trip if u go tell me, I intro u to Chula MBA students... :D

[BkkResident]

Oh bro u near Pracharat Bumphen? Next time we meet at the 24hrs dim sum restaurant and go for recce together hahah....

Sure,but the 24hrs dim sum mai Aroi leh..but its cheap though.:p

[BkkResident]

Next trip if u go tell me, I intro u to Chula MBA students...

Got any to intro to me? No need Chula,Ramkhamheng also k or even some say ABac? :p

[Red_Perrier1099]

Sure,but the 24hrs dim sum mai Aroi leh..but its cheap though.:p

shit also mai aroy, but no money also have to eat lah...tio boh??

hahaha....:D

[Cheri_Popper]

Peng you, u diam diam go BKK. U lidat goot meh??

Peng you,
I went there for a seminar and not for hanky panky hor! :p

Next time i go I will infd you so that you can show me around as I am a NEWBIE there. ;)

[Da Vinci]

marying a thai gal....
pros and cons?

[dominion]

aiya thread become so long...
still NO lobang for me!! :(

RP nv share his tricks with me sia... hey share share tricks with newbie la :D


anw Pros and cons of marrying a Thai gal
1. You still pay for everything, but not as costly as a local gal and summore dont need to get a maid.

2. You still wear the pants and remain the MAN of the house.

3. You don't have to become marry into her family and go to in-laws' every bloody weekend or holiday.

4. You can net a prettier one for your level of looks/income.

5. Thai gals have not learned how to complain headache when you "need it"


Con? People think that you damn cmi, cannot get a local gal so get foreign bride

[BkkResident]

shit also mai aroy, but no money also have to eat lah...tio boh??



Shit mai aroi u also know? to what extent mai aroi could u gauge then? :rolleyes:

U saying yourself no money huh? Anytime u come,i can treat u to Resort for a drink,provided u give face to me lah..:rolleyes: Just PM me..we pose for a pix and post it here. Unless u look worse than wu meng da then i got nothing to say.

[BkkResident]

RP nv share his tricks with me sia... hey share share tricks with newbie la

he will tell u if someone is rich,will he teach u how to get rich and all that theories lah.

He has all the MOVES,all the CHARMS and definitely all the LUCK which none of us possesses. :D

[Red_Perrier1099]

U saying yourself no money huh? Anytime u come,i can treat u to Resort for a drink,provided u give face to me lah..:rolleyes: Just PM me..we pose for a pix and post it here. Unless u look worse than wu meng da then i got nothing to say.

From NANA to dark sois of sukhumvit now upgrade to Resort huh?

Not bed leh, you finally achieved something in BKK after rotting there and eating shit for a few years. Or you finally inherited your parents HDB flat prematurely and decided to sell the flat and relocate to BKk? Hahaha...:D

[BkkResident]

From NANA to dark sois of sukhumvit now upgrade to Resort huh?

Not bed leh, you finally achieved something in BKK after rotting there and eating shit for a few years. Or you finally inherited your parents HDB flat prematurely and decided to sell the flat and relocate to BKk? Hahaha...

Everyone start out as beginner,be it anyone here. Must learn from the bottom to the top. U need to come,then i can show u around. Talk is cheap which is something i learned last few days.

Haha u suddenly cannot take my suaning after a few days and decided to put away with me with your clones huh? :rolleyes:

[Red_Perrier1099]

Everyone start out as beginner,be it anyone here. Must learn from the bottom to the top. U need to come,then i can show u around.
Why I need need you to show me around? You think only you know how to cheong BKK? :eek: Besides, I have so many thai peers there. *lol*


Talk is cheap which is something i learned last few days.



After posting so much crap in the forum for the past few years, now only you learned that talk is cheap last few days? a bit slow siah... no wonder you need to start an "Advise please" thread...

[BkkResident]

Why I need need you to show me around? You think only you know how to cheong BKK? Besides, I have so many thai peers there. *lol*

After posting so much crap in the forum for the past few years, now only you learned that talk is cheap last few days? a bit slow siah... no wonder you need to start an "Advise please" thread...

Show u ard is a understatement lah,more likely is to see a yandao kia who get FOCs in SG. sure or not u have thai peers? Cant even get Pink's number leh,very difficult to believe.

U seen me or know me before? Cannot be,cos i cant recall having seen a pig's head among the people i met. U know why i learnt talk is cheap? Cos i saw someone going ard the threads saying how good he is at getting FOCs in GM and getting decent girls in chatrooms. Only then i realised that talk is really cheap.:p

As for posting so much over the years,and also starting whatever "advise please" thread,I guess we all started out as newbies. At least not for u. U are a high flyer who get FOCs in GM whereas the laujiaos have to pay their way thru the fun. Moreever u get to find decent girls in chatrooms and when people have this thai peer who has a certain criteria,u also have a university friend. Wondering why u did not convince her to like u. :rolleyes:

[BkkResident]

Lastly, at least u might have a slight idea of my "identity",whereas u have to hide behind WU MENG DA's bro pix all your life. WHY? because probably u look much hideous than him. :D

At least i have a "identity" not so bad,poor u branded as a fake FOCs imposter aka chatroom expert. And some even say u are a elderly man. How to fight? :D

Why u never reply my PM?

[Red_Perrier1099]

@Bkkresident,

you seem to be typing more and more...like last time...

signs of a raw nerve being hit?

hahaha:D

ya. keep denying that you are not him, like last time. :rolleyes:

[BkkResident]

@Bkkresident,

you seem to be typing more and more...like last time...

signs of a raw nerve being hit?

hahaha

ya. keep denying that you are not him, like last time.

How come no more zap from u?No more ammo? Just 2 more points till moderation starts. U should silence me! :rolleyes:

No choice mah,i PM u twice but u never reply,so have to post here to let u read. :D

[dominion]

wa ongoing war sia...
looks like im not gonna get any help here already :(

[mr.lomantic]

errr... Mr Romance marrying a Thai Ger??? no shit??? hahahahah...
congrats man... when is the stag night??? heheheheCorrection. Lao ger. But at that point of time he still didn't know so he also thought she was Thai but turned out she was from Lao. :D You his good friend or not? Why he already married you also don't know? Shame on you. :p

[Cheri_Popper]

Correction. Lao ger. But at that point of time he still didn't know so he also thought she was Thai but turned out she was from Lao.

Is there a difference? Except for the Nationality, Language and perhaps diet. :p

[mr.lomantic]

Is there a difference? Except for the Nationality, Language and perhaps diet. The difference? Even Thai look down on the Lao. So what do you think? ;) But Mr.romance got a good catch lar. His wife super ang pai in Hatyai last time. Ask the Hatyai cheongsters most of them will know her. :D

[Cheri_Popper]

Ask the Hatyai cheongsters most of them will know her. :D

As long as they are in love, her past is HISTORY, the path ahead is their FUTURE.

[CrazyThaiLover]

At 1st, it was interesting 2 read, then there was a little interruption, but it's okia. heheee .. :)

Anyway, thx 4 sharing.


Cheers,
CTL

[yinyang]

wa ongoing war sia... looks like im not gonna get any help here already :(
Young stud, thinking of vows so early? Aiyoh, go sow your wild oats b4 taking plunge leh. Btw, good for your GP to know pitfalls here and other tirak thread. Cheers from krung thep aka LOS (land of SINs):D

[CrazyThaiLover]

Bro yy,

Dun lidat chak him lah. Lolxzz :D


Chohk Dee Khrap
CTL
Young stud, thinking of vows so early? Aiyoh, go sow your wild oats b4 taking plunge leh. Btw, good for your GP to know pitfalls here and other tirak thread. Cheers from krung thep aka LOS (land of SINs):D

[Mr.romantic]

Shit mai aroi u also know? to what extent mai aroi could u gauge then?

U saying yourself no money huh? Anytime u come,i can treat u to Resort for a drink,provided u give face to me lah..:rolleyes: Just PM me..we pose for a pix and post it here. Unless u look worse than wu meng da then i got nothing to say.

know how to go Resort only talk until so ya ya. if really eh sai jio people go Pegasus loh! :rolleyes:

[yinyang]

,,,Dun lidat chak him lah. Lolxzz.Chohk Dee Khrap
CTL, no la.. mine's laced with humour. I meant well. I know this young man is OK and his future is bright2 1. Think he might just utter mai pen rai kap:D

[_AXL_]

Young stud, thinking of vows so early? Aiyoh, go sow your wild oats b4 taking plunge leh. Btw, good for your GP to know pitfalls here and other tirak thread. Cheers from krung thep aka LOS (land of SINs)

speaking from experience??? now regret settling down too early liao har???:D

[yinyang]

speaking from experience??? now regret settling down too early liao har???:D
Surprise, didn't realise you lurking here.. You mean missed opportunities hehehe? Heard that famous 1.. 1 more for the road? Btw, you recall I was at cross roads with my LDTR.. need another check with my GPRS. Talk more in camera hehe:p She's now out like a light.. that explains my hanging about

[_AXL_]

Surprise, didn't realise you lurking here.. You mean missed opportunities hehehe? Heard that famous 1.. 1 more for the road? Btw, you recall I was at cross roads with my LDTR.. need another check with my GPRS. Talk more in camera hehe... She's now out like a light.. that explains my hanging about

saw u lurking so joined u to lurk around lor... yr LDTR, yes, i do recall... that explains yr itinenary for yr trip, doesnt it??? or someone else???:confused:

well, guess u know yr own meat and poison...:D enjoy yourself...

[yinyang]

..explains yr itinenary for yr trip, doesnt it??? or someone else???:confused: well, guess u know yr own meat and poison...
Staggered, A before B (mutually exclusive, ie 1 doesn't know existence of other). B is just a convenient former contact, whilst A is my flip flop 1. Trying to wear heart too much on my sleeve openly here.. :o

[hinkey]

I was interested jn this thread for I am loking for a LT relationship. Yes, I am a newbie, so I just maybe confused.

[Gixer]

I was interested jn this thread for I am loking for a LT relationship. Yes, I am a newbie, so I just maybe confused.

Everything depends on what you are looking for and what/who you are. Thailand is alot about face and social standing, if you are looking for a bargirl, its easy, if you are looking for a high class, well bred Thai girl, you must be of a similar social standing. There are many contradictions in Thailand, the road is long, and you must really know the ground before you can get anywhere.

But why do you want a Thai girl in the first place? There are quite a few social/cultural differences to begin with. Put it this way, a good catch is a good catch anywhere. And will require good bait same as anywhere.

[dominion]

I was interested jn this thread for I am loking for a LT relationship. Yes, I am a newbie, so I just maybe confused.

LT? LT normally costs THB3000 but must remember still got barfine about THB600 :D

[angelnick]

newbie here in SBF.
reading this thread with great interests as i am in sort of a similar situation.
i have GF in krung thep. and we are into a step of discussing marriage even.
she is not the "thai kampung" side. all famiy in krung thep.

have PMed SC for advice but i was thinking maybe someone could further help me out here. (no offense SC)

My problem lies with obtaining the step one process - certificate of "free to marry" - can someone help to advice how i can get this letter certified regardless of my status in Singapore?
a name or contact or price would help heaps. thanks!

thank you all very much.

:o

[xilverzap]

My problem lies with obtaining the step one process - certificate of "free to marry" - can someone help to advice how i can get this letter certified regardless of my status in Singapore?
a name or contact or price would help heaps.
:o


Regardless of your status in Singapore? Hmm... I think it is not possible if you are already married here in Singapore as you'd need to get a certificate from Embassy Of Singapore to say that you are SINGLE or DIVORCED. Only then with that letter, endorsed by the embassy, and a CID letter to clear you that you are free from criminal stuff then you can go and register in Thailand. Please correct me if I am wrong bros...

Heard you even need to wait a year from your divorce before you re-marry too. Is that true?

Good luck!!

[vmtech]

newbie here in SBF.
reading this thread with great interests as i am in sort of a similar situation.
i have GF in krung thep. and we are into a step of discussing marriage even.
she is not the "thai kampung" side. all famiy in krung thep.

have PMed SC for advice but i was thinking maybe someone could further help me out here. (no offense SC)

My problem lies with obtaining the step one process - certificate of "free to marry" - can someone help to advice how i can get this letter certified regardless of my status in Singapore?
a name or contact or price would help heaps. thanks!

thank you all very much.

:o


Certification of free to marry = avidavitt.
you need to get a checklist from sg embassy and den produce those documents to get the avidavitt.

den bring the avidaviit to an official translator and get it translated, and certified true copy by the MFA in bangkok.

after that you can go amphur get married liao.

as for the cheklist, dont waste ur trip down, you can get it by emailing them.

anyway i have the list, just print this out..

http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a197/vmtech/notice_of_marriage.jpg

CNC cert costs u $45 and 2 weeks to take it.

Marriage Search records takes you 1 working day and $35, done online. self collect at ROM.

MOM declaration takes 2 weeks also.

Your emplyment letter is also needed.

that's all ! all these to exchange for an avidavitt. Bring along ur wifey to the embassy too

[vmtech]

sorry double post

[angelnick]

thanks for all the answers bros.
i get the idea and yes, i am still with CO here. that's the problem and that's th reason why i asked if there was a contact to get thatcertification done with some bribes.


i would like to ask one more question... in the form of a scenario:
many of you have seen this before... another stupid guy whose heart cannot be left in the freaking room...

i got to know a FL 6months ago
great gal (as always) model some more in krung thep
but not famous one... so not many jobs.

in the past 6months... 10visits to her in krung thep
i paid for her mother's (passed away) hospital bill (S$xxk)
i paid for her living expenses (S$xxk)
i paid her own hospital bills... (S$xk)
even gave her money to start business with 5 other friends (met them all and 2 of them were / are also FLs) this one (S$xxk)
gifts of course...

in total i spend quite a hefty sum on her.
in all, we are at te stage of talking terms of marriage etc.
she told me this...
1. she wants to marry me but i (non thai) need to buy a house worth 10mil baht or more...
2. suddenly today... her aunt told her that her deceased mum owes the bank 8mil baht and the bak have repossessed the house her mum owns.
so she is staying with aunt/uncle... but when and if her cousin gets married and their house will not have room for her.

there is no way i have this kind of money - to buy a house; in this short term.
any one out there smell a rat? what kind of rat?

i have seen her 10times in the pass 6months (communicated wth her phone, sms, msn daily...) we have been to parts of krung thep... ko chang also go before with her.

but this request to marry her now and borrow money to buy the house is really new. she is also contemplating death to solve her problems... at this moment i have no idea if she has had n over dose of sleeping pills or not...
she claimed she took 37 last night.

she is 25. she has been asked and asking around to go back to the FL scene in Europe to earn her keep.
that's 1year away in the crazy world again.

unfortunately how much i want to believe her... i feel hostaged in heart that she is using her "agents" to want her to go to europe towork again as my weakness... i am scheduled to see her again this weekend.

i still can change it as the booking can be pushed or changed to other flights etc.

this is getting me out of my wits. i am now willing to sell my soul for that money to give to her for her to have a better life.
but this is really getting a little no where...

what you all say? cheers bros.
thanks.

[vmtech]

dude how old are you ? what kind of rat i smell? i smell a hugeass sewer rate.

1: no such thing
2: 8mil thb her mom sell gold 1 ar? and to repossess the house AFTER her mom accumulated 8mil thb in debts, the house must be worth alot lOL
3: usual trick.

you are dumb to even believe she is speaking to u AFTER she ate 37 sleeping pills last night. innovative number but dont u think she should be calling u from Bumrungrad International Hospital?

anyway u are already smitten with her so there's no point of me telling u or advising u. you have a head to think , it's soo damn obvious.

anyway, why do u need contacts to make the CNCC certificate? if u ar already married or still married, u are not allowed to marry again in thailand, impossible. unless u divorce or something. seriously, what the heck you talking about marriage when you're married? unless u are planning for a divorce? and a highly possible route to bankruptcy and nothingness

[naemlo]

in total i spend quite a hefty sum on her.



If I'm the ger, I will continue to exploit more money from u. Easy big money. :rolleyes:



1. she wants to marry me but i (non thai) need to buy a house worth 10mil baht or more...



I have not heard a foreigner can buy house in Thailand but foreigner can purchase condo at any price.



this is getting me out of my wits. i am now willing to sell my soul for that money to give to her for her to have a better life.
but this is really getting a little no where...


I guess this ger of yours use to living "rich" in Thailand.

Most of the young gers in BKK earn abt 10-20K per mth and they still live normally with a shelter. Most of the model looking gers work as promoter earning decent money. Why will she wants to resort to working as FL again?? Easy money...

If u r unable to think with your head, then drill this into your thick skull, "She is another WL, dun find an excuse telling others, she is different."

Again, if I'm her I will continue to exploit you and other men....:D Out of 5, 1 will fall into the trap. :D

[vmtech]

and not to mention that this "girlfriend" of yours is really greedy, aiming for the big amounts. normally people sapu 10kthb or 20k thb slowly bit by bit, she must know you are completely smitten by her, thats why she asking 1 shot 10mil, u have any idea how big a damn house 10mil thb can buy? sorry, not house, i should be saying MANSION

if every forigner tt marries a thai girl have to buy a house worth 10mil thb or more. thailand wont be a 2nd-3rd world country anymore.

kao use ur head leh(big 1)

[pussyman72]

angelnick: yes, i am still with CO here. if there was a contact to get that certification done with some bribes.

A: aye for what u want to do that. if u no love CO divorce with her la. what for go thru so much trouble getting certificate. For your information u can get marry without signing any paper in thailand. u want get cert just to bribes u money alot ah :D
Dont understand what u trying to do na. got paper want to do what buy land or want to bring ur CO stay in thailand ah

angelnick: she told me this...
1. she wants to marry me but i (non thai) need to buy a house worth 10mil baht or more...
2. suddenly today... her aunt told her that her deceased mum owes the bank 8mil baht and the bak have repossessed the house her mum owns.
so she is staying with aunt/uncle... but when and if her cousin gets married and their house will not have room for her.

A:
1 want to marry u must go buy house worth 10M baht what kind of stupid rules is that.......... her mama die liao still ask so much sinsoot ah or buy house give her siao aye stay.

2. wooo Her mama so tok kong ah bank willing to borrow 8M baht to her. then why she become a FL. Her CB itchy, need men to scratch for her ah..... her house worth how much that the bank willing to loan her mama 8M..... i think the bank stoopid lei.

Never mind mah tell ur girl u do installment lor. Since u able to give her $$$ do business liao. then 1 mth give her 200,000k baht ask her pay bank lor. bank also got installment mah. can talk to bank de.

angelnick: any one out there smell a rat? what kind of rat?

A: What Rat? small rat? big rat? or smelly rat ^^ this year rat year lei mai said rat.
Said crocodile ba maybe her behind her house she got one big crocodile
to feed later die liao need to bury de ^^


angelnick: this request to marry her now and borrow money to buy the house is really new. she is also contemplating death to solve her problems... at this moment i have no idea if she has had n over dose of sleeping pills or not...
she claimed she took 37 last night.

A: Not New lar. New to you only :rolleyes: she claimed she took 37 last night then how come still can talk to u ah. woo the pills so weak ah cant kill her at all after taking 37..................

angelnick: she is 25. been asked around to go back to the FL scene in Europe to earn her keep. that's 1year away in the crazy world again.

A: to her it not a crazy world. also she wanna go back to FL no problem lar full of OKT contacts they able to find lar.

angelnick: i feel hostaged in heart that she is using her "agents" to want her to go to europe towork again as my weakness..

A: cont. to be hostage ba she need ur help on the 8M baht. else she kill herself or jump into the fire again :rolleyes:

angelnick: this is getting me out of my wits. i am now willing to sell my soul for that money to give to her for her to have a better life.

A: sell it to the devil. he love to have more soul. maybe why not u sell ur house n leave ur wife then take money there to help her out. think it will be better for u at least u can see her have a good life while u are sucking thumb in the backstreet of bangkok.

What i want to said to u., use ur head to think n not ur raw dick to think Chokdee na krup..... another dead man in bkk.

Go read Private Dancer ba.

[pussyman72]

if every forigner tt marries a thai girl have to buy a house worth 10mil thb or more. thailand wont be a 2nd-3rd world country anymore.

kao use ur head leh(big 1)

hehehehe 10M baht he must be giving her 1M baht a mth or 1/2 a mill baht else how come she open mouth so big 10M baht house and 8m baht for pay bank lol

[xilverzap]

Angelnick

Your story is common in many sense with what many bros here have been experiencing. Kena VOODOO by thai WLs. This thing will not go away.

Since you are asking people if we smell a rat? I can only say YES.. and its 1 with a huge appetite too.

With all those xxk and xk added up.. I think within this 6 months you have contributed more then XXX K to the thai economy. Your model GF seem like a high flyer with such HUGE demands and a 8 MILLION baht house loan to pay back the bank!!...

2 things you can do.

1. CUT ALL lines of communication with her. Stop all these nonsense till you find another WL who treat you like a king again (many there)...

2. Continue your ways of pleasing your GF. She will cry, seem so poorthing and pitiful.. blah blah blah.. and want you in her arms.. Change your flight TODAY and fly to be at her side. Tell her you LOVE her so much and will MARRY her asap.

WAIT!!! then your CO in singapore HOW???

Do you know bigamy is a CRIME???

Think carefully bro.. what you wanna do.

Hmmm come to think of it... like Bro VMTECH asked.. how old are you ah??? Married with KIDS or not.. Please dont do anything stupid to hurt your kids if you have any hor... Very painful one.

If you intend to carry on with this Model GF.. then I wish you all the best. Sooner or later... you will DRY OUT of money or you CO will find out!!...

ALL THE BEST

OH... I forgot ... can I know what bank is that? Maybe I also need to borrow 8 million baht too ^o^ can build a castle in upcountry.. din know thai banks are so kind..

[pussyman72]

OH... I forgot ... can I know what bank is that? Maybe I also need to borrow 8 million baht too ^o^ can build a castle in upcountry.. din know thai banks are so kind..

oh it is call Thailand Bank of Kohorness :D

[pussyman72]

OH... I forgot ... can I know what bank is that? Maybe I also need to borrow 8 million baht too ^o^ can build a castle in upcountry.. din know thai banks are so kind..

oh it is call Thailand Bank of Kohorness :D

[xilverzap]

Angelnick

Sorry.. just curious.. did you visit her mum at the hospital and attended her funeral? If YES and its true then I am sorry. Its just that we also hear a lot of others saying their cows die la, brother motorcycle accident la, father sick la.. etc etc etc...

Also, does a normal person have to resort to trying to kill herself because of a house????

Perhaps you should also try shedding some crocodile tears and tell her you kena sack from job and penniless leow... BUT STILL wanna marry her.. See what she says then....

[pussyman72]

Angelnick
Its just that we also hear a lot of others saying their cows die la, brother motorcycle accident la, father sick la.. etc etc etc...

lol got one more story bro u forget to put. Crocodile funeral story LOL :D

[Triple-X]

Bro,perhaps you really need to stand further see the whole situation from a further perspective of view and u may see it clearer.Your head is certainly inside the fishbowl now thats why u cant see the goldfish swimming around la.Just joking,cheer up!:D

Why not u test her and prove who's calling the bluff?maybe telling her u can only visit her for once every 6/12 months because u want to start now use the $ saved to give her for her expenses or other things,see her reaction.Or perhaps telling her 10mil u dont have now,u have to borrow from alot relatives or so and quarrel with them.

Just give ample excuses and see her reaction first.:)

[theUnforgotten]

Just want to add some friendly advice .

WAKE UP your bloody IDEA

1. I dont smell a rat , but a bloody scam that smells more like the open sewer.

2. You have a CO here in Singapore ( i believe you have some issues with her) do sort it out with her , If both of you can't be together BE A MAN and face the issues directly. Getting a divorce or annulment is not difficult. get this sorted and once done u are a "free" man again. Bigamy is both a crime here in singapore and Thailand

3. Don't jeopardize your future , due to this 1 lady. Even if you have the $$$ to burn or invest. there's much worthwhile causes to invest. and also many more chances to get another FL or Model for a good time.

Thats all , just My thoughts ...most bros here know what they are talking about when they see your story, do heed thier advice.

[angelnick]

thanks all.

waken up and thinking with head instead of dick.

with your wealth of experience and knowledge, i will be more happy to learn...

thanks for all youradvice and concerns.

cheers!!

[pussyman72]

waken up and thinking with head instead of dick.


I hope u waken up and really use head thinking. Open your eyes and see for yourself. There are things you can check and there are things u can see for urself is it true.

Dont let a pussy overrule ur brain and start using dickhead to think cos u wont be able to see it more clearly whether she is cheating u or not.

anyway mai involve thai lar. hehehehe thai culture very shocking lei :D

[xilverzap]

thanks all.

waken up and thinking with head instead of dick.

with your wealth of experience and knowledge, i will be more happy to learn...

thanks for all youradvice and concerns.

cheers!!

Good for you!!.. However, do update us as and when you feel like it. Would make an interesting read how your GF takes the heat when you break it to her then you WOKE UP leow. Or you failed to do wake up after all...

Take care

[<<<SUCHINDA>>>]

newbie here in SBF.
reading this thread with great interests as i am in sort of a similar situation.
i have GF in krung thep. and we are into a step of discussing marriage even.
she is not the "thai kampung" side. all famiy in krung thep.

have PMed SC for advice but i was thinking maybe someone could further help me out here. (no offense SC)

My problem lies with obtaining the step one process - certificate of "free to marry" - can someone help to advice how i can get this letter certified regardless of my status in Singapore?
a name or contact or price would help heaps. thanks!

thank you all very much.

:oWah lau eh! So old thread you can find & dig up some more.....you not so newbie la.....

So TS Mr.Romance got marry his thai girl in the end bo??? :D

[angelnick]

Angelnick

Sorry.. just curious.. did you visit her mum at the hospital and attended her funeral? If YES and its true then I am sorry. Its just that we also hear a lot of others saying their cows die la, brother motorcycle accident la, father sick la.. etc etc etc...

Also, does a normal person have to resort to trying to kill herself because of a house????

Perhaps you should also try shedding some crocodile tears and tell her you kena sack from job and penniless leow... BUT STILL wanna marry her.. See what she says then....

bro, just to satisfy your curiousity... hospital yes... funeral bo.
well... some how... some truths were interwined...

cheers!

[angelnick]

Good for you!!.. However, do update us as and when you feel like it. Would make an interesting read how your GF takes the heat when you break it to her then you WOKE UP leow. Or you failed to do wake up after all...

Take care

Bro, thanks man. to be honest after this, i don't really care but i did sneaked back into my email to see what happened.
nothing... just 1 email asking where i am. that's it.

its very much enlightening and i sincerely thank bros all for it.
helps me save my moolah for more available FLs and of coz other toys.
cheers bros.

i will check in regularly to seek more enlightenment as long as SBF bosses don't irradicate not so value add members like me :p

Once more - a very big and sincere thank you.

[angelnick]

Wah lau eh! So old thread you can find & dig up some more.....you not so newbie la.....

So TS Mr.Romance got marry his thai girl in the end bo??? :D

haha... well not sure about the status of our thread starter. i found this and added or restarted it so that there are less new threads to manage.

i have been trying to get into this forum for a long time but offic laptops are a bitch and COs are always never in need of sleep.

Hence now with my own laptop - i have the capability to do this in most places.

as long as the Airport Authorities don't do anything stupid to it (corny from a new thread from page 1).

cheers!

[xilverzap]

Bro, thanks man. to be honest after this, i don't really care but i did sneaked back into my email to see what happened.
nothing... just 1 email asking where i am. that's it.

its very much enlightening and i sincerely thank bros all for it.
helps me save my moolah for more available FLs and of coz other toys.
cheers bros.

i will check in regularly to seek more enlightenment as long as SBF bosses don't irradicate not so value add members like me :p

Once more - a very big and sincere thank you.

Well bro, I am glad you woke up after all. I know its always easy to say Fuck and Forget, and then when you are the one "in the shit", your eyes blurred and suddenly everything seems like a dream with a beautiful Thai gf taking care of you, its hard to tell what's the truth or what not or even to do what's right or not.

Moolah saved yes, moolah lost can always be recovered. But once moolah become someone elses TAP, no matter how much moolah you have and try and replenish, you will find it hard to stay afloat after a while.

I think many bros here already kena jialat jialat already by thai gf or prc gf or whatever WL gf.... seen a few success stories but seen MANY drowned ones.
I guess some people kena burned until they finished all their moolah and their gfs LEAVE them that they realised its all a PAID dreamy roadtrip only.

Read Private Dancer, good typical example. ^o^

Cheers
Xilver

[angelnick]

thanks bro for more good words and advice.
i am now getting crank calls from her "friends" who are FLs here...
but i don't give a damn to her anymore, she got her out of hand and unfortunately she will have to face it.

its true exactly what you say - its very very "good" to have a SYT who knows how to take good care of you and times are DAMN good.

but the truth always hurts. always.

hope more bros out there won't be like me... burnt then try to save - can save good man... cannot them damn jialat liao.

cheers!!

[justl00king]

No money no honey....better use the money to get more pussies. :D

[pussyman72]

its true exactly what you say - its very very "good" to have a SYT who knows how to take good care of you and times are DAMN good.

but the truth always hurts. always.

hope more bros out there won't be like me... burnt then try to save - can save good man... cannot them damn jialat liao.

cheers!!

well nobody is perfect most of us have kanna at least 1 or few times to learn our lesson. it how much is it consider enough. it up to the person to open his eyes n see for themself. no need so much advices. after 1 to 2 time blue black u become smarter or u choose to get slap again b4 wakeup ^^

some happy gum wan, some get cheated liao ki siao want to kill girl ah want to kill himself lar, blah blah blah. worst blame girl cheat him, sometime had to ask oneself why blame the girl when u happy to let her cheat.

anyway best is to fark n fark off. this will save u from trouble. happy sex = happy liang liang later lol so is up to each indivdual if they want to go one more step.

ur this girl not very street smart at all stupid excuse and stupid ideas she have. u havent kanna those that are really street smart yet ^^ hehehe it even worst then what u get from this girl.

so u decide u wanna play this game or just play liao forget it n be good boy to ur co.

[pussyman72]

Moolah saved yes, moolah lost can always be recovered. But once moolah become someone elses TAP, no matter how much moolah you have and try and replenish, you will find it hard to stay afloat after a while.

I think many bros here already kena jialat jialat already.
I guess some people kena burned until they finished all their moolah and their gfs LEAVE them that they realised its all a PAID dreamy roadtrip only.


hehehe moolah how to recovered bro hehehehe teach me lei i need moolah lei lol FL WAR WHAHAHAAHHAAH :D meuan arai pai hatyai na.

i injure solider lei, get injure in battle many time liao lei still standing lol :D

[yinyang]

...stayed at her house for 1 time.
I think her mum is worry about her and having me staying at their house
We are planning to get marry end of this year and hoping to help her settle in sg....no need any wedding party or money, she just want to make sure her family have a place to stay...Hear alot of story about how thai girls cheat man and I am abit sadden by the story. Like to hear some opinions or suggestions or questions from bros out there on my situation.
Speak of the obvious, only YOU yourself can determine if this is worth your while. On her mom's discomfort of your putting up in the family home, isn't this got to do with face thingy or thai social norm? Also her wish to protect her mom with roof over her head fits with thai priority that family is no. 1.

Hope this all works out for you. :D

PS: So little chance of taking freebie loyalty stamp at Irie massage soi 29? And is that FL Xie somewhere in gallery pics?:p

[borom]

....She did ask me ....together pay a downpayment for her to buy an apartment next time for her mum to stay..... Hear alot of story about how thai girls cheat man and I am abit sadden by the story....hear some opinions or suggestions ..

Thanks.

Noted you have done a few postings in the Apartment in Bangkok..?? thread.

How about buying that Thai apartment in your sole name-so even if things do not work out, you can still sell/use it.

[ccod81]

Hear alot of story about how thai girls cheat man and I am abit sadden by the story.

Like to hear some opinions or suggestions or questions from bros out there on my situation.

Thanks.

No wonder you tone down so much.... this is why ahh... :)

All the Best to you Bro, If only there is some kind of medicine eat like
can make the ladies vomit all the truth right :)

[vmtech]

Hi Bros,

Just to share my current situation.
...

Like to hear some opinions or suggestions or questions from bros out there on my situation.

Thanks.

Hi bro, i dont think we can give much suggestions because, like yinyang said, it's all up to you.
For me, i have many poeople giving me many suggestions when i decided to get on this road with my girl 4 yrs ago. If i had listened to most of them, i can tell you.. my r/s would already been gone by now.
This kind of thing, dont need to ask people 1.. unless it's an obvious sham. follow yourself.
Anyway, for thai's family is always number 1, husband number 2.

And dunno why its always the Pichai that's useless and wans to sell the house etc lol, machiam every family liddat. but it's ok since your wife wans to buy an apartment. why not rent 1 1st? renting IMHO is safer for you, if, IFF anything goes wrong, at least you lose only the deposit. not the whole apartment.

btw buying an apartment in bangkok is a waste of good money la.

the most important that keeps your r/s runing is your wife understanding of your financial status and abilities.
If you are someone that can afford to a certain level, do it, and dont act to give higher den what you are able to, because in that way, you're misleading the girl to thinking you are richer den you actually are.
She has to understand how much u can give and make do with that amount. If she knows ur financial status yet asking for this and that, den you should know liao, no need to ask bros here already :P

[pussyman72]

But problem is she got to take care her family, her eldest brother is a useless man who heck care the family.

One thing is she is afraid her brother sell away the house so her mum end of with no place to stay.
Thanks.

the house under who's name. if under mother name then i dont think he able to sell it. cos sell need to go office sign de.

as for useless man, well most thai man are useless. they wait for woman bring back money to feed family. be it husband or brothers. they all sama sama............. i see until sian. hand long long very good.

as for seeing so many bros get cheated by thai girls. to be frank it not just thai. any country girls will do the same. so u just have to open ur eyes n ears to see for urself what is right or wrong. not sure do ur own little research. it not hard to get info.

I only can tell u is if u choose the path then dont blame her or anyone if anything happens. blame ourself going on to this road be it a decent or non decent girl we want to be with.

of course marrying a decent will be much safer ^^ save ur trouble.

Chokdee na krup.

[yinyang]

... I go massage only ok? But their massage not bad leh got the strength...... you never go again ah??? What FL Xie you talking about? Fiona Xie?
Had dinner and drinks only with you know who. FL Xe x-referenced to your siggie from san's stable:p

[xilverzap]

Yalor don't understand how come their society like that.

I think there is no need to try an understand why thai men are like this... hanging around and waiting for handouts from their WORKING sisters or wives or gfs. It's just the way it is. There are hardworking thai men too.

But the issue is found more often when the family is rather poor and have a working girl at home. Then the guy in the house will become lazy?

The mindset of these guys are truly simple. I have a female in the house to FEED me. Let it be so.. I relax and fool around and when broke, go back to mama.. surely sister will pity mama and then i can get $$ too. The sister on the other hand, lan lan, give mama $$$ from where?? (YOU) or any other sources she can find by sacrificing themselves to the body trade.

No matter how you look at it. Like bros here say, It's THEIR FAMILY 1st before HUSBAND. Husband's family is regarded seperately. Their thinking is not like us. When married ALL are 1 family.. NOOOOO.... It's still THEIR family, and then YOUR family... The common factor is only your UNION with your wife.

But best of luck to all bros here venturing out to have thai future partners or any nationality partners.. You will go into cultural shock wether you like it or not. Hehehe

Like pussyman say.. perhaps decent ones are safer.. but the family priority thing.... still remains la....

Good luck to all
Xilver

[rapebill]

will a Thai wife ignore her husband's wishes to be a FL (again), in order to feed her family?
any advice to change her thinking, will having children help?

[pussyman72]

lol well said bro i couldnt have said it better. :D

agree not all are lazy. poor family guys tends to drink n drink waiting for woman give money to them.

I see thai young man sleeping with older woman. example 30yo sleep with 50 yo woman then marry then for money. no work just wait for money from the old wife's daughter send $$$ come back. really disgusting.............

hehehe to them stil their own thai family no1. we always no2 or should i said no3. friend come in 2nd.........

it up to the indivdual whether he can accept this. oh not forgeting. to the family daughter = money tree. if their daughter find a non thai bf heheheh mean money many many na lol

not all most of the time they see u as money tree so ask daughter to shake some down for the family hehehehe :D



The mindset of these guys are truly simple. I have a female in the house to FEED me. Let it be so..The sister on the other hand, lan lan, give mama $$$ from where?? (YOU) or any other sources she can find by sacrificing themselves to the body trade.

No matter how you look at it. Like bros here say, It's THEIR FAMILY 1st before HUSBAND. Husband's family is regarded seperately. Their thinking is not like us. When married ALL are 1 family.. NOOOOO.... It's still THEIR family, and then YOUR family... The common factor is only your UNION with your wife.

You will go into cultural shock wether you like it or not. Hehehe

Like pussyman say.. perhaps decent ones are safer.. but the family priority thing.... still remains la....

Good luck to all
Xilver

[pussyman72]

will a Thai wife ignore her husband's wishes to be a FL (again), in order to feed her family?
any advice to change her thinking, will having children help?

2 ways to see it. is either the husband not giving her enough money or enough money to take care her family. then u stand a chance ur girl will go work again.

or

she want more $$ n think u cant give her what she want. same as no1 but just want more $$$.

so u decide whether to be with her or not to be with. if she really love u she wont go do it. that what i seen so far. unless u run house then maybe bcos of that she wanna go work or do unfaithful things to u.

to change a thai girl thinking LOL forget it bro. it wont work :rolleyes:

got children of course some how will affect but do u think she so stupid to tie herself down if she wanna earn $$$. so think again bro. it not good to do that n later back fire.

[parn_t]

Bros,

having a thai wife may spell more problems and problems.
u need to take care of endless of her families members and the members keep increasing. It's happen to one of my close friend.

one moment is father sick, uncle fall down, house need to repair, cow sick, .... the financial requirement/payment seem endless like a bottomless pit. Unless you had a bottomless money pot. that is ok. if not, just play n forget it!

Lastly, most thai gals will care for her own family than u.
they are willing to give up u for their family.

if decent gal, maybe things will be different but it is a question of your ability in finance & making things happen. but, chances are very slim. I hardly seen any of my friends end up well with a thai gal. most ended up in debt and facing more problem.

even angmo kana these before.
I remember one angmo posted his experience in the net.
they only want $$$$

[linda tan]

SOUND THAI MAI MEE KOON DEE!:mad:

[yinyang]

...There are hardworking thai men too.
..mindset of these guys are truly simple. I have a female in the house to FEED me. Let it be so.. I relax and fool around and when broke, go back to mama.. surely sister will pity mama and then i can get $$ too. The sister on the other hand, lan lan, give mama $$$ from where?? (YOU) or any other sources she can find by sacrificing themselves to the body trade.
No matter how you look at it. Like bros here say, It's THEIR FAMILY 1st before HUSBAND.
..But best of luck to all bros here venturing out to have thai future partners or any nationality partners.. You will go into cultural shock
Culture shock cuts both ways. Generalisation of thai men as layabouts reliant on females in family to scrap by is unfortunately, not off the mark.

Add other observation that there are so many single mothers (married or otherwise) looking after kids. And it's the gal's mom who help out looking after. Fathers in absentia?:(

[pussyman72]

Culture shock cuts both ways. Generalisation of thai men as layabouts reliant on females in family to scrap by is unfortunately, not off the mark.

Add other observation that there are so many single mothers (married or otherwise) looking after kids. And it's the gal's mom who help out looking after. Fathers in absentia?:(

yea bro culture shock are both way. pple cannot accept how thai think n thai cannot accept how we think also.

this kind of relationship sometime hard to maintain especially the girl come from a villiage.

decent girl also have their problem. their thinking also diff. rich family girls also think very diff. i have a friend who marry a rich thai girl. the wife want her daughter to be a thai. she feel that our local girls are much wild n not graceful at all.

she want her daughter to be well groom n have a status. not just any ordinary pple.

anyway is to each his or her own. we cant force them to change. the culture are make in such way for hundred of yrs. so it kind of hard to change anyway.

[pussyman72]

SOUND THAI MAI MEE KOON DEE!:mad:

mai chai na mai chai khonthai mai dee na.

it all the same if u marry girls outside singapore such as cambodia, laos, those 3rd world country. their thinking are confirm diff from us.

just that most of the story we been hearing are thais.

[theUnforgotten]

Culture shock cuts both ways. Generalisation of thai men as layabouts reliant on females in family to scrap by is unfortunately, not off the mark.

Add other observation that there are so many single mothers (married or otherwise) looking after kids. And it's the gal's mom who help out looking after. Fathers in absentia?:(

Agreed, btw I find that single parenthood is quite prevalent in Thailand. Though as this is still very much Asian society , it's not quite out in the open evident for most to see or spot.

But this generalisation also depends on which social strata that most of us here in the forum , will know women. Though these issues here tend to be observed from gals of similar social strata from various asian countries too ( e.g. Vietnam , PRC, indonesia , Philippines)

[pussyman72]

even angmo kana these before.
I remember one angmo posted his experience in the net.
they only want $$$$

angmo sad to said been living in a fantasy world or should i said fantasy asia. they think asia woman are far better then their own angmo girls. why cos asia girls to them is the girls will take care husband, love them and give them attention blah blah blah. they feel more like a man.

lol sad to said singapore men are also sama sama in general.

i also hear alot n see alot of website where angmo confess that he got cheated by their girls. blah blah blah. just too bad i hear until sian.

just give u 1 example. Last apr i went to CNX to attend my bro wedding. on my way to Chiangrai. i transit to bkk b4 flying to CEI. i was in the airport waiting for my connectiing flight.

feeling hungry i went to have a bite. in the resturant i saw a cute thai young girl think should be ard 21 to 23 together with a old angmo about 50 plus. they are couple as we know.

hold hand, kiss n hug. they were eating there too. i was sitting opps them. i was looking at the girl n then she notice i have been looking at her. i smile back at her n she smile back.

what happen next. while the angmo not looking at her she turn to me n smile. we keep looking at each other till her siao aye notices it. she then pretend to take care of him, give him some voodoo spell lol n he ok liao.

then she bcome more tactful n slowly turn her head n smile again. then i hint her go out of the resturant go near the toilet so we can talk. u know what she really do that. she went to toilet n try to find me but cant find me cos i was at the sign board lol so cant see me. bo bian after that her siao aye come. then i lost my chance getting her no.

see many of this shit. u think the thai girl like angmo for what. they prefer young guy then old guy. most of them prefer $$$ then lj lol of course got lj better can song. but not all girls look $$ as important but we cannot said no $$$ mean forever together. only till the day u die then u said she with u forever.

one of my bud stay in thailand for 12 yrs told me story about angmo marry in his hometown. got cheated also. angmo hold 2 to 3 days wedding spend alot buying house n blah blah blah, later go back girl bring another guy come else bring her thai bf stay her house.

Just remember No Money No Honey. there is no fairly tale.................

[xilverzap]

then i hint her go out of the resturant go near the toilet so we can talk. u know what she really do that. she went to toilet n try to find me but cant find me cos i was at the sign board lol so cant see me. bo bian after that her siao aye come. then i lost my chance getting her no.

WA.. you got this kind of charm and you did not meet her at the toilet. Wa lau.. you ah.. si beh mei yo yong leh. You hide at the sign board for what?? You scared kena humtam by the old amg mo ah?? hahahahaha

Then never hear you say anything like tat at the wedding somemore. This kind of story must tell us mah.. Then we can laugh at you more.. hahahaha.. Kidding lah....

Anyway.. Marrying a Thai girl does have MANY MANY things that will entail and will eventually lead to either a very meaningful family life or very sad depressing life.. It all depends on YOU and THE GIRL. I do know of some happily married Singapore guys with their thai wives, now with children and all. And then again there are some who cant make it in the long run....

So.. to each his own when it comes to marrying a thai wife. No one can give you the best advice to do what is right or not. But only can wish all the best of luck when you decide to go into 1.

Xilver

[xilverzap]

Agreed, btw I find that single parenthood is quite prevalent in Thailand. Though as this is still very much Asian society , it's not quite out in the open evident for most to see or spot.

But this generalisation also depends on which social strata that most of us here in the forum , will know women. Though these issues here tend to be observed from gals of similar social strata from various asian countries too ( e.g. Vietnam , PRC, indonesia , Philippines)

I agree with you that single parenthood is quite prevalent in Thailand. Maybe its due to lack of education in some sense. They seem to have the "happy go lucky" attitude and the "romantic drama" feelings that they embrace so much.

Just look at the way they follow their everyday "la korn" (tv serials), a lot of emotions are involved for them that they forget that it is actually the REEL world and not the REAL world. So, they loosen up themselves and get pregnant by the "nice at first" thai men and ending up being dumped and alone in the end.

You are also correct to say that these applies mostly to these kind of social strata in all the countries you mentioned. Note that these countries' women are generally still in the "i must serve my husband" thinking.. There are others as well. Korea is also one although the country is more upper class.

Xilver

[xilverzap]

Culture shock cuts both ways. Generalisation of thai men as layabouts reliant on females in family to scrap by is unfortunately, not off the mark.

Add other observation that there are so many single mothers (married or otherwise) looking after kids. And it's the gal's mom who help out looking after. Fathers in absentia?:(

Yes, while I agree that culture shock cuts both ways. It is, however, WE that try and understand and adjust to this shock and try to accept it as much as we can. We dont generally see THEM doing the same. hahaha

On your other point, the fathers are not NOT around. But they was once another lazy thai man that became another lazy thai father?? Hahaha.. the cycle continues.....

Like pussyman said, they also have 50plus yr old WOMEN "lianging" 30plus yr old MAN.. You think leh? In the end, who suffer??? The girls and their potential walking "Automated Teller Machine". hahahahhaa

xilver

[xilverzap]

will a Thai wife ignore her husband's wishes to be a FL (again), in order to feed her family?
any advice to change her thinking, will having children help?

I dont think ANY women who are already married would want to go back to the trade la.. BUT if they do, it would not be out of choice.

Advice to change their thinking? Some people say a leopard will never change its spots... If they had been a FL before, then they KNOW it is the easiest and fastest way to get $$$.

Having children would not help but make the the issue worse, cos now not only family need $$$ but children also need $$$ to eat.. so how???


xilver

[xilverzap]

SOUND THAI MAI MEE KOON DEE!:mad:

Its not khon thai mai dee.. Its just that there are differences in the way they think and the way we think. Thats all.

We say it is NOT RIGHT and NO GOOD. They say it is Normal and a Necessity or a survival issue.

Generally, khon thais are still nice la.. just they have more NEEDS ($$$) then us and priorities are different from us. That's all.. :D

xilver

[FL Lover]

I agreed with some of the bros. Marrying a Thai ger is like betting on 4-D. Out of so many chances, you will only strike first prize once in a blue moon. Many of my friends got thai ger...started off with the girls asking to help them buy things and later moved on to helping them to send $$ back.... Got dumped by the gers when they cant afford to send any $$ or when they discovered their gers are seeing other mens behnid their back.

It is not a matter of sending enough $$. Their society (Thai) and culture is different from us. To them, it is natural for the guys to take CARE OF EVERYTHING which include $$ wise. To them, have fun first then suffer later is the norm. Also marrying a thai ger, you properly have to bear wtih the gossiping from yor friends, relatives and family. Our local impression about thai ger is very jiat lat. Most of the thai ger are in the flesh trade even for though working in office. They do part time in the night as well.

Of course I am not saying all thai gers are bad but to get a good catch... you must really have the lady luck and the commitment to maintain it provided your thai ger understand yout finanical status. You must be really to forget all her past. You must be willing to support her finanically.

Chances are there but are you willing to take the chance to try it out? If you are worried, moved on to a better one. Y stick to the thai ger and regret later and be a sad FxxKer.

FYI. I was once a sad fxxker but now I am happily married...for 6 yrs with my kids. Lucky for me, I made the right decisions at that pt.:p

[theUnforgotten]

Generally, khon thais are still nice la.. just they have more NEEDS ($$$) then us and priorities are different from us. That's all.. :D

xilver

Yes, But here in Sg too , they have needs too ( Prada , mango , River island) :)

But having a r/s with any woman anywhere has it's pitfalls ,it depends on managing one's expectations. Communication is key too ,One must draw the "lines" clearly, on what is acceptable or what is not.

To get good catch , also depends on self too . sometimes in thailand the reason why there's so many absent fathers, cos too many "temptations" abound

[pussyman72]

WA.. you got this kind of charm and you did not meet her at the toilet. Wa lau.. you ah.. si beh mei yo yong leh. You hide at the sign board for what??

Then never hear you say anything like tat at the wedding somemore.

wah piang u want me die early ah said this during wedding. my girl with me lei. that time the GL girl call me while my girl and i was in phayao driving to CNX.

My Dear already give me 1 kind of look liao. i had to siam her go toilet lei.... after that she not happy hor. had to said friend call....

i did tell u and snake ma. u forget liao u too happy liao lol

I do know of some happily married Singapore guys with their thai wives, now with children and all. And then again there are some who cant make it in the long run....

yup we know some happy married pple marrying thai. happy family. just have to said u heng or suay lar. if u choose wrong one then bo bian lor what to do. we never know whether we choose a good partner or bad partner else singaopore wont have so many divorce case liao..

No one can give you the best advice to do what is right or not. But only can wish all the best of luck when you decide to go into 1.

what we can share is experience and what we have seen or know some of the culture we share out to others. we are not pro or whatsoever hehehe cos we also into this :p

[pussyman72]

Advice to change their thinking? Some people say a leopard will never change its spots... If they had been a FL before, then they KNOW it is the easiest and fastest way to get $$$.

Having children would not help but make the the issue worse, cos now not only family need $$$ but children also need $$$ to eat.. so how???

If the woman really love u. she will really stop it. this i can only said it. even no matter how farkup the situation going to be both will do the best. she will avoid it at all cost to go back in the line.

I only can said No Woman wanna be a WL. who wanna get fark everyday by diff man. when they already have a man who really love them.

but saying that there are girls who love to sleep ard with many men. so we have to see it ourself and open our big bright eyes. not smart enough u fall into the pits. listen to their pityful stories n u fall into the pits again.

not tell u not to believe them but u had to open ur eyes, use our brain to think before deciding it and not just jump into the hole hoping there will be a rope there for u to climb up later.

For them really go back to work, i cant think of anything else beside $$$ but there is case they go back to work bcos husband who throw away their good paying job n run to thailand n stay with them. in the end eat shit there with his wife n kids till the wife got no choice had to go sell to feed both of them.

this story i believe many have hear b4 and 1 of it was posted here in sbf. it was 2007 news from Newpaper i think.

do we need to throw everything n later whole family had to suffer. i dont know this i will leave it to the individual to think.

only can said thai girl are very funny. To them money is important but then said again when they wanna marry u. they sometime rather marry u then having $$$. so very cham lol dont know what they want ^^ .

[pussyman72]

Chances are there but are you willing to take the chance to try it out? If you are worried, moved on to a better one. Y stick to the thai ger and regret later and be a sad FxxKer.

FYI. I was once a sad fxxker but now I am happily married...for 6 yrs with my kids. Lucky for me, I made the right decisions at that pt.:p

well i do agree with u. most of us who involve with a thai girl get blue black b4.

most of us use to be a sad fxxker. i too use to be a sad fxxker. but how many time is enough well it up to the individual again. :)

[xilverzap]

wah piang u want me die early ah said this during wedding. my girl with me lei.

Aiyo.. no need me teach you leh.. get number 1st then call later mah.. knn i go Bkk so many times and stuck there for transit.. also never got this kind of chance.. if not can quickie in toilet leow.. whahahahaha......

what we can share is experience and what we have seen or know some of the culture we share out to others. we are not pro or whatsoever hehehe cos we also into this :p
I also not pro.. but i think pussyman is quite pro and his experience is very good in this area leh.. he is my sifu for all things thailand. ;)

xilver

[xilverzap]

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this story i believe many have hear b4 and 1 of it was posted here in sbf. it was 2007 news from Newpaper i think..

Er... what is the story? I no read newspaper te. sorry. tonight kopi tell me la.
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do we need to throw everything n later whole family had to suffer. i dont know this i will leave it to the individual to think.

only can said thai girl are very funny. To them money is important but then said again when they wanna marry u. they sometime rather marry u then having $$$. so very cham lol dont know what they want ^^ .

I told my wife once and she will never forget. It was a time when there she demanded more time to be with her and thinks I love and stick to my job too much.. I told her this... LOVE cannot eat one. She remember that so well that now she understands why I need to work hard to get $$ for the family.

It all depends on individual how you handle your own situation la. No one person is right or wrong. Only can come here and kpkb then we learn a bit here and there, things that are right and wrong. Sharing experience I guess. But no matter what.. in the end.. YOU are the one that is going through your own life's decision. Blame no one.

These girls can be "trained" sometimes. Its just a matter of catching them at the right attitude and moment to slot in some of our own priorities and frastrations so that they will also learn to be able to love us better or even appreciate us a bit more.. (the latter is like strike toto big time la.. hahahha)

xilver

[rapebill]

only can said thai girl are very funny. To them money is important but then said again when they wanna marry u. they sometime rather marry u then having $$$. so very cham lol dont know what they want ^^ .

phom mai kao jai.
I mean I really don't understand. My ger quick leg quick hand married me and now threatened me that she go back to FL if I don't give money to build house for her family. I am prepared to give money to build the house (about S$30k in total I think) but I am not able and don't want to send all the money all at one time.

I told her that we can build the house slowly (mabbe S$1k monthly) but she refused to listen. Obviously, no one want their wiives to be a FL but if she really return to be a FL, then I know she don't really love me at all and I would have to forget all about her. The only thing is that I think I don't have this mental strength and also my heart would have bled to death by then.

[vmtech]

phom mai kao jai.
I mean I really don't understand. My ger quick leg quick hand married me and now threatened me that she go back to FL if I don't give money to build house for her family. I am prepared to give money to build the house (about S$30k in total I think) but I am not able and don't want to send all the money all at one time.

I told her that we can build the house slowly (mabbe S$1k monthly) but she refused to listen. Obviously, no one want their wiives to be a FL but if she really return to be a FL, then I know she don't really love me at all and I would have to forget all about her. The only thing is that I think I don't have this mental strength and also my heart would have bled to death by then.

if she can rather betray her body to make more money for luxury perposes, you should by now get ready to rid your feelings for her. A house is a luxury, not something every1 must have. Imagine this, if she quicklegquickhand, married someone local in her place, you think she will do the thing she do to you?

i suppose now you are married to her, i hope u have a pre-nuptial agreement or have your assets named to another person, like ur mom or something.

[pussyman72]

I also not pro.. but i think pussyman is quite pro and his experience is very good in this area leh.. he is my sifu for all things thailand. ;)

Wah u suan me ah nb. ok lor since i sifu buy from me things lei lol so u can send up kekekeke or u can come out 200k baht for school fees :p

[pussyman72]

phom mai kao jai.
I mean I really don't understand. My ger quick leg quick hand married me and now threatened me that she go back to FL if I don't give money to build house for her family. I am prepared to give money to build the house (about S$30k in total I think) but I am not able and don't want to send all the money all at one time.

I told her that we can build the house slowly (mabbe S$1k monthly) but she refused to listen. Obviously, no one want their wiives to be a FL but if she really return to be a FL, then I know she don't really love me at all and I would have to forget all about her. The only thing is that I think I don't have this mental strength and also my heart would have bled to death by then.

ur girl from where one. north or east? like my dear she stay in Chiangrai Thoeng. In Thoeng build a normal house cost about 200k to 300k baht. depend how big u wanna build.

200k to 300k baht is already pretty big house. a 600k baht house about 30k sgd is very big. can make 2 lvl liao. i supppose she have a big family there?

if threaten to go back to FL just bcos u no do house then what u can do right. u can love her but she dont even care about u then how. somemore married to u already.

Is she in sgp with u already then she should know how tough u are working to earn $$$. unless u been giving her alot of things. then she confirm ask for more.

[xilverzap]

Bro rapebill

Sorry to hear your problem. Why she quick leg quick hand marry you, I think is quite normal. Once these gals can latch on to a foreigner, I think they all wanna get out of the trade and be taken away to better pastures.

This is something you'd need to really sort out with your wife properly. She must know your financial situation. Unless you very rich i think its impossible for ANYONE to comeout with S$30k just like that. If she insist, it just shows how much she loves you.

House is a necessity BUT not a MUST HAVE. One still can live on a happy life without owning a house.

Good luck bro.

xilver