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old_turtle

03-10-2008, 10:13 AM

I am quite stuck in this situation whereby i ONS wif my wife best frd. I really need advise if i should stop or carry on.

bonk88

03-10-2008, 10:16 AM

bro, i think u should stop it...think twice before ur act...

Angel.Janus

03-10-2008, 10:30 AM

women talk... too close to home...

think with big head first, then little head... :D

JohnTT

03-10-2008, 10:52 AM

Continue the affair, my friend. Such lobang is hard to come by. Don't waste it.

Don't deceive yourself, you are enjoying it, right? :)

aczeta76

03-10-2008, 10:57 AM

Continue the affair, my friend. Such lobang is hard to come by. Don't waste it.

Don't deceive yourself, you are enjoying it, right? :)

ONS means one-nite... dun drag else you may have a domestic incident... (Look at the recent murders...)

Once attachment develops, women can be devils so never cheat or promise them something that you cannot give.

cablesnwires

03-10-2008, 11:06 AM

Two things that come to mind:

1. Never shit in your own garden.
2. The movie "Fatal Attraction" comes to mind.

The thrills are always there, I noe. But the after effects are something which many of us cannot handle.

Many many years ago, I have a chance to bonk my best friend's wife. This happened when she caught my best friend red handed. While trying to console her, she made her moves on me. I was not married then and I during that time I also admit that I like her a lot too. I was saying this to myself: Wow, a chance of a lifetime!

But when I start to think deeper, I stopped and told her this:

You are now most vunerable and you need to be loved and prove yourself and your hubby that someone still love me. I told her it will not be fair to the 3 of us if this happened and that you are dragging me into the picture. I admit that I do like you a lot, but the aftermath if this happened, nobody will be able to take it.

With that she sober up and was grateful to me. Therefore nothing happened... Fast forward to today, my best friend and I drifted apart after this incident, probably over this incident. However, we are still friends and I can still look right into his face without any guilt on my part.

You should stop, and depending on the situation, you may not be able to sweep this under the carpet. If that happened, and you still loves your wife, do the right thing and own up.

ramius

03-10-2008, 11:38 AM

few words i can say,

if you continue you might be screwed and

if you don't you might still be screwed either way you are screwed I learn my
lesson the hard way.

I was riding on 3 boats that time 1 was my gf, the other my best friend and another was her friend. Wow end up lost all 3 but gf still come back to me after much persuasion but it was never the same so end up broke off. Her friend we're still at it every now and then cause she enjoy my company according to her i really know how to make her feel like she is the best.

And my best friend heee we still at it sometimes but stop after she got a bf.

Seriously it may be fun and thrilling but think of the consequenses, but once you are in don't expect to get out easy. The best is don't get in at all.

bomarr

03-10-2008, 01:49 PM

I am quite stuck in this situation whereby i ONS wif my wife best frd. I really need advise if i should stop or carry on.

What advice u really need from us anyway?

Really pity your best friend what a best fiend he got for himself. Not only u r hurting him also yourself too. :rolleyes:

JohnTT

03-10-2008, 02:19 PM

Your subconsciousness already tell you to carry on, otherwise you would not have bonked her in the first place. You are actually looking for some assurance & encouragement here. :)

ANDYSIAO14

03-10-2008, 02:59 PM

Begining shiok la bro... ;)
later on...boh shiok...
ive had once done this shit and why i
said shit because
me and my best friend now become one big enemy liao..
lucky for me when i was
fucking his wife -he already filed for separation.... :cool:

This minah also fucked up la...horny like cock...not only my dick in her mouth but also her working friend's dick!!!
some more dare to get her frend to bang her also... ( i also happy but thinking of my best friend marriage on the rox...felt betrayed :mad: )

its a long story and no shiok la talking...

its your choice at the end of the day :p

slider_72

03-10-2008, 04:14 PM

errr... TS said he had a one-night stand with his wife's best friend. The replies seem to talk about having a one-night stand with your best friend's wife. A bit different right?

Anyway, to TS, you should avoid your wife's best friend like a plague from now on, unless of course you can persuade your wife to do a threesome. :D

goodfun

03-10-2008, 06:44 PM

better stop!he is your best friend and u bonk his wife :eek:

if she acts or behave funny towards u,better becareful,for me i seen my bros been through,the thrill is not worth trying :mad:

u want thrill go sian real time syt :D

ch18

03-10-2008, 10:50 PM

Feeling bad?
Then ask that gal's hubby to bonk your wife lah, break even mah...........

Mr Smith

04-10-2008, 02:01 AM

I am quite stuck in this situation whereby i ONS wif my wife best frd. I really need advise if i should stop or carry on.

>> ur wife best friend? since its ONS...why worry??:confused: takes two hands to clap anway..

uobboss

04-10-2008, 11:42 AM

End the ONS .
Unless u prefer the new swing to your current wife and divorce ur wife .
But be prepared for the financial and emotional drain through a divorce .
You can choose either one but cannot be both and live through the rest of your life with ur decision .

Think TS is feeling the swing is better than his wife and would like to continue exploring the option further . Am i right TS ?

hccheonger

04-10-2008, 02:22 PM

ONS means one night/ one time only.

Doing it again will do you no benefit in any near future. Women are very unpredictable. Its fun now but can be emotionally stressful later becos..... So stick to the ONS rule

rbro

05-10-2008, 10:41 PM

Dnt dump her directly, but make sure you get out of this ASAP. As some have written women talk, and they hold a grudge far more longer than guys can ever dream of. Just ease yourself out of this ONS. It is going to ruin you in the long run, ofcourse unless you think this new one is far better than ur wife and is worth the risk.

ilovelife.now

07-10-2008, 03:16 AM

What bro, ONS are always a mistake.. dont follow up with them please.. Leave it and go ahead with your gf/wife.

Pornfessor

07-10-2008, 03:13 PM

Ah Keong

07-10-2008, 05:45 PM

Bro

Guys can give up gals for career, Gals can give up career for Guys
Guys can put friends as piorty, Gals can give up friends for guys.
When a gal caught her guy fooling outside; it is easier for your wife to forgive you when there is a cash transaction involve rather than emotion.

Think more than twice because when this thing come into open, you have more to worry.

physician

08-10-2008, 11:41 PM

Well bro, you can't have the best of both world.

I'll not want to jeopardize my marriage for anything other things
Just my two cents worth!

WolfieY2k

09-10-2008, 09:21 PM

Dude, I advise you to stop it if you value your friendship. Long ago, one of my homies (we from small play till big 2gether, go chap pai kia 2gether etc etc), fucked a girl of mine.

The next day... i got people to beat the shit out of him, outside my poly front gate, he still can call my handphone, ask me come out help him say he kenna whack need diao zui... He didn know then is me call people to do him....

However, few year down the road, we have another big quarrel, and another of my buddy accidentally tell him, is call ppl whack him that time... now, he no more my bro... more like dog.... everytime come crawling back only....

Seriously, I hope for your sake, your friend dont ever find out, remember, a man ego is very big, break it, even friendship of long time will break...

unsung80

09-10-2008, 09:32 PM

I smell Indonesia fire coming liao. Time to jump ship you know. ONS with your wife best frd. U better camo everything properly.

Sorry i can't give u any good advise. Good luck friend. :o

Chanelfingers

10-10-2008, 12:17 AM

Stop la, dun play with wife's friends...
too dangerous,
One sweet day, she felt remorse + guilt then dat's it! man.
We girls still can "pak see mai jinn" = "Die die dun admit"
IF/When bf ask if i bed his best friend? cus he heard rumours
I just need to say " huh! Siao ah? he likes me, I dun like him." + a WTF face
But for someone with dick, it is not so easy lei especially to convince suspicious creatures like woman.

glooper83

10-10-2008, 06:48 PM

scott999

10-10-2008, 07:22 PM

I am quite stuck in this situation whereby i ONS wif my wife best frd. I really need advise if i should stop or carry on.

Life must be very bored for you right? :D
That why you have chosen such a challenge...

Cant really provide any good advice as you have already done the deed.
Now all you can do it pray, wait and see.

upmountain

11-10-2008, 04:31 AM

Lecture on ONS

Treat ONS similar to WL/FL's F&F rule.

Never step too deep as the person involved shares a close relationship with your wife.

The reason you won't introduce an FL to your wife is because you are afraid she "bao tor" you right? Same goes for your wife best friend. :)

Hi bro

I would have to disagree with you on this. I think an ONS with your wife's best friend and getting involved (physically only) with a WL are actually quite different. IMHO, an ONS with wife's best friend must somehow or other, involve some kind of emotional feeling between the two parties (either at the point of ONS or after the ONS).

I mean, ask yourself: Why would your wife's best friend jeopardize her friendship with your wife, for the sake of you? Surely she is not stupid: She knows that if found out both you and her will stand to lose alot (is the best friend married?). But the point is that all involved will lose some way or other.

WLs on the other hand, will not lose anything when you pay to bonk them...i mean, WLs don't really care whether your wife finds out that you patronise them or not what. Even if you kenna KC trap by a WL and she want to blackmail you or whatever, she does not lose anything at all. You are the only one who loses here.

So there can be a few conclusions:

1.) Your wife's best friend is just horny and to put it bluntly, a slut.

2.) Your wife's best friend has feelings for you and by risking an ONS and
its consequences, these feelings are very strong. Strong enough to
possibly lose her friendship with your wife, be labelled a homewrecker
by family and friends etc.

If its conclusion number 1, you are lucky in a way. Lucky because there is a higher chance for you to distance yourself from this fling and hopefully, she will move on the another guy and all will be forgotten. Best case, wife will never know. BUT EVEN THEN, NO GUARANTEE. F&F THIS KIND OF ONS IS ALSO VERY DIFFICULT. Imagine seeing her around your wife when you all meet up for dinner or whatever? With WLs you can don't patronise them again...but in this case, how not to see your wife's best friend again?

If its conclusion number 2, obviously things are much harder. Things are already complicated in this state. Not impossible to get out of it, but if you are foolish enough to continue the affair, sooner or later, everything will be revealed (either wife find out herself, or the emotional relationship between you and the best friend will eventually betray the secret of the affair).

IMHO, for your wife's best friend to risk so much, is a strong signal of conclusion 2. of course i may be wrong but whatever the case, F&F theory with WL is very very very different to an ONS with wife's best friend because more often than not, there are feelings involved.

porscheclub

12-10-2008, 06:05 PM

To TS, stop it.

Erase your "hardisk" & that gal's as well. Once women get attached, you are screwed big time & she's your wife's best friend. They talk & they get jealous.

I was once tempted into the same situation. This best friend is 5yrs younger, single, pretty, sexy & quite a nympho (cos wife shares her relationships with me). Worst of all, I know she's still trying to flirt me.

In the end, I sobered up & rather pay WLs or a gal that doesn't know your family & where you stay. It's just not worth it.

upmountain

12-10-2008, 07:13 PM

In the end, I sobered up & rather pay WLs or a gal that doesn't know your family & where you stay. It's just not worth it.

Agreed. Between patronising a WL and getting physically (and IMHO, ultimately it will be emotionally) involved with someone like your wife's best friend, i think we all know which is the lesser of the two evils.

slider_72

14-10-2008, 04:48 PM

Agreed. Between patronising a WL and getting physically (and IMHO, ultimately it will be emotionally) involved with someone like your wife's best friend, i think we all know which is the lesser of the two evils.

True, rationally we all know which is the lesser of the two evils. However, for some people, getting a commercial bonk with no strings attached, is no longer interesting. That is why some people start preying on the singers at the HFJs or the non-WLs. Its the thrill of the kill.

For me, the WLs in Geylang no longer appeal to me. Between going to Geylang and picking a street walker off the street or staying home and sleep, I think I might choose the latter. The problem here is the adrenaline rush when a guy gets to score with someone other than a WL.

The TS definitely knows in his head that he should not continue with the ONS but the excitement of it all is causing him to look for an excuse to continue with his tryst. Perhaps he is hoping for the bros here to encourage him to continue with his wife's best friend?

geckoSG

14-10-2008, 05:34 PM

It all depends people. Depends on how TS and that lady makes the deal of
this.

If they can agree on being discreet and only for SEXUAL enjoyment, why
not, no emotional attachment.

None loses anything, just how each control themselves and where. If they
took risks and hold hands at common area where they are not suppose to be.
Of cos, they risks being spotted.

BooBGuY

14-10-2008, 06:19 PM

From a personal point of view, I think you should end this relationship. Like what some bros here say, its a 'ONE NIGHT STAND'. Worst still, it's your wife's best frd. Imagine if yr wife had a ONS with your best friend and she still continues to have the relationship with him. Would you like it? I wouldn't... Best advise is to End It! :o

siopu99

15-10-2008, 12:41 AM

Bro TS,

Fucking your wife's best friend is like shitting where you eat.... too close for comfort...

End it lah.... end it before someone gets hurt. ONS can get elsewhere one.. in BKK disco, BKK foodcourt, in KL disco, JB disco, SG disco... anywhere!

In my opinion, if you need to eat or keep a mistress, eat or keep one that is far away in another land and make sure that she doesn't know your wife. That way, you can eat as much as you want without worrying about the stench getting into your wife's nose or ears.

Erasure

15-10-2008, 02:50 AM

Had this chance to bonk my good friend when she was having serious problems with her husband....filing for separation....but I think twice even though she is damn hot....why...not because of her husband...but because of her kids...she got 3 young kids....I dun wana buy one get three free in a package....Singapore so expensive, supporting the woman alone liao can die. ;)

pewpew

15-10-2008, 09:48 AM

she got 3 young kids....I dun wana buy one get three free in a package....Singapore so expensive, supporting the woman alone liao can die. ;)

Glad you think twice before doing something foolish...

Word of Advise to All ONS Bros

USE YOU BIG HEAD TO THINK BEFORE LETTING YOUR SMALL HEAD TO ACTION

Thats what control me when i hang out previously with my gf and her friends...

0939

15-10-2008, 05:34 PM

TS have not reply to any bros. Bros still giving advices. Maybe he is jialat liao.
Caught by his wife. MIA ..hee hee hee

onimusha76

15-10-2008, 10:14 PM

well. bro. .. i must say u r a lucky man.. now.. but not forever.
Always bears this in mind, that women are beautiful creatures..

when they end up ruthless,, OMG,, u never know wtf they might do to get revenge..

i got a gd friend also got this ONS with with her colleage.. at first its like haven,, thats wat he told me.. when things turn nasty..... they are like black widow spider.. poison here poison there.. confront my friend's wife and told her abt they are affairs.. in the end,,, end up lawyer sign paper.. pls think again,,:)

ChinaFriends67

20-10-2008, 02:11 AM

I am quite stuck in this situation whereby i ONS wif my wife best frd.

Bro TS, first of all yr ONS knows whom is she fxxking with. If she can give in that means it's an emotional thingy. After all who says woman don't need it.

Nevertheless, I think u should wait n see first. Well, if she gives signal why not. Otherwise, STOP all activities.

Just my 2 cents worth of concern!!!:D

henrykissinger

20-10-2008, 11:29 AM

Bro TS,

Let me put it this way for you

1) Your wife's definitely knows who you are, so there is no danger of her spilling the beans on you

2) The most dangerous place is the safest place, so I think your risk of being found out are strangely mitigated by the fact.

3) You are enjoying it. That is the most important thing. Obiviously, there is something that your wife's best friend is able to provide you that your wife is not able to.

4) You only live once, so make the most of it.

So to sum it up, if I were you, I would continue doing it, and not only that, maybe have more fun. The main thing is about management.

1) Managing your wife's best friend's expectations
2) Managing your wife confidence of yourself.

superman69

20-10-2008, 11:51 AM

bro, whoever she whether is wife frd or sister in law should stop all this activities. I was caught when I'm with my SIL, nearly get breakup, promised evrything like not attending her family activity then she agreed to let me go.
It's hard time. So my advise is give up. Pay $40 and get it done.

0939

21-10-2008, 07:54 PM

Fucking your wife's best friend is like fucking raw with a prostitute.
You do not know what wiil be the outcome until the truth surface.

s(Aint

23-10-2008, 12:03 AM

Since you did it obviously you think its okay to cheat on your wife. So.. i guess that part is settled.

Now all you need to do is ask yourself - How much does your marriage mean to you?

If you can give it up anytime, then carry on ONS with her buddies lol.. if not, then better stop. You can try to come clean with her if you think she can handle it. If not then better shut up and pray her best friend will never say anything, EVER. But since its done, .. you will worry about her best friend spilling the beans .. for the rest of your life.

geylang better la. pay and go. no hassle no fuss.

old_yet_horny

23-10-2008, 03:15 PM

I dun know why are there people who can F their wife's best friend or even friends...:confused: Simply playing with fire...

Go find FL kena caught still got chance to get pardoned.. But screwing around with OC's friend=death sentence...

If any bros who got such death snetence but manage to appeal sucessfully... Damn sure they are living in misery.machiam life imprisonment like that..:(

trance

23-10-2008, 03:25 PM

The world is round, what goes around comes back to its originally state in the end. A wise man will always think twice before acting on impluse, is never too late to salvage the situation.

unsung80

04-11-2008, 12:16 PM

Sigh human being must always feel the pain and grief then will regret what they had done. :(

The Landlord

04-11-2008, 03:41 PM

Dear TS

You may find the thrill there but don't burn your backside. It just not worth it.

LOVE your wife... or just pay and forget...:)

asdfghjkl

23-11-2008, 12:14 PM

Fucking your wife's best friend is like fucking raw with a prostitute.

good quote! learn an important thing today.. :)

Lenova

29-11-2008, 12:01 PM

It all depends people. Depends on how TS and that lady makes the deal of this.

If they can agree on being discreet and only for SEXUAL enjoyment, why
not, no emotional attachment.

Wow bro u very bold in your approach :cool:

Stud00

30-11-2008, 12:30 AM

Bro.. suggest not to eat n shit in the same room.
not wise!
:p

Viet_Cong

30-11-2008, 01:59 PM

Wah liew, one night already bad enough still want to carry on.....

caifan87

30-11-2008, 08:43 PM

I don't agree abt f-ing friend's gf, let alone wife. Don't agree with normal friend already, let alone best friend. Wonder how TS define best friend? Than I better stay away fr him.

Oceanlee

01-12-2008, 05:59 PM

It all depends people. Depends on how TS and that lady makes the deal of this.

Any deal may sound too perfect, especially when you are "HOOK"

If they can agree on being discreet and only for SEXUAL enjoyment, why
not, no emotional attachment.

NO EXTRA affairs can ultimately escape from emotional attached ... as time goes by and demand growth along. It will be either U or HER.

None loses anything, just how each control themselves and where. If they
took risks and hold hands at common area where they are not suppose to be.
Of cos, they risks being spotted.

In the FIRST place ... the control is not even there, so come along will be just fluctuation of emotion, lust, demand, love and hatred. ;)

Dun watch too many drama plays or fantasy too much .. thosee are mostly novels and feed into your own thinking. :D