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Originally Posted by Gesch
This statement is highly disturbing! It gives the impression that since we cheong we shouldn't be scared of anything...
The truth is we cheong but we are still scared. Therefore we take only CALCULATED RISKS. For example BBBJ is far far less risky than raw. So raw is a big no-no while BBBJ I would say is calculated risk...
What's important is to find a balance point, whereby the risk is very low while the pleasure level is reasonably high  |
aiya ... somehow i find that SBF has really changed over the years ... the forummers nowadays not as easy going or cheong savvy as last time. maybe when we did trial and error cheonging we were better prepared or HELL ... maybe even the sex education we had in secondary school did a better job back then.
last time wanna get commercial sex must really know where to go and what to do ... now with SBF, commercial sex is rampant and even easily available to idiots who should not be cheonging in the 1st place. If u engage in commercial sex and not even know the risks u are taking or the measures u should be taking to protect urself, u shouldn't even be doing it ... IMHO.
like i said before la ... scared here refers to being overly worried about every little thing ...
just make sure u do what u gotta do and do the right thing ... not worry bout whether the guy before u clean or not, or whether the gal got any risky encounters in the god knows how many months she's been working, or did she go to a private clinic for a jab before her monthly checkup just so she would be ensured a clean bill of health or is she really clean (yes, this is common practice in some of the legal houses ... something like an in-house rule for their gals)
wanna cheong dun scared, wanna scared dun cheong ... simply means to worry about the things u can control and not about others that are totally beyond your control ... this statement used to be understood easily back when SBF first started out ... but i guess either the forum is populated with nit pickers or noobs who shouldn't be fucking commercially or i'm just getting old and out of touch with the cheongsters these days.
Honestly I feel kinda sad seeing the replies coming in ... but whatever ya, to each his own.