my case is different.
After wife gave birth, and we stop for 2 years. cos she seem discomfort and i assume she don want it. so i DIY all these years.
One day, she talk to me. She asked if i eat outside/cheating, cos i dint touch her for 2 coming 3 years. After a long discuss, she told me her sex drive gain alot as age increase. She was in 39s now.
After that day of long communication, we started to more open, we brought alot sexy lingerie/nightgown/cosplay/pantyhose to increase our sexperience, sometime we fucked in bedroom door openly while my daughter was outside watching tv, sometime balcony/kitchen. she is damn wet
She start to wear sexy dress/ bra top with pad without wearing bra. sometime she went to try some new cloth when shopping, i will wait outside fitting room and wait for her show. we will purposely try those thin cloth so that she can show me pointing nipple and sexy panties. (but still i not dare to fuck her inside as i wan to take care my daughter outside. )
other than tat, She also following those girl KOL who talk sex, and shared with me how to fuck her so that she can feel more deeper.
i feel like i got a new wife after the conversation. Her sexy drive high til i have to stop her. she said she can fuck everyday if i can hold it. I told her maybe of my age, i only happen to fuck every week. i have to brought those tiger coffee to maintain my performance. damn..
I think husband and wife should really talk about sex and desire. Don't scared kena judged or what, just talk first. If can fix without eating out then fix. If not eat out already no turning back.
I think for couples who had reached a certain age when stamina is an issue, can always try sex toys to make the session longer and match each other's desire.
my case is different.
After wife gave birth, and we stop for 2 years. cos she seem discomfort and i assume she don want it. so i DIY all these years.
One day, she talk to me. She asked if i eat outside/cheating, cos i dint touch her for 2 coming 3 years. After a long discuss, she told me her sex drive gain alot as age increase. She was in 39s now.
After that day of long communication, we started to more open, we brought alot sexy lingerie/nightgown/cosplay/pantyhose to increase our sexperience, sometime we fucked in bedroom door openly while my daughter was outside watching tv, sometime balcony/kitchen. she is damn wet
She start to wear sexy dress/ bra top with pad without wearing bra. sometime she went to try some new cloth when shopping, i will wait outside fitting room and wait for her show. we will purposely try those thin cloth so that she can show me pointing nipple and sexy panties. (but still i not dare to fuck her inside as i wan to take care my daughter outside. )
other than tat, She also following those girl KOL who talk sex, and shared with me how to fuck her so that she can feel more deeper.
i feel like i got a new wife after the conversation. Her sexy drive high til i have to stop her. she said she can fuck everyday if i can hold it. I told her maybe of my age, i only happen to fuck every week. i have to brought those tiger coffee to maintain my performance. damn..
You good liao... mine totally lose interest in sex after difficult pregnancy, so just DIY liao.
Is it normal? I can only have sex with wife once every 2 months....any bros can share...thx..
I can't DIY. Once I DIY, I can't cum when I meet my girls. So, I eat outside (or inside when the part time maid fucks me at home while they're out) but I can't DIY.
After some diy time, my wife starts to initiate and also accept my initiation as well.
I realised one thing and it is the energy level of the wife that dictates if we have sex or not.
So these days I coaxed her to go to bed early and we usually will have some time in the morning to have morning sex or foreplay (HJ or BJ).
So I sum it up as her energy level can easily used up ( household , children, work, TV, phone etc) so it is easier in the morning when she is feeling all energized and happy before the day starts and ruin her mood or energy level.
my wife past 40s already menopause, women past 40s are expired already. I try to initiate sex and she kick me away. Now I only fantasize on my friend Wilson Tan's young big neneh wife.