Need Help On How To Make My Wife Sexually Active?

[(o)(o) Tuner]

Me and my wife have sex at least twice a week. She does everything for me. Almost everything you can see in a porn movie, like suck and gagging on a cock, deepthroating, cof, cim, swallow & fucking in many hardcore positions. Overtime, she has learned how to fuck like one of those sluts in a porn movie.

She loves cock sucking and swallowing my cum in every love making session. At times when we can't have sex due to her period, she would just pull down my pants and suck my cock just to get a dossage of my cum. Sometimes she would do this in the middle of the night when I was deep asleep. I really felt piss off at times, but wat to do? I have to give in to satisfy her cravings. Sometimes I wonder did I over educate her on sex? Till she became so wild and daring (to swallow my cum).

We have done so many to enhance our sexual life. From using sex toys to role playings like nurse, maid, policewoman...etc. It has become so routine for us, so much so that we are beginning to feel bored of our sexual life. So at times after the children gone to bed, we would often discuss how and wat can we do more to enhance our sex life. We also talk about 3somes, but we knew that's highly impossible. Afterall, we are still chinese oriented, unlike the westerners. So we are going to try bdsm / bondage, and that's gonna bring us to another level.

Now look, interactions are very important. Try open talks with your partner and share wat's your like and dislike. I think it's important path to maintain a good husband and wife relationship.

[Anel King]

Hi Brothers & Sisters of SBF

Sorry for the long disappearance. 1st went for reservist.

Then went to KOH SAMUI with My WIFE only.

Update on situation.

Mission Sexcesfull

The alone time I spent with my wife was worth the money spent. (Private pool villa was a little ex, but worth it.)

We managed to rekindle our love. But what made me happy was we had sex almost everytime we were in the villa.

Best part, she initiated most of the time. (What more can a horny husband ask for?)

The minute we enter the villa, we would strip naked and walk around in doors and out doors.(Really private and safe) Sex On the bed, In the open air Shower & in the pool. Skinny dipping in the pool also and shower together.

And we also managed to resolve most of our problems and come to a compromise on many issues including sex.

Main reason did not want sex was becoz she was drained out from caring for the kids. (Now resolved.)

So i told her, all i need is minimum foreplay and release 2-3 times a week & Full course once a week.

That is what i have been getting since we came back. becoming a very happy man now. Most of the time we just cuddle naked and i will suck and finger her while she suck and HJ me. I happy already.

Lesson learnt is,

1.Try to force and alone time between you and your spouse. Preferably at a private resort with private pool and open air shower. the romance will automatically come and you will start to fall in love all over again. The work things out with your spouse. (I can tell you, this worked for me. But one mans cure, is another mans demise)

2.Till the above happens, try not to eat outside. Give yourself a time frame of at least a year before eating out. because once you start to eat outside, you will have no motivation to eat inside. (No disrespect to brothers and sisters who are already eating outside)

I was on the verge of eating out, but feel happy thing worked out. I pray this is will be for ever. You never know if things change again.

So brothers and sisters, keep trying to get your spouse to have sex with you.

Regards
Anel King

[mvmhjki6]

Hey bro anel king, care to share which villa is that. Scared to book those villa without any recommendation le. Yours sound good.

[tomvoyeur]

Originally Posted by Anel King

So brothers and sisters, keep trying to get your spouse to have sex with you

Try innovative ideas and think out of the box, bros n sis.

[taegukgi]

Originally Posted by Anel King

Bro

Hopefully I don't end up like you, but I sympathize with you as I know what you are going through.

But seriously 3 years is too long liow. I think would ended up in GL or HC already if i was you.

But hang in there bro if you can.

Regards
Anel King

Good news is I know people that endure more than 3 years, bad news is; I know more and more people having this problem

[psp100]

this is fact of life. Most women after married will be like that

[darylcch]

Originally Posted by mvmhjki6

Hey bro anel king, care to share which villa is that. Scared to book those villa without any recommendation le. Yours sound good.

Really envy all here...my wife list her sex drive more than a yr ago.
how i talk to her, try my best to please her, buy toys, nothing helps..
so till now..i am still DIY....

[mr chen]

Sorry for asking, after giving birth, most ladies will balloon in weight... Do bros here still find their wives appealing. If not, what step or advice do bros give their other half?

[Anel King]

Originally Posted by tomvoyeur

Try innovative ideas and think out of the box, bros n sis.

Yes bro
I agree.

I bought the sex dice along. was worth it. damn shiok.

Regards
Anel King

[Anel King]

Originally Posted by darylcch

Really envy all here...my wife list her sex drive more than a yr ago.
how i talk to her, try my best to please her, buy toys, nothing helps..
so till now..i am still DIY....

Hi Bro

Maybe try going away for the weekend alone like i did. You wont know the outcum till you try some thing.

Wish you the best.

Regards
Anel King

[Anel King]

Originally Posted by mr chen

Sorry for asking, after giving birth, most ladies will balloon in weight... Do bros here still find their wives appealing. If not, what step or advice do bros give their other half?

Bro

Depends from woman to woman. some can loose weight immediately and go back to original.
Some take a bit extra time loose.
While some cannot loose abit or alot.

Advice, if you and her go for walks daily, will definitely help. also help in communication.

Regards
Anel King

[mr chen]

@Anel King, thanks for suggestion.

[darylcch]

had tried before...she keep saying i everytime thinking of sex...
but ...i am guy wat...ai...

[samyboys]

most woman is cold towards sex

[darylcch]

should we just take it?