How I got cheated by KTV girl

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by waypastprime

I'm just stating my stand on anyone who thinks they might stand a chance in earning big bucks w/o considering their very own assets.

I'm speaking with reference to whether we should be sympathetic to those CMIs, and not just PRCs. Do u read it properly or not?

Wo pa pa, your statement, "We shouldnt mix empathy with sympathy. I can empathize them but I would rather show my sympathy towards those at third world countries. They definitely worth a thousand times more than the PRCs."

The statement above, u r making an unfair statement, y should u only sympathy 3rd world countries n not PRC?? Aren't u pointing finger on these PRC WL?? Given an opportunity, these 3rd world countries gers, they will want to work as WL to earn fast cash.

[waypastprime]

Originally Posted by naemlo

The statement above, u r making an unfair statement, y should u only sympathy 3rd world countries n not PRC?? Aren't u pointing finger on these PRC WL?? Given an opportunity, these 3rd world countries gers, they will want to work as WL to earn fast cash.

This thread is talking about PRCs lah. Then u want me to talk about Viets huh?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by waypastprime

This thread is talking about PRCs lah. Then u want me to talk about Viets huh?

No, I want u to talk abt dot net,

[waypastprime]

Originally Posted by naemlo

No, I want u to talk abt dot net,

Nabei! When's my China trip huh?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by waypastprime

Nabei! When's my China trip huh?

Up to u... waiting for u...

[MachoDevilX]

Originally Posted by bohya

After reading many of the posts here, makes me wonder the words and wisdom of the PRCs and would like to hear advice from all the veteran bros... I too had a PRC Ktv gerfriend recently and during the times when she was working in the KTV, she told me she never bonk with other guys as she said thats the only dignity she has left.... when shes out with other guys, she said is juz for makan supper. Many many times while with her, we also never bonk.. juz hanky panky till the day she was caught in the recent raids, met up, had a nice chat, and led on to 81.. but only manage 1/2 a bonk..... all and all, spend some fortune on her and juz before she went back, advise her not to go back the old trade, and told her to study instead... thinking of sponsor her to study in China...
So bros out there, do u think i should trust her as pure as she claim and sponsor her to study?

I think most importantly is to trust your heart. Listen to what your heart tells you... But of course must be up to your limit... DOn't spend a huge amount on her which will affect your daily life... Just do what you can afford up to a certain extend....

But as for feelings, best is keep it within yourself. Of course you can "donate" some feelings to her but got to know how to control... I think it applies to all relationships regardless of whether they are WLs or not...

[awakening]

Dear All.

Thank you for all the kind words. I have only just logged on to the computer & there are just too many posts to reply in detail.

However, to people like machodevilx, I have not told you the full story.

When I started giving her the money, she would tell me things like she love me & I am her boyfriend, the other men are just business & I should give her time. I believed her. Yes, I am stupid to believe her. Although we quarrelled many times over other men & she not doing enough for us, we always patch up & I always eat humble pie & go back to her.

So this is not a one-sided relationship & I never force her to do anything she does not want. Furthermore, although I could not provide for her financially 100%, as a boyfriend, I am always there for her. When she is sick, I bring her to see doctor, when she wants to go anywhere or do anything, I bring her. When she wants to buy anything, provided its not expensive like handphone or air-ticket, I pay & slowly pay the bill by credit card on instalments. Stupid right? When she quarrel with her friends or unhappy at work, I would lend a listening ear.

I feel I have done alot for her but please note I did not expect much from her. Even when she wants to meet or fuck, sometimes I would tell her no need, her work is more important. She go to work first & I wait for her at home or she may be too tired. When I read in papers, that there is a raid, I will call her up or try to pick her up. What more she wants from me as a boyfriend?

If money is the most important thing to her, she should make it clear. But she told me those lies so that I would continue to pay her, then she is cheating me!

[awakening]

Originally Posted by naemlo

First of all, remember this famous quote, "it takes 2 to clap". Just my personal view, y we as human being always put blame on others??? Recently, a lot of postings, saying kena cheated by PRC. Hmmm I thought,all these r agreed willing game between the prey n victim?? If u r unwilling, no one force u n if willing n got cheated then take it another lesson which u can't get it in school. Not all gers r bad, just that u r unlucky to meet this ger. Anyway it's good to post all these shits in the forum, to remind everyone. In the context of WL, as the boss always say, "I thought it is pay n fuck transaction?"

I pay her willingly. She never put a gun to my head. But if I know she is lying or she is this type of character, I would not want her for my girlfriend & I would never pay her.

[awakening]

Originally Posted by bohya

After reading many of the posts here, makes me wonder the words and wisdom of the PRCs and would like to hear advice from all the veteran bros... I too had a PRC Ktv gerfriend recently and during the times when she was working in the KTV, she told me she never bonk with other guys as she said thats the only dignity she has left.... when shes out with other guys, she said is juz for makan supper. Many many times while with her, we also never bonk.. juz hanky panky till the day she was caught in the recent raids, met up, had a nice chat, and led on to 81.. but only manage 1/2 a bonk..... all and all, spend some fortune on her and juz before she went back, advise her not to go back the old trade, and told her to study instead... thinking of sponsor her to study in China...
So bros out there, do u think i should trust her as pure as she claim and sponsor her to study?

I do not know who is your girlfriend. But all the KTV girls I know fuck for money, including those who said they only do with their boyfriends.

My ex-girlfriend told me the same thing but I knew all along she do it. If not, which man would give her handphone, computer, money, branded goods? Somemore, I only knew her after fucking her. After that, she keeps condoms at home. If she fucks me, she will fuck other men.

[V|ernar]

My ex-girlfriend told me the same thing but I knew all along she do it. If not, which man would give her handphone, computer, money, branded goods? Somemore, I only knew her after fucking her. After that, she keeps condoms at home. If she fucks me, she will fuck other men

congrats , so you awake liao?

Yun , V|erNar

[yoshi00]

initially...i din wanna hv anything to do with all these ktv gals one...if she got say anything abt money ...i cfm disappear one...i have seen and heard enuff of their tricks...until now i still believe she's a nice and simple gal...basically i got nothing much for her to cheat also even she wanna fang chang xian tiao da yu...this fact , she noe also...but she still wanna hang out with me and even until now still got sms me from china...i really dunno wat she thinking....i rather she disappear frm my life completely..if not...mei wan mei liao...i believe she treats me as a fren..maybe i was the one who had too much hopes in the 1st place...anyway she wont be coming bac to sg in the near future...hopefully time can heal the wound...

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by awakening

Dear All.


When I started giving her the money, she would tell me things like she love me & I am her boyfriend, the other men are just business & I should give her time. I believed her.

if u provide for her liao, u should stop her from working, tat is the opp for her to mit the 'next betta player'... i saw a lot of cases whereby the bf allows their gals to work at KTV, while simultaneously supporting her, and the final outcome is both of them go seperate ways in the end. if she view work more impt than u, u should hv noe this gal is not worthwhile at all and if u choose to work , the smart thing to do is to cut off all financial support to her, jus bear in mind 'life is pratical, if u wan my money, u hv to do my way'....

[yoshi00]

initially...i din wanna hv anything to do with all these ktv gals one...if she got say anything abt money ...i cfm disappear one...i have seen and heard enuff of their tricks...until now i still believe she's a nice and simple gal..maybe she got hide things from me la..eg. got bf......i understand this cos i also a stranger to her mah...somemore noe in ktv one....she noe i got nothing much for her to cheat also even she wanna fang chang xian tiao da yu....but dunno why she still wanna hang out with me and even until now still got sms me from china...the most amazing thing is we nv mention the shit that happened at her place that day....why a person's attitude can change so drastically?shit..i really dunno wat she thinking...wat should i do? break contact with her? sigh...really cant bring myself to do it...anyway she wont be coming bac to sg in the near future...i rather she disappear frm my life completely..if not...mei wan mei liao...i believe she really treats me as a fren..guess i was the one who had too much hopes in the 1st place...and i sorta became very sticky...

although i nv kanna cheated any $$..i still feel like shit now..this is to let u all noe even if the gal not after ur $$...she still can hurt u in many other ways...
if can turn bac time, i rather not noe her in the 1st place...thats why i say dun even start anything with them...wat are the chances of meeting a really good one? almost zero i believe...even let u meet a really tok #### one...u tink got future with them meh? even got ...also must overcome many obstacles...so really no pt....

i din wanna share all these in the 1st place but i realised recently alot of brudders have fallen into their prey...so i tot sharing my experience might be helpful...

*sorry for repeating this post...the previous one i nv type finish

[bohya]

Originally Posted by yoshi00

i din wanna share all these in the 1st place but i realised recently alot of brudders have fallen into their prey...so i tot sharing my experience might be helpful...

Haha... somehow or rather... our SBF doubles up as Aunt Agony Column? guess not too bad at all huh? But yeah, is true, after hearing so many bros, even those experienced ones also fallen into their prey. wondering how many really get true love from these PRCs?

[orangeox]

Originally Posted by yoshi00

..my heart break on the spot........................................ so pple....my advise is dun even start anything with a prc gal....u really dunno wat the hell they thinking one...

Bro,

It's Chicken also Human..........PRC(Come SG Tan Jiak) Either need your TIME.......or your $$$$$.

Seems to me she might had a soft sopt for you......BUT REMEMBER...she out to Tan Jiak.............

IMHO.......she realised that very last few weeks she came back to SG...She Had to Tan Jiak.....

If you cannot accept the Fact..then Leave her....She will call U...Ingore Her........She will see U when she in SG again......Siam Her.

If you Think U are not able to accept the Fact she has to Make a living by SLEEPING with other MAN...DO THE ABOVE...Trust Me. She will do the above if she has a soft spot for you.

Be STRONG....remember 3Fs......Friend+Fuck+Forget.

Hope u don't mind my frank post.

Cheers