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Old 18-11-2014, 06:23 PM
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Re: divorced women/widow will be alone

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Once a woman with kids is divorced or widowed. She probably has to resign to a fate of being alone whole life. Regardless of how good looking she is, there is no difference. Good looks just attract men who are interested in FB n ONS with her thats all. Its close to zero chance a man would want to assume the responsibility of a step father. And the path to get the kids to accept him as father will be full of obstacles. And his family? Will they accept a divorcee with kids as part of their family?
Of course in life there are always a few lucky ones who can find love again. Majority don't. You won't know how many of such women around as most are silent and go about raising their kids and accepting their fate.
I guess it's pretty sad to learn that a guy only gets intimate with you for your body and not because he wants to be closer to you. Maybe it's still possible that someone in the same situation understands you? All the best, I'm sure there's someone who wouldnt mind that fact
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Old 18-11-2014, 11:02 PM
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Once a woman with kids is divorced or widowed. She probably has to resign to a fate of being alone whole life. Regardless of how good looking she is, there is no difference. Good looks just attract men who are interested in FB n ONS with her thats all. Its close to zero chance a man would want to assume the responsibility of a step father. And the path to get the kids to accept him as father will be full of obstacles. And his family? Will they accept a divorcee with kids as part of their family?
Of course in life there are always a few lucky ones who can find love again. Majority don't. You won't know how many of such women around as most are silent and go about raising their kids and accepting their fate.
They should thanks their women charter. It may not be surprise if more women are more than willing to initiate a divorce. To some, the husband is juz another man, no difference from all their previous sex partner bf. For what i believe, whether a marriage is working anot, mostly depend on the women. Unless they have choosen the men that don‘t even deserve a wife, if not, a happy marriage can be achieve if the women wants it. With more ppl having sex before marriage, one shall not be surprised there will be adultery in a marriage.
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Old 18-11-2014, 11:09 PM
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They should thanks their women charter. It may not be surprise if more women are more than willing to initiate a divorce. To some, the husband is juz another man, no difference from all their previous sex partner bf. For what i believe, whether a marriage is working anot, mostly depend on the women. Unless they have choosen the men that don‘t even deserve a wife, if not, a happy marriage can be achieve if the women wants it. With more ppl having sex before marriage, one shall not be surprised there will be adultery in a marriage.
I believe both the man n the woman need to make the marriage works. The woman alone cannot make the marriage works if her man does not wish to.
Marriage is a big commitment very few will take it lightly to divorce like breaking up with past bfs. Not every women uses women charter to abuse their ex spouse. Jmo.
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Old 20-11-2014, 10:34 AM
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I believe both the man n the woman need to make the marriage works. The woman alone cannot make the marriage works if her man does not wish to.
Marriage is a big commitment very few will take it lightly to divorce like breaking up with past bfs. Not every women uses women charter to abuse their ex spouse. Jmo.
Agree. It takes 2 hands to clap. Both women and men need to put in effort to make it work.

Don't think any women or men would examine the Women Charter prior to marriage either. It's all in good faith and commitment that both partners come together.
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Agree. It takes 2 hands to clap. Both women and men need to put in effort to make it work.

Don't think any women or men would examine the Women Charter prior to marriage either. It's all in good faith and commitment that both partners come together.
Nowadays people are selfish and self centered because of the KS society.....
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Best is to stay single if not ready for commitment. Marriage nowadays is not like those fantasy whereby both husband and wife love each other until life ends . There are too much expectations and requirements . Woman has lost its role for being a good wife and mother.
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Old 21-11-2014, 12:11 AM
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Nowadays people are selfish and self centered because of the KS society.....
True. Altruism is in short supply so all the exceptions are news worthy. We read them fr the press.
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Old 21-11-2014, 12:17 AM
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Best is to stay single if not ready for commitment. Marriage nowadays is not like those fantasy whereby both husband and wife love each other until life ends . There are too much expectations and requirements . Woman has lost its role for being a good wife and mother.
I do agree women hv lost their natural role since cavemen time. I do wish i could stay home n just focus on the home, nurure my kids, be a loving wife. Now there are too many roles to fill n women cant juggle so maids came n increasing pressure on men to chip in on chores, grand parents havr to help etc. That is a whole new set of problem n everyone is tired n unhappy.
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Old 21-11-2014, 01:24 AM
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Don't think any women or men would examine the Women Charter prior to marriage either. It's all in good faith and commitment that both partners come together.
AWARE has been going around the educational institutions giving talks to the girls about the Womens Charter..... it's the men who enter into marriages clueless about the WC until the marriage runs into trouble.

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Old 21-11-2014, 01:32 AM
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Best is to stay single if not ready for commitment. Marriage nowadays is not like those fantasy whereby both husband and wife love each other until life ends . There are too much expectations and requirements . Woman has lost its role for being a good wife and mother.
In this era and time and especially for Singapore...... only fools get married and place themselves at the mercy of the WC.

Pussies are so readily available in so many forms.... just find, fu*k & forget and save yourselves from all that troubles of the WC.

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In this era and time and especially for Singapore...... only fools get married and place themselves at the mercy of the WC.

Pussies are so readily available in so many forms.... just find, fu*k & forget and save yourselves from all that troubles of the WC.

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There are so many fools still marries 2 or 3 times. They just cant fight loneliness.

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Old 21-11-2014, 05:10 PM
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I do agree women hv lost their natural role since cavemen time. I do wish i could stay home n just focus on the home, nurure my kids, be a loving wife. Now there are too many roles to fill n women cant juggle so maids came n increasing pressure on men to chip in on chores, grand parents havr to help etc. That is a whole new set of problem n everyone is tired n unhappy.
Nowadays having kids will often break down even strong marriages. Why? Cos the expectations are too high. Kids dont really need that much care but we over care them, until they are spoiled. Couple actually weaken their kids by over protecting and giving them too much. Many Sg kids lack independence.
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Old 21-11-2014, 05:14 PM
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There are so many fools still marries 2 or 3 times. They just cant fight loneliness.
I disagree. Its because we love the woman and hope we can make the woman happy by marriage but in reality once the woman achieve this goal, they relax already. Btw even being married you can still be lonely cos the partner is not in-sync with you. Marriage often create more problems than solve it. Just ask any married man or woman! haha
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I disagree. Its because we love the woman and hope we can make the woman happy by marriage but in reality once the woman achieve this goal, they relax already. Btw even being married you can still be lonely cos the partner is not in-sync with you. Marriage often create more problems than solve it. Just ask any married man or woman! haha
That's why the smart ones stay single
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Guess loneliness is the biggest factor which pull forward people to get marry...
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