Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by playboy82

we are not just some sex machine, we need love too.

There's a proverb,"Love takes time." Well, it's quite true that love takes time BUT ONLY after "free meal, ride, movies, etc..." . Hey, I'm not talking about those low income earners here, but those executives (good income earners) treated their guys like a cash machine. What? They expect their men to book the movie tickets, pay for them and pick them up? That's provided if those women are AVAILABLE for the movies

True, not all are black sheeps, but I'd rather spend my time and money drinking with my buddies and hoping to strike TOTO aka ONS without much hassles

jimbo

[vesfreq]

Natsuki,

I’m not angry..... but your pink colored wording is quite disturbing to read. Pardon me, sometimes I spend hours looking at the screen. I’m sure you can do myself (including other bros) a favor, by not having your reply entered in pink. Thanks.

Anyway, your situation cannot be compared with what the bros here are going through. Honestly, do you think many of the bros here will deliberately date a girl out only to ignore her? That sounds funny.

You do have a situation on your end. Or rather, some would describe your situation as a problem. Thing is that guys may not keep in touch with you for a variety of reasons. The most common one is that there isn’t much to talk about or, perhaps, a lack of common interest/ topic to talk about.

I’m not sure how old you are. For myself, I’m quite sick of going out with different dates and trying to know someone new and go through the same SOP over and over again. Sometimes, I end up going zoom zoom on the highways, with music on full blast, rather than dating a girl that I don’t really have anything to talk to.

Actually, the thing about sms is (IMO) disturbing. Ironically, most girls (talking about the younger ones) enjoy hammering away at their hp keypads. I don’t like to sms for one simple reason.... ie, I drive most of the time and its ridiculous for me to try to decipher some cryptic sms at the traffic light and, at the same time, try to enter some reply.

Well, one man’s meat is another’s poison. I only date grown up ladies. Small sisters not my cup of tea. Nor are milfs.

I’m pretty engrossed with making money sometimes, but for a reason. Not because I need an obscene pile of hard cash. Life is short. Money need not buy happiness, but it can buy satisfaction, at least.

Some guys will agree with me. Between spending on some silly bochup ah lian and blowing some cash on a new sports car, what would a guy choose? I’m serious about finding the right girl. Between the two, I rather go for the car. At least, car won’t run away, when I am down. A sports car can crack track records at sepang and earn some wows from the young chio bus around the track.

After going through all the thick and thin, a relationship can shatter into bits and pieces. Marriage can end up divorce. Nothing is certain in this world, except for the car loan/ season parking/ summons/ fines/ 10 year COE/ GST hike. Oh and not forgetting, zealous fatimahs trying to catch illegally parked car.

A sports car turns heads, but a heart broken guy earn medals for being faithful and caring. Perhaps, relationship was never meant for everyone. Have to say that the motor car is the guy’s best friend still. I given up true love, because only the car dealer can give me my 2nd love, the car I like.

Pardon me for the long reply.

[vesfreq]

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[Huo_Yuan_Jia]

true love to me only exists in selected Korean soap dramas.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

still in the unknown state of finding it.maybe it will exist if u believe and persist.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

still in the unknown state of finding it.maybe it will exist if u believe and persist.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

still in the unknown state of finding it.maybe it will exist if u believe and persist.

What if it doesn't exist and one continues to believe in true love? Its like self-delusion, if it really doesn't exist. But, if it does exist, its just like finding a needle in a haystack and hoping that you get he needle soon, without having to find until hair turn grey.

[Archduke]

well the so called "true love" is nothing more than a state of mind. We always believe we have found our "true love" when we are with someone we like but how quickly that changes when we no longer like that someone.

"True love" can only be seen and measured when the going gets tough and the couple stick together no matter what. Each supporting the other to get by during the time of crsis.

In fact, my grandfather passed away shortly from bone cancer after my grandmother passed away. Before that he was fit as a fiddle. So I dare say it exists. So take heart people!

Cheers!

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

What if it doesn't exist and one continues to believe in true love? Its like self-delusion, if it really doesn't exist. But, if it does exist, its just like finding a needle in a haystack and hoping that you get he needle soon, without having to find until hair turn grey.

we all live for a dream..for some its abt hving THE car..for others it might be fame and wealth..to the rest of us..mayb its abt findin the one to love? while unrealistic, at least its keep our hope in life going on...

not sure abt the rest, mayb i juz a love sick idoit..while mayb its easier to settle down with juz anyone but is it wat i really wan? Or mayb wat i really wan is to find that really special someone n spend rest of my life with her..throughout my experiences in life..sometimes the best meal you can ever hv is to eat cup noodles outside 7-11 with tat special someone..finding true love is like a journey..sometimes the destination is not impt but the view that you see along the way is really tat matters

PS - i juz a love sick idoit so my views might not apply to 99% of the normal people.

[tellmiwhy]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

not sure abt the rest, mayb i juz a love sick idoit..while mayb its easier to settle down with juz anyone but is it wat i really wan? Or mayb wat i really wan is to find that really special someone n spend rest of my life with her..throughout my experiences in life..sometimes the best meal you can ever hv is to eat cup noodles outside 7-11 with tat special someone..finding true love is like a journey..sometimes the destination is not impt but the view that you see along the way is really tat matters

PS - i juz a love sick idoit so my views might not apply to 99% of the normal people.

well said bro. although i agree that nt everyone has the same view as u, but i certainly does. tats wat i believe in and hope for also. there was this once when a grp of us friends chatting abt our ambition, i actualli told them that my ambition was to get married with the person i luv most and have a happy family.

p.s its being a while since i can reply & post. for the past few days, i always get database error. nw can finalli reply to all the bros, hurray!!!

[AAconnection]

To me true love exist or else it will be the end of the world. Only thing true love is extremely difficult to find. There was once I have a screw and I loose the nut, went to Kelantan lane near Sungei Rd to find the right nut to fit the screw, thinking that I will be able to find the nut but after asking and searching many hardware shops and screw specialists still cannot find the right nut then, give up. Few days later when I was looking for screw driver in the tool box, I saw a few nuts thinking might as well try to fit the screw with this few nuts, but unfortuately it do not fit. It like you have a "screw" and you don't have the "nut" To find the "nut" you have to bring the "screw" to test, whether it fit. True love is where the screw fits the nut. And if you find the right nuts, you can screw and unscrew it without getting loose. My version of true love is that one has to make an effort to find the right one.

[playboy82]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

we all live for a dream..for some its abt hving THE car..for others it might be fame and wealth..to the rest of us..mayb its abt findin the one to love? while unrealistic, at least its keep our hope in life going on...

not sure abt the rest, mayb i juz a love sick idoit..while mayb its easier to settle down with juz anyone but is it wat i really wan? Or mayb wat i really wan is to find that really special someone n spend rest of my life with her..throughout my experiences in life..sometimes the best meal you can ever hv is to eat cup noodles outside 7-11 with tat special someone..finding true love is like a journey..sometimes the destination is not impt but the view that you see along the way is really tat matters

PS - i juz a love sick idoit so my views might not apply to 99% of the normal people.

well i think even eating cup noodle with ur love ones will taste like eating abalone to u, but on the other hand, which gal will still eat cup noodle together with you. haha.
I have just encounter this gal, sometime back in MSN, she tell me that a guy, 7 years older than her, in her work place is chasing after her and ask me how to reject him in a nice way. As i also do have some feeling for this gal, as she is the only gal which i bother to chat with as i felt she and i have chemistry, the way we +++, and she admitted that too.So i send her my pic, tell her to put it in her hp, so that to bluff that guy that she ord had a bf, so he can fuck off. The reason she want to reject him is that he is 7 yrs older and she felt not suitable, btw the guy got CAR and his Salary is damm good too, she say she dun go for all this, so I tot to mysef, at last i find someone who was not that materialistic. But deep in me, i also felt very unsure, so i test her by asking her out for a date, but guess wat, she go offline while i waiting for her reply. Guess she is shy or something.As i was quite piss, cos it is rude to log off without leaving a word, i sms her, and we are like quarreling in the sms.

So after abt a mth, when i meet her again in MSN, she tell me her father pass away, and i also realise she had a bf, guess wat, is that guy in her work place.
WTF, the reason she tell me is that he really make her feel touch.

From then on, i know my theory is correct, she is just another Satistic which will comfirm my opion on gals. I tot to myself, of course la, only guys who are rich, got car, can go romantic place can make a gal feel touch mah, guy like me, poor, no car howw to make it happen, i mean i can even get a date from u earlier in the MSN.

So you all tell me, which gal will still eat cup noodle with us when times are hard. All of the gals will sure say they are not vain, not into car or handsome bf, i mean who will say that they are thief when they really are.
What i wanted to say are, most gals may NOT REALLY go for car and looks, but then when someone with car and looks come along, they will stand a better chance,, who will still care abt chemistry, feeling and the character of the guy who is poorer.

[shrek]

Originally Posted by playboy82

well i think even eating cup noodle with ur love ones will taste like eating abalone to u, but on the other hand, which gal will still eat cup noodle together with you. haha.
I have just encounter this gal, sometime back in MSN, she tell me that a guy, 7 years older than her, in her work place is chasing after her and ask me how to reject him in a nice way. As i also do have some feeling for this gal, as she is the only gal which i bother to chat with as i felt she and i have chemistry, the way we +++, and she admitted that too.So i send her my pic, tell her to put it in her hp, so that to bluff that guy that she ord had a bf, so he can fuck off. The reason she want to reject him is that he is 7 yrs older and she felt not suitable, btw the guy got CAR and his Salary is damm good too, she say she dun go for all this, so I tot to mysef, at last i find someone who was not that materialistic. But deep in me, i also felt very unsure, so i test her by asking her out for a date, but guess wat, she go offline while i waiting for her reply. Guess she is shy or something.As i was quite piss, cos it is rude to log off without leaving a word, i sms her, and we are like quarreling in the sms.

So after abt a mth, when i meet her again in MSN, she tell me her father pass away, and i also realise she had a bf, guess wat, is that guy in her work place.
WTF, the reason she tell me is that he really make her feel touch.

From then on, i know my theory is correct, she is just another Satistic which will comfirm my opion on gals. I tot to myself, of course la, only guys who are rich, got car, can go romantic place can make a gal feel touch mah, guy like me, poor, no car howw to make it happen, i mean i can even get a date from u earlier in the MSN.

So you all tell me, which gal will still eat cup noodle with us when times are hard. All of the gals will sure say they are not vain, not into car or handsome bf, i mean who will say that they are thief when they really are.
What i wanted to say are, most gals may NOT REALLY go for car and looks, but then when someone with car and looks come along, they will stand a better chance,, who will still care abt chemistry, feeling and the character of the guy who is poorer.

bro, i totally agree with u!! same case, same tots, same feelings~

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by playboy82

So you all tell me, which gal will still eat cup noodle with us when times are hard. All of the gals will sure say they are not vain, not into car or handsome bf, i mean who will say that they are thief when they really are.
What i wanted to say are, most gals may NOT REALLY go for car and looks, but then when someone with car and looks come along, they will stand a better chance,, who will still care abt chemistry, feeling and the character of the guy who is poorer.

I give u a big thumb up if u were born in 1982. What a matured guy and welcome to the "adult" world. I like ur comment...

Just remember,"Bill Clinton never confess of getting blow job from Monica Lewinsky, nor did OJ Simpson admitted of killing her beloved wife." The same goes to women. They wont tell u that they are looking for guys with car, cash, condo, etc... but when that comes along, u tend to lose out no matter how strong ur r/s with her.

Talking from experience, my buddies (drive a car + good $$$) date married women almost every weekend. He drives them out for fun, though may not hanky panky. Women love fun as much as men do, so they would go with the flow to distress themselves.

However, dont be suprised that many of these men live their days with a time bomb aka credit cards. I dont know coz i'm just too poor

poor dad, poor uncle,
jimbo

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

I’m not sure how old you are. For myself, I’m quite sick of going out with different dates and trying to know someone new and go through the same SOP over and over again. Sometimes, I end up going zoom zoom on the highways, with music on full blast, rather than dating a girl that I don’t really have anything to talk to.

Wholeheartedly agree. I still remember making the decision whether to meet my ex-gf for some wild sex or go home to my playstation. The playstation won... mind you it was only a PS1.

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Actually, the thing about sms is (IMO) disturbing. Ironically, most girls (talking about the younger ones) enjoy hammering away at their hp keypads. I don’t like to sms for one simple reason.... ie, I drive most of the time and its ridiculous for me to try to decipher some cryptic sms at the traffic light and, at the same time, try to enter some reply.

I hate it when my ex-gf keeps smsing me while I'm driving and expecting me to respond. On top of it, I would receive at least 100 smses and 20 phone calls throughout the day. It was actually one of the reasons why I left her. Looking back, it was silly to get worked up over this but during that time, it was downright irritating and I almost went mad... almost like being stalked.

Originally Posted by vesfreq

I’m pretty engrossed with making money sometimes, but for a reason. Not because I need an obscene pile of hard cash. Life is short. Money need not buy happiness, but it can buy satisfaction, at least.

Fully understand. I'm doing my best to make as much when the sun shines.

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Some guys will agree with me. Between spending on some silly bochup ah lian and blowing some cash on a new sports car, what would a guy choose? I’m serious about finding the right girl. Between the two, I rather go for the car. At least, car won’t run away, when I am down. A sports car can crack track records at sepang and earn some wows from the young chio bus around the track.

Totally agree. But almost made that mistake in my younger days... almost sold my first car to get a Gerard Genta for one of my ex-gfs. Luckily came to my senses. But I bought her some diamond jewellery a few years later after I married someone else... Does not count though as it was much more affordable to me later in life.

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Pardon me for the long reply.

No apologies required. Up you 4 pts for your insight!