How I got cheated by KTV girl

[banana]

Originally Posted by tokkon1

Thanks bro banana, glad u enjoyed it.

yup! keep it up! hope to have more stories from you in the future.

[awakening]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

if u provide for her liao, u should stop her from working, tat is the opp for her to mit the 'next betta player'... i saw a lot of cases whereby the bf allows their gals to work at KTV, while simultaneously supporting her, and the final outcome is both of them go seperate ways in the end. if she view work more impt than u, u should hv noe this gal is not worthwhile at all and if u choose to work , the smart thing to do is to cut off all financial support to her, jus bear in mind 'life is pratical, if u wan my money, u hv to do my way'....

I did not stop her from working because what I provided for her was too low to sustain her financially. Only $1,000 & I understand she needs the money.

She assured me she treats them differently from me. As a boyfriend, I cannot control her 24 hours. Of course thinking back, I was stupid to believe her lies. Like what I have mentioned, even when she wants to meet, sometimes I tell her not to, & go to work & earn money was more important.

This is the gratitude I got!

[bohya]

Originally Posted by awakening

This is the gratitude I got!

wah bro awakening... dun scare me leh..... I think I now about to be in your ex-shoes already.... me gonna sponsor my gal in china to study... as she says she wanna change for a better after she is being caught and deported back... and me even went to the troubles to call up the schools in china to help her check the course details... all in all to be about 1000+ sing dollars for a 1 year course duration. She sounds sincere about changing, should I gave her a benefit of a doubt? or is she juz wanna cheat my money cum feelings? seeking advise from all bros!!

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by awakening

I did not stop her from working because what I provided for her was too low to sustain her financially. Only $1,000 & I understand she needs the money.

She assured me she treats them differently from me. As a boyfriend, I cannot control her 24 hours. Of course thinking back, I was stupid to believe her lies. Like what I have mentioned, even when she wants to meet, sometimes I tell her not to, & go to work & earn money was more important.

This is the gratitude I got!

aiyah.. u r too nice liao lah.... $1k is enough for her to survived here lah, unless she's either materialistic or got debt to cover back in PRC, then i understand... u neber noe wat is the world like in KTV scene... anybody can come in2 her world and she is more or less exposed to many diff kind of people, this is where she will do comparison between u and the other guys, so as i say in this love r/s, u hv to be selfish.. she accept ur money, is best she dun work, if she choose to work, u got to cut off any financial support to her...

[awakening]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

aiyah.. u r too nice liao lah.... $1k is enough for her to survived here lah, unless she's either materialistic or got debt to cover back in PRC, then i understand... u neber noe wat is the world like in KTV scene... anybody can come in2 her world and she is more or less exposed to many diff kind of people, this is where she will do comparison between u and the other guys, so as i say in this love r/s, u hv to be selfish.. she accept ur money, is best she dun work, if she choose to work, u got to cut off any financial support to her...

She told me her school fees comes up to $600 a month. $400 is not enough for her rental for room & transport & food. Even if enough, after spending that, she would have nothing left & she told me she still have to pay her agent, send money home & others.

As her boyfriend, I tried to be understanding to her situation & trust her.

[awakening]

Originally Posted by bohya

wah bro awakening... dun scare me leh..... I think I now about to be in your ex-shoes already.... me gonna sponsor my gal in china to study... as she says she wanna change for a better after she is being caught and deported back... and me even went to the troubles to call up the schools in china to help her check the course details... all in all to be about 1000+ sing dollars for a 1 year course duration. She sounds sincere about changing, should I gave her a benefit of a doubt? or is she juz wanna cheat my money cum feelings? seeking advise from all bros!!

I dont know your gal. But my ex only give me words. empty words & lies. If your gal also do the same thing, be very careful.

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by bohya

wah bro awakening... dun scare me leh..... I think I now about to be in your ex-shoes already.... me gonna sponsor my gal in china to study... as she says she wanna change for a better after she is being caught and deported back... and me even went to the troubles to call up the schools in china to help her check the course details... all in all to be about 1000+ sing dollars for a 1 year course duration. She sounds sincere about changing, should I gave her a benefit of a doubt? or is she juz wanna cheat my money cum feelings? seeking advise from all bros!!

she come here to learn ang moh, issit? learn ang moh not so cheap one lah, mthly cse fee is app 500, 1 yr it can easily work up to 6k. plus her accomodation, app 300 per mth,lidat is 9.6 k per yr. furthermore there r other things to take care off, like food and shopping trips.

well, u noe ur gal better than us, so to decide whether she is trueful, oni U CAN JUDGE THE BEST. wat i can advise u is to be cautious and if anything happens tat she 'betray ur trust, there's where u gotta put a full stop in ur financial support.

i use to mit wif this scenario wif a KTV gal (i used to noe)

gal: can u help me apply for student pass, so i can come down to c u.

me: u intersted in study english?

gal: can learn wat, i oso wan to see u.

me: r u sure tat u come here is based on the abv 2 reason, no more others.

gal: and occasionally, i can go and work.

me: than i guess u better look for someone else to help u.

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by awakening

She told me her school fees comes up to $600 a month. $400 is not enough for her rental for room & transport & food. Even if enough, after spending that, she would have nothing left & she told me she still have to pay her agent, send money home & others.

As her boyfriend, I tried to be understanding to her situation & trust her.

oic.. lidat she should work to the minimal wat.. agent fee usually work up to ard 5k, tpt fee ard 100 and rental ard 300... well, i not trying to tell u to be 'selfish'.. but always believe tat since u give money to her liao, she should not go work tat often.. u r too soft-hearted...

[banana]

Originally Posted by bohya

wah bro awakening... dun scare me leh..... I think I now about to be in your ex-shoes already.... me gonna sponsor my gal in china to study... seeking advise from all bros!!

sigh... another guy into this shit. i also dont know what to say to u. if i in your shoes, these are the things that will go thru my mind:

1. i will check her background, get ur PRC friends to help u.
2. make a visit to her prc home and meet her parents.
3. what course is she studying? and what's her present highest education?

Bro mahalosux, any advice for this bro?

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by banana

sigh... another guy into this shit. i also dont know what to say to u. if i in your shoes, these are the things that will go thru my mind:

1. i will check her background, get ur PRC friends to help u.
2. make a visit to her prc home and meet her parents.
3. what course is she studying? and what's her present highest education?

Bro mahalosux, any advice for this bro?

bro banana... i already put my advise liao... everything is up to him, cos HE knowes the gal betta, NOT US.. we r jus pan guang ze.. but anyway he gotta act wif caution..

[banana]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

she come here to learn ang moh, issit? learn ang moh not so cheap one lah, mthly cse fee is app 500, 1 yr it can easily work up to 6k. plus her accomodation, app 300 per mth,lidat is 9.6 k per yr. furthermore there r other things to take care off, like food and shopping trips.
i use to mit wif this scenario wif a KTV gal (i used to noe)

PRC girls come here to learn english are bullsiht. china learn up to advance english cost less than SGD $500. if these girls really want to learn english go back china, their local english teachers are better than our informatics'.

bro mahalosux is right. if u wanna support her, she should quit her job.

we cheong ktv, we always hear from them "you feed me" (ni yang wo). and my SOP reply is this:

"you go back china tomoro, wait for me to apply your social pass, once approve, i will come over to fetch u."

i have 3 conditions they have to agreed:
1. cannot work in such industry once follow me.
2. must learn english and computer.
3. cannot be lazy.

try this and u see how they respond and u will know if they are geninue to you.

u go ask those prc girls, who is willing to sell their bodies. of course there are some wild ones out there. but most of them work in these lines bcos they have money problem. if these girls willing to follow u, i believe they will, by nature, they will quit such job.

make a trip to china, just tell them u r from singapore and u see for yourself how many want to have ONS with u. and hopefully u like them and they work thier way to keep u happy and hopefully u will marry them. if u want i can intro undergrad to you. these girls are educated, but living in poor environment. they are willing to go with a man that can give them comfort and shelter and also look after their parents.

i encounter so many prc girls. after knowing them they always pop this question, "can u bring my family to stay with us".

[bohya]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

bro banana... i already put my advise liao... everything is up to him, cos HE knowes the gal betta, NOT US.. we r jus pan guang ze.. but anyway he gotta act wif caution..

Really thanks a lot to all the precious advises... actually after what bro mahalosux describe, me abit like his scenario... except that after she is deported to China, she cannot come back to Singapore within a year. So she is now intending to study english in china... my god, u guys are really clever, how u all know she gonna study english? but anyway she said, after a year if visa approves, she wanna come back can chiet english with me liao...

[banana]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

bro banana... i already put my advise liao... everything is up to him, cos HE knowes the gal betta, NOT US.. we r jus pan guang ze.. but anyway he gotta act wif caution..

hope he has a better encounter than us. and wish all the best and may he find his true love soon.

why we fall in love with ktv girl when we cheongster know in the first place that we should not fall in love with them.

are the heaven/sky/god playing a fool with us???

ALL KTV GIRL ARE NOT GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
CAN ONLY PLAY, NOT FALL IN LOVE WITH!!!!!!!!!

[bohya]

Originally Posted by banana

just tell them u r from singapore and u see for yourself how many want to have ONS with u. and hopefully u like them and they work thier way to keep u happy and hopefully u will marry them. if u want i can intro undergrad to you. these girls are educated, but living in poor environment. they are willing to go with a man that can give them comfort and shelter and also look after their parents.

Juz these words from banana are so correct.... Juz today i called up those english schools in China and ask them for course details.... one PRC gal receptionist, upon hearing my lousy chinese accent, pop the question where I am from.. and the moment I told her I am from Singapore, wah lau.. her stern voice turn into a oh-so-sexy voice.... for a moment, I tot she wanna have phone sex with me! hahahaha