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29-11-2013, 12:44 PM
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Wow bro your story is rly fucking moving i swear man, gan dong tian gan dong di! Really kept me reading from the first post til last!
And I not sure isit i too young to be in this forum cos u seems to like have kids & etc, so should be around mid to late 30's age? But bro i'm curious as to since u love yvonne for almost 2 decades alrdy, what made u marry your current wife now? when u know deep in ur heart she's not the one u truly loved?... And u mentioned u didnt did anything sexual w her during ur younger days then does it mean u gave ur v to geylang/HC?  
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#272
29-11-2013, 01:04 PM
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Have even a few relationships but it does nt turn out well... till i met my wife... dated for a couple of years before deciding to tie the knot... same sop... dating and finally settled down... At that pt of time i really thought i have already got over the past... but the memories of her keep flooding back to me at times... My first love... and a girl who have change my life... That is life.. the one who we married is nt the one who we loved the most ba...
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#273
29-11-2013, 01:40 PM
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Bros still have some time before lunch hour is over. Will finish my last chapter of the update...
Soon it was time for me to visit her again as i need to prepare dinner for her... before going there... i have to remind myself again and again nt to let my emotions get the better of me... Somehow she is more calm and composed when i visited her that evening... Me: Feeling better now... Gd seem that yr fever have went down... Yvonne: Sorry for just now.. Me: Huh... i have already forgotten... Yvonne: Let me do the washing up later.. Me: Nope i will do it... u go and take a rest ba.. Btw i will nt be around tmr as i need to attend church... then i will have to spend some time with my family before i head off to the business trip...( I am trying to withdraw... as i am worried that i will cross the line with her if things dragged on... guess we need some time to cool down ba...) Yvonee: Huh... k then... Me: Btw.... i have asked fatty to keep a lookout on u since i will be away for business trip... have emailed him the list of 24 hours clinic nearby in case anything happen... ( I then give her fatty contact no) Yvonne: Wow u r so detail... r u only that detailed to me... Me: Yup.. erm no i am also detailed to my kids too.... Yvonne: Thanks i know the ans already... ( She was smiling away and i kicked myself for nt being firm enough) Me: Have to make a move first... Yvonne: So fast... Me: Yup it is late already... still have to go hm to rush through some work... Yvonne: k then.... she sound abit disappointed but i really have to leave cos i do nt want to face the similar situation as in the afternoon.... Yvonne: Call me after u have reach shanghai... Me: K.. And pls watch yr diet... no oily food and diary products for the next 2 weeks k... and remember to take yr med especially yr antibiotics.... Yvonne: K... got it... but i like it when u r naggy... ( She was smiling)... Me: Really have to go now.... Again with a heavy heart i headed off home and otw back... i actually brought my wife a bag... huh... a guilt offering.. Me: Dear i brought u a bag... Wife: Wow that is beautiful.. thanks... ( she is smiling) Seeing the smile on her face is a again a stab in my heart... i have emotionally betrayed my wife... and i really hate that bag.. And above all i hated myself for having to comprise with my principles!.... At that moment i really wish that i would nt have to do it again.... That day i received some text from her but i choose to avoid and nt to reply them.... Bros.. i would like to end this chapter with this song... 巫啟賢 - 你是我的唯一 Hope that u guys will like it...
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#274
29-11-2013, 01:55 PM
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Glad you're thinking with a clear head~
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#275
29-11-2013, 02:01 PM
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I also had my share of my first love breaking my heart and although we did not have a long history & impacting experiences like what u & yvonne shared, but its enough to make pin hard for her.. If i was in ur shoes, after over 20 years of such a love eating away at my heart, I'd definitely take this chance to patch back up with her. Sure there will be many serious lashback that happens subsequently but i firmly believe that we are the captain of our ship, the masters of our destiny. Almost 40 years of ur life u've lived with regrets, dont let the next 40 ones be like that too, cos time runs out eventually...
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#276
30-11-2013, 10:11 PM
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I don't knw whether want to ask u for updates or not.
If something really happen between u and Yvonne, I worry more people will get hurt.
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30-11-2013, 10:43 PM
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01-12-2013, 12:21 AM
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I really envy that you have this feelings for someone before or felt this way before, I'm only 20. And i really wish to have a relationship like yours.
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#279
01-12-2013, 12:26 AM
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珍惜眼前人 Don't want lose already then u regret. To maintain a relationship not easy, sometimes must give and take… Cheers…
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#280
01-12-2013, 01:11 AM
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Hi Zerofighter, your life experience is indeed full or ups and downs. Though u say you will not step beyond the boundary, my feeling is you have already did and not knowing it. Chances are I could be younger than you and my thoughts are your family and career are the most important issue now. Whatever decision u make could affect them direct or indirectly. As for Yvonne she is already an adult and knows how to take care of herself. Surely showing concern for your friend is good, but sometime things will get a little bit tricky considering the history u had with her.
Anyway, I hope whatever decision you make is the correct one. From an outsider point of view, its easy for me to type this, but putting myself in your shoes who knows I might also follow what u did. 
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Thanks to all the bros who gave me points, will return the favour as soon as I can.. Cheers! Please leave your nick behind so that I know who.
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01-12-2013, 09:19 AM
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01-12-2013, 09:37 AM
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Bro how long can u continue doing this to yvonne? human are also emotional creatures! how long can u keep a clear head and mind on all this thing? saying is easy but is doing tat so easy? are u staying with the family be cos of the kids only? btw u and ur wife,is there even love? i respect you for doing all u can by being with yvonne side and not taking advantage of it! But bro wat will tat come to? it a endless road! I wish u well and if u need anyone to talk to,u can drop me a pm! 
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01-12-2013, 10:12 AM
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01-12-2013, 10:21 AM
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Another sad song for a sad day
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Up my pts and i will up yours as well(Power 5 and above pls) Target: 18000 point hit... will be part time now only in point exchange... Thank you for the points Please pm me for second or third round first before u up my points cos worried not able to return cheers
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#285
01-12-2013, 11:13 AM
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like to exchange pts with bros above 5 power, have a nice Sunday to all bros 
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