Need Help! My bf's secret fetish on women's undies..... - Page 2

deadonarrival · #16 03-06-2009, 07:49 PM

cross dressing???

rh8611 · #17 03-06-2009, 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnston

It just means he craves the feminine smell(ahem) and the feminine tastes present on women's panties.

On the bright side, it also means he probably loves to lick and suck pussy and u can ask him if he wants it straight from the source.

On a duller note, if he loves the smell and taste but he doesnt like YOUR smell and taste, you may need to do a self finger test and see a docter if your particular bouquet is overpowering.

nice answer!

9longtape · #18 03-06-2009, 08:15 PM

My take is as long as he is not obsessed with panties to the extent of affecting his mental health, it may be wise for you to leave things as status quo. Of cos, this depends on whether can you accept.

Minty Mint · #19 03-06-2009, 09:25 PM

To tell the truth, womens lingerie/panties are much more comfortable to wear than the uncomfortable white underwear that manufacturers dish out for men in the name of macho styles.

Let's put it in another way, Some women like to sleep in or wear their BF long sleeve shirt. They feels secure when they put it on and the smells too (Macho/ manly). They don't really go for men's brief as we all know that it don't smell great. Maybe Boxer short for the comfort

Don't be surprise, some women do like our briefs (not for the smell but for the texture of the cloth materials)

kwaychup · #20 03-06-2009, 10:36 PM

maybe he dun like to wear your ah ma teh kor

Klklhbk · #21 04-06-2009, 12:16 AM

actually TS
i also have a fetish for women's panties and bras...

maybe u should ask urself

do you wear such thongs/g strings that ur bf likes?
maybe he likes those but u dun wear those but normal cotton types?
if so then just buy and wear some thongs/g strings for him to see or maybe keep 1 or 2..

for me 1 stole 1 pair of normal panties from a 'target'
used it to pcc and not wearing it...
turns me on greatly

sex crusader · #22 04-06-2009, 08:03 AM

This is very normal leh. So long as he doesn't go around the laundry line and steal , he is perfectly normal.Just browse over some threads here. Fetish for pantyhose, bra etc. It's just part of man's fantasy.

sadlonelyguyer · #23 04-06-2009, 08:54 AM

he need some room of privacy... his own fanastasy & fetish....
as long as he dont cheat on you...
dont go ard whoring..
just close 1 eyes....

else... if he does the above...
<CUT HIM>!

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Originally Posted by jaz99

Hi, I am living with my bf of 3 years and I found out that he has a secret fetish on women's undies, namely g-strings and panties. About a year ago, I caught him wearing a g-string once. It happened when I walked into the room and he was wearing it. The G-string was not even mine! He never gave me an explanation on it and I just let it go and never mention about it again in order not to hurt his pride. Everything seems normal after that incident.

Recently, I found a ladies panty hidden somewhere in his wardrobe. I just put it back and acted as if nothing had happened coz I don't know how to question him without making him embarrassed. I don't know where he got that from as it doesn't belong to me and it really hurt me knowing that he is doing these things. Can somebody tell me what is he thinking?

Sangrawi · #24 04-06-2009, 01:01 PM

TS,

To me, a woman who bothers to wear these sexy lingerie probabaly is a very sexy woman. The fulfillment of men's fantasy. Afterall, most of us men are very common, boring average looking Ah Koon or Richard who holds mundane jobs. Many of us have fantasy goddesses (be it an actress, model, beautiful collegues, class-mates, etc) that we want to make love to. But knowing our inferior complex will never dare even approach them.

Sexy lingerie is just an extension of that fantasy.

why don't you buy some and start wearing them and you will be surprised how turn on your bf is towards you.

jaz99 · #25 04-06-2009, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by sex crusader

This is very normal leh. So long as he doesn't go around the laundry line and steal , he is perfectly normal.Just browse over some threads here. Fetish for pantyhose, bra etc. It's just part of man's fantasy.

But the problem is the undies he kept and wore is not mine. He stole it from the neighbour's laundry line. I already confronted him and he had confessed that he wore it to PCC. WTF is he thinking!!!??? Does he need to get help?

jaz99 · #26 04-06-2009, 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Klklhbk

actually TS
i also have a fetish for women's panties and bras...

maybe u should ask urself

do you wear such thongs/g strings that ur bf likes?
maybe he likes those but u dun wear those but normal cotton types?
if so then just buy and wear some thongs/g strings for him to see or maybe keep 1 or 2..

for me 1 stole 1 pair of normal panties from a 'target'
used it to pcc and not wearing it...
turns me on greatly

If he asks me to wear a certain g-string for him, I will. I always try to fulfil his requests. but he is still doing this behind my back. I can understand u pcc on it without wearing it. But my BF is wearing it. What is he thinking?

Oralcraz · #27 05-06-2009, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by jaz99

But the problem is the undies he kept and wore is not mine. He stole it from the neighbour's laundry line. I already confronted him and he had confessed that he wore it to PCC. WTF is he thinking!!!??? Does he need to get help?

Stealing neighbour's undies is a problem. He probably has a fancy on the neighbour. He probably dream of having sex with the "target neighbour". He needs to get this thought out of his mind. Otherwise, jiak lat.

sex crusader · #28 05-06-2009, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by jaz99

But the problem is the undies he kept and wore is not mine. He stole it from the neighbour's laundry line. I already confronted him and he had confessed that he wore it to PCC. WTF is he thinking!!!??? Does he need to get help?

I think he wants to see you in those undies while making up with you.To help your BF, why don't you give him a pair of your worn one?PCC???U sure learn fast in the man's world!

bochapsing · #29 05-06-2009, 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted by jaz99

But the problem is the undies he kept and wore is not mine. He stole it from the neighbour's laundry line. I already confronted him and he had confessed that he wore it to PCC. WTF is he thinking!!!??? Does he need to get help?

stealing undies IS a big problem... and will get him into trouble...

PCC wearing undies is NOT a big problem... it's just a fetish...

he do need help... and u r the best person to help him...
maybe both of u can share ur fantasy or fetish... and try to understand and even fulfill each other's fantasy... instead of resorting to stealing or quarrel lar...

jaz99 · #30 05-06-2009, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by sex crusader

I think he wants to see you in those undies while making up with you.To help your BF, why don't you give him a pair of your worn one?PCC???U sure learn fast in the man's world!

I am living together with him and he has full access to my collection of g-strings and panties. Some which I have already stopped wearing, he could have taken it and I wouldn't have noticed it. So, why must he go steal the neighbour's one? I think he doesn't want to use mine in the 1st place. I also had the thought that he secretly admired our neighbour but he denied and he kept asking me to forgive him. I'm really confused. I need to know what he is thinking but he wouldn't tell me. Btw, I have left his house, I needed time to cool down about this thing.