You KC or kana KC

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

The fact that when we come out to play and cheong, and no matter how well we thought we know these girls, we are still susceptible to kana KC but the situation is not as hopeless as it may seem.

While there’s nothing we can do that will guarantee 100% that we will not fall into KC traps, we can put the odds in our favour by taking precautions. There are several things we can do to decrease the likelihood of fallen into KC trap.

1) Familiarize ourselves with the early warning signs of KC. Many of these signs are subtle and easy to overlook. The future of our bank a/c may one day depend on our ability to spot the signs of KC in time.

2) The best defence is a good offense. If we know how to recognize the signs of impending KC traps, we may be able to keep these traps at bay. The sooner we spot the signs of KC , the easier it will be for us to stop the traps in its tracks.

Just my 2 cents worth of opinion.

[iCoPuLaTe]

Come out 花 enough in the socity as a player, its hard to kanna KC, till a point when u LET yourself get KCed.

A person will get KCed cos of inexperiance wid love life, not enough char bors around,not much life expeirance & 1 big factor >TIME;More time spend wid that person >感情越来越深。
You put yourself more & more relie on tat person;be it feelings or watever.
Its human nature.

May hv to control yourself.

[liverpool24]

It is true that most FL are good at KCing, it is the skill they need to acquire in order to survive in this line. Some FL dun try to KC bros here but if bros try to KC them, they will accompany u play the game since u asked for it. They dun lose anything if bros try to KC them. Free gifts, free meals, free tour round singapore.

There are special cases for every thing, few FL do get KC by bros or even fall in love to certain bros. Either party that fall into the KC trap will get hurt in the end, so just dun play with the KC game if u cant take it. If u can, remember the FL will get hurt too, deeply.

Just my 2cents.

[fl saviour]

humans r all with emotions sure will kenna de la, its just how deep u willing to drop inside the trap, if cant afford to play with em, then much better just fuck pay and go.. but if got alot of $$$ then carry on, its actually quite nice to have the kc feeling, just my 2 cents

[loneyheart]

Its very exciting GAME to play...
Make sure u r the MASTER of game
Know when to get out n call it a gamed
Never get too emotion n play with in yr own budget
Move on if its over..
Its just a game anyway

[didi2011]

Originally Posted by liverpool24

It is true that most FL are good at KCing, it is the skill they need to acquire in order to survive in this line. Some FL dun try to KC bros here but if bros try to KC them, they will accompany u play the game since u asked for it. They dun lose anything if bros try to KC them. Free gifts, free meals, free tour round singapore.

There are special cases for every thing, few FL do get KC by bros or even fall in love to certain bros. Either party that fall into the KC trap will get hurt in the end, so just dun play with the KC game if u cant take it. If u can, remember the FL will get hurt too, deeply.

Just my 2cents.

sensitive bro like u need to more careful. u are too concern to others feeling tat u will get hurt deeply. Remember they are just FL.

[liverpool24]

Originally Posted by didi2011

sensitive bro like u need to more careful. u are too concern to others feeling tat u will get hurt deeply. Remember they are just FL.

Greatly appreciate ur concern, bro. Know u treat me like ur younger brother. I treat pple well if they treat me well too. If a FL told u her real name and u get to know her family members, home number, address and she did not request a single cents from u. I think she is not just a FL but someone who really likes you.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by liverpool24

Greatly appreciate ur concern, bro. Know u treat me like ur younger brother. I treat pple well if they treat me well too. If a FL told u her real name and u get to know her family members, home number, address and she did not request a single cents from u. I think she is not just a FL but someone who really likes you.

Never let what you hear affect your ability to make PROPER & WISE decisions.
Trust not wat you hear or see but measure based on attributes.
The best defense is to apply the guilty rule from the start and then slowly thru time, allow them to prove themselves worthy beyond a benefit of a doubt.
The stuff you mentioned above are common traits PRCs use to give one the impression that he's entered the inner circle thus lowering his defenses!

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by liverpool24

If a FL told u her real name and u get to know her family members, home number, address and she did not request a single cents from u. I think she is not just a FL but someone who really likes you.

I know of a lady like that. Tell me her real name, china phone number, who she stays with in singapore, stays overnight at my place without asking for $$$, used her china phone number to help me set up QQ, very sweet to me. But so what? We belong to different worlds. Why get into long-term pain and pining for her when she's not around?

I got to take time to remind her not to love me. That we are just together as a fling because she is lonely and i'm someone she can trust her inner thoughts to me. Whatever she says or we do, nothing gets written in here to pinpoint who she is. I even deliberately find her close room-mate, who is here to provide massage and HJ. A kind of wicked reminder that there is no such thing as real love, just lust and mutual attraction. She'll always be a special girl in my memory.

I think girls trying to KC you isn't a bad thing. At least girls want to flirt with you. Either you got the looks, the sweet mouth or the cash. But being KC is a bad thing when you lose your senses and keep pining for the impossible. Avoiding other girls KC efforts is something I won't do. But stopping myself from being KC, that's the challenging and fun part to me. And then trying to KC girls to do extra services for you, that's the ultimate satisfaction.

[liverpool24]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

I know of a lady like that. Tell me her real name, china phone number, who she stays with in singapore, stays overnight at my place without asking for $$$, used her china phone number to help me set up QQ, very sweet to me. But so what? We belong to different worlds. Why get into long-term pain and pining for her when she's not around?

I got to take time to remind her not to love me. That we are just together as a fling because she is lonely and i'm someone she can trust her inner thoughts to me. Whatever she says or we do, nothing gets written in here to pinpoint who she is. I even deliberately find her close room-mate, who is here to provide massage and HJ. A kind of wicked reminder that there is no such thing as real love, just lust and mutual attraction. She'll always be a special girl in my memory.

I think girls trying to KC you isn't a bad thing. At least girls want to flirt with you. Either you got the looks, the sweet mouth or the cash. But being KC is a bad thing when you lose your senses and keep pining for the impossible. Avoiding other girls KC efforts is something I won't do. But stopping myself from being KC, that's the challenging and fun part to me. And then trying to KC girls to do extra services for you, that's the ultimate satisfaction.

Thx all senior bros for all ur caution and advice.

Is it impossible for FL to settle down with someone she loved in Singapore? Agreed that we belong to two different countries or long distance relationship. I dun have much money nor has a sweet mouth. Maybe it is a fleeting moment kind of feeling. But can time prove anything that it is true love? Or like what senior bro said "there is no real love"?

What if a FL left because being a FL she does not want to bring unwanted trouble to u. She know that it is difficult as it very very hard for ur parents to accept, she does not have any skills to work in singapore. After leaving singapore, she still stay in contact with u via QQ and phone everyday.

Is it really impossible for real love?

[Medusa]

Lets just face it...

women are all "golden cock award" winners...especially for those ladies who are out to earn money from men...to KC a man is seriously not difficult at all...they just have to see how "madly" in love the guy is to them before they decide on how much dosage to put in...

as for whether the women get KCed...yes they do...but chances not very high unless they met someone who fits into their dream lover list...

afterall..the WLs just wanted more biz and the lonelier soul just wanted more love...if you think you have KCed her? you might wanna think again

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by liverpool24

Is it impossible for FL to settle down with someone she loved in Singapore? Agreed that we belong to two different countries or long distance relationship. I dun have much money nor has a sweet mouth. Maybe it is a fleeting moment kind of feeling. But can time prove anything that it is true love? Or like what senior bro said "there is no real love"?

What if a FL left because being a FL she does not want to bring unwanted trouble to u. She know that it is difficult as it very very hard for ur parents to accept, she does not have any skills to work in singapore. After leaving singapore, she still stay in contact with u via QQ and phone everyday.
You must be a lucky man and let’s hope it’s NOT a prelude to a musical chair (抢凳子 - literally means: fighting for chairs with your parents)

Is it really impossible for real love?
Lastly, we need to get real for real love, you know what I mean?

Turning those fleeting moments of joy into lasting moments of happiness...Hmm

I’m in no position to judge your happiness and general speaking; we should accept that EVERYONE deserves happiness...Settling down is a little bit of a complex issue. If you are able to feel your emotions without trying to place any judgement upon it, and learn to deal with the strange stigma associated with her previous profession. You could "experiment" to develop a longer relationship without compromising your marital status and financial freedom.

Cheers!

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by liverpool24

Thx all senior bros for all ur caution and advice.

Is it impossible for FL to settle down with someone she loved in Singapore? Agreed that we belong to two different countries or long distance relationship. I dun have much money nor has a sweet mouth. Maybe it is a fleeting moment kind of feeling. But can time prove anything that it is true love? Or like what senior bro said "there is no real love"?

What if a FL left because being a FL she does not want to bring unwanted trouble to u. She know that it is difficult as it very very hard for ur parents to accept, she does not have any skills to work in singapore. After leaving singapore, she still stay in contact with u via QQ and phone everyday.

Is it really impossible for real love?

To meet, love and settle down with a normal everyday girl in Singapore is already not an easy task. Even more so with a foreign WL.

Being physically apart, even for a "normal couple", eventually your emotions will drift apart. 人走茶凉. After a while, it takes a lot of effort to maintain that so-called relationship, not to mention the frequent heartaches. Take that and multiply that many times over for a relationship with a WL. When she is not in Singapore with you, do you know for sure who she is sleeping with at night?

Apart from the problem of being physically apart, she being a WL would undoubtedly bring along its emotional baggage. Do you really need that?

You may pine for true love but for a WL, once she steps into this line, her heart and mind are only practical issues. Can your so-called true love bring food onto the table everday?

Enjoy the encounter whilst it last and when its time to say good-bye, just go and enjoy the memories.

Besides, whilst some may think that they have found their true love, in the end, it may simply be some infactuation which is brought about by some other external factors.

[liverpool24]

Originally Posted by slider_72

To meet, love and settle down with a normal everyday girl in Singapore is already not an easy task. Even more so with a foreign WL.

Enjoy the encounter whilst it last and when its time to say good-bye, just go and enjoy the memories.

Besides, whilst some may think that they have found their true love, in the end, it may simply be some infactuation which is brought about by some other external factors.

She said she has decided to stop this line and will be returning to her hometown. I will be flying to China to meet and accompany her back to her hometown, which is I promised her and her sister.

She has three options:

1) Forget me and stay in her hometown and find a guy to marry most probably someone she dun like (which is what her sister prefers her to do)

2) Stay in her hometown and maintain our long distance relationship (which bros discourage as it will be difficult for both of us).

3) Forget me and come out of her hometown and work again.

Her sister prefers her to take option 1 as in her opinion, it is good for her and me in long term. Is that the best options? For her to marry someone she dun like. Is that the happiness i can give her by letting go?

[cablesnwires]

Bro liverpool24, I applaud you for being a gentleman in trying to bring her back to her own hometown. But on the flip side, deep down inside you, there is this yearning that you want to know more about her, about her family, about the way of life that she has.

I'm not in a position to advise you, but if you decide to go ahead with the relationship (which I think it is a high possibility), then remember these 8 words:

信任、理解、宽容、默契。

All the best to you, bro. And I hope you can find what you are looking for.