What will u do if yr gf working freelance???

[Furion]

If I encounter your situation, can only break off. I think no matter how hard I try to accept and continue on, will end up be a lost cause so no point delaying the inevitable. For me that is.

[primero]

tks all bros for all yr comments. i greatly appreciate. de reason she decided to work fl is she wanted to hav lots of money but i tink she dun need dat.her family at her hometown all quite rich,each of them hav their own car,hse & shop. so she wan to follow thier footstep,her family kept asking her to go back.they can provided her anything,even her mum told me dat she wan to rent a shop for her to let her do her own things n buy her a car for her but she dun wan. she wants to b independent,she told me dat even if she leaves here,at least she must hav 1 of those 3 dat earn by herself w/o any help. she told me dat i cant gif her wat she wants. i admitted dat i cant fulfill her wish at de moment,i only earn 1k+ to 2k+ . she oso dun wan me to spent a lot of money on her,she told me to save for our future. she will said money hard to earn,but she should noe how i feeled when she do dat thing wif other guys. its so painful,sometimes i really cant take it. i need to swallow it n pretend nothing has happen. i noe her fr fl as well,she jus started fl less den a mth b4 we met. i tot she'll quit if we were together. we only noe each other ard 2mths but we love n care each other a lot. she would said dat i should get prepared since i noe her fr fl. but who would like to b in tis line? no one likes too unless they really in need of money. but i dun understand y she said dat she wun regret since she choose tis path????? she only earn 1k+ a mth,room 500 left not much oso + she got a lots of cosmetic. i hope 1 day,she kanna caught by av,banned her fr enterin singapore. den my mind can rest. how i wish y i dun met her earlier??? if i met her 1mth earlier mayb everything will changed.....

[Erasure]

Originally Posted by primero

tks all bros for all yr comments. i greatly appreciate. de reason she decided to work fl is she wanted to hav lots of money but i tink she dun need dat.her......... i tot she'll quit if we were together. we only noe each other ard 2mths but we love n care each other a lot. she would said dat i should get prepared since i noe her fr fl. but who would like to b in tis line? ................kanna caught by av,banned her fr enterin singapore. den my mind can rest. how i wish y i dun met her earlier??? if i met her 1mth earlier mayb everything will changed.....

I think u need to wake up ur idea bro...wat the hell are u doing with a whore? Wat future do u have when she talks trash like tat? Are you in love or simply lonely...if u are afraid to be alone and wish to have a partner, there is another way for u to purchase real love...the legal way.....go matchmake agency look for proper Vietnam / Filippino / China brides.....got alot of good gals out there to be matchmake....some even virgins....although cost quite abit for a start...it is a worthwhile and long-term investment...better anytime with the whore that u are having right now.

[mr_missile]

Originally Posted by primero

de reason she decided to work fl is she wanted to hav lots of money but i tink she dun need dat.her family at her hometown all quite rich,each of them hav their own car,hse & shop. so she wan to follow thier footstep,her family kept asking her to go back.they can provided her anything,even her mum told me dat she wan to rent a shop for her to let her do her own things n buy her a car for her but she dun wan. she wants to b independent,

but she should noe how i feeled when she do dat thing wif other guys. its so painful,sometimes i really cant take it. i need to swallow it n pretend nothing has happen.
i noe her fr fl as well,she jus started fl less den a mth b4 we met. i tot she'll quit if we were together. we only noe each other ard 2mths but we love n care each other a lot. she would said dat i should get prepared since i noe her fr fl. but who would like to b in tis line? no one likes too unless they really in need of money.

if i met her 1mth earlier mayb everything will changed.....

Dear TS, what I am going to say may hurt you. It's my honest opinion.

I think you should wake up from your dream. She is obviously not caring enough of your feelings. Money is the world to her now. She came from a well-to-do background. She does not need to do FL. Yet?

Heck, how can she say she loves you and then go screw other men, and countless men at that? Where does she put you?

I believe love does happen anywhere. And you do sound to be in love with her. But how sure are you of her feelings for you? I believe she will quit if she has found love with you. Like you said, there is no reason for her to continue as she does not need the money, and she 'loves' you.

So TS, time to wake up liao.

[sbftiankon]

Originally Posted by tigerprawn

TS, just curious how you found out that your "gf" is working as FL? Also, how did you meet this gf? Is she a PRC you met at night club or studying here on student pass? All these answers will provide a lot of insight into your matter. From your short post it is apparent there is more than meets the eye. Maybe she is already in this FL line for some time already before you met her. As opposed to a scenario where you are dating a local Singapore young girl who was not a FL when she became your gf but suddenly decided to work as a FL. You need to provide more facts bro.

Bro you very correct bring up the point.
World cup win alot?

Originally Posted by mr_missile

Dear TS, what I am going to say may hurt you. It's my honest opinion.

I think you should wake up from your dream. She is obviously not caring enough of your feelings. Money is the world to her now. She came from a well-to-do background. She does not need to do FL. Yet?
So TS, time to wake up liao.

Bro well say !! strong agree to you

TS just enjoy with her as spare gf and don't put your KC.

[shark89]

Originally Posted by primero

how i wish y i dun met her earlier??? if i met her 1mth earlier mayb everything will changed.....

But sad to say, fate is playing a cruel trick on you.
I personally hope that she will leave FL. However, looking at how determined she is to make money, it is unlikely she will quit.
I don't know how you can pretend nothing is happening. I for one cannot accept.

[alan0338]

TS aka TM, good luck...

[ttrax]

Good advice from all the senior bros out there!!
Have to agreed with them. Money makes the world goes round!!

Option 1.
Workhard and girls will come to you. (For ur money or your love, u decide)

Option 2.
Pray hard on Wed, Sat & Sun for ur 4D number. Or u can go for the toto.

Life is all about perspective. Move on and u may find a better gf.. (Maybe from china )

[tigerprawn]

TS, let me try to get the facts straight here.

Are you saying you patronised a FL (assumably a PRC), paid her money to have sex with her, then from that commercial transaction you decided that you had fallen in love with her and both of you became bf/gf? I am really curious what is your definition of bf/gf here? You continue patronising her (meaning you become a regular customer)? Or you getting free sex now with her and spends quality time with her outside of bedroom doing normal things which bf/gf do together?

Based on what are you making the statement that she considers you as her REAL boyfriend and not just a "good" customer? Just trying to figure out what is your REAL status in her eyes to even begin trying to make sense of this entire matter.

Is this your first FL?

One thing almost certain, she does not really love you. She may like you but not love you. Or she may even love you a little but not sufficient. Woman, FL or not, if and when they really fall in love fall in love madly and will be willing to anything for the man she loves. Based on her decisions, however you try to justify why she is doing it, she obviously does not reciprocate your level of love.

Sorry to burst your bubble bro, but she is not your soul mate.

[1128138]

simple,just get as many free fxxk before she go back home town,so you can save a lot of $$ to get(buy) a real gf.

[alanthegreat]

Originally Posted by primero

My gf is working freelance,i'm sad that she did this to me? I've to swallow it & pretend dat nothing happen. She will get angry & frustrated when we talk abt this. The more she angry,the more she want to work. We love each other deeply,she said not i cannot buy her everything. She will not regret that she choose this line,but why she dosen't feel how i feel??? Its very hurtfull,what if she will me??? Can someone advise me wat to do????

she is materialistic. dump her.

[Razzer]

Her reason for going into FL is really lame. Sound like something cooked up.

If you still want her but cannot accept her fl, then tell her to look for you when she is done with it. Try not to do it this way tho, make it a clean break.

[sbftiankon]

Originally Posted by 1128138

simple,just get as many free fxxk before she go back home town,so you can save a lot of $$ to get(buy) a real gf.

Enjoy Enjoy Enjoy and Enjoy

[Eager2enter]

Originally Posted by tigerprawn

TS, let me try to get the facts straight here.

Are you saying you patronised a FL (assumably a PRC), paid her money to have sex with her, then from that commercial transaction you decided that you had fallen in love with her and both of you became bf/gf? I am really curious what is your definition of bf/gf here? You continue patronising her (meaning you become a regular customer)? Or you getting free sex now with her and spends quality time with her outside of bedroom doing normal things which bf/gf do together?

Based on what are you making the statement that she considers you as her REAL boyfriend and not just a "good" customer? Just trying to figure out what is your REAL status in her eyes to even begin trying to make sense of this entire matter.

Is this your first FL?

One thing almost certain, she does not really love you. She may like you but not love you. Or she may even love you a little but not sufficient. Woman, FL or not, if and when they really fall in love fall in love madly and will be willing to anything for the man she loves. Based on her decisions, however you try to justify why she is doing it, she obviously does not reciprocate your level of love.

Sorry to burst your bubble bro, but she is not your soul mate.

TS bro, Bro tigerprawn made some very good points.

u should really reassess ur status with your "gf".

[my_preek]

Thanks for sharing / seeking advise TS.

I want to let you know we feel for you. However much advise you will get from this thread will not help, unless you help yourself. LONG PAIN WHY NOT SHORT PAIN.

Good luck.