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10-10-2006, 10:52 AM
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RETURN OF THE PRODIGAL SON. THE PULL OF THE DARKNESS IS TOO STRONG FOR THE MONSTER TO RESIST. FROM DARKNESS I CAME TO DARKNESS I HAVE FINALLY RETURNED. THE ASS IS THE BEST, IF YOU TRIED THE ASS YOU WON'T WANT TO TRY THE REST....  IN THE NAME OF THE MOUTH, PUSSY AND HOLEY ASS". THE HOLEY TRINITY. 
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10-10-2006, 10:57 AM
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RETURN OF THE PRODIGAL SON. THE PULL OF THE DARKNESS IS TOO STRONG FOR THE MONSTER TO RESIST. FROM DARKNESS I CAME TO DARKNESS I HAVE FINALLY RETURNED. THE ASS IS THE BEST, IF YOU TRIED THE ASS YOU WON'T WANT TO TRY THE REST.... IN THE NAME OF THE MOUTH, PUSSY AND HOLEY ASS". THE HOLEY TRINITY.
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10-10-2006, 11:05 AM
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10-10-2006, 05:46 PM
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[QUOTE=Rainman]Well, true.... Some guys just lost interest too in their wife. Since she is not interested and we do not like to beg..... It's become the norm after a while that we each do what we like to do.... U watch your TV in your room and mine in the halll....
True, I ever ignore my OC for 2 months, at first she also act like Not interested, ya ya....waiting for me to beg her. sorry Mad, I rather PCC than to beg for sex, then later she cannot tahan anymore. Now I can get her to do anything / styles which she was reluctant to do last time !
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10-10-2006, 06:11 PM
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理财能力：原来钱到了一定程度它就会自己生钱
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10-10-2006, 11:48 PM
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After a while, they may get horny and may beg us for sex. But we must be careful to sextisfy them otherwise, it backfires and they approach other guys... Probably that explain how HoT wife comes about...
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11-10-2006, 01:05 AM
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Sex --> mostly off, rarely on.
Last count is 2.5 months of no-action. Just requested for her to do HJ for me but been rejected outright, "Don't you know it is very late now? Don't you have to wake up very early in the morning?" What the fuck! No FJ, no BJ, no HJ. Sexless marriage!!! No wonder my premature ejaculation problem deteriorates over the years. Other guys' stamina get better while mine is the reverse. Emotionally and sexually frustrating to have such a wife.
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11-10-2006, 08:24 AM
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11-10-2006, 09:18 AM
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I hope to reach the target number 444. In return, I will give you 2 points to encourage you to adopt a 69 position!
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11-10-2006, 09:33 AM
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11-10-2006, 10:18 AM
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RETURN OF THE PRODIGAL SON. THE PULL OF THE DARKNESS IS TOO STRONG FOR THE MONSTER TO RESIST. FROM DARKNESS I CAME TO DARKNESS I HAVE FINALLY RETURNED. THE ASS IS THE BEST, IF YOU TRIED THE ASS YOU WON'T WANT TO TRY THE REST.... IN THE NAME OF THE MOUTH, PUSSY AND HOLEY ASS". THE HOLEY TRINITY.
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11-10-2006, 12:42 PM
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haiz... for me... i'm normally the one who make the first move... he'll give in to me lar... but can tell that he's not enjoying as b4 lor... tried alot of methods to bring back the sparks... but.... no use... we use to do it everyday b4 marriage... but now... haiz... i've to ask for it... as afraid of losing him...
he juz won't ask for it... sometimes think of not asking for it... but scare later he eat out... come to think of it... even i did ask for it he still able to eat out... somemore he work shift... dunno if wat he doing in the day when i'm in the ofc he's home alone... btw, ours is a shortgun marriage... so he put all the blame on me & my child... that he can't go out & have fun... feeling rather depress & helpless.... anyone can give me advice....
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11-10-2006, 01:58 PM
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I have not been following this thread until yday .. got hooked and finished reading everything and now would like to post my humble views. Actually what hooked me was the contents, varied views of bros and sis shared here. Yes, considering going to take the big step after the failed first one which left her with 2 innocent and cute boys, who I wished they were with me all the time, but Sillypore's silly chapter forbade. Not going to that here. I realised most bros complained about less sex, some no BJs, some no Anal, why no BJ during "half sleep, half awake", why no go down to rip off the pants once they stepped in home from a hard day's work in office etc ... but bros, have you realised not ALL women are like that ? Yes, some would say they do everything during courtship, but didn't u also put up your best to impress during courtship ? Most women, unlike men, do not have "a lot of" sexual fantasies .. they enjoy company, hugz and kisses more than anything else. Even a sunday afternoon coffee lazying in some joint beside their man is more than what they would enjoy than bonking in the kitchen, then the toilet, then the store room and finale on the dinning table. I believe men thinks too much, sometimes .. or watched too much prono or read too much into others FRs. I believed some women would go to the extremes but I think most are just normal gals. Normal in a sense that they love their men, and willingly would like to spend time with their men, making love, doing household chores, going out for a walk, travelling etc. Sometimes, they push themselves a little further to sextisfy their men, which is nice and should be appreciated rather than taken for granted, but men tends to think otherwise, after trying once, they thot it should be norm and felt unhappy when the women do not do it again. For example, BJ, some women like it, but there are also some women who do not exactly like it, some even have a fear for it. I believe most of these women would try to give in to try initially as most men wanted their wifey/gfs to be the best BJer. Just like some jobs, some people are not meant for it, most men did not realised this and becomes unhappy about it. This may also be a reason for lesser and lesser sex .. men becomes sian cos their wifey/gfs dun do BJ as foreplay, the women become fearful to sex because eventually also means some form of BJ for their men. There are many reasons for lesser sex in years to come, this is fact, may the reasons come from the males or the females. No questions, it will affect the relationships. In my humble opinion, the best way to counter failing sexual, or should i say, no-sexual, relationships is still communications. Talking, not shouting or quarreling, solves many problems and misunderstandings. Sorry for being loh soh .. cos i felt like sharing this .. hoped it helps some people in SBF ... because personally, sometimes, some advice from no where helped me think before action. I hoped I also can help others. cheers !!!
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11-10-2006, 03:00 PM
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hey bro, thanks for the reply. hope all goes well with ur second go at marriage. we are seeing a psychologist for our marital troubles. The doc diagnosed that my wife suffer from depression, from stress at work. (she would be normal most of the times but would go into a rage and come after me for the smallest thing when she is not right) she is taking medication now. On our second trip we told him about our sex problems. We told him about my wife not being able to respond and sometimes put up an invisible barrier between us. he suggested we see a terapist. he says that many couples go through this during the early years of marriage when things like kids, financial needs like housing, car etc etc come into play. Women are less able to take stress generally.So the men has to be strong for them but not too much or else the man will jump first!
Get this, he says that SEX is a very important tool in maintaining a marriage. That is why we have to get it right. Am looking forward to seeing the terapist. Will definitely update everyone here since most of us have same problem. Unless you guys not interested, of course. Bro Ultra, don't get me wrong when i cursed in my earlier post. I love my wife very much and would do anything to make things right. Good luck to everybody here......
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#315
11-10-2006, 05:47 PM
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Your case seemed like those classic young boy and girl did the wrong thing by having sex without precautions and family forced marriage on both of you. Sorry to hear abt it, my fren... I am a blunt and honest person. I have this impression, your husband didnt want to have a marriage this early with kids or havent even consider marrying you in hte first place when you were in a relationship. The fact became clear as he no longer have much interest in you after marriage (its a man thing, the guy wants to hunt and when its his, he may take it for granted, he has yet to realise the importance of you a shis wife) and that he is frustrated and blamed you and the baby for his current predicament. Now, before I offer my opinion, I must first ask and warn you: Do you REALLY REALLY love your husband AND is he REALLY worth your love? If your answer is YES on both count, then pls continue to read on. At this point, a guy usually does not take sex as a priority towards his wife (he however may be eating out) but more on trying to get his life back on track, meaning get more money and less frustration. Unfortunately, his frustration stemmed from your marriage. You can't do much here EXCEPT to make things easier for him, make him comfortable when coming home (not sex, but maybe cook before he comes home, clean the house etc) and make sure to take care of the kid, dont let the kid cry alot etc or your husband will get irritated. Next, you must show clearly to him that despite the fact you are working too, he is still the 'man of the house'. He may be feeling inferior at the moment. This may even be caused by the fact that he cannot fully take care of the family financially (I am assuming he is a white collar since he works on shifts instead of 9 to 5..). And this is IMPORTANT: Although your man may not be much interested in sex, you need not make too clear a point that you wanted sex. Wear something sexy (you dont need a sexy black lingerie from Victoria Secrets really), something simple will still do the trick like wearing sleeveless without bra, wearing shorts at home and do cleaning. Always make sure you don't look dirty or hair in a mess like some aunty. I tell you, the slight impression or indication is even better then full request for sex. A man usually will see a girl wearing sleeveles in shorts with hair tied back hanging laundry sexy then a girl asking for sex in the night when he wants to sleep. Also, SMILE! Its important to show that to throw away worries your husband have... Well, thats what I can think of at the moment.... Now, there's another part of my opinion but this only involve the event if you feel that you dont Really love him that much and he is not worthy of you, then read on: Frankly, I am of the opinion that such husbands have more chance of turning traitor to his wife then going back to being a nice husband. The chances of him running away with another girl, eating outside or started to become violent is higher then he became nice nice again (this depends on how long you guys have been married, the longer the frustration, the worst it gets. The man feels he is in a black hole of no return..). I would advise in this case, that you better ensure you become financially sound to support your kid if your husband dissappear one day... I'm sorry to say this but it is a possibility you cannot disregard. Better to start looking at your own future then wait until something happen. Well, thats my opinion and you are welcomed to your choice, in fact the choice is always yours to begin with. Good luck!! 
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) My bor just spread eagle and wait for me to finish.... then ask, cum aledi ah? quick quick, tissue, dun dirty the bedsheet!! nah beh, like dat i might as well pcc.... which is wat i prefer now. outsourcing not an option... given that up entirely..... 
