Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[bumblebuzz]

Originally Posted by sexyback

Bro I don't know how to reach my stage leh. She always tells me, alot of her old customers want to bring her out but she never accept, even shows me all the chats. And she say I am probably lucky, only know me for 1 month and fell in love with me. And btw I am not handsome, not fit, not rich also. But she chose me because she say the feeling towards me different.

I’m also not sure what I want to progress further. Maybe something closer or more exclusive. But not sure if I would be the only one either. Hard to determine though she says I mean a great deal to her though it may just be words only. Not like we met outside though we talked about it. As I thought of doing things your way, going out to hotels and off days etc.

So hopefully I’m able to bring things to your stage. Not sure how to do it though but just progressively and visit more. 😅

[sladang]

Originally Posted by sexyback

Bro I don't know how to reach my stage leh. She always tells me, alot of her old customers want to bring her out but she never accept, even shows me all the chats. And she say I am probably lucky, only know me for 1 month and fell in love with me. And btw I am not handsome, not fit, not rich also. But she chose me because she say the feeling towards me different.

So after hearing what she said to u, after seeing all the chats she showed u, immediately u noe u are so special to her rite? ..

U are so happy, u are so excited and u cannot sleep for 3 days & 3 nites, rite? ..

[sexyback]

Originally Posted by sladang

So after hearing what she said to u, after seeing all the chats she showed u, immediately u noe u are so special to her rite? ..

U are so happy, u are so excited and u cannot sleep for 3 days & 3 nites, rite? ..

No I still have my doubts. That's why I take it step by step ba. Until the day I found out she betrayed my trust then it's game over.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by sexyback

Well it is really not necessary to spend so much on ML. I am dating this ML for 5 months already. She knows my backgroundbso she won't expect me to buy her expensive stuffs etc.

What I want to say is, they can give us assurance but what ever happens inside the shop during their massage session we cannot guarantee nothing will happen.

I assume that she love you more than you love her, being that you spend less and have doubt occasionally. I have seen too many in such industry, till one day a rich guy or big player comes along to tempt her with the money and love she can't get from you. She will be gone. In this industry, there are way too many different guys hoovering around and pouncing on when chance arrive.

The ML i am seeing nearly fall into such love scam setup by players wanting to bed her. She thought that a player is really single and tick all check boxes for her to get out of this industry someday. I also shared in previous post of how a big player come in, showering one ML all the time, $$$ and gift to snatch away her from a guy she have been seeing for sometimes.

The ML you seeing, you know best her character. Just be your best to stand put among all the potential suitors she is facing daily.

I shared a tiktok video link before about spending to make your women too expensive for others to have any chance. Many will think is to spend alot money. Although money do play a part. There are other expensive things as well. Time, effort and care are equally expensive.

Originally Posted by sexyback

Bro I don't know how to reach my stage leh. She always tells me, alot of her old customers want to bring her out but she never accept, even shows me all the chats. And she say I am probably lucky, only know me for 1 month and fell in love with me. And btw I am not handsome, not fit, not rich also. But she chose me because she say the feeling towards me different.

So she did her part to assure you she never go out with others. What you do on your part? Do you really scrutinize all the chat she have with customer?
If she really love you, she will not do anything you don't like. So if you really like her and you are single, consider getting her out of this industry.

Originally Posted by sexyback

Yes bro you are right, my last discussion with her about the FR i read

Stop finding FR about her to read. It will hurt alot.
Even if she can control, customer cannot control if the customer gonna tip $100 for service. roaming top and bottom, suck neh neh... sure have one lah. Nowadays, no FR will be written if something out of the usual (fj and bbbj) was provided secretly.

So simply suck thumb, just believe her and move on. Best is don't even mention about her work. End of day, she is here to earn as much tips as possible since you are not really providing much and no tipping her when you visit, It is an opportunity lost if there is a customer booking on same timing.

Originally Posted by sexyback

No I still have my doubts. That's why I take it step by step ba. Until the day I found out she betrayed my trust then it's game over.

You still have doubts on what?
betray you by seeing others outside? some may just be simple meal and no hanky panky.
betray you by actually providing more than hj? this is difficult to find out lah. You have to understand that there are other boostful player who like to add spice to their FR.

Why not game over now if you still have doubt which is a burden

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by bumblebuzz

Actually I was thinking what I want from a ML too. I was thinking something similar to what you have.

married man and single man play the game differently.
big chunk of our time is family. Meeting "mistress" outside need planning and also cannot be open public.

Also, for them to be with a married man is a process without ending. When someone who are capable to show them the end path, they will likely swich path.
I always tell the ML i have relationship with that if one day a better person than me shows up, grab the chance and get out of this industry. But I warn her that is is just 1% chance she will meet such person at her workplace.
Better meaning willing to spend more than me. willing to marry her. Truely love her as a person and not her body

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

Those 2? Still on LTVP. Guys salary more than 5k. I think if less than 3k, you maybe stuck LTVP+ for a long time or even get lower chance to get it if no kids.

If my marry my gf, she gonna be on LTVP too. But I got more than that 3k. I heard that's the 1st step.

Great. all on right track. Bet you also did your research.
Other then salary, there is age factor as well, older you get the slimer the chance. Plan the timeline probably from LTVP to PR to SGP.

[RedFurBull]

Dun be stupid.
They are here for money so you are just a conduit to the money they are looking for.
Nothing more.

[happpy]

Originally Posted by sladang

So after hearing what she said to u, after seeing all the chats she showed u, immediately u noe u are so special to her rite? ..

U are so happy, u are so excited and u cannot sleep for 3 days & 3 nites, rite? ..

not to pour cold water, they show you what you want to see.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by RedFurBull

Dun be stupid.
They are here for money so you are just a conduit to the money they are looking for.
Nothing more.

90% vs 10% bah.
from experience with FL in ktv and pub.
Myself is one successful example for 20years already. My group of cheong kakis, 50% same success as me. 50% still single and cheonging.

Single can try thier luck. Married want affair, just got to use money which the ML/FL wanted. win-win. Having affair also mean got to put in abit of love. Make sure not having affair till family broken

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by happpy

not to pour cold water, they show you what you want to see.

best is dont see, dont ask.
just like us answering to ML when questioned "Are u seeing other ML at other spa?"

Obviously our answer is NO

When having affair outside, always home later than usual. When questioned, do we say seeing other girls outside? Obviously answer saying workload more these days.

Its all white lies

[Funlover]

I won't say fall in love but I do missed service by Baby from Ewell..