Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Honey Boon]

most of them really think we were born yesterday. so usually I discount 50% first when the story first told to me. then discount another 25% when told me 2nd time, i know when 3rd time come, she will ask for $$ liao.... that's where I "siam" liao ...

Originally Posted by ekemono

But somehow part of her story doesn't match up.

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by ekemono

Yesterday (Sat) went out with her and her buddy for lunch and then she decided to spent the entire day with me while her buddy goes to work.

I brought her to many drinking places, Mohd Sultan, MOS, Boat Quay and in btween drinking session enquire her to share her stories. I forgot to add she told me from past outing that she had a son back home. So yesterday showed me pictures and pictures of son, parents, siblings. But somehow part of her story doesn't match up.

Bro life is like that lah. Full of ups and down. We know the field ahead is full of landmines but we still step forward. All I can say is just cherish the happy moments while it last.

And all the roads we have to walk along are winding
And all the lights that lead us there are blinding

This song descibes it best.

Oasis - Wonderwall


Today is gonna be the day
That they're gonna throw it back to you
By now you should've somehow
Realized what you gotta do
I don't believe that anybody
Feels the way I do about you now

Backbeat the word was on the street
That the fire in your heart is out
I'm sure you've heard it all before
But you never really had a doubt
I don't believe that anybody feels
The way I do about you now

And all the roads we have to walk along are winding
And all the lights that lead us there are blinding
There are many things that I would
Like to say to you
I don't know how

Because maybe
You're gonna be the one who saves me ?
And after all
You're my wonderwall

Today was gonna be the day?
But they'll never throw it back to you
By now you should've somehow
Realized what you're not to do
I don't believe that anybody
Feels the way I do
About you now

And all the roads that lead to you were winding
And all the lights that light the way are blinding
There are many things that I would like to say to you
I don't know how

I said maybe
You're gonna be the one who saves me ?
And after all
You're my wonderwall

I said maybe
You're gonna be the one who saves me ?
And after an
You're my wonderwall

Said maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
You're gonna be the one that saves me
You're gonna be the one that saves me

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

Will update my case scenario here when there's something to report.

Haizzz sibei sad. Guess for my case all the signs of lies by my Viet girl are already showing up liao just within few days. All those (non cheongsters) around me commented that she is beautiful. No wonder I am smittened by her at first sight in addtion to her KC.

The bad memories of my Thailand ex-tiraks have came back to haunt me again. I must muster up courage to call it quits before getting in too deep. I can continue to act blur and pretend I don't know what she is doing. It'll just only slice my heart into more pieces. By the way I have not shagged her yet. Only hugs and kisses. No money has come into the picture except dating expenses and an inexpensive gift.

[Honey Boon]

come on, with that $$ spent, you should have upped her at least one time liao

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

By the way I have not shagged her yet. Only hugs and kisses. No money has come into the picture except dating expenses and an inexpensive gift.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

Haizzz sibei sad. Guess for my case all the signs of lies by my Viet girl are already showing up liao just within few days. All those (non cheongsters) around me commented that she is beautiful. No wonder I am smittened by her at first sight in addtion to her KC.

The bad memories of my Thailand ex-tiraks have came back to haunt me again. I must muster up courage to call it quits before getting in too deep. I can continue to act blur and pretend I don't know what she is doing. It'll just only slice my heart into more pieces. By the way I have not shagged her yet. Only hugs and kisses. No money has come into the picture except dating expenses and an inexpensive gift.

Bro, beautiful ladies attract many male companions.....easy money for her because she is pretty.....same here same in Vn...

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

come on, with that $$ spent, you should have upped her at least one time liao

Almost shagged her but she don't want. Contrary to what you may assume. The money spent was very minimal.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Bro, beautiful ladies attract many male companions.....easy money for her because she is pretty.....same here same in Vn...

Yes bro I have to accept this fact. The most handsome and richest stands the higher chance to be the winner. That's why people say when look for wife. Plain jane ones are the best. Pretty babe attracts too many attention and problems.

I'll be in Ho Chi Minh next week. Hope this trip will divert my attention from her.

It's been great talking to you guys. Hope to meet up with some bros for coffee in HCM. Cheers.

[Honey Boon]

bro, if you can't "up" her in your second meeting, then don't waste time. switch target liao ...

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

Almost shagged her but she don't want. Contrary to what you may assume. The money spent was very minimal.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

Almost shagged her but she don't want. Contrary to what you may assume. The money spent was very minimal.

I think she may have been bao liao and money enough for her to enjoy her life now......so can accompany you for fun without money involved otherwise can be boring when her bf who bao her is not free to be with her. So tough for you to up her anymore. Just my two thousand dongs worth ....

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

bro, if you can't "up" her in your second meeting, then don't waste time. switch target liao ...

Ok noted.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I think she may have been bao liao and money enough for her to enjoy her life now......so can accompany you for fun without money involved otherwise can be boring when her bf who bao her is not free to be with her. So tough for you to up her anymore. Just my two thousand dongs worth ....

I have thought about this scenario too. The past one day she is very cold to me. Lesser sms and not so proactive. So silly of me to feel sad. For your info. over the years I became a very hard hearted cheongster due to bad experiences. But every once in a while that one "special" girl will pop up from nowhere and capture my heart. For my case I only know her by chance. I think you guys know what I mean.

[Honey Boon]

the "stories" and request for $$ will come soon. the signs are here.

she will act like very sad and sorrowful, then out of concern, you will ask her why? Lai liao $$$$. don't be shocked for the amount she will ask

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

The past one day she is very cold to me. Lesser sms and not so proactive. So silly of me to feel sad.

[SingViet]

Some bros have PM saying that they want to rent a house in VN to share with their gf there. This is seriously a very BAD idea. Most bros go HCMC only for a week or less each month, if you leave the house there for yr gf, u will be sorry Very soon, you will find that her whole family from province will be at yr place very often. They will take yr house as hotel in HCMC. The utilities bill will KILL you. The utilities bill in HCMC is not cheap hor. Better let her stay at her own place while meeting u up in hotels when u are there.

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Some bros have PM saying that they want to rent a house in VN to share with their gf there. This is seriously a very BAD idea. Most bros go HCMC only for a week or less each month, if you leave the house there for yr gf, u will be sorry Very soon, you will find that her whole family from province will be at yr place very often. They will take yr house as hotel in HCMC. The utilities bill will KILL you. The utilities bill in HCMC is not cheap hor. Better let her stay at her own place while meeting u up in hotels when u are there.

1st rent a house, next buy an apartment or villa under her name.

[Honey Boon]

this scene still not the worst.... just imagine, worse if..... the moment you leave for Singapore, the next moment, another man will sleep on your bed

Originally Posted by SingViet

Very soon, you will find that her whole family from province will be at yr place very often. They will take yr house as hotel in HCMC.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

this scene still not the worst.... just imagine, worse if..... the moment you leave for Singapore, the next moment, another man will sleep on your bed

Bro, well said.....but this scenario can happen anywhere not just in HCM, can happen in Sillypore too.....hahaha

[joejoe888]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Some bros have PM saying that they want to rent a house in VN to share with their gf there. This is seriously a very BAD idea. Most bros go HCMC only for a week or less each month, if you leave the house there for yr gf, u will be sorry Very soon, you will find that her whole family from province will be at yr place very often. They will take yr house as hotel in HCMC. The utilities bill will KILL you. The utilities bill in HCMC is not cheap hor. Better let her stay at her own place while meeting u up in hotels when u are there.

BRO SingViet i new in this forum but i always read your post the things u post is really ture i lean a lot on your guild anyway thank bro .