Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[Lubber]

This qoute is taken from other forums.

The Key

She yearns to simply just to be loved for who she is and not what others expect she should be.

Her heart is carefully locked within her.

If her shining knight in her life can find that key to unlock her cautious heart, she will explode with all of her unexplored and untapped emotions toward him.

Be patient with her and listen to her with all your five senses.

Accept all of her faults and deal with them as well as you can.

Give all that you can and she will do exactly the same.

Hold her close to your heart because she will matter when nothing in the world might when you are feeling low.

The key to her heart is simply bring her into your world and combine both worlds to make it as happy, as romantic, as passionate, and as honest and open minded as you can.

She will let you unlock her heart if you can do this.

by Patrick Jay Krawczynski

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by covenn

but then again u still need dat bit of lucky n chemistry for things to happen. draw the line btw ur role as a potential suitor n a gd fren coz if u become too gd a fren to a girl, she will not look at u romantically and at the same time will not wanna jeopardise the frenship by startin a relationship. my point is, in tis ironic world we r living in, being sensitive n emotional, all gd n nice probably work against u at times.

agree with u..sometimes being too nice can work against u...but for me..when i realise tat i am too nice to a ger tat i like..sometimes i wld tot of pullin back n juz bo chup her..but somehow i cant seem to do it..i noe tat ultimately the ger might juz take me for granted and i wld end up on a losing end.,.but for me..i wld feel tat if i wan to bo chup her juz to get her to like me..mayb i really dun like her at all..if i really like her..i wld do everythin for her and not expecting anything

Love is neva abt distance..tats y i can only 远远爱着你

[covenn]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

agree with u..sometimes being too nice can work against u...but for me..when i realise tat i am too nice to a ger tat i like..sometimes i wld tot of pullin back n juz bo chup her..but somehow i cant seem to do it..i noe tat ultimately the ger might juz take me for granted and i wld end up on a losing end.,.but for me..i wld feel tat if i wan to bo chup her juz to get her to like me..mayb i really dun like her at all..if i really like her..i wld do everythin for her and not expecting anything
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i neva had such altruistic beliefs. u r a gd guy n u'll get the gd girl u deserve.

[jintulan]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

...i noe tat ultimately the ger might juz take me for granted and i wld end up on a losing end.,.but for me...if i really like her..i wld do everythin for her and not expecting anything... 远远爱着你

your character is admirable, I'd pick someone like you if I'm a woman, but i'm not.

Hey! where are those single females around here? haven't you all been reading this thread?

[slyer]

Originally Posted by dominion

heh. nv thought of such tactics before haha. have you tried them?




actually I believe that most things to happen to us as adults are a consequence of our actions. so I dont blame anyone for anything bad that has happened to me, or anything good that has not happened to me. Perhaps there is an important trait that is lacking in us, or some skill that we have not mastered that lands us in this predicament. It does not mean that we're lousier or less catch-worthy but maybe we just have much more to learn.

bro i never try thoise feng shui stuff but then i tink i may go pray for gd love luck ba haiz. tmr is valentine's day so sian dun feel like going out tmr cos sure see alot of loving couples which make my heart ache


i agree tat those guys who have no luck in love doesn't mean we are lousy or inferior comapre to those guys attached lo. in fact i tink most bros who are unattached our quality are better than those attachd guys jus tat we have no luck in love or we lack of something which we need to improve on so i tink we shd keep trying til succeed

[slyer]

Originally Posted by auvoir

All depends on timing..bros..all timing. If ur timing is right..and u make the right impression , it doesnt matter if u are rich, good looking or influential, Of course, having all those attributes make it all the more easier to get the timing right. Understand wat i mean?

Take Mr A, he's a poor poker faced guy, but ultra nice with all these great qualities, he likes Miss A who is damn chio, smart and quite wealthy. If Mr A has a chance, like maybe standing in the MRT when Miss A's bloody BMW 5 series broke down that day and she slipped, he help her up, pick up her stuff, cracked a really nice humourous comment and got her attention, things start moving...

But Mr B , who is rich, good looking , he has the means to create oppurtunities althought they may not work well. He has the moolah, the car, the job to land babes but they most prob wont last long...the babes

So last note is...bros..if u think u are a great guy..and gals are missing out on you..do something about it lah..when u see a chance, grab it. Dun lament about it ..timing is important..we dun have the means..but we can look for the right moment to strike ...

quite true it depends on timing as well. i tink when i see chance i must go seize la dun tink so much liao. no fish shrimps also nt bad

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by jintulan

your character is admirable, I'd pick someone like you if I'm a woman, but i'm not.

Hey! where are those single females around here? haven't you all been reading this thread?

That's the trouble... by my own cursed experience, I find that women never stick to the man who loves them the most.

[jintulan]

Originally Posted by surfer888

That's the trouble... by my own cursed experience, I find that women never stick to the man who loves them the most.

certain design flaws exist within our genetic make-up.
women wasn't designed to stick with men who love them most.
They only stick like super-glue to those whom they love, even if little or no love is given in return.

Don't ever try to figure that out!

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by jintulan

certain design flaws exist within our genetic make-up.
women wasn't designed to stick with men who love them most.
They only stick like super-glue to those whom they love, even if little or no love is given in return.

Don't ever try to figure that out!

If everyone loves the person who loves them (the most) the same amount back, it could actually be creepy. Like Disneyland, a fairy tale or even worse... Stepford Wives!

I won't even try to figure women out... I have enough trouble figuring myself out sometimes.

[dominion]

not say same amount but if the person you love the most love you the most also not that hard ba....
be it at first sight or cultivated over time. no? anw wishing all the bros here a happy v-day

http://www.pconline.com.cn/pcedu/car...17xiaobing.swf
(for all the lonely guys again)

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by dominion

http://www.pconline.com.cn/pcedu/car...17xiaobing.swf
(for all the lonely guys again)

hey what's this link about? i clicked it several times but nothing appear, always a blank page?

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

We keep pursuiting but someone else just keep shutting up their doors. No choice, no choice. Maybe I'm neither handsome or rich..

i probably wouldn't be wrestling with this struggle if i had resigned myself to fate & decide to so call "let nature take its course" (like what one of my gd fren who has kinda given up)
but a part of me, i guess, is restlessly dissatisfied with the way my life has turn out, even indignant at times for being apparently "left out"

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

Keep trying. I'm 31 this year. To be frank, I do feel demoralise as day passes by, attending endless wedding dinners while I'm still single and unattached. But I would rather be a loser who tried everything than a loser who did absolutely nothing.

thanx for the encouragement... do not demean urself, as there is no shame in failure, what's more if u have done the best u reasonably could.
i'm also trying to ingraine into my "mental belief" that NOT being wanted does not mean i'm intrinsically inferior or of a lower value... it's difficult i know, cos it's a struggle on two-front-- first i'm already a person of low self-esteem, then still constantly kena face rejection with no one by my side to offer any encouragement...

But i keep myself inspired by reading... like this phrase "We are continually faced by great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems"
many famous people also meet with much failures (or were underdogs) in their times... like Abraham Lincoln, Thomas Edison hehe
furthermore i'm not tryin to win the next nobel prize or somethk, jus achieve a little bit of happiness for my own happiness...

[=WK=]

Originally Posted by jintulan

certain design flaws exist within our genetic make-up.
women wasn't designed to stick with men who love them most.
They only stick like super-glue to those whom they love, even if little or no love is given in return.

Don't ever try to figure that out!

hmmm... because women think with their heart?

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by surfer888

That's the trouble... by my own cursed experience, I find that women never stick to the man who loves them the most.

this is so true bro based on personal experiences.the more u love them some will actually take u for granted.

[dominion]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

hey what's this link about? i clicked it several times but nothing appear, always a blank page?

its a link to a flash show about a lonely on valentine's day. anyone else cant see it too?