Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 273

Buikia · #**4081** 22-09-2008, 02:46 AM

Thanks to all the posts, hope more of our bros here can share their personal experience as well.
Bro Singviet, of all the posts i have seen here, your posts have been the most accurate description of these Viet life partners.(as least in my case)
Too bad for me i didnt get to see this thread earlier and got myself into shit.....
Do share more of your life experiences if you can ya?

naemlo · #**4082** 22-09-2008, 03:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Buikia

Being a WL, she of course had a reason like everyone else, and her reason was there were some debts in the family(sis mortgage house to repay gambling debts)

I was wondering these ppl earn a few hundreds a month but can gamble away a fortune.

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Originally Posted by Buikia

Just as the burden of helping her had finally been lessen, i was informed again last week that her mum has borrowed from loansharks recently and they are contemplating to sell their house.

Again, y will these ppl want so much money for???

Sometime I just dun understand these ppl.

papillon30 · #**4083** 22-09-2008, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Buikia

Hi guys,
Thanks for the very insightful read of over 200 pages of this topic, i dun really post much but just to share with you my personal experience.

2 years ago, got to know of this Viet lady from GL/JC, after a few months we got together and she stopped working.(not going to talk about those KC stuff here) Being a WL, she of course had a reason like everyone else, and her reason was there were some debts in the family(sis mortgage house to repay gambling debts) in which i have helped her monthly till about 6 months ago, where her debts had finally cleared up.

Just as the burden of helping her had finally been lessen, i was informed again last week that her mum has borrowed from loansharks recently and they are contemplating to sell their house. So ask me to help out again.I nearly went berserk as my earning power is not high and the previous incident was a big strain on my finances over the last 2 years. So to cut the story short, told her to be on her own again and lead her own life.

B4 the loadshark incident, i was really considering to marry her as she had stopped working and waited for me since. (not a con job by her, no kids or ox etc, i have verified this) And i do know her love for me is true.(and vice versa) But now its all over.

Moral of story:
1)If you intend to marry a WL, be prepare to marry the family(and their debts) as well. I thought i can handle it but i didnt know it was a lifelong commitment!
2)$$ will always be the biggest and most important obstacle between you and your VN WL if you choose to persist with her, you better have a good paying job/in a biz and have some ba ba savings.

U count yourself lucky to get out of the cesspool b4 it's too late. Vietnamese, in general, love to gamble and money always no enuff.
Daughter(like the Thai) is a valuable asset; to look for willing Robert(s)
like you, to feed their gambling addictions.

Tony Stark · #**4084** 22-09-2008, 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Buikia

Moral of story:
1)If you intend to marry a WL, be prepare to marry the family(and their debts) as well. I thought i can handle it but i didnt know it was a lifelong commitment!
2)$$ will always be the biggest and most important obstacle between you and your VN WL if you choose to persist with her, you better have a good paying job/in a biz and have some ba ba savings.

Recently I got to know a WL who also borrow money from a loanshark to build a house for the parents. She repays her loan by selling her pussy. I've visited her home once. For your info. I do not and have no intention of sponsoring this girl. While I was there the mother thinks I'm an ATM. Asking her daughter to suck money from me. KNN. I only pay her for her services. I'm not a carrothead.

Glad you got out of this mess. Even if you have gold mountain. These people will exploit till it's dry! All they do is sit all day, talk cock and wait for money to drop from the sky.

technofreak · #**4085** 22-09-2008, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Again, y will these ppl want so much money for???

Sometime I just dun understand these ppl.

Greed nature just runs in their bloodline...

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Originally Posted by papillon30

U count yourself lucky to get out of the cesspool b4 it's too late. Vietnamese, in general, love to gamble and money always no enuff.
Daughter(like the Thai) is a valuable asset; to look for willing Robert(s)
like you, to feed their gambling addictions.

Yes...Daughters are assets, while sons are a liabilities.

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Originally Posted by Tony Stark

Glad you got out of this mess. Even if you have gold mountain. These people will exploit till it's dry! All they do is sit all day, talk cock and wait for money to drop from the sky.

Make known to them...They can only expect raindrops...Not money!!!

Honey Boon · #**4086** 22-09-2008, 02:36 PM

most of those debts, loan sharks things.... are just their stories "cooked" by them specially to test our wisdom, see how much can they take from their "robert".

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Originally Posted by naemlo

I was wondering these ppl earn a few hundreds a month but can gamble away a fortune.

Again, y will these ppl want so much money for???

Sometime I just dun understand these ppl.

SingViet · #**4087** 22-09-2008, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by technofreak

Yes...Daughters are assets, while sons are a liabilities.

Daughters are not assets. We will take care of assets, but to the viet province parents, daughters are just money spinning machines. Sons are not liabilities, sons are important as they ensure that future generations are created for the family. The viet province parents will take money from the daughters to feed the son and his family.

SingViet · #**4088** 22-09-2008, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Buikia

Thanks to all the posts, hope more of our bros here can share their personal experience as well.
Bro Singviet, of all the posts i have seen here, your posts have been the most accurate description of these Viet life partners.(as least in my case)
Too bad for me i didnt get to see this thread earlier and got myself into shit.....
Do share more of your life experiences if you can ya?

Glad that you find my experiences useful. i will share more of my experiences with viet partners as we progress with this thread.

naemlo · #**4089** 22-09-2008, 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Honey Boon

most of those debts, loan sharks things.... are just their stories "cooked" by them specially to test our wisdom, see how much can they take from their "robert".

This is what I want to drive at. All are just bullshit.

Hurricane88 · #**4090** 22-09-2008, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Buikia

Thanks to all the posts, hope more of our bros here can share their personal experience as well.
Bro Singviet, of all the posts i have seen here, your posts have been the most accurate description of these Viet life partners.(as least in my case)
Too bad for me i didnt get to see this thread earlier and got myself into shit.....
Do share more of your life experiences if you can ya?

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Glad that you find my experiences useful. i will share more of my experiences with viet partners as we progress with this thread.

I subscribe to this thread and always read whatever posted...this sentence was mentioned by a few brothers liao...

We just want to share our experiences and try not to be robert...

Buikia · #**4091** 22-09-2008, 08:37 PM

Thanks for the replies bros...
As mentioned in my earlier post, here are some of the screwed up and ridiculous shits i have encountered....

My ex gal has 3 sisters.
1)Eldest sister(housewife) - one who borrowed and owe loanshark $$. She managed to persuade her mum to put up the mum's house for mortage to settle her gambling debts. Weirdly she has a house of her own and husband is involved in trafficking stolen branded apparel for sale and earning at least 1k to 2k a month.Also to my knowledge that husband was able to repay debts based on his savings.

Official word from her was afraid husband would divorce her for being a gambling addict if she ask for $$, but didnt she think if family cannot pay the mortage, her entire blood family would be homeless?? i thought vn gals care a lot for their family 1? or applies to husband only??

2)2nd elder sister(housewife) - has a good for nothing husband(or bf) who has another wife and daughter in the province, husband(or bf) work as bus driver, can support himself but not my ex-gal's sister in any aspect, rents etc, ex-gal's sister still bore him a son! Ask $$ from my ex-gal or her mum for rent etc.
Recently, go to hospital every 3 days because her baby vomit, cannot sleep etc. I think go hospital at the slightest issue, is it that cheap or does she thinks she is a rich tai tai?

If your husband cannot take care of himself, and you cant even take care of yourself either, why the F*** do you still want a son knowing you probably have a good chance of eating sh** as a family together?? You think other people can take care of you for how long??

3)Youngest sister(jobless)-Stole from me on my 2nd visit to her home and bought 2 rings for herself and her bf. enuff said.

4)Dad(hopeless)-working as a carpenter, earn $$ but never give family a single cent, but yet spend $$ on crap like Hi-Fi, computer, tv, etc.
Family no $$ to eat, but it seems blasting the damn Hi Fi in the early morning and afternoon is more enjoyable, and perhaps to "challange" their neighbours who has the loudest Hi Fi in the neighbourhood, never mind the 1 dish 1 rice meals he is having daily.

5)Mum(penniless)-only sensible 1, but 1 lady support all the buggers, wonder how she can tong.

Buikia · #**4092** 22-09-2008, 08:37 PM

Sorry, dunno why always double posting....maybe take too long to type out my story.....

SingViet · #**4093** 23-09-2008, 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Buikia

Mum(penniless)-only sensible 1, but 1 lady support all the buggers, wonder how she can tong.

Bro, with the whole family in such hopeless state, do you think that the mother is sensible? the probability of that is very low.

As for being broke, don't believe totally. I used to believe that my mother in law is broke, then i later discovered that she has so many pieces of land under her name and has a lump sum of cash. Looking poor is just a way for them to ask for more money from their innocent foreigner son-in-law .

mikemike · #**4094** 23-09-2008, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, with the whole family in such hopeless state, do you think that the mother is sensible? the probability of that is very low.

As for being broke, don't believe totally. I used to believe that my mother in law is broke, then i later discovered that she has so many pieces of land under her name and has a lump sum of cash. Looking poor is just a way for them to ask for more money from their innocent foreigner son-in-law .

Thanks all the bros for their sharing..glad to know all their tricks and bullshits.

cheers

naemlo · #**4095** 23-09-2008, 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Buikia

Thanks for the replies bros...
As mentioned in my earlier post, here are some of the screwed up and ridiculous shits i have encountered....

Lucky u realised it early... n knew your ger is not different from other gers. A lot of cheongsters here always believe, "my ger is different from other WL."