How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[warbird]

Good morning!

Most men have a scarcity mindset when it comes to their interactions n RS w/ girls/women.

What is a scarcity mindset? When a man believes that the doll he is w/ is the only pussy he is ever going to get and if he loses her, he will never find another one as good as she. He will be acting needy, insecure n even desperate. He will become repulsive to her n will eventually lose her. Very sad.

Switch from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset.

What is an abundance mindset? When a man behaves as if there are an unlimited number of dolls of this type waiting for him. If he gets rejected by one, he laughs it off. When his GF/lover behaves badly, he just walks away, period.

"Behave as if you have 100 women calling you everyday." - David D.

Not good enough for me.

"Behave as if you have 100 beautiful women of your type calling you n wanting to fuck you everyday." - Bro Warbird

Cheers!

Bro WB

[AAdam]

Not good enough for me.

"Behave as if you have 100 beautiful women of your type calling you n wanting to fuck you everyday." - Bro Warbird

Cheers!


This is the most outrageous and arrogant comment that I ever come across. Why and how on earth will a self confident, financially independent and secure woman fall for such behavior? You seriously think that you are GOD"a gift to ladies??

Or maybe your target market are those KTV ladies whose main objective is to love your money. They won't bother how you behave as long as you show them the money. They can and will call you their Prince Charming even though one might look like a ugly toad.

Hope that you are not inculcating such thoughts into your son ya. I mean no harm and no offence taken.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by AAdam

Not good enough for me.

"Behave as if you have 100 beautiful women of your type calling you n wanting to fuck you everyday." - Bro Warbird

Cheers!


This is the most outrageous and arrogant comment that I ever come across. Why and how on earth will a self confident, financially independent and secure woman fall for such behavior? You seriously think that you are GOD"a gift to ladies??

Or maybe your target market are those KTV ladies whose main objective is to love your money. They won't bother how you behave as long as you show them the money. They can and will call you their Prince Charming even though one might look like a ugly toad.

Hope that you are not inculcating such thoughts into your son ya. I mean no harm and no offence taken.

Bro AAdam,

Thank u very much for ur post n criticisms.

The original quote is from David D. Please watch the video here: http://doubleyourdating.com/double-y...63ea460156eed0

That was how I used to behave when I was 21, whenever I was very lucky enough to get the contact of a pretty girl. I wish I knew about all that I hv posted here back then. I was reluctant to post the link because I didn't want my action to be misconstrued as promoting a biz.

I'm talking about an abundance mindset n belief in the S mind. It's very, very rare to find such a man because most men hv an incurable scarcity mindset. These men are very insecure, needy, always seeking validation n approval n they put their dream gals on a pedestal. And they watch in horror when their gals ditch them or cheat on them.

Read my quote carefully. I never mentioned "I." The outrageous n arrogant statement is meant for all bros here n for YOU because I love to share what I sincerely believe will work like magic. Yeah, like gong tao.

This mindset works w/ all dolls. Did I mention money n WLs?

When I tried to BY my first doll in late 2008, I was flatly rejected. Two of them hung up on me. Months later they both agreed. One of them was HW. What had changed? My behaviour.

IMHO, the most important determinant of what makes a man attractive to women is his perceived high status. I further believe that this perceived status is determined by his masculine n dominant behaviour. And the MOST important aspect of this behaviour is that he remains very relaxed n calm when facing tough challenges, including life n death situations. In other words, he has awesome emotional n self mastery.

OK, let me modify my quote to apply to non-WLs.

"Behave as if you have 100 beautiful and high quality women of your type, who are non-WLs, calling you and wanting to fuck you everyday. And they are all emotionally and sexually addicted to you."

If you, bro AAdam, truly hv such a mentality, deep in your S mind, you will hv more gals than you can handle.

There is a caveat. You will become so choosy n your standards will become so high that you will hv a hard time finding gals who are ur type. And u may never commit.

Like they say, when you gain something, you also lose something else.

Ralph Waldo Emerson said it much more eloquently: "For everything you have missed, you have gained something else, and for everything you gain, you lose something else."

Cheers!

Bro WB

[AAdam]

Originally Posted by warbird

Bro AAdam,

Thank u very much for ur post n criticisms.

The original quote is from David D. Please watch the video here: http://doubleyourdating.com/double-y...63ea460156eed0

That was how I used to behave when I was 21, whenever I was very lucky enough to get the contact of a pretty girl. I wish I knew about all that I hv posted here back then. I was reluctant to post the link because I didn't want my action to be misconstrued as promoting a biz.

I'm talking about an abundance mindset n belief in the S mind. It's very, very rare to find such a man because most men hv an incurable scarcity mindset. These men are very insecure, needy, always seeking validation n approval n they put their dream gals on a pedestal. And they watch in horror when their gals ditch them or cheat on them.

Read my quote carefully. I never mentioned "I." The outrageous n arrogant statement is meant for all bros here n for YOU because I love to share what I sincerely believe will work like magic. Yeah, like gong tao.

This mindset works w/ all dolls. Did I mention money n WLs?

When I tried to BY my first doll in late 2008, I was flatly rejected. Two of them hung up on me. Months later they both agreed. One of them was HW. What had changed? My behaviour.

IMHO, the most important determinant of what makes a man attractive to women is his perceived high status. I further believe that this perceived status is determined by his masculine n dominant behaviour. And the MOST important aspect of this behaviour is that he remains very relaxed n calm when facing tough challenges, including life n death situations. In other words, he has awesome emotional n self mastery.

OK, let me modify my quote to apply to non-WLs.

"Behave as if you have 100 beautiful and high quality women of your type, who are non-WLs, calling you and wanting to fuck you everyday. And they are all emotionally and sexually addicted to you."

If you, bro AAdam, truly hv such a mentality, deep in your S mind, you will hv more gals than you can handle.

There is a caveat. You will become so choosy n your standards will become so high that you will hv a hard time finding gals who are ur type. And u may never commit.

Like they say, when you gain something, you also lose something else.

Ralph Waldo Emerson said it much more eloquently: "For everything you have missed, you have gained something else, and for everything you gain, you lose something else."

Cheers!

Bro WB

Hi TS,
I don't mean to rub salt on your wound for what happened in 2008. Based on your wisdom and experience, what do you think is the deciding factor in the BaoYang zone that you had been in for so long? The target market is BY scene. Is it emotionally attachment, sexual addiction or monetary compensation? Which is the tipping contributor? Maybe your change in behavior might help you, but did it occur to you that your dolls might not get any better options in the market and thus crawling back to you? Yup, if you have self mastery of yourself in 2008, you would not have even take her back into your stable.

[owen10]

Any of u guys frequent the KTVs in peace ctr?
Went to the food court for dinner with some friends last week, it's quite happening. Like seeing a 'parade of gals every few mins. And some of them are pretty good grades too.

[iluvdamilfs]

Half bao / full bao doesn't matter because in the end the sum is almost identical. Expect to spend 5-8k SIN$ monthly.

I had a pretty Mongolian girl, model material for half a year but in the end it got boring and she didn't really perform that well anymore. Gave her a generous severance payment because she is a Uni post grad but had to be firm saying the arrangement wasn't for me anymore.

Truth told: Wouldn't do it again and just look for gf, if hungry have something on the side lah

[warbird]

Originally Posted by AAdam

Hi TS,
I don't mean to rub salt on your wound for what happened in 2008. Based on your wisdom and experience, what do you think is the deciding factor in the BaoYang zone that you had been in for so long? The target market is BY scene. Is it emotionally attachment, sexual addiction or monetary compensation? Which is the tipping contributor? Maybe your change in behavior might help you, but did it occur to you that your dolls might not get any better options in the market and thus crawling back to you? Yup, if you have self mastery of yourself in 2008, you would not have even take her back into your stable.

Bro AAdam,

I first proposed BY in Sep 2008, but didn't get to consummate any until May 2009. I hv since kept dozens of gals, mostly short term n only 5-6 long term.

Initially money is the deciding factor n a dominant behaviour n abundance mentality of secondary importance in the BY equation. But with time, a man's behaviour n mentality become more n more significant. Emotional attachment n sexual addiction can only help.

My gals hv options. I only go after the prettiest gals of my type whom I hv seen in SG. I'll literally RUN after a very pretty doll if I spot one who is at a distance from me. I'm often disappointed when I get close to her. I think very few ah peks hv done that. My dolls are not as good n as perfect as I would like them to be. But I can't BY dolls I hv never seen. I hv also tried to import directly from China n HK. A tedious process.

I admit that, as of today, I still don't hv absolute emotional mastery. It's something very difficult to achieve.

Cheers!

Bro WB

Originally Posted by owen10

Any of u guys frequent the KTVs in peace ctr?
Went to the food court for dinner with some friends last week, it's quite happening. Like seeing a 'parade of gals every few mins. And some of them are pretty good grades too.

Bro,

It's a good place to see a large number of gals under one roof.

Originally Posted by iluvdamilfs

Half bao / full bao doesn't matter because in the end the sum is almost identical. Expect to spend 5-8k SIN$ monthly.

I had a pretty Mongolian girl, model material for half a year but in the end it got boring and she didn't really perform that well anymore. Gave her a generous severance payment because she is a Uni post grad but had to be firm saying the arrangement wasn't for me anymore.

Truth told: Wouldn't do it again and just look for gf, if hungry have something on the side lah

Bro,

A full BY is always more expensive, when a gal doesn't work at all.

BY is fun. Getting KC-ed is part n parcel of living a full life. In a LT BY, a doll's character is as important as her looks, figure, pussy n orgasms.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[warbird]

Good morning!

Sometimes getting more pussies of your type is as simple as asking more often. Yes, life is really that good.

Here is a brief email by a guru, Mr. Ryan.

#1 Skill Every Man Must Master (take 1 min. per day)‏

Hey,


I’m a relentless asker.


I ask for things all the time.


Calmly and politely, but I still ask.


You have to be able to ask for the things you want.


Ask for the promotion.


Ask for a girl to go out with you.


Ask for someone to stop wasting your time.


It wasn’t always easy for me to ask for the things I wanted.


The fear of hearing “NO” crippled me.


I still have that fear and more often than not, I’m tempted

to not ask. I still feel that pain in my stomach and the nausea

that occurs just before asking... but I do it anyway.


I knew a guy who wasn’t particularly good looking. But he

was always asking women their name, what they were doing

tonight, their phone number, if they’d go out with him, and more…

He’d never stop asking.


This guy was getting a lot of dates and sex.


All this, because he was able to get over the initial reluctance

of asking. Very few people achieve this.


The best way to ask is to use a simple statement like:


“I want…”


“Can you… Please?”


Don’t overly use a softener, like, “I was wondering”, “Maybe”, etc.


Just calmly and politely ask for want you want. Accept that

some people will say “no”.


Do it once a day until it becomes a habit.


Have an amazing day!

Ryan

[stoked]

Originally Posted by warbird

Good morning!

Sometimes getting more pussies of your type is as simple as asking more often. Yes, life is really that good.

Here is a brief email by a guru, Mr. Ryan.

#1 Skill Every Man Must Master (take 1 min. per day)‏

Hey,


I’m a relentless asker.


I ask for things all the time.


Calmly and politely, but I still ask.


You have to be able to ask for the things you want.


Ask for the promotion.


Ask for a girl to go out with you.


Ask for someone to stop wasting your time.


It wasn’t always easy for me to ask for the things I wanted.


The fear of hearing “NO” crippled me.


I still have that fear and more often than not, I’m tempted

to not ask. I still feel that pain in my stomach and the nausea

that occurs just before asking... but I do it anyway.


I knew a guy who wasn’t particularly good looking. But he

was always asking women their name, what they were doing

tonight, their phone number, if they’d go out with him, and more…

He’d never stop asking.


This guy was getting a lot of dates and sex.


All this, because he was able to get over the initial reluctance

of asking. Very few people achieve this.


The best way to ask is to use a simple statement like:


“I want…”


“Can you… Please?”


Don’t overly use a softener, like, “I was wondering”, “Maybe”, etc.


Just calmly and politely ask for want you want. Accept that

some people will say “no”.


Do it once a day until it becomes a habit.


Have an amazing day!

Ryan

Totally agree and I can back it up that it works.

[xinbin]

Originally Posted by warbird

Good morning!

Sometimes getting more pussies of your type is as simple as asking more often. Yes, life is really that good.

Here is a brief email by a guru, Mr. Ryan.

#1 Skill Every Man Must Master (take 1 min. per day)‏

Hey,


I’m a relentless asker.


I ask for things all the time.


Calmly and politely, but I still ask.


You have to be able to ask for the things you want.


Ask for the promotion.


Ask for a girl to go out with you.


Ask for someone to stop wasting your time.


It wasn’t always easy for me to ask for the things I wanted.


The fear of hearing “NO” crippled me.


I still have that fear and more often than not, I’m tempted

to not ask. I still feel that pain in my stomach and the nausea

that occurs just before asking... but I do it anyway.


I knew a guy who wasn’t particularly good looking. But he

was always asking women their name, what they were doing

tonight, their phone number, if they’d go out with him, and more…

He’d never stop asking.


This guy was getting a lot of dates and sex.


All this, because he was able to get over the initial reluctance

of asking. Very few people achieve this.


The best way to ask is to use a simple statement like:


“I want…”


“Can you… Please?”


Don’t overly use a softener, like, “I was wondering”, “Maybe”, etc.


Just calmly and politely ask for want you want. Accept that

some people will say “no”.


Do it once a day until it becomes a habit.


Have an amazing day!

Ryan

Really need to overcome the fear of people answering a 'No'...

[warbird]

Originally Posted by stoked

Totally agree and I can back it up that it works.

Bro,

It works like magic.

Must remain very calm and relaxed when you get rejected repeatedly. If you show any displeasure n frustration, you are finished.

Originally Posted by xinbin

Really need to overcome the fear of people answering a 'No'...

Bro,

No self respecting woman will ever be attracted to a man who is fearful of her.

Cheers!

[bonkpedia]

Please forgive me if my questions are too direct. As I am nowhere have the financial means to BY any girl, so I won't know anything about it. I hope all the big bro here can enlighten me.

As this thread A friendly warning to a fellow singaporean appeared, I am wondering what would the SD do? Thank you!

[warbird]

Originally Posted by bonkpedia

Please forgive me if my questions are too direct. As I am nowhere have the financial means to BY any girl, so I won't know anything about it. I hope all the big bro here can enlighten me.

As this thread A friendly warning to a fellow singaporean appeared, I am wondering what would the SD do? Thank you!

Hi bro,

What do u like to know about BY?

It's like a marriage w/o the financial consequences. Unfortunately, there may be emotional consequences. Just my 2 cents.

Tks for the link.

I like to give a very stern warning to all bros who are thinking of getting married. Ponder carefully n look clearly before leaping. Don't get emotional, otherwise you will regret it. You can write it down.

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Good afternoon,

I'll be going overseas for about 3-4 weeks.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[bonkpedia]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro,

What do u like to know about BY?

It's like a marriage w/o the financial consequences. Unfortunately, there may be emotional consequences. Just my 2 cents.

Tks for the link.

I like to give a very stern warning to all bros who are thinking of getting married. Ponder carefully n look clearly before leaping. Don't get emotional, otherwise you will regret it. You can write it down.

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Good afternoon,

I'll be going overseas for about 3-4 weeks.

Cheers!

Bro WB

Thank you. I am just wondering what will happen if one day the sugar daddy received warning from someone about the girl they BY having bf? Believe or don't believe? Break up or continue? Thank you.

[justime]

This is indeed a Golden Thread ("Sticky"-worthy).

A truly useful thread not only must stand the test of time. But that the original TS himself must demonstrate commitment to the subject matter.

I am very impressed by the updates, chronicles, lessons imbibed (and discarded) and the quality of sharing over time. It shows up very evidently that BY is not some mythical amorphous thing, but rather a "true to life" activity in the world of cheonging.

I have met Bro Warbird (several years ago) and indeed was quite an active participant in the world of BY. I am not active anymore as I was facing some financial challenges!

Yes! stark reality .. there IS money involved to sustain a BY relationship. Like it or not, force of personality, charisma etc only goes so far.

(btw, it's not engaging in BY activities that bankrupted me, but rather being caught out during the Great Financial Crisis of 2008 on the wrong side of the financial investment equation)

Now that I have recovered somewhat financially, I can afford to dabble and indulge in this little recreational pursuit. To this end, I look forward to join Bro Warbird and gang in some BY outings and scoutings (if they would accept my company of course - cannot be presumptuous!).

I do know and remember the steps to land a BY (only this time, I have to go "budget") .... but what I don't have is "recency" and current knowledge! It would be indeed fun to see if the elapsing of eight years have diminished my "skill" or the world of BY now has "evolved" (or devolved) and operate on a different paradigm altogether .... cheers!!