I came here for a wank and do a report of my recent trip. I didn't expect to read your post on the other thread and somehow I got swept over here. Your love story with K is so well written, sweet and wholesome that it made the cynical and bitter me melt (a bit).
If your story is real, I really wish you and K all the best. A connection like this comes once or twice in a lifetime for some people ... and never comes at all for others
Amazing bro. Sex is just mere body satisfaction without a deep affection beneath it, and I think that’s what you meant by make love. Just like how having sex with paid personnel will not be as good as with someone who you deeply and truly love.
All the best bro.
However I am also curious about her sex life with her exes too. Hahaha. I just wonder how open she can be to you with her past
Fuck, i have a crush on a friend too, knew her since sec school, for 18 years already, but our contact is very on and off.
Was having r/s issue when she came back into my life on my bday after my insta post. She said something that struck me good and i guess it started there kinda, my ex broke up with me a few days later so i guess i didn't cheat...?
Then we kept in regular contact since and I've help her with her work since i'm the only one she knows who can do that stuff. At first i thought i was just being used but i cannot help being, i wouldn't say attracted but well, attracted to her.
Then, finally, i think we asked each other out mutually, since we haven't met for a long time and some of the work is easier done together. I got more excited, not like super excited but there's something stirring, as the day got closer. And when im showering before heading out, my brain just go full R and said "im going on a date!" to which i had to tell it to STFU and stop being stupid.
I met her, alone for the first time and god i can only say she's so womanly now (was tomboyish back then) and for weird reason i am comfortable with her as it goes, like actually comfortable. I didn't freeze in silence much and things flowed well. We have lunch, then work and urgh her side view when she's focused.
We met more, both alone and with a mutual friend quite a lot since and she's quite open in talking to me about many stuff. We play games a lot with each other and all.
But here's the kicker, she calls me brother and have quite openly told me im bro-zoned. So yea, on hand i don't know what to do, sometimes the liking goes away but the moment she messages me it's back. Being with her is so comfortable, even in total silence it's not awkward, i've never felt that way before in such entirety.
I know i left out a lot of details but im also kinda tired so yea. Maybe i might make a thread for proper advice, but i guess i wanna leave this here first.
Hi Balluz, SO's female opinion is that your friend obviously knows or picked up your vibe of being into her and she's either:
A) not comfortable and that's why she's explicitly said you're "bro zoned"
B) not comfortable but still wants/needs you around and so calls you brother
C) just isn't ready for anything with anyone.
K's suggestion is to take a deep breath, be happy to be friends and to see how things go. The more you overthink it, the more likely you'll push her away.
funfox, ssspikeee, johnnydsg, jgosh80, muttonsoup126 (hopefully we haven’t left anyone out, if we have, our apologies!), thank you all for the very kind words and wishes. As we were reading the comments and feedback today and she's been genuinely surprised how much positive vibes people are giving. So thank you all very much.
Both of us, in putting this down into written word, did it for two reasons. Firstly, it was a good reminder for us of our journey together. In remembering the first steps we took, we were able to laugh at ourselves over our awkwardness. We were able to relive the excitement and also cherish the warm memories.
There are many things we did not write. She's embarrassed by some of them like how I am blown away with her kindness to people. For example, one day during her break she and some colleagues went to the canteen. They saw the cleaner sit down and and while opening the packet of economy rice, it fell. K noticed the cleaner clean up the spilt food and sit down with a cup of coffee and didn’t get any food to replace what had fallen. K guessed the cleaner might not have been able to afford anything else because the food there isn't cheap so she discreetly bought a packet of rice from the canteen and gave it to the cleaner and went back on to work. I did not know any of this till a work get together where a couple of her colleagues told me. K was embarrassed as hell and kept saying "shhh" or that it was nothing, but this is the person K is.
Like I tell her, "she makes me want to be a better person."
If there's anything anyone would like to know, feel free to ask, but she's very cautious of giving out personal info.
Thank you all again for reading and taking the time to write your comments.
Hi Balluz, SO's female opinion is that your friend obviously knows or picked up your vibe of being into her and she's either:
A) not comfortable and that's why she's explicitly said you're "bro zoned"
B) not comfortable but still wants/needs you around and so calls you brother
C) just isn't ready for anything with anyone.
K's suggestion is to take a deep breath, be happy to be friends and to see how things go. The more you overthink it, the more likely you'll push her away.
Thanks for the advice K :')
I don't think she's uncomfy (she's used to guys liking her) or unready, but yea, who knows. I do flirt with her a lot but i flirt in the 'brother' kind of way if that makes sense, plus she's a gamer girl and knows my type very well so she's used to locker room talk as well, but obviously i do tone it down/do more appropriate kind of locker room talk with her around.
So i am not like jio-ing her out all the time, pretty much only gaming cos we are both into Once Human a lot, but even then i don't ask her everyday and she's even started like telling me her schedule recently so i just leave her alone on those days. In fact i don't text her much on my own initiative besides spamming insta reels (which i do to everyone) or i saw something interesting/related to inside jokes.
It's also been a long time since I've asked her out or even to finish our LOTR session since we've both been busy. But next week onwards she's more free so will probably resume being with her more.
So i'm more of overfeeling it than thinking it and i'm fine with what's happening for now, partly cos my ex was also good friend turn couple and then SHTF and now im friendless and girlless =_=
So i definitely don't need a repeat of that. I just know that it's hovering above platonic but definitely not near romantic yet, but still enough to make me wonder how things will go.
Finally, i want to assure that i'm not trying to derail your thread with my post, it's really more of a "fuckkkk I really wish this can happen to me" sentiment and of course, i'm really glad it worked out for you both, genuinely. I hope you two are stuck together for good, in the best way possible.
I came here for a wank and do a report of my recent trip. I didn't expect to read your post on the other thread and somehow I got swept over here. Your love story with K is so well written, sweet and wholesome that it made the cynical and bitter me melt (a bit).
If your story is real, I really wish you and K all the best. A connection like this comes once or twice in a lifetime for some people ... and never comes at all for others
Hi DickyWang. I know how you feel. K says I should be honest and admit as I was writing I would look at her and smile with a teary eye. I tell her the room is dusty but she just just gives me the middle finger.
Yes, the story is real and K is real. I had to leave out some details and information because some of it was too personal or identifying.
Both of us are truly blessed to have the chance to be in each other's life because we both agree we enrich the other. Both of us had very destructive and very toxic relationships in the past. K was very badly hurt and she quite honestly had given up on relationships. She constantly gets hit on, even now. The very few times she was forced into dating, people were either trying to show her off, or trying to get in her pants or trying to impress her. Ultimately, we both agree that we grew on each other. We were friends that did not expect anything of each other but were there for each other.
K says the thing that smacked her between her eyes and made her realise she was developing feelings was that for some unknown reason, I'd pop up (send her a text, call or drop her an email) always at the time she needed it most. For me, every time she reached out, I'd smile. When we went out or went for coffee or even dropping by her place, she always could be herself and let her guard down. For her, the last nail in the coffin (her description LOL) was how we could communicate without words. Just a look and we would burst out laughing, or I'll give her a hug and tell her things will be ok, especially if it was a bad day.
Since you came for a wank......... Before we first slept together, she never ever experienced an orgasm. With her ex, she always made sure he wore a condom and always had to have lube or it would hurt. That first night, she bought condoms and lube from Watson's (omitted the lube in the posting because thought it was TMI). I opened the condoms but not the lube. She opened it instead and put it on the bedside table to be ready. No shit, when she took off her panties she was so shocked and said very excitedly, "OMG!!! I'm so wet!!! I've never ever been wet!!! WTF!!!???" She was genuinely amazed, fascinated and excited. LOL She's embarrassed now. she was so wet no lube was needed at all and no lube needed ever since. When she had her orgasm, her face was flushed red and even a couple of veins on her cheek popped up, her chest was as red as a tomato and her nipples were beyond erect. All she said was, "OMG, I actually came...." Then a while later, " OMG, you're making me cum again!" If you know K, she's actually a very calm and measured person, even when she speaks so this was so out of character and it still makes up laugh.
Thank you again for the kind words and we are truly thankful to be this fortunate.
Bro while I know you had finished your story, would like to encourage you to share more on your daily life with her. It's such a refreshing read here of two loving adults with a positive outcome. Would love to continue reading your love story, of cos with some spicy sex sharing thrown in lol
I came here for a wank and do a report of my recent trip. I didn't expect to read your post on the other thread and somehow I got swept over here. Your love story with K is so well written, sweet and wholesome that it made the cynical and bitter me melt (a bit).
If your story is real, I really wish you and K all the best. A connection like this comes once or twice in a lifetime for some people ... and never comes at all for others
Bro while I know you had finished your story, would like to encourage you to share more on your daily life with her. It's such a refreshing read here of two loving adults with a positive outcome. Would love to continue reading your love story, of cos with some spicy sex sharing thrown in lol
Thank you for al the positive comments and feedback. K is genuinely surprised because she thought no one would care.
Also, before we start part 2, K wants me to post a correction note so we don’t get PFOMA notice… She’s actually 1.75, not 1.76m tall. Her exacts words are as she watches me type this,”adding one cm here will lead down the slope to adding 1 inch there and at the end she’ll be a giraffe and I’ll be hung like a horse.” Like I said, straight talker with sharp wit. Also, I got a DM asking what she meant by “yellow fever” and if the guy who tried to hit on her was sick. It’s actually a slang term meant to describe males who have a clear sexual preference for asian women seeing them as easily impressed and easy marks. K isn’t. She’s not against any race and like I mentioned above, her dad is of mixed parentage, but she hates arrogant asshats who thinks all asian women will run into their arms because they happen to be white. Hope that explains it
With that out of the way, on to part 2…
K called me at about 3pm on Saturday and said her relative could not make it so she asked a friend who said yes but had a last minute family commitment so couldn't make it for the movie either and so if I was free we could go together. I told her I don't like scary movies and her response was, “just pretend,. You don’t you need to watch, just need you to not scream louder than me” and she started laughing. I said ok and so we prepared to meet later that evening and agreed to go for a late dinner before heading home. She wasn't going to drive so I would send her back as I had to do something so could not pick her up.
We met at the lobby before making our way to the cinema where we grabbed our seats. No popcorn or drinks as she’s not a snacker and I told her good, didn’t want to leave covered popcorn or drink spilled when she got scared. She just smiled and sat back.
It was a typical horror movie which I genuinely don't like but what to do. She was pretty cool too, slight shock movements and little squeals but nothing major. But as the action increased she would grab my arm and at the really scary parts the would hide her face in my shoulder and semi squeal or genuinely let out a yell. I told her I should have brought earplugs and she smacked my forehead in reply and smiled.
After the movie we headed to grab dinner and just discussed daily stuff but she was still a little deep in thought. I asked her what was wrong but she said, “Just work stuff, difficult cases but will sort itself out eventually.” and changed topic. After dinner she said she needed to run up to Watson’s to pick up something and I said I would walk up with her but she said not necessary, the car was closer to the foodcourt and off she went. She got back a few minutes later and off we went to her place.
Security let us back into her place with the usual park in visitor’s lot reminder. I remember it was a cool night and we decided to sit in the park under her block. As we chatted it did feel a little cool so asked her if she felt ok? She said yes but just rested her head on my shoulder as she spoke a little about her childhood memories. Eventually it was time for her to go and I got up to give her the usual goodbye hug. I could feel she was shivering a little so I said, “you better go,” and she nodded. But as I hugged her, she felt incredibly warm and honestly, the hug felt very different. It’s hard to describe, but the hug felt close and intimate and we hugged for longer than normal. As we let go, she looked at me deeply with her eyes and kissed me.
Without exaggeration, the kiss was amazing. Her lips are full but they felt so soft. Honestly I felt immediately tingly as she kissed me again. This time we did let our tongues lightly touch and I felt as if fireworks were going off in my head. I cannot describe it any other way! I looked at her and I know I looked confused. She says even though I’m 4 years older than K, I looked like a kid who got caught eating cake and didn't know wether to run or take another bite. She put the confusion I was rest and just said quietly, “"please stay with me because I don’t want to be alone after that movie." I said ok and we went up to her place.
When we got through the door, she dropped her bag, closed the door and kissed me again, this time much more intimately but I could still feel her trembling. She let go and went to make us 2 cups of Sencha as I sat on the sofa looking like a more confused little boy (again, her description). She came back, rested her head on my shoulder and said nothing but I knew she was thinking. After a while, she looked up at me and kissed me in a way that blew my mind. As we kissed, she moved to sit on my lap facing me as she ran her hands through my hair.
When our lips parted, I was afraid of where things were going because I did not want to lose a friend over a ONS. I told her, “I think we better stop.” She said, "no, I have wanted to be with you for a long time and if we stop now, we will never be here again." I told her I didn’t want a ONS with her because I genuinely cared for her. She said she didn’t want a ONS either and that whatever happens will be between us only and we should see where this goes if I wanted to. I sat quietly and to break the tension, she said she was going to have a shower and when she came out if I felt bad or this was wrong I could leave with nothing changing our friendship. I said ok and she picked up her bag and went to her bedroom.
After about fifteen minutes K came out in her typical home oversized t-shirt and wet hair. She sat down beside me, didn’t say anything but rested her head on my shoulder, held my hand and closed her eyes. I used my right hand to brush her cheek and felt her soft skin as she snuggled deeper on my shoulder. I said to her that if something happened between us, it would affect her relationship with C. She replied she knew but sometimes its worth taking a chance when something feels right. She said she wanted me to stay the night but it was up to me. “Have a shower and see how you feel,” was all she said and went back to snuggling on my shoulder. I said ok as I got up and headed to the shower. I’ve showered at her place before especially after helping her move in or furniture moving. so this was nothing unusual. Inside, was laid out a towel, t-shirt, a pair of shorts and toothbrush, with a little handwritten note that said, “I have wanted to be with you for a long time, not because of anything else but the person you are and how you make me feel.” Talk about heart melt moment right! I still have the note in the safe
I came out of the bathroom and K was already in bed under her blanket which was pulled up to her neck. She just smiled and said softly, “since you're wearing the t-shirt and shorts, you’ll stay?”. I replied that I would and joined her in bed. She scrunched up beside me and rested her head on my chest and put her arm around me and said, “thank you”.
This is where I think we will end part 2. Part 3 will follow soon. Happy Friday to all.
Just stumbled upon this thread and just finsihed part 2. Was so wholesome and at the same time very arousing... Kudos to K for making you stay true to the story! Off to read the rest...
We have spoken about getting married, we bought each other rings and around her family and relatives she often calls me hubby. We do want to take it slow though for a couple of reasons. The biggest being what happened before. Her parents have said don’t don’t need to be married as long as you’re prepared to care for each other so we don’t have pressure.
Since you came for the sex and a couple of people have also asked for more juicy detail she’s ok with us sharing a little detail.
She was (and still is) quite shy. I guess most ladies are… The first time I tried to give her oral sex she kept saying no and pulled me up or pushed my head to the side. She never had oral sex before, neither giving nor receiving. So one night when she was asleep I went down on her and she woke up moaning and ran her fingers through my hair and when she had an orgasm, she literally screamed and pulled my mouth so tightly against herself I could feel her pussy muscles spasm against my tongue and taste her silky nectar flowing. She couldn't talk or move for about 10 minutes after.
The first time she gave me oral sex came out of the blue. We were making love and I was getting close. She was on top of me. As the feeling reached the climax point, she literally jumped off and starting sucking me and the feeling was so intense I thought my head imploded. But I was struggling because I didn’t know how she would react but she kept going till I exploded in her mouth but she didn’t stop and kept going. When she finally released me from her mouth she was grinning like the Cheshire cat, came up to my ears and whispered, “your semen tasted amazing and now it's going to be absorbed into my body and you'll always be in me and with me.” I cannot explain how loved and special what she said made me feel.
One day, she was getting ready to go to work and I couldn't stop myself from just throwing her down and taking her, she had no time to wash up again so put her panties on smacking my arm telling me how terrible I was and rushed out to work. That day she would send me texts say things like, “OMG, I can feel your semen inside me and it’s making me so horny.” The last message was, “be home in 45 and you better be ready cos I am going to fuck your brains out.” K is usually not so graphic with her words but this shows you how turned on she was and yup, when she got home I was punished adequately
I've never read anything more wholesome in my life... Hope you guys live a 100 years together... Realtionship goals. Sigh! Wish I had something like that in my life...
Just curious why you decided to share your story on sbf?
Hi DickyWang. I know how you feel. K says I should be honest and admit as I was writing I would look at her and smile with a teary eye. I tell her the room is dusty but she just just gives me the middle finger.
Yes, the story is real and K is real. I had to leave out some details and information because some of it was too personal or identifying.
Both of us are truly blessed to have the chance to be in each other's life because we both agree we enrich the other. Both of us had very destructive and very toxic relationships in the past. K was very badly hurt and she quite honestly had given up on relationships. She constantly gets hit on, even now. The very few times she was forced into dating, people were either trying to show her off, or trying to get in her pants or trying to impress her. Ultimately, we both agree that we grew on each other. We were friends that did not expect anything of each other but were there for each other.
K says the thing that smacked her between her eyes and made her realise she was developing feelings was that for some unknown reason, I'd pop up (send her a text, call or drop her an email) always at the time she needed it most. For me, every time she reached out, I'd smile. When we went out or went for coffee or even dropping by her place, she always could be herself and let her guard down. For her, the last nail in the coffin (her description LOL) was how we could communicate without words. Just a look and we would burst out laughing, or I'll give her a hug and tell her things will be ok, especially if it was a bad day.
Since you came for a wank......... Before we first slept together, she never ever experienced an orgasm. With her ex, she always made sure he wore a condom and always had to have lube or it would hurt. That first night, she bought condoms and lube from Watson's (omitted the lube in the posting because thought it was TMI). I opened the condoms but not the lube. She opened it instead and put it on the bedside table to be ready. No shit, when she took off her panties she was so shocked and said very excitedly, "OMG!!! I'm so wet!!! I've never ever been wet!!! WTF!!!???" She was genuinely amazed, fascinated and excited. LOL She's embarrassed now. she was so wet no lube was needed at all and no lube needed ever since. When she had her orgasm, her face was flushed red and even a couple of veins on her cheek popped up, her chest was as red as a tomato and her nipples were beyond erect. All she said was, "OMG, I actually came...." Then a while later, " OMG, you're making me cum again!" If you know K, she's actually a very calm and measured person, even when she speaks so this was so out of character and it still makes up laugh.
Thank you again for the kind words and we are truly thankful to be this fortunate.
This is so cute... K makes me feel hopeful about life and love again...
23-09-2024, 10:33 PM
Re: How We Got Together
Before we first slept together, she never ever experienced an orgasm. With her ex, she always made sure he wore a condom and always had to have lube or it would hurt. That first night, she bought condoms and lube from Watson's (omitted the lube in the posting because thought it was TMI). I opened the condoms but not the lube. She opened it instead and put it on the bedside table to be ready. No shit, when she took off her panties she was so shocked and said very excitedly, "OMG!!! I'm so wet!!! I've never ever been wet!!! WTF!!!???" She was genuinely amazed, fascinated and excited. LOL She's embarrassed now. she was so wet no lube was needed at all and no lube needed ever since. When she had her orgasm, her face was flushed red and even a couple of veins on her cheek popped up, her chest was as red as a tomato and her nipples were beyond erect. All she said was, "OMG, I actually came...." Then a while later, " OMG, you're making me cum again!" If you know K, she's actually a very calm and measured person, even when she speaks so this was so out of character and it still makes up laugh.
