Your Opinion on Sex with a Married Woman or Attached Girl (Dilemma on Morality)

[blohsg]

Hall Pass : hehe sounds like a hilarious movie ... shows the different paths a married couple can take if given the freedom to prowl.

Some will DO IT while others will hesitate & not ...

T/S - I suppose you're not in a regular r/s and you've just been stumbling into these women who take advantage of your weaknesses ... hehe at least you've established some ground rules b4 engagement but have they revealed to you why/what are their reasons for their flings?

Stress in their r/s and not enough romance/excitement ?

ez to juz bonk and walk ... coz you make yourself feel numb / desensitize yourself from emotions ... but once you're hooked, it's hard to withdraw (no pun intended)

[Bigbird00]

Well bro, this is a very sensitive topic you have written and i hope you dont expect those who are doing this to come out and disclose themselves and share their secrets. However, credit goes to you for coming out and putting up your hand and say there's something wrong with this. What are you gonna do about it is another thing and am not to judge.

Like you said, there are many who are in EMA (extra marital affairs) with FB or mistress or paid services. The temptation of the flesh is one of the key vices next to gambling, alcohol, etc. I think most of us have been through this road before or are still on this path. What ever we do and very decision we make has a price. So be prepared.

[Hunting]

HI All,
Thank you all for your views. It's interesting to see all the different comments. One thing for sure, some of us have sex as part of our life and some make sex part of their lives. I for myself, who travels frequently enjoys the different flavors of cultures and lifestyles. This is where life is less monotonous for me.

Originally Posted by blohsg

T/S - I suppose you're not in a regular r/s and you've just been stumbling into these women who take advantage of your weaknesses ... hehe at least you've established some ground rules b4 engagement but have they revealed to you why/what are their reasons for their flings?

Stress in their r/s and not enough romance/excitement ?

Hi Blohsg,
Thank you for sharing your views. I have a partner who lives away from Singapore and is a professional. For me, am based in Singapore where it allows me to meet people who loves some excitement.

You hit the nail on its head, i come across many couples who loses excitement in their relationship (prob pass the honeymoon period) and thus it becomes monotonous and they take each other for granted. These days there are many women who are widely traveled and liberated, expects more in their lives.

For me, when it comes to priorities, it's always my family and i expect this when it comes to the other party too and we will walk away or have a cooling period when things becomes risky.

I believe there are many bros & sis who have similar lifestyle, hopefully we can hear from them too.

Cheers & be well!

[jerichoy2j]

Personally married woman should be no-no..
but attached girl really depends

For me when I knew this lady, she was about to marry, but we still mix around everyday. She started the kiss 1st, started to touch me 1st. So we end up in the bed.. Everytime after sex, she will cry as she feel guilty but next time we met up again we did it again.. even the day before her ROM.

I actually ask her to be with me but becos the "face" she cant back up the ROM and also getting the key of the HDB soon.

But we never contact after she got married.
Even she did msg me after her ROM.


Another case is a married woman, but divorcing in process.. got I guess that is alright too..

[blohsg]

Jerichoy - sex is sex & that feeling of reaching Ecstasy at the same point of climax with the other person is indescribable sensational ... plus all the sweat/cream and aftershocks ... it's fucking gr8 but it'll b easier if we don't have to deal with responsibilities & consequences after we come to our fucking sen5es. You can detach from the pleasures but maybe she couldn't emotionally detach ...

If it's alright for you that's fine ... well some gurls do fuck/forget too ... i'm not judging but have you wondered if you're also the reason why she is "cheating" & feeling guilty becoz you made yourself so readily available? hehe i'm assuming you didn't bait her with companionship/fun/laughter/wine&dine/TLC.

If you were in her shoes and there's a guy offering you a good time w no strings attached and he walks away feeling "that was a good fuck & that's all to it" but leaves you feeling shitty & lousy, do you think that guy is helping you with your current r/s problems?

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T/S = all r/s ends up taking each other fer granted at some point ... they don't just break up but maybe after some "communicating" to each other compromises are made to get things back on track ? Others prefer to find easier options to "satisfy" their needs ... resulting in a few unwanted heart + head(no pun intended) aches.

Good that you have a set of rules to abide to stay on track ... your situation allows you "experience" the alternative lifestyle which is fine and dandy if your partner (doesn't find out or disapproves totally).

hehe so what are you going to do then ?

Those who "eat out" is pretty strai8 forward cash for sex ... hopefully no emotions traded ... no permission required.

There are those who swing ... where it's mutually agreed upon but it sometimes still comes with certain play rules. Maybe they can offer alternative views on your topic.

Anyway ... best not to dabble with (sometimes needy/deprived/unhappy) married men/women ... too much baggage ... so many FL & WL around hehe dun disappoint them.

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by blohsg

Anyway ... best not to dabble with (sometimes needy/deprived/unhappy) married men/women ... too much baggage ... so many FL & WL around hehe dun disappoint them.

i agreed that the baggage is too much to bear.
besides is just immoral to do up some other's person wife, i could never be able measure up to my own conscience.
sometimes i feel banging those FLs is already eating into my conscience.