How I got cheated by KTV girl

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by banana

relax bro. i know how sick it is to kanna this type of zapping. sigh...

Gray box will not effect the rep, anyway who cares, I just state what I believe in this area of WL. Each guy plays his own game with WL, there is no right or wrong having relation with WL.

[karphile]

Originally Posted by banana

bro, we are all human beings and have emotion. when it come to the matters of the heart, sigh...

like i say somewhere in the forum. i told myself that i will never get involve with a m'sia or a PRC. when u in love.. now u see the shit i getting into. sigh... now u understand how the phase "love is blind" come about.

Bro, about "the shit" you're getting into... i wish you well and cross all my fingers for you.

Emotions are the very reason for the existence of the entertainment trade... many have fallen into the traps with eyes wide open. It is only after the dust has settled that we become wise and wonder why we were so silly.

God knows how many matured men with beer gut, mishapen bodies and bad skin without tons of money in the bank have truly believed that a sweet young thing with a killer body and model looks have truly fallen in love with them..... hahahaha.

Signing off now...

Cheers to all and Merry X'mas and Happy New Year.

[fcukger]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Go n sleep, wake up in the morning, another day for u. So there will always be a day for u.

will take ur advice... when i wake up that up ur rep+...

[bohya]

Originally Posted by fcukger

sometimes LOVE is not to own the person but to wish or see her happiness...

Haiz... actually i feel that most, if not all bros who entered this thread to post some sad experiences or questions has his own answer deep inside already... coz afterall, we all already know from day 1 that having a PRC KTV/TN/GL gerfriend carries a more failure rate then anything else... but still... when yr emotions gets the better of you, dun say yr brain, even yr lil bro u also won't listen.... coz the image of the ger juz couldn't be erase.... as we are not Windows XP .... we are made from flesh and blood....
So therefore, to all bros, do what u feel to do.. even u know it may be the most sad thing u ever done.... coz it is simply hard to juz take it up and let it down just like that... but pls dun commit the expenses on the pain of yr family/wife/gerfriend/friends... calculate the cost and let time take its course.. and if it won't turn out for a better.. then at least u may just wanna forget the bad stuff and look back on those sweet moments u enjoyed/bonk together... by then, if u want, u can still look for anonther crop to reap/bonk/dig...
like me, I agree with bro fcukger. Confirm we are all fools... the lousy students of the Sammyboy Secondary School, who have failed the KTV rules of engagement subject jiat lat jiat lat....
As for me, i think i am one of those worst students... coz me, paid a deal of money liao, end up dun feel like bonking her liao.. but to treat her as a norm person. but me just feel abit more relieve/lucky than some other bros here... coz after much persuasion by me, my PRC mei mei, now seriously looking for a office job/sales promoter back in china... and meanwhile, learning english to improve herself.. .... so all and all... i treat my $$ loss as helping another person to lead a more normal life...

but hey, i think sometimes if we just look from another angle, these PRC also quite chamz.... knn, a mere 2000 rmb for a office assistant job consider quite high paying liao... wah lau.... even though china expenses very low... but still quite pathetic leh.... is about $400.... machiam NSF pay like that....

sorry for the long-winded post... just speaking my innermost thoughts.. please do correct me if you find me wrong...

[fcukger]

Originally Posted by bohya

I agree with bro fcukger. Confirm we are all fools......

anyway i lose oredi... no arguement will be engaged... i cant deny diff ppl had diff pt of view... thanx bro bohya for supporting my sentence...

[banana]

Originally Posted by bohya

.... coz the image of the ger juz couldn't be erase.... as we are not Windows XP .... we are made from flesh and blood....
So therefore, to all bros, do what u feel to do..

i m not winxp, always crash and BSOD. i m Mac OS X a far more superior race. hee hee...

Originally Posted by bohya

like me, I agree with bro fcukger. Confirm we are all fools... the lousy students of the Sammyboy Secondary School, who have failed the KTV rules of engagement subject jiat lat jiat lat....

dont worry u will graduate from here to Geyalng JC and earn your Bachelor of Masturbation in KTVU.

Originally Posted by bohya

...but to treat her as a norm person. but me just feel abit more relieve/lucky than some other bros here... coz after much persuasion by me, my PRC mei mei, now seriously looking for a office job/sales promoter back in china... and meanwhile, learning english to improve herself.. .... so all and all... i treat my $$ loss as helping another person to lead a more normal life...

i m glad u r a human being and have emotion. is good to hear your story and know we have good bro here.

Originally Posted by bohya

sorry for the long-winded post... just speaking my innermost thoughts.. please do correct me if you find me wrong...

dont be sorry, be happy.

[santaizi]

Originally Posted by bohya

sorry for the long-winded post... just speaking my innermost thoughts.. please do correct me if you find me wrong...

you are not alone for spending alot of $$$ but never bonk the girl.

Originally Posted by bohya

As for me, i think i am one of those worst students... coz me, paid a deal of money liao, end up dun feel like bonking her liao.. but to treat her as a norm person. but me just feel abit more relieve/lucky than some other bros here... coz after much persuasion by me, my PRC mei mei, now seriously looking for a office job/sales promoter back in china... and meanwhile, learning english to improve herself.. .... so all and all... i treat my $$ loss as helping another person to lead a more normal life..

actually, u r the best student with honours man! manage to convince her to change n she did! not easy with most of them already psychoing themselves when they are here to make the most $$$ as possible

Originally Posted by bohya

but hey, i think sometimes if we just look from another angle, these PRC also quite chamz.... knn, a mere 2000 rmb for a office assistant job consider quite high paying liao... wah lau.... even though china expenses very low... but still quite pathetic leh.... is about $400.... machiam NSF pay like that....

actually for RMB2K is considered alot for average salaried worker so they are rather lucky!

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by karphile

Hi All,

I think that it's absolutely strange that anyone would want to have relationships with girls who are working in an industry where they give sex and "feelings" in exchange for money. It is their job to make you feel good about yourself. In exchange, they expect you to pay. When the money stops, the service stops. Pure and simple.

It is a business transaction. All trades operate the same way. If you can't pay, you can't get service. If you don't believe, try to get a lawyer, doctor, accountant, supplier, contractor etc to do work for you if you don't pay them or tell them midway through a job that you ran out of money.

When your lawyer, doctor, contractor etc stop work because of non payment by you, do you say they cheated you?

In fact, the golden thread, if you strip all the stories here to the barest, is that things go wrong (ie withdrawal of service) when they either don't want your money anymore [they have enough and/or a higher bidder for their service (another customer) has come along] or you ran out of money.

You can't pay anymore, so you can't get the service anymore. How can you say that you were cheated? You felt loved when you were able to pay. That is the bargain. Don't expect to continue feeling loved when you can't afford the service.

Also, it has nothing to do with nationality. It's just that there are more PRC "shops" here.

Cheers

bro,

sorry for joining late. think bro awakening n other bros point in this post about maintaining a prc n being 'cheated' is that there was more than a wl n customer relationship between them.

of course if u have a mind blowing bonk with a wl or ktv ger n decide 2 pay her money every month n she bonk another man, there is no cheating, cos u r a fool to pay her more when she promise u nothing. just like u pay your doctor $1 k instead of $30. if he dont give u priority next time u see him, u cant blame him.

in this case, there was more to it. some of the men r more like boy fren or lao gong n believed in the women's sweet words or promises. when the women go back on their words, the men feel cheated.

of course u can argue why these men fall in love with these women as by nature of these women's jobs, they give them sex n feelings for money, so they should have realised the gers' feelings cannot be genuine.

but u cant explain love n more importantly, some men choose to believe in the inherent goodness of another human being, no matter what her sorry predicament that led her 2 b a wl.

so the bargain or deal is different. or at least the ger say one thing n do another leading the men to think their deal is a gam cheng or relationship deal when in fact its only a fucking deal.

just like u pay yr gf or wife money every month, if no money, they fcuk other men?

[sgmjplayer]

If you all dont mind, I would like to remind again.

Please DONT quote the WHOLE long post..

[PuTonRen]

[QUOTE=sadfa]
in this case, there was more to it. some of the men r more like boy fren or lao gong n believed in the women's sweet words or promises. when the women go back on their words, the men feel cheated.

but u cant explain love n more importantly, some men choose to believe in the inherent goodness of another human being, no matter what her sorry predicament that led her 2 b a wl.
[QUOTE]

Well said, brother,

As I have said, how could we trust a lady who calls you 'Lao Gong' only after a very short encounter, or worst, after the first meeting/making love session. Lao Gong means nothing to them so much so that they use the term freely. For some of us, if we take this term seriously, we are in for trouble. Calling you Lao Gong in our context means to give them more money.

During several occasions, I met girls who called me 'Lao Gong' after the first or the first few encounters, and told me that they did not use the term freely, but only to the person they like. Better still, they would say "I do not know why only after a few meetings with you, I feel strongly to call you 'Lao Gong', that I did not use it to anyone else so easily". You think I believed them? Of course not, I told them straight on their face "Then do not call me 'Lao Gong', just call "Lao + My sirname" or "Qing Ai de". It costs less!

My $14.77 worth

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by sgmjplayer

If you all dont mind, I would like to remind again.

Please DONT quote the WHOLE long post..

dont have lah! i deleted some part n included those that u need to read b4 u read my post. somemore he post a few times. otherwise catch no ball. kaoozzzz.

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

As I have said, how could we trust a lady who calls you 'Lao Gong' only after a very short encounter, or worst, after the first meeting/making love session. Lao Gong means nothing to them so much so that they use the term freely.

My $14.77 worth

bro,

their words r like my sperm, easy 2 give.

anyway i am trying to explain why people fall for these prc gers. it can be for many reasons, but they r entitled to the reason lor.

maybe those people who did, can explain why they fall for em? maybe more than just being called lao gong?

[bhoven]

Originally Posted by sadfa

bro,


in this case, there was more to it. some of the men r more like boy fren or lao gong n believed in the women's sweet words or promises. when the women go back on their words, the men feel cheated.

of course u can argue why these men fall in love with these women as by nature of these women's jobs, they give them sex n feelings for money, so they should have realised the gers' feelings cannot be genuine.

but u cant explain love n more importantly, some men choose to believe in the inherent goodness of another human being, no matter what her sorry predicament that led her 2 b a wl.

so the bargain or deal is different. or at least the ger say one thing n do another leading the men to think their deal is a gam cheng or relationship deal when in fact its only a fucking deal.

just like u pay yr gf or wife money every month, if no money, they fcuk other men?

Totally agree with u brudder .... its not as neat/clinical as a business transaction. The "cheating" is of the trust placed in the gurl who has promised to be faithful or to turn over a new leaf in return for the financial support which is many times the costs of a commercial bonk. U just feel disappointed when there is a failed one time business transaction; u don't lose sleep or mind over it but in a relationship, emotions are involved. Hurt is harder to overcome. In a way it is like being two-timed and cuckolded. Sigh.

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by bhoven

Totally agree with u brudder .... its not as neat/clinical as a business transaction. The "cheating" is of the trust placed in the gurl who has promised to be faithful or to turn over a new leaf in return for the financial support which is many times the costs of a commercial bonk.
Hurt is harder to overcome. In a way it is like being two-timed and cuckolded. Sigh.

bro,

1. u put my pt exactly across in 1 short para. u english teacher har?
2. although some people would say why so stupid to believe in their words , when they r generally notorious cheaters n liars?
3. anyway agree w me, u know what to do har?