The old times....

[zerofighter]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

Bro swee this song... Well done..

[Angeldevilinone]

Dear bro zero fighter, I am new to sbf & was intrigued by it. Read almost all forum threads at one go. Born in the year of rabbit, one year different from you. Your memories of ecp, teenage luv brought back memories to me. Especially your songs

[Angeldevilinone]

I was reading your stories at one go. I was enjoying the songs u posted & by others besides memories of pure love that I had came back to me. However, k I offer you another perpective? Almost all the threads on sbf are about bonking ie ons, fbs, flings, huge attempts to steal another wife/gal fren/ virgin etc. This is what I deduced (when she is in uni) . 1) no sex between u & Yvonne 2) Yvonne is super innocent 3) bf then (you) in ns ie no time Thus, she is ripe for seduction! One man's meat is another man's poison! Your goddess is another man's easy target for seduction. With a bit of kino, a bit of alcohol, a bit of sexual tension, a predator would eat her alive.

[Angeldevilinone]

Back to present. Most probably Yvonne married a player. Since he only spends 7 days in a month in Singapore & still out of the time he's back & she found condom in his pocket, more or less confirm already lah. For a normal female, don't think k stand such a person. It is better for her to divorce him. Period. You have your wife & kids & your Christian values, you have to think carefully though. Whatever decision u make, I will support u as we are humans after all.

[miss52766]

What a good story from a guy's pov. I'm a mummy of 1 in my late twenties. Not say the rs with the husband is not good, its just abit stale. Recently met up with a ex-bf who shared some memories. Have been looking forward to msging him, waiting for his msg. He said to be there for me to 诉苦. But he hardly reply my msges.. so this is how guys think.. deeper.

[miss52766]

What a good story from a guy's pov. I'm a mummy of 1 in my late twenties. Not say the rs with the husband is not good, its just abit stale. Recently met up with a ex-bf who shared some memories. Have been looking forward to msging him, waiting for his msg. He said to be there for me to 诉苦. But he hardly reply my msges.. so this is how guys think.. deeper.

[MrBumper]

nice story bro.. keep it posting!

[tallsynn]

To, TS.
Just finish ur story from start till now. A very emotional story, sob my eyes seeing both u n her in this situation. Sure is one of the best story I've read.
N I must agreed with samster, angeldevillinone. Her husband is a player, just divorce him, I know I may sound bad from a church pov, but pls think of her feeling as well, staying wit a husband that she know he's sleeping everywhere n she hv to get used to it?? Telling her to kick that shit bastard away, I think no ppl wil mark a word.

[tallsynn]

Originally Posted by miss52766

What a good story from a guy's pov. I'm a mummy of 1 in my late twenties. so this is how guys think.. deeper.

Yes, when guy think with they're big head. Is all rasional, deeper stuff. We very care about other ppl feeling, as specially the ones we cherish.
N when think wit small head, is the other way around.

[zerofighter]

Bros here is another of my fav songs...



張學友 - 這麼近那麼遠 - YouTube

Bros... have we ever wondered how little we know abt our spouses at times...Likewise they may nt understand us that well too...

[Angeldevilinone]

To bro zero fighter, I am a Christian too but no longer goes to church. The term is called "backslided". If I remember correctly, only Catholics are not supposed to divorce. Christian not so strict rite? Shared a bit of personal experience. Fell in luv with one gal previously & luv her a lot. Wanted to marry her type. We had sex & I thought we were going towards the marriage route. No leh, she continued to keep her options open. Guess she is the player in this case (i'am the stupid guy being played). We broke up but guess what! The next gal I met was super guai & faithful we got married. My point is if bobianz, let it be game over & who knows Yvonne may haf better luck the next time round & haf a happy family.

[simifly]

Good to c more opinions given to bro zerofighter.

Been busy with work so hardly comes in.

Bro zerofighter, any updates about Yvonne?

Let me wish all bros here an early happy new year and a prosperous 2014.

[zerofighter]

Bros... just a quick update... Her hubby have agreed to church counseling and the both of them was going through marriage counseling together... Hopefully their marriage can be salvaged as her hubby will come to a point of conviction of his wrong doings... ( Let pray that he will change for the better and will work hard to restore this marriage...) As her friend... i really wished that she will be xinfu in the hands of the man she have chosen....

[tallsynn]

Glad to heard that, Hope everything went well for her n her marriage.

[miss52766]

Does it mean you will not contact her much anymore? Then how is she gonna find a soulmate to confide in? Contact, but what if her husband is unhappy?
My ex will not msg me cox he afraid my hub will be ard. i know he is a kou huahua xin huahua guy(but single), but I still find it hard to avoid contacting him at all. Even thou he reply slow or not at all.. is it not worth it? Cox maybe like most bros here, he thinks he shd draw the line?