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[MrDarkSide]

I wonder how is haha_123 now? MIA??

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by MrDarkSide

I wonder how is haha_123 now? MIA??

Let's be patient. Wait for him

[haha_123]

Originally Posted by MrDarkSide

I wonder how is haha_123 now? MIA??

Sorry to keep u all waiting. I've been busy at work and it was not convenient to access sbf in my office. I took a quick dinner and quickly rush home to see so many postings after my bx's very long-winded e-mail. Thanks to all bros for your concern and kind advices.

I remembered that 2 years ago when I just came to know my bx, I saw a stranger sms to her:"Did u receive the money already?" on my bx's mobile. I never questioned her about that sms. But I shudder whenever I think of it. I kept probing my bx who was the stranger that kept sending her smses during our date. My bx was very happy then because she said that I love her, that's why I'm jealous.

[haha_123]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Bro, I still remember your earlier newbie posts asking us how to go HCM in the other thread...now you are a senior...as you had been to HCM and with your gal for quite sometime....you are the best person to decide what is right or wrong...also if your gal is really love you or honest with you...ask yourself that and you will make a prudent decision...

I've been going to HCMC to meet up with my bx every 2 to 3 months. Each visit will take about 4 to 5 days. After 2 years already, I still don't know whether my bx truly loves me, or just using me to get to a better life in Singapore, or for me to provide some financial support to her family in the countryside. Because of this, I still have not brought her to Singapore yet. She's suspecting that I'm having another woman in my house here. Hahaha....

Anyway on my last visit, she brought me to the hospital to visit her nanny, and introduced me to her elder sister. The hospital is Cho Ray hospital, which unfortunately was not a very pleasant place to be. I just kept the face mask on throughout, and hardly spoke a word.

[haha_123]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

I see that you got yourself a 'baxa' 2 years back. I am wondering if she is the same 'baxa' you talk about. If she is, then you have give this relation a good thought.

2 years ago I had 2 'baxas'. It was very taxing and I had to make a choice between the 2. It was not a difficult decision.

Another bx actually came to my home maybe 4 years ago. But she's gone back and working in Hanoi now. Last year she wanted to introduce her step-sister to me, provided I treat her well and not just play-play only. I politely rejected her offer as my hands were full then.

[haha_123]

Originally Posted by MrDarkSide

Roughly the meaning is as follow:

Why did you think like this? You know me for very long already but dont trust me. The situation is like this. My friend like someone. I went out with my friend and that guy. I felt that they are in a relationship already. After that my friend wanted to call that guy so my friend used my phone to sms him. Because the guy has the same name as you then the sms went to the wrong person. It is only like this. You had think too much already. You make me very sad. I already explained to you many times but you cant understand.


What I feel is that she is blatantly lying through her teeth.

• If your number is a Singapo number then how is it possible to send the sms wrongly?
• If her friend borrow her phone to sms, the friend will be inserting the guy number. It doesn't seem logical that the guy's number is saved in her phone, right?
• Too many loopholes liao.

Thank you bro for the translation. I also feel that your analysis is spot-on. There is just too much of a coincidence.

Now she's making me feel guilty be saying: "Ox oi, why u don't believe me? Why?? Huhu...."

There's saying in Chinese: The thief shout "catch the thief"!!! Hmmm....

Having said all that, there's a part of me that says I should give her the benefit of the doubt. After all, I've already invested so much time and money on her.

Do I need to start all over again, by looking for a new bx???

[SIZE="4"]Wen Shi Jian, Qing Wei He Wu??[/SIZE] Sigh....

[haha_123]

Originally Posted by MrDarkSide

She called you alot because she doesn't want to lose a sponsorship and a chance for a better lifestyle in future if you are already giving her monthly maintenance fees already. I might be wrong. Only you know the truth.

Bro, how did u come to such an analysis after reading the damn bloody long-winded e-mail?

I don't really give her a monthly maintenance fee. But I will usually transfer to her some money($100 - $300) whenever she falls sick and is unable to work.

2 months ago, I even bought a washing machine for her family living in the countryside. Last year, I bought ear rings for her and her mother at the goldsmith shop beside Ben Thanh Market.

Earlier this year she even asked for a motorcycle, but I rejected her flat.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by haha_123

I've been going to HCMC to meet up with my bx every 2 to 3 months. Each visit will take about 4 to 5 days. After 2 years already, I still don't know whether my bx truly loves me, or just using me to get to a better life in Singapore, or for me to provide some financial support to her family in the countryside. Because of this, I still have not brought her to Singapore yet. She's suspecting that I'm having another woman in my house here. Hahaha....

Anyway on my last visit, she brought me to the hospital to visit her nanny, and introduced me to her elder sister. The hospital is Cho Ray hospital, which unfortunately was not a very pleasant place to be. I just kept the face mask on throughout, and hardly spoke a word.

I think you already has the answers...just keep on denying...think 2 to 3 months go once is too long to develop any serious relationship...you need to be like bro SS08, KT or myself to be there every month...

For short 4 to 5 days, they can stage a show for you...unless you drop in without telling her and check her out...you will be surprised what you find out...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

For short 4 to 5 days, they can stage a show for you...unless you drop in without telling her and check her out...you will be surprised what you find out...

Dunno why I just dun believe FL.... Looking forward to your monthly HCMC trip??? See whether I can head south....

[creeve]

Originally Posted by MrDarkSide

My 1st guess was the direct translation: you arrive give me go home but it just doesn't make sense.

In Kangtuo's dialogue, "nha" has no actual meaning. Just like our lah, lor, leh etc. For TV, there is nhe, nha, vay, chu (?), the etc...

[creeve]

Originally Posted by haha_123

I remembered that 2 years ago when I just came to know my bx, I saw a stranger sms to her:"Did u receive the money already?" on my bx's mobile. I never questioned her about that sms. But I shudder whenever I think of it. I kept probing my bx who was the stranger that kept sending her smses during our date. My bx was very happy then because she said that I love her, that's why I'm jealous.

Another classic case of....

"I miss you very much, husband. But, I also have to miss many many husbands... So, can you send me some money so that I don't have to work so hard and have more time to miss all my husbands...."

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Originally Posted by haha_123

I've been going to HCMC to meet up with my bx every 2 to 3 months. Each visit will take about 4 to 5 days. After 2 years already, I still don't know whether my bx truly loves me, or just using me to get to a better life in Singapore, or for me to provide some financial support to her family in the countryside.

Ya lor... I also feel the same way. Don't know whether she really like because of me or because i would be able to give her a better life then in vn. don't know how to test her leh. any bros got idea here? But that time I test a bit she get angry like that. Cause know her only one two month start talking about marriage liao. A bit scared...

[SING_IN_HCMC]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Dunno why I just dun believe FL.... Looking forward to your monthly HCMC trip??? See whether I can head south....

You already headed south everytime you meet con gai

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by SING_IN_HCMC

You already headed south everytime you meet con gai

Dun be so dirty minded.... so old liao...

[MrDarkSide]

Originally Posted by haha_123

I remembered that 2 years ago when I just came to know my bx, I saw a stranger sms to her:"Did u receive the money already?" on my bx's mobile.

2 years ago but you still continue the relationship and now you still call her bx. I can guess what is your decision already.

Originally Posted by haha_123

Having said all that, there's a part of me that says I should give her the benefit of the doubt. After all, I've already invested so much time and money on her.

This is how men usually behave. It is perfectly normal.

In crux, if you choose to believe the person, everything said to you and you will also believe. If you choose not to believe that person, even if it is the truth but you will not believe.
Get the point? Anyway, you are old and matured enough to decide for yourself.

Originally Posted by haha_123

Bro, how did u come to such an analysis after reading the damn bloody long-winded e-mail?

I believe that many samsters had also arrived at the same conclusion. Read KT's posting on page 367.