Uneasy situation

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by Stud00

She confessed to me. They were at a BBQ with Friends and cousins. After that they ended up alone. and that fucker initated it, and they did it.

time to dump her, shame the buggers before doing so since incest is a powerful issue to provoke.

it has come to a point where old habits die hard, some trees are not worth saving especially this one.

[Xgenre]

wrong post. sorry.

[see see only]

Originally Posted by Stud00

She confessed to me. They were at a BBQ with Friends and cousins. After that they ended up alone. and that fucker initated it, and they did it.

Bro Stud00,

What the reason for her to confess to you ???

Let me suggest this, if you sensed that her confession is to let you know she is asking for your forgiveness .... she is just trying to be honest with you and hope to continue with the r/s. --- as a man learn to forgive and even though you cant forget

However if you sensed that she's just trying to break up with you and yet dont know how ..... then i guess you got to move on liao ... my friend

[Stud00]

Dear bros, thanks for ur kind advices.

I feel that the reason why she told me, was becos she truely felt sorry and she wants this relationship. but honestly, i dont think i can trust her ever again.

this guy is now married, from the first post, he was only attached. now he is married with a wife and hes fucking around, sad to say.. with his own cousin which is my gf. i feel like letting his wife know about this, as i feel that she has every right to know. My gf is remorseful and sorry, but this guy, totally cool, i spoke to him and i felt like giving him a punch. i am sorry, but i don't buy the reason of being drunk and getting carried away. to me it's bullshit.
as of now, he has a very fucking pissed bf on his tail, so to those that wants to fuck around with others wife or gf. think twice...

[see see only]

Bro TS,

Learn to accept the fact, now is year 2011.

We no longer keep our virgin for our "wife to be" or "husband to be" anymore. WHY .... because we have understood that in this modern world, a successful husband & wife r/s do not depends on "i only have sex with you"

It is sincerely more than meets the eye, some couples go to the extends of swinging together to keep both hungry pussy and dick happy ....


Me not trying to brain-washed you. But ask yourself is she your type of woman that you wish to spend your rest of the life with.

OR are asking for this requirement: if she slept with me only ???? tat's makes a loving wife

Nevertheless the final decision is yours ..... the next one may be worse or not better though

[Bazic606]

Originally Posted by see see only

Bro TS,

Learn to accept the fact, now is year 2011.

We no longer keep our virgin for our "wife to be" or "husband to be" anymore. WHY .... because we have understood that in this modern world, a successful husband & wife r/s do not depends on "i only have sex with you"

It is sincerely more than meets the eye, some couples go to the extends of swinging together to keep both hungry pussy and dick happy ....


Me not trying to brain-washed you. But ask yourself is she your type of woman that you wish to spend your rest of the life with.

OR are asking for this requirement: if she slept with me only ???? tat's makes a loving wife

Nevertheless the final decision is yours ..... the next one may be worse or not better though

The issues involved here are infidelity, two-timing, immoral, breach of trust.
To put it crudely, fxxking a girl is not wrong, but if I fxxk the same girl after she is married then it is fxxking wrong.
If she gets fxxked before any commitment, it is ok, but if she gets fxxked after having a boyfriend, then it's a breach of trust.

Being dick happy and pussy happy don't really qualify you to go around hunting down wives and girlfriends honestly.

Now, back to the case....
This guy is definitely a fxxking moron by fxxking his own cousin a few days before getting married.
He is asking for hell during every family gatherings I suppose. Probably for the rest of his life, he should pray that things dun get sour between this girl and him, also how about leaking the secret out to other cousins.

And for bro Stud, he will be seeing this cousin every single family outing if things were to work out eventually with this girl. He may join the fxxking moron cousin in prayer too, pretty pretty messy, in my opinion.

[see see only]

Originally Posted by Bazic606

The issues involved here are infidelity, two-timing, immoral, breach of trust.

Bro bazic606,

Relax bro ... the thin line between all the above are pretty subjective depending on individual ... (For example: My ex-wife trusted me that i will feed her for the rest of her life and doesnt mind me fxxking another woman ... but she mind very much that i failed to bring $$$$$ for her shopping and majong. So she dumped me 7 years ago when my business failed --- can she called this "breach of trust" .... btw yes! she did , immoral???? she said the kids & herself needed to survice, so with your debts please dont drag us down ... bye!)

But somehow ... my suggestion to TS is to think twice .... for a simple reason, if TS managed to made up his mind ... he would not has posted here for advice.

Obviously he still fancy this gf of his very much and wish to get some advice from us. I believe we should just lead him to his own decision rather than giving him the verdict that we felt should be.

AND the most important fact of all, we have been listening to his side of the story only (dont get me wrong TS - i trust all you said ... but to be fair ) ... no words from the lady herself.

[sentsggirls]

Originally Posted by Stud00

She confessed to me. They were at a BBQ with Friends and cousins. After that they ended up alone. and that fucker initated it, and they did it.

confessed to you to make herself feel better because you are his bf, they did it because it takes 2 hands to clap. Very simple and clear cut, time to look elsewhere. There are plenty of good girls out there , time will heal everything .

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by Stud00

as of now, he has a very fucking pissed bf on his tail, so to those that wants to fuck around with others wife or gf. think twice...

there's only such a thin line between humans and animals.

fooling around might be fun for most men in this forum but once your boundaries become unclear, is better to keep a distance from such non-rational guys.
i'm a firm believer in not keeping your enemies close, cause you'll never know when they might dish out a powerful stab.

[fendy]

Bro Stud


Since she confess they really did fuck each other up.

Carry on with your life, your so-called GF aint worth your while.


There's plenty of swee and good one outside, you will sure to meet someone

Dont let anger get over you and do something stupid. If angry go over to Gland and let out steam, not good for the pocket but good for health.

[thomastankuku]

Agree wif bro see tat all story got more than one side.

Bro TS, we all feel for you but most imortant is to be locical sensible not tio poison by emotion or worst becum tio manipulate.

U angry and judge other fella but ur gf is equally at fault though we really dont know actually wat happnd.

We not know anything so you got to decide with clear mind wat you want lor.

Love is love but all is fair game in that thing. You prepared to live with wat she told you n possibly more that she never say?

Wont be so easy one so think carefully again if u want something longterm.

True that infidelity hurts la. But knife cut both side. Not sure if TS still got cheong commercial sex or ONS after tio hitch cos it the same. but even if you dont not mean ur partner got same view and value.

so then got to ask if you can accept or not and wether worth or not lor.

If you cannot or think no point tio blood pressure high over something you cannot change and may happen again then just be a man and move on la.

This kind of girl likely got screw loose kind. Pls look and think carefully hor!

[alan0338]

TS will know wat to do, since he said the trust just wont be the same anymore...

[Stud00]

Dear Bros,

i told her cousin's wife about what happened. and needless to say, she is flaming mad and wanting to divorce him. best part is, this fella is still lying (don know how true) it is, he is saying that my gf seduced him and keep pestering him to go out and etc. But the smses on her phone from him proves otherwise.
Now i am triple pissed, firstly he screwed my gf, and he lies about it to his wife plainly. i hate this kind of person, dare to do, dare not admit, still wanna lie about it, and portray that my gf is a slut to his wife. Whats next?

I still love her and i wanna be with her. I just wanna say that, the main reason why i told his wife was that, she has every right to know, and no.. i don believe in revenge. He told my gf that he needs sex becos his wife doesnt give it to him at all, not true at all, his wife says that she gives it to him almost every night? ccb... at home got sex still not enuff, wanna eat outside, and knn eat until my gf. wtf is wrong with this ppl sia..

I know that most of the bros here wld recommend me to break off and move on, i wld say and think that way too.. that seems to be the right thing to do, but trust me, when u r in my position, u wld feel how i feel. KNN, last time no money, no career, also kenna two-timed.. nw got money n career, also kenna two timed, worst part, must be the cousin.. i honestly tell you all, i lost faith in relationship, love already. now i understand why some of my friends, refused to get married or date, but have fuck buddies, flings, ons and etc.. simple reason, they dont get fucking hurt or heart broken. maybe i shld join them.. this is the only place where i can pour all of these out, i don't know how to share with close friends.. paiseh to share also. knn... kenna wear green beret!

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Bro Stud00, I can't say I feel your frustration or what but I can understand such taboo is beyond the comprehension of us. Anyway, she is only your girlfriend (or soon-to-be-ex-girlfriend) It's not a green hat. Money and career have got nothing to do with what happened in this relationship. Don't be dishearted or let this scar affect you in your path and direction for a new relationship. Good luck!

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by Stud00

I know that most of the bros here wld recommend me to break off and move on, i wld say and think that way too.. that seems to be the right thing to do, but trust me, when u r in my position, u wld feel how i feel. KNN, last time no money, no career, also kenna two-timed.. nw got money n career, also kenna two timed, worst part, must be the cousin.. i honestly tell you all, i lost faith in relationship, love already. now i understand why some of my friends, refused to get married or date, but have fuck buddies, flings, ons and etc.. simple reason, they dont get fucking hurt or heart broken. maybe i shld join them.. this is the only place where i can pour all of these out, i don't know how to share with close friends.. paiseh to share also. knn... kenna wear green beret!

don't worry, you can share your sorrows here.
hmm...look on the bright side, at least you know your gf is not for long term.
touch your own heart and ask yourself truthfully, can you really trust her again ?

one way to let your gf have a taste of her own medicine, is to downgrade her status from gf to fb.
when she does eventually feel that your attitude towards her is somewhat different then ask her the most thought provoking question "is this the same way how your cousin treat you after he got what he wanted ?"
if this doesn't wake up her inner senses then you really can classified her as gone case and go get a move on !