Good friend having sex with your wife or gf

[fun4evergood]

Originally Posted by whitegals

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Mr H K Tay, if you're reading this, I'm back in SG soon, and you better pray we dun run into each other on the street....

relax lah...yours is quite small an amount, ever encounter such case that amount to tens of Ks ??.......only me have such bad lucks....

[wins1973]

After this case, when friend ask me to borrow money i very scare liao. GF kenna fark by friend and still have to borrow him $$$ to help him to get marry. I was a super big fool and i treat him like my younger brother.

[fun4evergood]

Originally Posted by singexpat

tink i'll become a monk if i c such scenes...

tht is if i cannot find a chopper to wack them into pieces..

This world is ruled by Karma.....no need to wack them lah.....peace....

[whitegals]

Originally Posted by fun4evergood

relax lah...yours is quite small an amount, ever encounter such case that amount to tens of Ks ??.......only me have such bad lucks....

Small amt or big amt is irrelevant, is the principle, damn buay song kena con. Bro, u need the guy who owe u money? Go knock his kneecaps off, guarantee satisfaction. Or maybe he disappeared like my debtor?

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by wins1973

Is my experience consider my gf steal eat??

Know this girl through my guy friend (married liao-we are like brother). She is pretty and clever. After a few months of meetings, we become GF and BF.

3 of us went for a dinner once night and i accidentally overheard their conservation. Was shock to discover that both of them are having an affair b4 knowing me.
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i dont think we can call this steal eat unless she bonk with him after she became your gf. but it is a crying shame if your good friend didnt tell you or warn you before, if you are really wearing his "old shoes".

years ago, i have a good friend who knew a pretty local girl thru the IRC or something. one day, he told me she rejected his advances, so i asked him if he minds me trying. he said go-ahead. ok, luck was with me and she became my gf.

later on, i realised this same friend was always calling me to jio go drinking, more often than usual (he doesnt drink, 1 pepsi can last one whole nite!). my gf then confided in me that this friend of mine tried to ask her out on a few occasions, becos he knew i was out of town!

call me old thinking or whatever, i dont bring wife or gf to meet friends or colleagues unless really necessary. i dont want to brave the chance of what the title of this thread say.

[wins1973]

Totally agree with u . Think cannot said steal eat but I m suay lor......

[fun4evergood]

Originally Posted by whitegals

Small amt or big amt is irrelevant, is the principle, damn buay song kena con. Bro, u need the guy who owe u money? Go knock his kneecaps off, guarantee satisfaction. Or maybe he disappeared like my debtor?

Mine involved law case....dun want to mentioned anymore...sad.....

Wah lau... Quite a scary senario, I guess my natural reaction is go berserk and hammer my good friend 1st, should have lots of blood and lots of broken furniture, either him or me will end up in hospital. Fuck it no way he can become my good friend after such betrayal. I very much doubt that I can just turn around and head to my lawyer's office. As per some bros suggested, it could be your own fault for neglacting your wife or gf, but the guy is suppose to be your good friend, he should be advising and reminding you to spend more time with your loved ones and not take over your job. As for the wife, not negotiable. Divorce! Even if you can forgive your wife, can you trust her again? The relationship will be very painful without trust. Seeing someone your love deeply getting shag by someone else....Definately not my fantasy, at least in this lifetime.

However, the senario becomes kinky somewhat if your good friend is a drop dead chio bu, a 100% female not the operated type. Wah lau eh... Lesbian action I guess my reaction this time round will be ops... you two ladies carry on, I go take cold shower. Then purposely dont lock the bathroom and pray really hard that the 2 ladies join you in the shower.... YEEHA!!!!

[lesnar]

Originally Posted by diesel

Let me share with you a true account of what happened in the Singapore Supreme High Court many years ago.

This Indian man killed her wife’s boyfriend. Actually, he was supposed to be sentenced to death but he escaped the “4am breakfast meal”. Instead, he was faced under man-slaughtering charge.

In QRP, he was observed for psychotic behaviour for few months. But nothing unusual of him…so the court hearing waited after nearly 10 months eversince the day he was remanded.

During court hearing, what happened was, this Indian suspect (who was the murderer), retaliated the judge and bench penal in harsh tone. “If one day, your wife sleeps with another man and the loving couple was caught red-handed by you, will you be happy?”

Wah…, I can tell you the judge face changed! The judge lost his temper and threw the pen cap at the suspect! And so, the murder sentence was lifted. DPP and PP sat down and keep quiet.

Hoho.. DPP and PP usually yak a lot during court hearing. At the critical time, they remained silent for very long until the fed-up judge finished the hundreds pages of reading. During that time, I nearly burst out laughting.

Wah!! This is a good one......i like the story....

Faced with such a scenario playing before my eyes, my natural reaction would be that of enormous shock, extreme anger and utter betrayal - probably all fusion into one big confusion.

Hypothically and rationally, I would not resort to any form of violence - be it hack them w choppers, bash them, whatever. After all, would it be worthy to do time behind bars (or be handed a hefty fine, and concurrently incurring a criminal record) for such people? Nay! I place my self-worth above them. If your friend could be shagging your GF/wife on the sly, he'll most likely be the first to dash to the cops as soon as you touch (ie. beat/kick/slap/etc) him.

If you're already having friends as such, .... i shudder to think of what you have for enemies.

Anger only leads to one being impulsive, indulging in actions which are usually regrettable when the anger subsides.

Ultimately, I reckon I'll do my darnest best to get even (with them both). Loads of plotting and scheming required in this aspect. But damn it's gonna be orgasmic reaping its fruits.

Afterall, why get angry when you can get even?

[nuclearkid]

Originally Posted by ClubMed

Hypothically and rationally, I would not resort to any form of violence - be it hack them w choppers, bash them, whatever. After all, would it be worthy to do time behind bars (or be handed a hefty fine, and concurrently incurring a criminal record) for such people? Nay! I place my self-worth above them. If your friend could be shagging your GF/wife on the sly, he'll most likely be the first to dash to the cops as soon as you touch (ie. beat/kick/slap/etc) him.

This is what I would term 'textbook crisis management'. But I think its easier said than done. Perhaps you don't love the girl enough...

[sg_boytoy]

In chronological order, shock... then anger... then cool down abit, disappointment... frustration and disbelief... then vengeful...hatred... after that string of emotions, need to translate that into action, so wallop the ex-good friend, then reason with wife/GF, then leave for favourite HC...

[singexpat]

Originally Posted by fun4evergood

This world is ruled by Karma.....no need to wack them lah.....peace....

sometimes things cannot be control or resolved logically.. esp when ur blood is boiling..

still.. gettin old liao.. blood cannot boil much these days..

[lesnar]

Originally Posted by evo3

As for me if this happen to me, than I will walk away. Come back with a lawyer letter and ask her to sign below the dotted line. Take back my child is the most important things to me, I still believe I can find another better wife if I want to.
To think of it, is no point of throwing temper with her since she is no longer love you or loyal to you. Why make a fast out of it.

I think you have to take some photos first before you go to lawyer. Or else there won't be any evidence when you go to court.

If you file a divorce with evidence that your wife had an affair, then you don't have to pay your wife money every month.....

Originally Posted by sg_boytoy

In chronological order, shock... then anger... then cool down abit, disappointment... frustration and disbelief... then vengeful...hatred... after that string of emotions, need to translate that into action, so wallop the ex-good friend, then reason with wife/GF, then leave for favourite HC...

So the next topic should be "Who would you bonk first after catching your good friend having sex with your wife or GF?"