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Old 12-03-2012, 02:27 PM
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Re: Sick and Tired of family life

If your life constantly only revolves around a particular thing, anyone would get bored.. if one goes to geylang everyday i am sure most would also be bored after 6 months to a year..

Life isn't just all about girls, i am sure you might have a lot of dreams since young which you have not managed to do.. why not find some time to do all of these stuff (maybe learning a new skill, language or instrument) ? it would definitely make you feel a lot better and since your life would not be revolving around family anymore, you would probably not be so tired of it
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Old 12-03-2012, 02:45 PM
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Lol, guess I did misunderstand you. I have always sought out the company of these professionals, but lately, I find myself succumbing alot to their KC-trickery, when in the past, it was always F-and-forget.
Dun RTF with the WLs that try to kc u loh, plenty of WL at GL or FL to choose .
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Old 12-03-2012, 03:00 PM
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Last time I had sex with my wife and came? 4 years and 3 months. Last time I wanted to have, and initiated sex with my wife?

Also about that time. Number of times we'd had sex since that 4yrs3mths back? Maybe 5 times?

Bro, u need to talk to your wife about it,sex is part n parcel of a happy relationship. all these years u diy ah ? or u go cheong ?



My friends don't go ktvs. Either very happy, or really good at pretending.

Maybe your frds dun cheong, or they c u very decent type, dun dare to ask u.

I hate staying at home, I always plan outings with and for my family. I am very tired.

Just came back from one, but had to bring kid. Somebody has to take care of the child. That somebody is me.
Can ask your parents or in law to help out for next holiday trip, going holidays with kid, where got fun.
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Old 12-03-2012, 09:57 PM
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Re: Sick and Tired of family life

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I am a regular bro with a family. Wake up same time Monday to Friday. Bring kids to schools and sent wife to work. After work, pick up wife and kids from grand-parents' place. Go home, spend some time with kids, put them to bed. talk a while to wife and sleep.

Sat and Sunday is all family life. Life is so repetitive and boring. I want to pull out my hair in frustration. My kids are still so young. How come I have such feelings?
Sounds like a classic case of typical domestic boredom to me. I believe most married couples - esp those with children - feel the same way from time to time. The difference is whether you put in some effort (yes, more effort on top of the ones you already put in daily) to "shake things up" a bit. This part can be a bit tough cos already stretched out so thin over work, family, children, parents, etc etc.

Most couples I know have extra help from maid or in-laws to help babysit, so use that to your advantage and drop the kids off there while you and wife go do something else - ANYTHING ELSE. As long as it's not the usual shit you guys are doing. Even going to a new restaurant would work, give you guys something else to talk about.

Or maybe one night don't sleep. Go Mustafa zho bo lan. Just break the goddamn routine once in a while. Don't need to be an expensive holiday or anything. Maybe take leave, maybe no need. Just see what your available options (and resources) are.
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I am a regular bro with a family. Wake up same time Monday to Friday. Bring kids to schools and sent wife to work. After work, pick up wife and kids from grand-parents' place. Go home, spend some time with kids, put them to bed. talk a while to wife and sleep.

Sat and Sunday is all family life. Life is so repetitive and boring. I want to pull out my hair in frustration. My kids are still so young. How come I have such feelings?


Wow, first post for me, so here goes! I'm only 20 and I don't mean to disrespect you as you're older than me, but whatever you do, think of your kids first, growing up my dad was never there, he was constantly out at ktvs and what not cheating on my mom, it was really hard and stressful for her to raise me and my brother up without help. To make matters worst he also beats her and my brother up when he's drunk, sometimes I want to kill him but then again he's my dad, I actually started visiting prostitutes because to cheer myself up (lol) weird I know but it didn't help tbh, my dad started going astray because he found life "boring" , so he went out to chiong all the time while my mother did everything, was really unfair to her. I'm not saying you'll end up like my dad, but remember that being a parent comes with a lot of responsibilities that must be fulfilled. It might be boring to do the same things over and over again but remember that some people aren't as fortunate as you to find a wife they love or have kids. Just my 2cents, learn to appreciate what you have and maybe you'll feel blessed, rather than feel bored about it!
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Old 15-03-2012, 10:24 PM
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Re: Sick and Tired of family life

can any 1 tell me? y get married in the first plc?
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Old 15-03-2012, 11:17 PM
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Re: Sick and Tired of family life

i suppose most get married to experience marriage and the hopes of being happy with kids, etc. Of course you can stay single, and theres possibility you may stay happy that way too
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can any 1 tell me? y get married in the first plc?
To make baby, otherwise why bother to get married.
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To make baby, otherwise why bother to get married.
Partially right. Although no one will stop you from making babies without getting married, just that no baby bonus lor!

But in SG, ppl also get married so they can buy a flat and move away from their parents! Unless they're rich enough before they hit 35 to buy private property lor...

I have a female friend who is getting married with her "so-so boyfriend" simply because she wants to move out from her parents' place. I think she's mad, but she thinks it's an ok decision to make.
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I have a female friend who is getting married with her "so-so boyfriend" simply because she wants to move out from her parents' place. I think she's mad, but she thinks it's an ok decision to make.
"so-so boyfriend" meaninig what?

so-so not rich or so-so looking?

Need to update myself: What's the Potential Husband Minimum Financial Security Benchmark for SG girls nowadays?

Cos be meeting some girls tonight and over the weekend, with due respect, it's good to know latest P.H.M.F.S.B so as not to waste their time in me

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Re: Sick and Tired of family life

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"so-so boyfriend" meaninig what?

so-so not rich or so-so looking?

Need to update myself: What's the Potential Husband Minimum Financial Security Benchmark for SG girls nowadays?

Cos be meeting some girls tonight and over the weekend, with due respect, it's good to know latest P.H.M.F.S.B so as not to waste their time in me
"so-so boyfriend" as in, she only finds him "so-so" and doesn't even really love him that much. As for the benchmark, I'm sure the market demand fluctuates greatly! LOL.
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Re: Sick and Tired of family life

Hi bros,

I feel that whichever side you are on, be it single, attached or married, there are pros and cons.
If you single you can fuck around and you will only have to answer to yourself. Perhaps some men are just not suited for marriage...
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Re: Sick and Tired of family life

let us fuck ur wife and u watch. it sure as hell gonna trigger some emotions in u.
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Re: Sick and Tired of family life

Bro TS,

Yours is a common feeling for all the braddah with family here.

Look at what your priorities and break away from the routine once a while.

Always have positive thinking on all matters , esp for your family.

I also have my fair share of family issues, but none cant be solved if you have a good talk (heart to heart) with your wife.

Go for a short break with only your wife and relive those fond memories during your courtship.

We are only common people, so live life as it is.

Just my 2.5 cents thoughts
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Re: Sick and Tired of family life

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I am a regular bro with a family. Wake up same time Monday to Friday. Bring kids to schools and sent wife to work. After work, pick up wife and kids from grand-parents' place. Go home, spend some time with kids, put them to bed. talk a while to wife and sleep.

Sat and Sunday is all family life. Life is so repetitive and boring. I want to pull out my hair in frustration. My kids are still so young. How come I have such feelings?
Dear Bro,

My personal take on your dilemma,

I have been working in overseas for the past 10 years, went through a divorce(my wife fall inlove with someone else), was away when my dad passed away, been call a un-fillial son since, living alone, no real friends (Only superficial and business), eat alone, sleep alone, harsh weather condition, fall sick alone, always fucking different gals (KTV, Whores, Ex-affair)....

When we grew older, we did alot of things not to please oneself but to others..this is what i call responsibilty. Try not to think of what you have been missing out, instead ask yourself what you already have.

Hope this little message can cheer u up..
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