Does anyone have heathy sex with wife but still yearns for fl?

[tantan1234]

Originally Posted by Austere

If u want to sparkle your love back.

You jio your husband, 1 on 2. Hire the FL and u join in.

He will feel you are the women he will stay with for the rest of his life.

Bro, when she said she kws of his history of playing for sex, and she closed two eyes, does not mean she do not feel hurt.
U sounded as if she still can do 1 on 2.

Girls say close two eyes, ok ok, does not mean she not hurt, does not mean she do not mind.
Deep inside=pain

[kenl8888]

Yes certain sexual fantasies do not exist @ home.. when I married, playboy magazine was the only pornography available..

[emuLord]

Originally Posted by JiTaoBoPower

hmm... i am one of those that do not have any sex anymore with my wife and yet never yearn for a FL.... am i weird

ps but i do yearn for a BBBJ with swallow

my wife does BBBJ, but I am still waiting for the day she is willing to do BBBJ with swallow

[323bimmer]

I would say know the limit and when to draw the line. Everything when taken to extremes is going to be problematic.

[apemcc]

Sorry to hear things aren't going well anymore. Ever tried to talk to your partner? Sometimes he may not know that you aren't "finished" or perhaps he needed time to recharge?

[Sadlady]

Originally Posted by emuLord

my wife does BBBJ, but I am still waiting for the day she is willing to do BBBJ with swallow

I do not like bbbj but i still do it as i know my fiance loves and enjoys it. I am curious why do guys like it so much that their partner bbbj and swallow it?

[harunoki]

Boost the guy's ego that you're willing to swallow his thing. Other than this, I can't think of any reason since whether or not the lady swallow, it does not affect the guy at all.

[UncleKunThai]

just for sharing,
till date after 2 monsters n 10 over years in marriage,
uncle & auntie are still very 'hot' with each other! 😁😁😁

All the 69, bbbj, swallow, anal, licking, skype...we tried n still doing!
imho,
we must valued, respect/appreciate our wifey then would we see the returns and the open truthful talk plays an very important part! Treat them not as sex machine, more to how can we release together.
We would definitely explored ahead so that the day of FL would never arrive!


Regards

PS:thou' her tummy is bigger than her breast,I'm still enjoying every moment of it!

[jjjr]

Originally Posted by sane1

My ex was just as what u described, the best guy I'ever met, good looks, financially good, pamper me and there's even a maid at home whom I never even need to lift a finger for housework.
However prior to getting married, he was caught with another woman and I just packed my things and leave. Never turn back then.
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That would be different from a FL. FL is transactional, nothing more than a sexual release.

[jjjr]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Sex with prostitutes is simply a man jerking off inside another woman. Men do not pay for sex. Men pay the prostitutes to go away after sex.

Very interesting perspective.

[jjjr]

Originally Posted by meowwind

I am new, so dun mind me if i say something wrong.

Something I learnt from my gf and my hairdresser:

Everybody should have more than 1 brand of shampoo. So your hair/scalp will not get used to just 1 brand then will get used to it, making it less effective the more you use a single brand. Alternate the 2 shampoos, so your hairs dun get used to it.

Facial wash also same logic, body foam same logic.

Sex also should be same logic.

Another interesting perspective.

[jjjr]

Originally Posted by SexyStan

My current missus & fiancée, the greatest achievement of my life till date. She never questions where I go, or what I'm up to; We r both staunch believers of personal space. Boundaries are clearly set though:-

She understands men basically swing, BUT

1. I should only love her since I'm in a r/s w/ her;
2. Transactional sex is allowed, so long I know my limits (& budget), & always use a condom. She's warned me never to pass her any nasties;
3. She understands shit happens, but she's warned me to b responsible for any shit I throw on myself;
4. If I do swing, fling, have an FB or FwB, I shldn't develope, or cause my other partner to develope, genuine feelings in e r/s; &
5. Always consider e feelings of every 1 involved, which includes me, her, families & 3rd party partner. I shldn't lie or cheat about feelings.
6. As much as she appreciates frankness, & knws what we men r up to, she doesn't wanna knw so explicitly, or catch me in e act. Discretion & respect is what we agreed on;
7. After marriage, no matter how late, I shld spend e night at home w/ her, not w/ other women outside. Also, never bring women home.

Clear boundaries huh. My missus' a gem, I knw... Haha

Er... One question. Is this arrangement mutual, i.e. you also accept her playing outside as long as she abides by the same rules?

[jjjr]

Originally Posted by Sadlady

I do not like bbbj but i still do it as i know my fiance loves and enjoys it. I am curious why do guys like it so much that their partner bbbj and swallow it?

Firstly, BBBJ is truly enjoyable. Secondly, swallowing symbolizes full acceptance and boosts a man's ego.

[jjjr]

Originally Posted by UncleKunThai

just for sharing,
till date after 2 monsters n 10 over years in marriage,
uncle & auntie are still very 'hot' with each other! 😁😁😁

All the 69, bbbj, swallow, anal, licking, skype...we tried n still doing!
imho,
we must valued, respect/appreciate our wifey then would we see the returns and the open truthful talk plays an very important part! Treat them not as sex machine, more to how can we release together.
We would definitely explored ahead so that the day of FL would never arrive!


Regards

PS:thou' her tummy is bigger than her breast,I'm still enjoying every moment of it!

Good for you. You are the man!

[Goodmanhood]

If the lover is pretty enough for you, I guess it will be easier for it to remain healthy.