divorced women/widow will be alone

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by CockUpForCunt

why most of local lady age ard 20s to 40s are princess attitude. I dont understand is it too pampered by parents ? sorry to say that.

Even Malaysian girls are same too....especially city one.

[Skarlett0]

Originally Posted by Edyta

Hi there fellow single parent. I m divorced. Loneliness is part of the journey as a single parent. Acceptance is impt. But i just wana come here n complain....bear with me

Don worry about complaining.. I never been in ur shoes so I guess I will never know. I'm a single unmarried mum in a complicated situation anyway. I guess at some point we all want companionship.. Take care there.. Watching our kids grow will be the greatest returns in life at this point..

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by Skarlett0

Don worry about complaining.. I never been in ur shoes so I guess I will never know. I'm a single unmarried mum in a complicated situation anyway. I guess at some point we all want companionship.. Take care there.. Watching our kids grow will be the greatest returns in life at this point..

Plus financially sound too....Money is more important than companionship . No Vitamin M life will be tough to bring up the kids.

[Skarlett0]

Originally Posted by topcook1

Plus financially sound too....Money is more important than companionship . No Vitamin M life will be tough to bring up the kids.

Yup. Money and family's support..

[topcook1]

The equation works up this way $$$=support=companionship

[Skarlett0]

Originally Posted by topcook1

The equation works up this way $$$=support=companionship

Yes. But support from family is not equivalent to $. My mum helps me with my son. And no amount of money can get me such help that I can completely rely on. That was what I was trying to say. It's priceless.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by Skarlett0

Yes. But support from family is not equivalent to $. My mum helps me with my son. And no amount of money can get me such help that I can completely rely on. That was what I was trying to say. It's priceless.

Yes indeed love is priceless. Your mum helped out of love.
U can't buy love, feelings. $ is v impt, it ensures u have food on table, shelter to live in etc.
The kind of companionship i enjoy derives from genuine feelings, cannot be bought with $.

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by Rocode

LETS Make A Single Parents Club For all Male & Female Samsters, Someone Take Lead

Great idea, u can lead

[Skarlett0]

Originally Posted by Edyta

Yes indeed love is priceless. Your mum helped out of love.
U can't buy love, feelings. $ is v impt, it ensures u have food on table, shelter to live in etc.
The kind of companionship i enjoy derives from genuine feelings, cannot be bought with $.

Very well said..

[tstark413]

Originally Posted by topcook1

Gave up liaoz....Let nature takes it course.

There are always 2 sided in every coins. I myself was divorce in 2011 after a 9 years marriage.

In my early 40s. Was been told afew times that some partners do prefer divorce man or woman as they have failed once in their marriage and most likely will cherish the 2nd chance given. In short, wiser in nurturing a relationship. Of course, all these will also depends on the reason of the 1st marriage failure.

But I do agreed, woman with kids will be harder to find another man that can accept them whole heartedly. More problems will most likely happen once he have his kids.....

Would suggest like minded ppl to try going to matching website to try your luck on a second love life. Is never late......not all are meant to walk this earth alone...but some are....That would be me.

[Totallyuseless]

Originally Posted by topcook1

Not only gals...guys also affected as well...Whenever I tell local girls I am a divorcee mostly don't wanna go far with me. Left only foreign woman who dont mind. Local woman knows that dealing with divorcee is tough because of emotional baggage, alimony from previous marriage. Moreover a divorce guy would prefer not to have a grand wedding again....

I agree with u bro..

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by Rocode

LETS Make A Single Parents Club For all Male & Female Samsters, Someone Take Lead

I support u take the lead!!We name it as 2nd chance club...

[soggypanties]

Through experience, the kids from previous marriage play a significant role in making or breaking the new relationship. Ideally, if both parties are divorcees with kids, its easier to relate and accept.

However, we are human and it is human to be selfish. No matter how ideally matched, no matter what the permutation of a 2nd marriage is, it will be a much more delicate one to handle because of baggages of the past.

Having said that, many a times I really feel like strangling the little bastard and get him out of the way.... just like how a lion kills the offspring of the previous patriarch. Too much national geographic animal planet? Or are we basically still animals afterall?

[Edyta]

Originally Posted by topcook1

I support u take the lead!!We name it as 2nd chance club...

Support this
Nice name

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by soggypanties

Having said that, many a times I really feel like strangling the little bastard and get him out of the way.... just like how a lion kills the offspring of the previous patriarch. Too much national geographic animal planet? Or are we basically still animals afterall?

if is a toddler, especially if a girl, maybe easier to accept. But raising a girl also scary lah.. needs lotsa of protection. What did the little rascal do to you? ... how old is he?