Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[Blue_gal]

feeling...feeling...sometime u will wonder...if u really goes wif ur heart tells u to do ...are u daring and brave enough to take all the "responsible"?...

Love is like a gamble...i am not daring and brave enough..tat is why i am still out on the "field"..kekeke..

Somehow i see tat the ONE who u are with is always not the one u LOVE MOSt....but then there are still some very very lucky one.. pls do treasure them

watching those old couple holding hands taking a stroll on the street..supporting each other....looked at their wrinkled hands...still holding tight...it always bring a smile on me...envy and happy for them...

good luck!
Blue Aunt|e

[Charmaine]

Does looking for true love and settling for a life partner have to be mutually exclusive?

I'm asking that because too many times I hear people say the phrase "I love her, that's why I have to let her go." It seems that people fall in love, then proceed to thnk about a future with a particular girl, not concurrently. Sometimes you love the girl but just can't seem to see her as a wife. What then? Listen to your heart or your head?

[RUNROAD]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Does looking for true love and settling for a life partner have to be mutually exclusive?

I'm asking that because too many times I hear people say the phrase "I love her, that's why I have to let her go." It seems that people fall in love, then proceed to thnk about a future with a particular girl, not concurrently. Sometimes you love the girl but just can't seem to see her as a wife. What then? Listen to your heart or your head?

just to offer my humble opinion about this subject matter.. whenever someone falls in love..his heart starts to function. and the rule of the heart defies all logic. which is the reason y falling in love with a whore is possible..IT DEFIES ALL LOGIC! whether is she a whore or a wife material are reasonings produced by the head. the heart only recognises her as someone u long to be with and stay together. and thus in my humble opinion the phrase, " i love her, thats why i have to let her go " comes from the head, not the heart.

so how? should we listen to our heart or our head? i would say it depends on what we seek in a relationship. if we are seeking passionate, adrenaline-rushing type of love, listen to our heart and enjoys it while it last. if wat we seek are a more realistic, long term stable relationship then it could be wiser if we settle for the head.

just my 5 cents worth.

[RUNROAD]

Originally Posted by Blue_gal

feeling...feeling...sometime u will wonder...if u really goes wif ur heart tells u to do ...are u daring and brave enough to take all the "responsible"?...

Love is like a gamble...i am not daring and brave enough..tat is why i am still out on the "field"..kekeke..

Somehow i see tat the ONE who u are with is always not the one u LOVE MOSt....but then there are still some very very lucky one.. pls do treasure them

watching those old couple holding hands taking a stroll on the street..supporting each other....looked at their wrinkled hands...still holding tight...it always bring a smile on me...envy and happy for them...

good luck!
Blue Aunt|e

Not only Love is a gamble sis, Life itself is a gamble..and on a larger scale. It doesnt mean u have to completely shut off your mind and your senses and follow blindly with your heart all the time but sometimes, after having enough analysis and reasonings..when the time has finally arrive for u to make a choice, one has to choose.

many ppl refuse to place their bet. y? they failed due to their own fear and expectations...who knows, after ROM and stuffs, the guy may turn out to be a jerk? a wife abuser? a good for nothing slacker? all those lovey dovey acts are just premarital games..it seems, as guys are almost never faithful...but if u yearn to be one of those lucky old couples, u gotta place your bet.

remember sis, there is nothing to fear except fear itself.

[colins]

Well you can choose to use your heart or your head. The question is, can you choose? Many of us cannot, when we see something we like, we have impulse buying tendency. That means that thing or person already reached our heart.

If you use your heart, can, but dun ever use your head again else you will regret when you head takes over after the heart gets used to the thing or person. If you use your head, you might just see that actually you do not need that thing or person afterall.

Many of our desires are temporary, fulfilling those desires do not give us true and lasting happiness. One of the symptoms is discontentment, like if we drive toyota, we start to dream of BMW, if we have a pretty gf, we want a pretty and slutty and sexually deprived vixen at our beck and call, etc. Never ending attempt to fulfil what is actually a simple problem in our heart. Such desires come from the heart, the thing that makes us unqiue and gives us the passion to advance ourselves and also the very thing that would bring us our downfall if it rules us.

As such, the heart should never rule. The head should.

[RUNROAD]

Originally Posted by colins

Well you can choose to use your heart or your head. The question is, can you choose? Many of us cannot, when we see something we like, we have impulse buying tendency. That means that thing or person already reached our heart.

it will requires alot of courage to make the choice. yes, most of us cannot, as the impulse is very strong and more importantly, the feeling of possessing the thing we like is very satisfying.

If you use your heart, can, but dun ever use your head again else you will regret when you head takes over after the heart gets used to the thing or person. If you use your head, you might just see that actually you do not need that thing or person afterall.

some r able to take a step back to re-examine their relationship using their head. but majority of them will choose to go by their heart, or love, after getting used to the other party. even if they do think, their reasonings come from the heart, which could be far from the truth.

Many of our desires are temporary, fulfilling those desires do not give us true and lasting happiness. One of the symptoms is discontentment, like if we drive toyota, we start to dream of BMW, if we have a pretty gf, we want a pretty and slutty and sexually deprived vixen at our beck and call, etc. Never ending attempt to fulfil what is actually a simple problem in our heart. Such desires come from the heart, the thing that makes us unqiue and gives us the passion to advance ourselves and also the very thing that would bring us our downfall if it rules us.

As such, the heart should never rule. The head should.

all desires come from the heart, without them we will not even be looking at girls and thinking of conquering them. it all boils down to individual's choice, if he chooses to place his bet and pursue the object he desires or play it safe and suppress his feelings. either way, the end results vary.

[pewpew]

Age 4 - 8 = Yes Love Exist (puppy love)
Age 9 - 12 = Maybe exist
Age 13 - 25 = Exploring about sex, love content not needed
Age 26 - 40 = Maybe friends getting married, starting to get worry
Age 41 - 60 = Problems at home, work, can start finding ears and shoulder to borrow
Age 61 - Expire = IF u can survive the above mention, u are lucky and proven love exist

How this sound from my point of view?

[bunnyrabbit]

jux some of my tots..
is it cos of procreation tat we fall in love or is it the lust and desire tat make us wan to have tat gal straight away? guess its always the lattrr ba..
haiz sumtimes wat exactly do we wan? do we wan companionship? do we just wan lust n sex? wat exactly? guess wat most guys wan after initial period of lust is just a companion who listens and share what they have...

[cunt_search]

Originally Posted by colins

Well you can choose to use your heart or your head. ..impulse buying tendency. .. already reached our heart...many of our desires are temporary, fulfilling those desires do not give us true and lasting happiness. One of the symptoms is discontentment,... Such desires come from the heart, the thing that makes us unqiue and gives us the passion to advance ourselves and also the very thing that would bring us our downfall if it rules us.

As such, the heart should never rule. The head should.

easier said den done... big head mostly lose to small head

Originally Posted by pewpew

Age 4 - 8 = Yes Love Exist (puppy love)
Age 9 - 12 = Maybe exist
Age 13 - 25 = Exploring about sex, love content not needed
Age 26 - 40 = Maybe friends getting married, starting to get worry
Age 41 - 60 = Problems at home, work, can start finding ears and shoulder to borrow
Age 61 - Expire = IF u can survive the above mention, u are lucky and proven love exist

hey, ring a bell, touch s/tin dip in my heart

Originally Posted by bunnyrabbit

jux some of my tots..
is it cos of procreation tat we fall in love or is it the lust and desire tat make us wan to have tat gal straight away? guess its always the lattrr ba..
haiz sumtimes wat exactly do we wan? do we wan companionship? do we just wan lust n sex? wat exactly? guess wat most guys wan after initial period of lust is just a companion who listens and share what they have...

conclusion: life's discontentment with work, wife, gf & family let LUST take over as temporary relief... jus like drug.... it release u temporary from worry, but reality quickly come bac and it becom cyclic....

[meimeiwoyao]

Originally Posted by pewpew

Age 4 - 8 = Yes Love Exist (puppy love)
Age 9 - 12 = Maybe exist
Age 13 - 25 = Exploring about sex, love content not needed
Age 26 - 40 = Maybe friends getting married, starting to get worry
Age 41 - 60 = Problems at home, work, can start finding ears and shoulder to borrow
Age 61 - Expire = IF u can survive the above mention, u are lucky and proven love exist

How this sound from my point of view?

Haha! Nice 1!

[warbird]

There is true love between a man n a woman, but the emotions of greed for money n power are stronger in many individuals in both sexes. I hv witnessed the awesome power of greed not just in PRC MMs but in both women n men of all races n nationalities.

How many people would risk their lives for love? And how many people would risk their lives for enormous wealth n power? IMHO, the latter group exceeds the former group by a huge margin.

Just my 2 cents.

[Merlin]

Originally Posted by warbird

There is true love between a man n a woman, but the emotions of greed for money n power are stronger in many individuals in both sexes. I hv witnessed the awesome power of greed not just in PRC MMs but in both women n men of all races n nationalities.

How many people would risk their lives for love? And how many people would risk their lives for enormous wealth n power? IMHO, the latter group exceeds the former group by a huge margin.

Just my 2 cents.

We are all born brave, trusting and greedy, and most of us remain greedy.

[playboy82]

Originally Posted by warbird

There is true love between a man n a woman, but the emotions of greed for money n power are stronger in many individuals in both sexes. I hv witnessed the awesome power of greed not just in PRC MMs but in both women n men of all races n nationalities.

How many people would risk their lives for love? And how many people would risk their lives for enormous wealth n power? IMHO, the latter group exceeds the former group by a huge margin.

Just my 2 cents.

Money keep the world spinning... no doubt abt that.
Its true as in yesterday, its so damn true as in today.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by playboy82

Money keep the world spinning... no doubt abt that.
Its true as in yesterday, its so damn true as in today.

Hi bro,

But we should never underestimate the power of love, at least in a small group of people (especially the teenagers), where the emotion of love could be more powerful than that of greed, haha.

Yes, like they say, money makes the world go round...

Love doesn't make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.

Cheers!

[massageshiok]

True love do exist especially for people who has seldom fall in love.

Because this love start to go off when the people who believe in them keep getting hurt...they then turn to something more materialist , something that won't betray them or hurt them...

Who can blame one not to believe in true love liao when people keep hurting them...