Married men here whose wife reject you for sex

[junior_cannibal]

Instead of trying to find a solution with it, maybe it's time to review the following :
1 what could cause to lose interest in sex, when you used to do it like the rabbits. Was it her job, the chores at home or the kids that always got on her nerves?
2 when you still get to do it with her once in a blue moon, did she get her big O before you already shot your loads?
3 have you guys been super mechanical and SOP when doing it, or you actually try to make an effort to try new stuff?
Do you guys try to have a heart to heart talk about it? When the demand and supply are not the same, problems will come. If you chance upon a lady outside your marriage who likes sex, who was like your wife when you first met, very likely you will stray to the dark side. Before that happens, try to find a remedy.

[I Love Boobs]

Originally Posted by PigLayEgg

My situation is 8 years zero sex liao. Had forgotten the raw and CIP feel. Got a regular ML to release but with full protection. Now sometimes still can CIP (cum in panties) when playing with her soiled panties secretly.

That's absolutely pathetic.
You should hang yourself from a pole with her panties.
Your life is meaningless and worthless.
Reduce your carbon footprint.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by I Love Boobs

That's absolutely pathetic.
You should hang yourself from a pole with her panties.
Your life is meaningless and worthless.
Reduce your carbon footprint.

Hahaha...bro ILB saying it so hilariously

[Rickey]

Now for myself, i feel very sadly for u husbands who hv been rejected for sex by your wives in here ...not sure why all these wives treat their husbands in this way and deny them sex which is one of their obligations in the marriage contract said or unsaid even after they hv been test-driven b4 marriage.....looks like it is a trend esp when the kids come...and i now learn tat even after test-driving them is not a 100% guarantee of a happy-ever-after marriage...wat if you don't even test drive them.. but instead of living in misery for the rest of their lives can't these bros here take charge of their own lives for once and end their marriages...and start off with a new one, officially or better still unofficially like having FBs w/o strings attached ??...of course the other solution is to eat out

there r already many who hv divorced and re-married...nothing is impossible if you try hard enough..yes, agreed one big deterrent is the WC splitting your assets and children into 2 ( but still with access to all children) ...but if it is really tat bad, can't these rejected husbands just go for the split and slowly re-build again like wat bro nurgle so bravely did or forced to do...this will teach these women or ex-wives a lesson to live a hermit's life all by themselves for the rest of their lives and jealously see you enjoying life with your new found wife or woman ...just my 2 cents worth of tots for those bros concerned to consider

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Instead of trying to find a solution with it, maybe it's time to review the following :
1 what could cause to lose interest in sex, when you used to do it like the rabbits. Was it her job, the chores at home or the kids that always got on her nerves?
2 when you still get to do it with her once in a blue moon, did she get her big O before you already shot your loads?
3 have you guys been super mechanical and SOP when doing it, or you actually try to make an effort to try new stuff?
Do you guys try to have a heart to heart talk about it? When the demand and supply are not the same, problems will come. If you chance upon a lady outside your marriage who likes sex, who was like your wife when you first met, very likely you will stray to the dark side. Before that happens, try to find a remedy.

It's hard to talk to these wives once their minds are set even if u try. They will adopt a couldn't care less attitude to their husbands...the only better way is for a 3rd party mediation...which both husband and wife don't want becos they will lose face in public..they rather keep the problem under the carpet than let anyone else know...

[Chubbie123]

haven had sex with wife for months at a time, to be honest i see her i also cant get erect. sleep same bed but no action. i dunno what she does but i just visit FLs.

[Wakeup123]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Instead of trying to find a solution with it, maybe it's time to review the following :
1 what could cause to lose interest in sex, when you used to do it like the rabbits. Was it her job, the chores at home or the kids that always got on her nerves?
2 when you still get to do it with her once in a blue moon, did she get her big O before you already shot your loads?
3 have you guys been super mechanical and SOP when doing it, or you actually try to make an effort to try new stuff?
Do you guys try to have a heart to heart talk about it? When the demand and supply are not the same, problems will come. If you chance upon a lady outside your marriage who likes sex, who was like your wife when you first met, very likely you will stray to the dark side. Before that happens, try to find a remedy.

This shows that u r still single or just got married only. Yes, things happen for a reason, that is to say lack of communication. If everything can be communicated, we won't be seeing women charter in the marriage.

[I Love Boobs]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Instead of trying to find a solution with it, maybe it's time to review the following :
1 what could cause to lose interest in sex, when you used to do it like the rabbits. Was it her job, the chores at home or the kids that always got on her nerves?
2 when you still get to do it with her once in a blue moon, did she get her big O before you already shot your loads?
3 have you guys been super mechanical and SOP when doing it, or you actually try to make an effort to try new stuff?
Do you guys try to have a heart to heart talk about it? When the demand and supply are not the same, problems will come. If you chance upon a lady outside your marriage who likes sex, who was like your wife when you first met, very likely you will stray to the dark side. Before that happens, try to find a remedy.

Some wives will hold the husband hostage in SG.
It's all about Me Me Me.
Their wants.
Their demands.
They want expensive overseas holidays.
Most quit working to be tai tai.
Get a maid. Do no housework. Yet blame the husband when finances cannot keep up.
Expensive handbags, hand phones etc.
Go for high tea with friends.
Start comparing overseas holidays.
Plus most pile on the pounds.... look fat as fuck after marriage and a kid.
Why?
It's the WC.
They figure men stand to lose if they divorce or stray...
No wonder marriage rates are dipping and divorces are uptrending...

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by Wakeup123

This shows that u r still single or just got married only. Yes, things happen for a reason, that is to say lack of communication. If everything can be communicated, we won't be seeing women charter in the marriage.

Good try, but you are wrong! I have been married to the same wife for more than twenty years now. Unless you think twenty years is considered just married. Lol.
Communication takes two person to focus on the partner and not themselves.
Most Singapore girls are spoiled, wanted to be treated like princess yet didn't behave like one. Most of them are self centered and selfish. When her man strays, all she thinks of was his sole fault.

[shhhhh]

What a heartbreaking thread. If you all had known this would happen before marriage, I guess you all wouldn't have taken the vows

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Now for myself, i feel very sadly for u husbands who hv been rejected for sex by your wives in here ...not sure why all these wives treat their husbands in this way and deny them sex which is one of their obligations in the marriage contract said or unsaid even after they hv been test-driven b4 marriage.....looks like it is a trend esp when the kids come...and i now learn tat even after test-driving them is not a 100% guarantee of a happy-ever-after marriage...wat if you don't even test drive them.. but instead of living in misery for the rest of their lives can't these bros here take charge of their own lives for once and end their marriages...and start off with a new one, officially or better still unofficially like having FBs w/o strings attached ??...of course the other solution is to eat out

there r already many who hv divorced and re-married...nothing is impossible if you try hard enough..yes, agreed one big deterrent is the WC splitting your assets and children into 2 ( but still with access to all children) ...but if it is really tat bad, can't these rejected husbands just go for the split and slowly re-build again like wat bro nurgle so bravely did or forced to do...this will teach these women or ex-wives a lesson to live a hermit's life all by themselves for the rest of their lives and jealously see you enjoying life with your new found wife or woman ...just my 2 cents worth of tots for those bros concerned to consider

Bro, you seem to let sex between a married couple be the sole determinant whether to stay on in a same marriage or not. I still feel that there are more to that. Now, if we turn the table the other way round, when a wife wants to divorce the husband because he has premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction.. Is it fair for him? The frequency of sex between a married couple has to be mutual. I remembered I once read a news about a married couple in China, the husband seeked a, divorce because wife had too strong of sex drive, at least 3 times a night. This may sound like a dream comes true for some bros here, however, I don't think any of us can last more than one month, the times a day, and thinking this might continue for years.

[alea]

Originally Posted by sgjoey

Only one life to live. Only limited years to enjoy sex. Ever since I made the decision to outsource, I couldn't be happier. Because it's paid sex, there are no emotional complications. But just because it's paid sex, that does not mean it is less pleasurable. Actually it's the opposite - I get to have sex with an enormous variety of nubile babes, and some are damn passionate in their lovemaking, especially when you make return visits, and your personalities just happen to click. In Singapore, paid sex with these young babes is actually not expensive at all. I can't get enough. I stopped having sex with the missus years ago. I don't miss it, and neither does she. But we remain together because of other bonds.

Bro, is there an emotional void that paid sex can't seem to fill?

[waaaaaa]

Originally Posted by alea

Bro, is there an emotional void that paid sex can't seem to fill?

That’s when guy got fling outside to fulfil both physical and emotional needs

[yeeeha]

Originally Posted by alea

Bro, is there an emotional void that paid sex can't seem to fill?

True but at least its better than having emotional and physical void at the same time.

[junior_cannibal]

The point about commercial sex is, generally the man is less likely to fall for the WL, versus if its a FB that might become more emotionally entangled. Besides, with the WL, the man can also act out his fantasy, whether 3P, anal, SM... as long as the WL is alright with it.
There are not short of married couples who are dutifully still having sex, it becomes so SOP, it might become dreadful, knowing tonight needs to carry out the ritual again.