Hanging Flowers Joints

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by ksst

And be alert when you start believing that the mm genuinely meant their words. You probably hear things like

少喝一点，对身体不好
我几时还能见到你?
来看我就好
我对你有好感
我不喜欢你看别的女孩子
我怕你会像我的前男友，你教我怎么办
etc etc...

Often, walk away is more effective than walking into. You will be surprised.

Hahaha, i would rephrase what you said bro.
There's no need to be alert in HFJs
Just dun believe a single shit they say, but act like you believe them wif all your heart.
If one cant get the above rite, then stay away from HFJ!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by roamersg

I guess we all have to learn our lessons, but it's not easy. There are a few good women out there out of the several thousands in sillypore alone, so one can always believe the one you meet is one of those few. I have had some good BYs where I am sure they have not even said a single lie to me, nor begged for extra funds. But with them I had also kept my heart more carefully guarded. When you meet one you really care for, as I have recently, then the danger signs flash, but it's not easy once the KC has happened.

What to do? First, always make sure that whatever money is spent really is money you could do without. Second, take all the identity precautions to protect your family so she can't threaten to ruin your life. Third, no matter how much you fall for a MM, don't fantasise about making her your wife!

Of course, the safest strategy is just to view every HFJ and KTV MM as a bonk, without any real feelings. Most of our wise bros here recommend that. But I personally tired of that years ago and so now prefer more GFE, and so have to deal with the associated risks.

Good luck to all bros in the new year, hope we all have the strength to play this game well!

The GFE is most toxic but something that cannot be missed out.
It's wat makes the meat sweeter
Better still if they kenna KC by you, then the feeling and services rendered would be even sweeter.
But then, must always be awake, thus that's where your bros come in, cos they are your circuit breakers and the occasional rude awakening calls from them to pull you back to reality is a must.
That's y i always say, never cheong alone........at least 2, so both can look out for each other~~~~~~~~~~~

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

That's y i say, know yourself, know your terrain, know your foes.

What were you expecting from this conv?
She has earned enuff?
dun want too much money?
go back retire????
Pls lor bro, if so, then you'll need a reality check recalibration.

Singers are like auction items.
How you prevent competition is to ensure that there r so many land mines around that anyone who steps on one will be bombed to bits.......
Also, if one knows that a singer got a man behind her liao, why would he even bother to go after her, let alone fight flower if he doesnt even have enuff ammo to fight in the 1st place?
Totally dun make sense bro

Words of wisdom from DYBJ...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by seaman6969

Wah seh! I keep hearing all this also, but I think she means it from her heart.
Not all are bad and scheming, I hope mine is a good one
Famous last words perhaps.

Wake up wake up.........
You should read into your posts........
You have invested too much 希望 liao
wake up wake up
EYES WIDE OPEN not EYES WIDE SHUT!!!!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by ksst

I see toxic components as Lust and Ego.
And yes, money talks. Their motto: 真心不如红钞票

Their motto is
有金就有心
无金就无心
Drill that deep deep in your head bro

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by 1-4-1

Are you sure about 28 at YGF? She seems "so so" to me. Anyway, different ppl have diff views.

But I will agree with you on 72 at HD. Very sweet indeed. I doubt that she has got strong supporters based on the survey done. Are you trying her (therefore this post to eliminate your potential rivals)? Anyway, wish you all the best! I have given up on her. Tried cracking this nut for quite some time previously without success.

Wa bro, your 1st post also about HD, that was xmas eve now give up liao ah..........

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by jitlong69

just got back from a HFJ place. Heard that a singer conned a regular supported about 4 to 5 k flowers during her recent show promising to go out with him after the show. Then she told the customer that she had period and clean the next few days. But before the few days was up she went back to China. I wonder, can this kind of things happened? Dont think anyone that stupid!

Actually hor, the number of stupid people out there not little hor
Some can even support a singer from start to end never even knowing the colour of her nipple!
Which is dumb which is dumber....you decide!

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Actually hor, the number of stupid people out there not little hor
Some can even support a singer from start to end never even knowing the colour of her nipple!
Which is dumb which is dumber....you decide!

Not knowing the colour of nipple is still not the worst!!!!
Some supported the singer not even knowing the taste of her lips stick, been pumping petrol, the girl do not like him from Day1 and others (more than 1 customers) are driving the car all the way to PRC Land

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Not knowing the colour of nipple is still not the worst!!!!
Some supported the singer not even knowing the taste of her lips stick, been pumping petrol, the girl do not like him from Day1 and others (more than 1 customers) are driving the car all the way to PRC Land

Not surprising and it's not only the newbies who are doing this. Some old timers whom I knew during my cheonging days were also like that...

Times have changed but it seems the mentality of people don't seem to change much...

[花场Escapefrom]

Hi Bro , i cannot complain la, was there on business an also.
The gal i want to marry was actually a waitress, nearly starved to death, bloody manager did not tell her that they can advance small amounts of cash from the co.
So she was forced to become a singer, horrible quality in the first 6 months.
Bad she got a lot better at that.

[花场Escapefrom]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

Not surprising and it's not only the newbies who are doing this. Some old timers whom I knew during my cheonging days were also like that...

Times have changed but it seems the mentality of people don't seem to change much...

Haha, i must stand up and put up my hand, my first singer i blew close to 20-30k on her and all i got was a kiss at the airport She was on her 2nd term here.

3rd Term here, I did not give a single buck.
4th Term here, i contribute 1k in flowers.

After that she still not willing to take it further so i called it quits.

#0401

[花场Escapefrom]

Originally Posted by jitlong69

just got back from a HFJ place. Heard that a singer conned a regular supported about 4 to 5 k flowers during her recent show promising to go out with him after the show. Then she told the customer that she had period and clean the next few days. But before the few days was up she went back to China. I wonder, can this kind of things happened? Dont think anyone that stupid!

Well, i think it happens very frequently, kindness for nothing not very well appreciated by a lot of the babes from China.
Even my gal scolded me.
“你有问题。 要爱上个歌星也找个漂亮一点，年轻一点。 那有像你这个傻逼， 爱上个又老有丑的歌星。
中国男人， 倒贴都不会要呢。” She was referring to the vet that made indirectly made me loose my job and career and debt.

So it was fun, and when i hear all the stories, she had to tell her 散花客, it really made me understand what a fool i was .

#0401

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by 花场Escapefrom

Haha, i must stand up and put up my hand, my first singer i blew close to 20-30k on her and all i got was a kiss at the airport She was on her 2nd term here.

3rd Term here, I did not give a single buck.
4th Term here, i contribute 1k in flowers.

After that she still not willing to take it further so i called it quits.

#0401

Damm...you are really one of them...

Blew 20-30K at the first time and didn't get anything other than a kiss at the airport...Wow...I never knew a kiss from a singer is worth 20-30k...

And you still wait until her fourth term but luckily you only blew another 1K on her and not another 20-30k during each term.

Seriously speaking the mentality you must adopt at HFJs is that if you hang a certain amount and she does not want to do anything with you, then you should just stop and target another singer. Keep hanging flowers on a singer who doesn't even bother about you is silly to say the least.

[花场Escapefrom]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

Damm...you are really one of them...

Blew 20-30K at the first time and didn't get anything other than a kiss at the airport...Wow...I never knew a kiss from a singer is worth 20-30k...

And you still wait until her fourth term but luckily you only blew another 1K on her and not another 20-30k during each term.

Seriously speaking the mentality you must adopt at HFJs is that if you hang a certain amount and she does not want to do anything with you, then you should just stop and target another singer. Keep hanging flowers on a singer who doesn't even bother about you is silly to say the least.

Haha, have always been a slow slow learner.
So now the recovery part...

The other story i had was of a person who was a coffee shop assistant, he stroke a 60-80k lottery and he blew it all on a single girl back in 银河， one friend driving the singer to the airport asked.
Why did you not give some money back to that supporter... 傻逼 was the response.

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by 花场Escapefrom

Haha, have always been a slow slow learner.
So now the recovery part...

The other story i had was of a person who was a coffee shop assistant, he stroke a 60-80k lottery and he blew it all on a single girl back in 银河， one friend driving the singer to the airport asked.
Why did you not give some money back to that supporter... 傻逼 was the response.

Well, that one is even worse than you...As a coffee shop assistant, he shouldn't even have gone to HFJs...

Seriously whatever you spend at HFJs must be money that you can really do without. For KTVs it's not that bad as the amount you spend won't be as much as in HFJs if you are a regular flower hanger there.