The old times....

[zerofighter]

Back to the study rm... i find it difficult to fall asleep though it is nt yhe first time i slept alone in this room.

Memories of the past flood back to my heart again.... back to the dating days with my wife...

Dear: Dear.. kelian.. u have to work late tonite again..
Me: no choice.. workload heavy.. no time for dinner too.
Dear: Heehee.. i know that u wun have time for dinner and i have tapao for u...
Me: Really ..
Dear: Yup... meet u at the bridge facing fullerton hotel...
Me: Ok.. wait for me.. i will come now....

[zerofighter]

It does not took me long to meet her..

Soon we were having our dinner on one of the nearby bench..

Dear: u ah... must learn to take care of yrself.. cant always have dandwiches for dinner...

Me: Ok... i will try nt to... but alot of work to clear..

Dear: xinku ni le..

Me: It is ok... have to work harder for our marriage..

Dear: i know..

Me: I will nt allow u to go through any hardship after our marrage...

Dear: ni ah.. i dun expect u to be tai tai.. as long as u love me.. i can go through everything with u... yr health is more important..

Me: Dear.. thank you... and we hug each other tightly..

Though i am just a junior Exec at that pt of time.. we were so happy and contented then...

Just a normal packet of chicken rice is another form of joy too... having a chance to dine together with her...

Think of the gd memories..

Yes these will be gd memories i will cherish in my heart......

[prettymannequin]

Eh siao eh. How things have taken a turn. Take care bro.

[zerofighter]

Originally Posted by prettymannequin

Eh siao eh. How things have taken a turn. Take care bro.

Thanks sis.. i will.. God bless ..

[zerofighter]

That nite itself is long.... listening to the tickling of the clock.. the sight of the wedding ring on my finger... my heart bleeds and i could nt even sleep a wink whole nite...

Tmr onwards... i will cease to be her hubby.. i will br a single parent... the path ahead will be tough... but by hook or by crook.. i have to manage it.... The thoughts of my kids pushed me on...

As for me and her... Yuan Jing le ...................

[AhZai15]

Take care bro. Hope things work out eventually for you. Don't lose faith and keep hanging in there

[tallsynn]

Time will wash the pain away, you still hv your good old friends, fatty n others bros
think positive!

[zerofighter]

Originally Posted by tallsynn

Time will wash the pain away, you still hv your good old friends, fatty n others bros
think positive!

Yup u r rite bro...

[iluvbreast]

Originally Posted by zerofighter

That nite itself is long....... The thoughts of my kids pushed me on...

As for me and her... Yuan Jing le ...................

Haven't been following your thread for sometime bro, you are right, the kids are your priority, we adults made the decision, they are the ones without the choice.

Like what you said 缘尽了，该放下. Although it is easier said that done, but you must try. My buddhist teacher told me you like the girl very much when she left you are so sad, but after both of you die in this life time, and reborn, you might be in front of her but you won't know，actually it is all in your heart. He told me the same: 缘尽了，该放下, 懂得放（下）心的人，得到轻松。

One of my more serious post. All the best bro, life is a journey; we haven't reach our destination yet.

[zerofighter]

Originally Posted by iluvbreast

Haven't been following your thread for sometime bro, you are right, the kids are your priority, we adults made the decision, they are the ones without the choice.

Like what you said 缘尽了，该放下. Although it is easier said that done, but you must try. My buddhist teacher told me you like the girl very much when she left you are so sad, but after both of you die in this life time, and reborn, you might be in front of her but you won't know，actually it is all in your heart. He told me the same: 缘尽了，该放下, 懂得放（下）心的人，得到轻松。

One of my more serious post. All the best bro, life is a journey; we
haven't reach our destination yet.

Bro u r rite.. those who know how to let go will feel releived... thanks for yr words.

Appreciate it. .

[ben2011]

Bro share with u this song, just happen to listening this old song today...



Stay strong!

[zerofighter]

Originally Posted by ben2011

Bro share with u this song, just happen to listening this old song today...



Stay strong!

Thanks bro. One of the fave songs which i loved... wonderfully written song.. Thanka bro. I will stay strong....

[hijav]

Bro zerofighter, came across your thread last night but wasnt really expecting anything out of it. I was wrong. Your story with Yvonne really brought me to tears and although its been a tough time for you due to your divorce, I'm happy for you because you are still surrounded by your good buddies and Yvonne.

I wish you all the best and that things will go better from here on.

[zerofighter]

Originally Posted by hijav

Bro zerofighter, came across your thread last night but wasnt really expecting anything out of it. I was wrong. Your story with Yvonne really brought me to tears and although its been a tough time for you due to your divorce, I'm happy for you because you are still surrounded by your good buddies and Yvonne.

I wish you all the best and that things will go better from here on.

Thank you. Indeed i am thankful to have my brothers and Yvonne to be by my side throughout these hard times.. Nt forgetting all my online brothers here in sbf.. Though i did nt meet u guys before.. but i do feel a deep bond of brotherhood with u all..

Bro Ben.. Taizi and simifly...and all my bros here... Kamsia.
Lai Ta!

[kuasimi]