sex with fat/overweight/plump girls

[asdfghjkl]

bbw does not mean not pretty ler..

[prak961]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

bbw does not mean not pretty ler..

Actually BBW must be good looking. BBW = Big Beautiful Woman (& not Big Breast Woman or Big Butt Woman).

Even overweight people (male or female) look good as long as they dress well (clothes that suitable for their physique) & do not have an inferiority complex.

For the record, I am a normal size guy with a small tummy, but I prefer BBWs to slim ladies. Personally, I treat people of all shapes, size & colour with respect. I later revise the respect based on their character, zap for negative character & "up" for positive.

[AlexV]

Originally Posted by prak961

Hi Alex,
Please don't compare WL with non-WL Samster ladies. For WL, what you said is quite true, it is a matter off supply & demand. There is less demand for BBW, so price is lower. Another factor governing price for WL is age. Most of the WL tend to put on weight as they age, bringing the price down.

Young BBWs like SBF Natsuki have their own loyal clientile. Your attitude will get you nowhere with her, even though you will be paying for her services.

The point that I am trying to make is that BBW are as normal as all of us. Some may have high sexual needs, just like men. Have you ever considered that they may have picked you as "easy meat" & made a play for you?

Sure, i don't claim to be a hunk of a man. And for all anyone knows i am a male BBW ha ha! And surely some of my best friends are BBW's - ones physical appearance pays little heed to their personality and loyalty as a friend. But in terms of getting laid, it is simply a FACT that over weight girls have a harder time then their thin counterparts (all other factors not included). And, of course not all BBw are easy, but the majority of BBW will be easier to score than the skinny girl. Tell me honestly, when was the last tmie you saw a BBW with a very very good looking man? A man way out of her league in terms of physical appearance. I can honestly say I have seen this once only in my lifetime.

[prak961]

Originally Posted by AlexV

Sure, i don't claim to be a hunk of a man. And for all anyone knows i am a male BBW ha ha! And surely some of my best friends are BBW's - ones physical appearance pays little heed to their personality and loyalty as a friend. But in terms of getting laid, it is simply a FACT that over weight girls have a harder time then their thin counterparts (all other factors not included). And, of course not all BBw are easy, but the majority of BBW will be easier to score than the skinny girl. Tell me honestly, when was the last tmie you saw a BBW with a very very good looking man? A man way out of her league in terms of physical appearance. I can honestly say I have seen this once only in my lifetime.

man cannot be BBW, since the W = WOMAN. men are classified as BHM. Further, BBW does not mean having body like "Michellin Man". See wiki article for BBW: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Beautiful_Woman

First of all, when we question anybody's character, we need to use our brains, rather than "little bro" to pass judgement. We don't make relationships with the opposite sex (or same sex for gay) only for sex.

I don't question your arguments that the majority of men like slender women. It is only your statement that BBW are easy that I dispute. I have never seen any "very very good looking man" in my whole life. I am sure that MdmVodka (non-WL BBW) will consider her dear husband to be very good looking.

I have seen many middle aged ladies who attractive even though they are no as slender as they were before childbirth. The happiness they feel in the knowledge that they have a good family life radiates on their face. You wouldn't dare make a play for them & you will get told off in no uncertain terms.

[AlexV]

Originally Posted by prak961

man cannot be BBW, since the W = WOMAN. men are classified as BHM. Further, BBW does not mean having body like "Michellin Man". See wiki article for BBW: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Beautiful_Woman

First of all, when we question anybody's character, we need to use our brains, rather than "little bro" to pass judgement. We don't make relationships with the opposite sex (or same sex for gay) only for sex.

I don't question your arguments that the majority of men like slender women. It is only your statement that BBW are easy that I dispute. I have never seen any "very very good looking man" in my whole life. I am sure that MdmVodka (non-WL BBW) will consider her dear husband to be very good looking.

I have seen many middle aged ladies who attractive even though they are no as slender as they were before childbirth. The happiness they feel in the knowledge that they have a good family life radiates on their face. You wouldn't dare make a play for them & you will get told off in no uncertain terms.

Firstly, I don't think you can quote wikipedia on the definition of BBW since BBW is urban slang, it can mean looking like michelin man.

Let's also look at your dispute that BBW are easier than slender women. If slender women walk into a bar of 10 men, she has the choice of the lets say 8 of the men. A BBW walks into the same bar, she has the choice of maybe 1 or 2 of the men. As I said, taking all things into account (which means not mentioning personality or the fact that maybe either the slender woman or BBW do not want to sleep with a these men) means that the slender women has more choices making it harder for the men who WANT her to compete for her affections. A BBW who only gets the attention of 2 men who ACTUALLY want her, makes it "EASIER" to compete for her affections. You must disregard the fact that the BBW or slender woman may not actually want to sleep with these men who are interested in them. By sheer logic, the men who are interested in her, have a much higher chance of achieving their goal. Men instinctively know this, although society tells them not to think like this. It is why when a guy goes out to meet women, he focuses on looks first, then as the night wanes and he is unsuccesful he moves on to the ladies he finds less attractive.

If you read my original post, I said that the guy who likes BBW must have a higher success rate than the man who likes slender women. This is a fact that cannot be contested - it is a numbers game I'm afraid. So I believe your judgement, by your emotions and since you have taken offense by it, has been clouded and you have misinterpreted my post. My statement is simply: men who like BBW stand a higher percentage success rate then men who like slender women, therefore, the BBW appear to be easier for them.

And I believe most people who are rational would agree with this, unfortunate fact of life. If you do not agree, then you are probably either 1) a BBW 2) someone who has a close friend who is a BBW 3) a feminist 4) a guy who carries a manbag.

[prak961]

Originally Posted by AlexV

And I believe most people who are rational would agree with this, unfortunate fact of life. If you do not agree, then you are probably either 1) a BBW 2) someone who has a close friend who is a BBW 3) a feminist 4) a guy who carries a manbag.

Believe me, I am not any of the above. I like plump women, not women who have spare tyres all over their bodies.

I am also aware that many women maintain a slender because it gives them a better chance of catching the eye of men. It is possible that the BBW already has her man & does not feel the need to go out of the way to maintain a good figure at the cost of the rest of their life. Life is not just about sex. A married working mother needs to take care of the house, in addition to her work. How many husbands are willing to share the housework 50-50? My brother does. I am not a person who will, so I make sure that my wife is a housewife & can do ALL the housework.

This is reality, no feminism. Failure to acknowledge this in your own family may alienate not only your wife, but also your own children.

END OF. No more posts from me on this subject.

[AlexV]

Originally Posted by prak961

Believe me, I am not any of the above. I like plump women, not women who have spare tyres all over their bodies.

I am also aware that many women maintain a slender because it gives them a better chance of catching the eye of men. It is possible that the BBW already has her man & does not feel the need to go out of the way to maintain a good figure at the cost of the rest of their life. Life is not just about sex. A married working mother needs to take care of the house, in addition to her work. How many husbands are willing to share the housework 50-50? My brother does. I am not a person who will, so I make sure that my wife is a housewife & can do ALL the housework.

This is reality, no feminism. Failure to acknowledge this in your own family may alienate not only your wife, but also your own children.

END OF. No more posts from me on this subject.

I know you said you won't post anymore, but why are you talking about married BBW - they are already off the market so obviously not "easy" by my definition. i don't consdier anyone who is married on the market anymore....

[Xtremist]

Originally Posted by Fail

Yeah!
I was just voicing out what I observed...
I dun really get too bothered on what these people label me as.

Totally agree, life's too short to be too bothered
IMHO, making myself n my loved one's happy is already demanding enough

[prak961]

Originally Posted by AlexV

I know you said you won't post anymore, but why are you talking about married BBW - they are already off the market so obviously not "easy" by my definition. i don't consdier anyone who is married on the market anymore....

I didn't see any mention of married or unmarried in any of your previous posts. Further, how do you know whether she is married or not?

The owner of shop that sells things used for Chinese prayer near my place has a very large sized daughter. easily over 100kg & she will be about 167cm tall. She is a very cheerful & fun loving person who gets along very well with all the customers. If you consider her face only, you can say that she is pretty. As far as I know, she is still a virgin. She likes food very much.

Some overweight women will not trust good looking guys, because they suspect that they subscribe to the same stereotyped & misguided perception of overweight women being easy to bed.

The point i am trying to convey to you is that overweight women are not more promiscuous or immoral than slender women. In most cases, having probably been rejected in the past, they will be more likely to be more difficult to pick up as they suspect that you targeted her because you considered her easy meat.

If you have any BBW friends or colleagues, get to know them better. Let us all know how many of them offered to be your fubu (not gf). Gf discounted because there is emotional attachment there but not necessarily for fubu, right?

They say the proof of the pudding is in the eating.

[AlexV]

Originally Posted by prak961

She likes food very much.

AHAHAHAHAHHA -thanks for the TGIF humour.

I agree, BBW and skinny girl are not more or less immoral or promiscuous. But you have a higher chance with BBW because there is less competition.

I am having a hard time getting this concept across for some reason....

[asdfghjkl]

whats fubu?

[prak961]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

whats fubu?

fu(ck) bu(ddy)

[Fail]

Originally Posted by prak961

fu(ck) bu(ddy)

Fubu reminds me of fugu (the pufferfish sashimi) ...
In some ways they are somewhat similar.
If u dunno how to handle a fubu / fugu in the way it should be handled, there is a remote possibility that u gonna die a painful death. Hahaha...

[prak961]

I'm vegetarian, so it isn't a wonder that i have never heard of fugu. However, you are correct that both need to be handled appropriately. Fubu may not actually kill you, but if things get out of hand, you'll wish he/she really would.

[MdmVodka]

Originally Posted by AlexV

Nah i disagree. Sure they are women, and yes they have feelings. So perhaps what I said was insensitive, but it is a truth. it is a case of supply / demand. Got many BBw out there, but no much demand for them. Like everyone, most people got a few BBW friends, their standard is always so high. Would only date some male model, but of course they can't get them. i think this is a defense mechanism for fear of continual rejection, so they keep standards high. Whereas, yes, most are very nice people and could get a decent chap based on personality, but they don't. They want the guy their skinny friend gets.

That said, the demand for them is limited, so when they finally reach that conclusion, they must lower their standards and are "easier" to get then their skinny counterparts.

You see prostitues on some escort websites, BBW are usually lowest price....

So....sorry to offend BBW's out there and their male friends, but most people in their hearts know it to be true. Society now deems skinny girls beautiful, 30 - 50 years ago, the BBW's were the "physical beauties", but not today. Everything works in cycles, so I'm sure in about 30 years BBW's will be the cover of Vogue again.

I have to disagree with you.

I have my fair share of bfs and I know I am not those "last on the list" kind of backup.

I have the guy that people wants...

I have the guy that the school belle wanted.