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bro axl..after hearing ur past..this for u..but onli for reminiscing hor, and then move on...
i am tired of being here, suppressed by all my childhood fears, if u hv to leave, i wish u wud just leave coz ur presence lingers here and it wont leave me alone, these wounds wun seem to heal this pain is just too real there's juz toomuch tat time cant erase u cried i wud wipe away all of ur tears u screamed i wud fight away all of ur fears and i held ur hand thru all of these years and u still have all of me anyone knws the source byheart, come collect a cd from me..hehe..cd as in condom hor. wat esle? bro axl, i no heart to give u the 2 nd verse..heads up man. err nomore poetry hor..this one not really..if not boss will zap all of us |
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You can keep your CD. kekeke... *I Googled this*
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thks bro, i need the cd today
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thread started in newbie section liao. tcss there, meaningful posts here. |
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I totally disagree with the thread title...
if you dun love her, why you marry her ??? I believe in the 1st place, there is courtship, there is love....sky long earth ages..that kind of thing which leads to the marriage. Nothing to worry at that time, young, full of energy, no need to worry about family matters....lots of time to kill..... but after you are married, you start a family, you start to have kids... you got less time to spend together as you need more time to maintain the family. soon you lost that feeling... then you think there is no love at all but only burden or responsibilities. Girlfriend became Wife and later become relative....and that LOve feeling fades away.... so ask yourself again... is the gal you married not the one you love ???? |
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Cheers.
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sorry DD post.
Last edited by aman; 23-03-2007 at 06:32 PM. Reason: ed |
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cheers up bros. |
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the purpose of this thread is to explore the "what ifs" Just to highlight...it is not always the truth that people marry for love (there are other agendas, which we have not highlighted - ie, political, money, etc) For most laymen like us...we explore if TRUE LOVE indeed exists and that "the one we marry - is the one we love MOST" (as bro GhostRay had pointed out) After so many posts, i have yet to see one come forward and say they he/she married the one they loved most...and the other half shared the same sentiments....it sounds like you know the secret though... JWNY
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2) prearranged marriages; a) still popular for economic reasons. Think of it as keeping the weath in the family. b) very popular now is the internet kind. You shop, see what you like than you make a purchased via credit card. Than you fly over. Talk talk, sign a few papers than take her home. (it may sound crude but I think you get the point. No offence meant) Just to name a few. Thus, not much love involve at the beginning. Some lucky but there are some not so ie: Prince Charles and Princess Diana. |
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as we witnessed; ½ the married life is filled with the wife with curlers in the hair, giving the hubby a prelude to what hell is like, screaming & screeching, nagging & fussing over the tiniest little things from day to day. while the hubby's usually the 1 bending back to make way for the lady. yet, given any family reunion or occassion, the 2 put on the best act possible, to give their relatives a false facade... smiling & greeting away, as if their lives filled with eternal bliss, and squabbles never exist.
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爱一生中不多不少,会有一次不得了,其实没人比我知道 你就是我的不能不要。如果黑夜太难熬,我陪你日夜颠倒,爱一场该付出多少-因为你我不计较。
a beauty; a blessing... a pauper; a curse... a beautiful impecunious; not sure if its a blessing or a curse |
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Ai Ren Shi Tong Ku only when you give(emotionally) more than what you should/could and expect the other person to return it. For me, I am in love with another gal, I call her my AiRen and I am her QingAiDe. I feel more for her than my wife but it's not possible for us at this moment..... She's pregnant(unplanned) and I am stuck in an unhappy marriage. We know our feelings for each other but situation doesn't allow us to be together. I dunno where this ambiguous relationship will lead us to but I am giving her my love w/o asking for too much returns. In some ways, both are us are happy with the current situation and we choose to let it be so till that day comes or may not come
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Love is beyond comprehension amongst mere mortals such as us.
Lust is easier to grasp within our limited cranial muscles. Marriage is nothing more than lust fulfilled legally. But alas, lust is only temporary, as beauty and ideals fade over time. Irony of true love is that you must set free, not to posses, but to sacrifice. Sacrifice means a loss Thus, to love is to lose. Then how can marriage be of true love? Therefore, to marry is to wed one you do not love, For you do not want to lose or sacrifice, If one do not sacrifice, set free, then it's not love If not love, then the truth of marriage lies in lust. Sophist logic. Not a poem. Not to be taken seriously. Love too. Can we go geylang cheong for Cat40 now?
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double post
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if a man caught without possesion of 2 condom (assuming he just expanded 1), then how? throw into jail, gang bang by female convicts without a trial? hahaha.
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爱一生中不多不少,会有一次不得了,其实没人比我知道 你就是我的不能不要。如果黑夜太难熬,我陪你日夜颠倒,爱一场该付出多少-因为你我不计较。
a beauty; a blessing... a pauper; a curse... a beautiful impecunious; not sure if its a blessing or a curse |
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