How I got cheated by KTV girl

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by littleme

Scary.. let me share my story.. hope bros don't flame me... I had been cohabitating with an ex-KTV PRC in china for the last 3 years.. She wanted SGD100K after three months of "getting to know each other" so I gave to her in instalments over 9 months to pay off her property loan (verified personally in china)

She stopped "working" after paying off the loan.. and I am staying in her condo since then... with her parents whom treated me like their son-in-law... I am a traveling auditor for the china region...

Today, we are still together and I gave her money as and when I get extra commissions... averaging SGD3K month.. and I told her I do not have anything for her if I am jobless... she said its ok because I helped her before and she is grateful that she can quit the KTV job...

Actually we are even more loving than before.. she recently bought a 2-rm studio in a resort area paying the SGD23K deposit with her savings & putting it under my name - I had once told her I prefer leisure living than city living.

I like to believe its real love but after reading the posts here... can any bro advise or comment on my post... many thanks ahead...

bro after so many sad stories i really hope yours have a fairy tale ending??

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by wildnhard2005

I was once stationed in Shanghai for while with another more senior guy, he is married with 3 kids. He got involved with a KTV, screw up on his job, all of us, including the boss tried to talk him out, but he fall out with all us, claiming the girl is true to him ...blah blah blah, he was told to leave later due to poor peformance, he return to Malaysia to divioce his wife and went back to china to marry that girl. Last i heard, he is trying to look for a job back in malaysia, and he is alone!! Heard he was penniless when he when back, so much for true feeling!!

True feeling perhaps, for your wealth, not you personally!

haiyo another sad story................. are prc girls really tat bad???????

[cavemao]

double post

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by cavemao

haiyo another sad story................. are prc girls really tat bad???????

Not all prc girls r bad but most WL earning money r......

[littleme]

Originally Posted by cavemao

bro after so many sad stories i really hope yours have a fairy tale ending??

I also hope so... her friend who also quited the KTV scene fell in love with a married man who only paid for her rented room and daily expenses (only few hundreds a month)

Now he don't even give her anything and she had to go back to china and he visit her like once a quarter. She still believe her future is with him. My gf feels so sad for her.. get nothing and still had to feed herself.

Another case in sgp... peidu mama... quite old at 40... an old man ard 69 yrs.. promise her many things... she stayed with him for 3 years.. get nothing except the SGD2000 each month for 36 months... somemore she not bad looking, got big boobs...

Sometimes I wonder if I am living on the same planet as you guys.. I see PRC WL or KTV ladies get cheated...

[tokkon1]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Dear Brothers newbadass and ct75,

Well said indeed. Both of you talk sense unlike some brothers here who waste the bandwidth in side-tracking for funs. It is all about exchange. Like Bro ct75 indicated in his post "...I might have a bit of liking of you......". However, many men take the "a bit of liking" as True Girl Friend Feeling. Concerning KC or FOC bonk, I like the interpretation of one of the brothers in the forum on FOC = Fcuk on Credit.

My 2 cent worth.

I dun noe bro ct75 personally but I respect his view. NBA tho is a cheong buddy of mine. For a long time he and me share the same sentiment which is basically' F & F'. If you like a ger, repeat her services but pay her accordingly. Dun mix emotion with money. Treat them separately and you'll be free from undesirable consequences.

As my my cheong kakis noe, I've hooked up wif an ex ktv gal who no longer ply the trade. I've taken her under my wings so to speak, gave her a job has since been my lover. We enjoyed each other's company and hv sex regularly. It's more than a year now and we are still deliriously happy.

Her income had dropped drastically from her ktv days but she's satisfied. Altho our affection are genuine, we noe where we stand. It's just a phase in our two lives temporarily intertwined and we are both happy about it. It will end at most in a couple of years. Many bros hv warned me not to fall into KC traps and I appreciate their goodwill but I noe what I'm getting myself into.

In life, there's is no right or wrong. Smart or stupid. Just lawful or unlawful. At the end of day, if it makes you happy, go and do it. You only have 1 life to live and it's YOUR Life. Make your own decision.

Everyone's stories are different. Same set of circumstances but very different outcome especially when human emotions are involved.

My advice is dun listen to advices. Judge for yourself cos only you know best your own situation and the consequence thereof.

[littleme]

Originally Posted by SioGan

RMB 15,000 a month is quite a lot of money for PRC, no wonder she stay by your side. But maybe she really love you, who knows? you are in better position than any of us to judge her.

Bro... she earned 20% more than that during her KTV days... much more if she go for "extras" but she did not because her intention is to earn enough to pay off the monthly loan payments. I had high hopes of a fairy tale ending but after reading the doom & gloom of WL & KTV gals cheating the guys.. now I am not so optimistic...

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by +++kon1

In life, there's is no right or wrong. Smart or stupid. Just lawful or unlawful. At the end of day, if it makes you happy, go and do it. You only have 1 life to live and it's YOUR Life. Make your own decision.

wow very good advice!!!!!!!! do it if happy but know wat you're getting into

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by littleme

I like to believe its real love but after reading the posts here... can any bro advise or comment on my post... many thanks ahead...

Bro, Not all PRC ladies are bad, some of them do know how to reciprocate your kindness in other ways and means. I would like to wish both of you well. Nevertheless, one can never be too careful in a foreign land.

With best regards.

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by littleme

Bro... she earned 20% more than that during her KTV days... much more if she go for "extras" but she did not because her intention is to earn enough to pay off the monthly loan payments. I had high hopes of a fairy tale ending but after reading the doom & gloom of WL & KTV gals cheating the guys.. now I am not so optimistic...

bro i'm suffering from the same effects lol the bros here mean well though good to keep alarm bell in your head though.....

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by littleme

Bro... she earned 20% more than that during her KTV days... much more if she go for "extras" but she did not because her intention is to earn enough to pay off the monthly loan payments. I had high hopes of a fairy tale ending but after reading the doom & gloom of WL & KTV gals cheating the guys.. now I am not so optimistic...

Bro, Please do not be disheartened by the many sad stories here. Just do not take things for granted and always be aware of what is happening around you, it should be alright. You know best about her, and you are in control, I hope.

Regards

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by +++kon1

As my my cheong kakis noe, I've hooked up wif an ex ktv gal who no longer ply the trade. .....

In life, there's is no right or wrong. Smart or stupid. Just lawful or unlawful. At the end of day, if it makes you happy, go and do it. You only have 1 life to live and it's YOUR Life. Make your own decision.

Everyone's stories are different. Same set of circumstances but very different outcome especially when human emotions are involved.

My advice is dun listen to advices. Judge for yourself cos only you know best your own situation and the consequence thereof.

Brother, you have presented a balanced view, even to the extend of recounting your own experience.

Like you, I was once with a PRC lady, initially, all were well, until one day I found that she was trying to con me into business by asking me to help her to invest a large sum of money. I was lucky to have seek advice from brothers and some Old Cheongsters in Beijing. Advice are not always bad, we just have to learn to use a correct filter that suits our circumstance.

I do not think that we are stupid, contrary to some brothers who believe so. Some of my good PRC lady friends told me that Singaporeans are soft hearted. Whether this is true of not, Brothers! Please judge for yourself.

My 2 cent worth.

[S3vw]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

who waste the bandwidth.
FOC = Fcuk on Credit.

My 2 cent worth.

Lao da u sayin i waste bandwidth....
but i still belive there are ppl who get FOC...

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by S3vw

Lao da u sayin i waste bandwidth....
but i still belive there are ppl who get FOC...

Bro,
How dare I say that, there are people who do not read the whole text and start pointing fingers lah.

I also believe that there are people who get FOC Bonk, but definitely not me. Hahaha....

Why you are so free now?

Regards

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by littleme

Now he don't even give her anything and she had to go back to china and he visit her like once a quarter. She still believe her future is with him. My gf feels so sad for her.. get nothing and still had to feed herself.

Hmmmm this also need to blame the ger. Aren't she stupid to believe him totally??

Originally Posted by littleme

Another case in sgp... peidu mama... quite old at 40... an old man ard 69 yrs.. promise her many things... she stayed with him for 3 years.. get nothing except the SGD2000 each month for 36 months... somemore she not bad looking, got big boobs...

She should have save the 2000 per mth if she knows how to think cos how many years left for a 69 yrs old man.