Bintan Reports

[sassina2]

Originally posted by Spanker
Thanks for the reply Sassina.
Recently,I have had a problem with Balai girls wanting marriage to come to a richer country.I think they have been egged on by their papis.
I have no interest in this.Should I be telling them that I am happily married to prevent this happening again?
Are these women really looking for marriage or a passport to prostitution in a richer country?One hears stories of women going to the West and then filing for divorce as soon as their citizenship comes through.Is this the same for Singapore and Malaysia?
However, the Balai girls tell me that some of these marriages do work.

Spanker,

I am not sure if you are Asian or Western gentleman. In either case, the likelihood of marriage with a "night life lady" working out is poor because of numerous factors which you can list out yourself if you sit down to think through it.

I presume that you must be spending quite a few days there for this kind of question to come about because I can hardly imagine a working lady asking you to marry her on the strength of an overnight booking?

If it is bothersome, just say you are married already or perhaps, getting married soon etc so that the pestering ceases and you can focus on the fun instead.

My advice is not to even think of it for the reasons in Para 1 above.

If you are seeking a good wife from Asia, whether Thai or Indonesian, there are so many ladies in normal work such as hotel receptionists, Guest Relations, PR, Food & Beverage staff, retail and other office workers such as secretaries that you could choose from. There will be more candidates than you have time to work through. Obviously, it's different from the night life type relationship but, you're looking for a wife not pure sex right?

A piece of good advice I had was to look at the woman and think of how she would be as the mother of your kids and the head of your household when you invite your business and close friends over. Will she be the one you will proudly and happily introduce to them? Will the kids have a great mother that you want them to have. These are the criteria for your choice of a wife rather than if she is absolutely a sexy stunner or a great sex artiste!

The sexual adventures we have anywhere in the world is part of our right as a man with lusty needs. The subject of marriage is a totally different ball game that should be conducted outside of this arena! Does it make sense?

[lurpsexx]

Originally posted by sassina2
However, when it comes to the crunch of rolling in the hay, I would say the Indos beat the Thais hands down because more of them truly love to f#$k!

True true!

[neyney]

Originally posted by Spanker
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However, the Balai girls tell me that some of these marriages do work.

Yeap, some of this marriages do work out in the end. But, as you have said some only. And the balai girls also told you the the truth.
The percentage could be bery much lower than the usual marriages that are registered with ROM. Depends on your individual case and of coz your courage to take the risk anot. NO RISK NO GAIN. Marriage is after all a rush, irrational decision, be it with a cewek, usual girl in singapore or an usual indonesian perempuan, it is a risk taking decision. The moment you spend time thinking over it, ah hah!, NOT WORTH IT.
There are ways to help to make the marriage to work out. But due to the fact this is a public forum, it is not wise to write it out.

[AhBengKeong]

Originally posted by Spanker
Thanks for the reply Sassina.
Recently,I have had a problem with Balai girls wanting marriage to come to a richer country.I think they have been egged on by their papis.
I have no interest in this.Should I be telling them that I am happily married to prevent this happening again?
Are these women really looking for marriage or a passport to prostitution in a richer country?One hears stories of women going to the West and then filing for divorce as soon as their citizenship comes through.Is this the same for Singapore and Malaysia?
However, the Balai girls tell me that some of these marriages do work.

hey, come out play.....no matter wat pple say, no matter how true or fake it is, just listen la.......why bother to think so much?

[AhBengKeong]

Originally posted by Spanker
It seems as if most of you guys like to travel in groups and have ceweks join you.
I,however,like to travel alone to enjoy the company of the girls.
Having just returned from all three Riau Islands,although some of the ceweks were beautiful and sometimes the sex was great,there just was not the girlfriend experience I have had in other countries such as Thailand.
Is it just me,or is this the nature of Riau women?

hahaha....i also same as you....i only want to go thailand now

[DNAT]

[i]
The best ladies in Riau are hardly ever in the showcase except in the first few days of their 3-6 months contracts. If they are good (probably a combination of good looks, good attitude & services), they often get "bought out" or, they develop a regular repeat clientele amongst anywhere from 10 to 30 or more regulars with the result that they are often "pre-booked" and never in the showcase. [/B]

thats why very afraid when frens/kakis/newbies ask me to bring them to fish tank, esp. on weekends/public holidays cos those remain in the tanks are the 'so-so only' quality

[meatlover]

Originally posted by DNAT
thats why very afraid when frens/kakis/newbies ask me to bring them to fish tank, esp. on weekends/public holidays cos those remain in the tanks are the 'so-so only' quality

Fishtank not your playfround mah ... You're BTTCFL hunter leh ...

Holyhoot papi told me on my last trip during my TCSS session with him in my room got some new stocks leh ... He told me they're YNQ leh ...

[l3atu]

Originally posted by meatlover
Fishtank not your playfround mah ... You're BTTCFL hunter leh ...

Holyhoot papi told me on my last trip during my TCSS session with him in my room got some new stocks leh ... He told me they're YNQ leh ...

Wah !!! Me confirm going in March !!!!

[DNAT]

Originally posted by meatlover
Fishtank not your playfround mah ... You're BTTCFL hunter leh ...

Holyhoot papi told me on my last trip during my TCSS session with him in my room got some new stocks leh ... He told me they're YNQ leh ...

YNQ .... Young and Naive ki lan lah ..... this type usu got local abang 1, wait ask them to 'start work' they like to say 'sakit sini sakit sana'

[DNAT]

Originally posted by l3atu
Wah !!! Me confirm going in March !!!!

no head no tail 1? going to kahwin si bo?

[l3atu]

Originally posted by DNAT
no head no tail 1? going to kahwin si bo?

Pergi sana curi ayam lar.......saya belum ada cinta di BT, mau kahwin sama siapa kah ?

[DNAT]

Originally posted by sassina2

If you are seeking a good wife from Asia, whether Thai or Indonesian, there are so many ladies in normal work such as hotel receptionists, Guest Relations, PR, Food & Beverage staff, retail and other office workers such as secretaries that you could choose from. There will be more candidates than you have time to work through. Obviously, it's different from the night life type relationship but, you're looking for a wife not pure sex right?

A piece of good advice I had was to look at the woman and think of how she would be as the mother of your kids and the head of your household when you invite your business and close friends over. Will she be the one you will proudly and happily introduce to them? Will the kids have a great mother that you want them to have. These are the criteria for your choice of a wife rather than if she is absolutely a sexy stunner or a great sex artiste!

Speaking of marriage with an Indo lady, the followings are ‘unpleasant’ examples:
1. A Sg cab driver went to one of the Tg Pinang to kio kway and eventually married this chinese cewek (now at her early 30s) from joint and have a daugther of about 4-5 y.o. now. He claimed that his wife always has the tendency to make eye contact with other men after their marriage. He even whacked her and now they are seperated.

The cewek claims that she was being sold w/o her knowledge by her mother to the joint for S$500.00 few years ago. Haizz ….. another sad story.

2. A Sg man married a chinese lady (not sure if she works as a WL before) and have 2 kids. He suspects his wife sees other men and eventually took a knife from a hawker stall in Chinatown Complex and slashed her, just days before CNY. Another lousy ending.

[neyney]

Originally posted by DNAT
Speaking of marriage with an Indo lady, the followings are ‘unpleasant? examples:
1. A Sg cab driver went to one of the Tg Pinang to kio kway and eventually married this chinese cewek (now at her early 30s) from joint and have a daugther of about 4-5 y.o. now. He claimed that his wife always has the tendency to make eye contact with other men after their marriage. He even whacked her and now they are seperated.

The cewek claims that she was being sold w/o her knowledge by her mother to the joint for S$500.00 few years ago. Haizz ?.. another sad story.

2. A Sg man married a chinese lady (not sure if she works as a WL before) and have 2 kids. He suspects his wife sees other men and eventually took a knife from a hawker stall in Chinatown Complex and slashed her, just days before CNY. Another lousy ending.

Seems that these are the examples of SG men married with indo chinese ceweks. I am not saying if there are difference due to racial differences. But a friend of mine also have the same experience where he married a chinese indo cewek then and end up broke after a year of marriage.

[neyney]

Originally posted by neyney
Seems that these are the examples of SG men married with indo chinese ceweks. I am not saying if there are difference due to racial differences. But a friend of mine also have the same experience where he married a chinese indo cewek then and end up broke after a year of marriage.

But i do have to point out that chinese on general is always never contented with present situation. Perhaps, that's also why many rich in indo are chinese. Another to point out that, chinese ceweks has alot more choices too, they are usually highly sought after. So even though they have made to marry, they are more tendency to curi itik atau curi ayam

[DNAT]

Originally posted by neyney
Seems that these are the examples of SG men married with indo chinese ceweks. I am not saying if there are difference due to racial differences. But a friend of mine also have the same experience where he married a chinese indo cewek then and end up broke after a year of marriage.

Last time I took a cab in Sg and told the cab driver that there are some young and pretty chinese gals in Tg Pinang (95-96) who work as hair-dresser and they can speak hokkien or teochew. I said they are good candidates for marriage in Sg (that time I haven't met my Q yet, so it was a kind of alternative for me)

He said: "brother, beware of those gals who work in hair-salon in Riau, most of them oso very not 100% loyal. Imagine their line of duty sure got many crocodiles approach them for hair-cut with other motives. Even if you marry the gal and she can stay/work in Sg, you can tahan the Sg crocodiles meh?

Also, it is not to condamn the Indo gals; can't blame them (any gal might do the same these days, not necessarily Indo gals) if they can find a better/richer abang and 'switch track' since some of them are more tempted by $. If you are ready for these, then go for it lor" - I think and think ..... hmmmm ..... he was quite right.