How I got cheated by KTV girl

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by cavemao

i'm thinking sooner or later she'll find another man and dump me so i also keep burying my feelings for her in case the worst happens.....

Brother,
If she really loves you, she would not do that. Otherwise, if she is not getting enough from you, she would either two-timings or leave completely for someone else.

My 2 cent worth.

[sunzi]

Originally Posted by Purgatory

all are 犯溅... 真爱难寻，更何况身处欢场。

Aiyo, u are back with all those hurting chinese words.

Anyway as i mentioned to u, if so scare kena cheated or spending hard earned money on WL don't cheong KTV or get in touch with any of those WL whether in ktv, tnn or those from the street. Stay at home and PCC sure won't get cheated.

If wanna KC WL, don't think of doing a reverse KC on them meaning they will fall on u and let u bonk for free. There is no free lunch in this world everything must be pay for whether tangible or intangible stuff. This apply not only to WL even the local gals also.

Come to think about it, I kena cheated by cheongsters more than those WL

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by DOM.

If you are her so called bf, want to have sex and yet unwilling to give her what she wants, and you are prepare to leave her anytime. Why drag on? Don't you think, you are an asshole?

er i'm not in this for sex... please read the thread properly i haven't even seen her naked before. thanks for your advice though (if you can call it that)

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by DOM.

Seriously, I find you miserable. There are millions of PRC on the street. Why choose her if you doubt her so much? If the PI say she is clear, what is next? You can choose to ignore her past but you can't forget it. Get a life, move on.

er wow more advice from you.... yes of cos there are millions of GIRLS not just prc girls on the street, but how many can connect with you... my only worry is that although we connect emotionally i still want to find out her past life, whether to ignore is it another thing (i'll probably ignore it watever her past is) but important thing is to find out... wouldn't it be a huge shock if i marry her one fine day (take note hor its still far far away from that) and find out she's already married to somebody else??

of cos prefarably every man who kc a prc girl, one who has worked in ktv no less, will want the girl to be truthful to him. i've been calling her daily for chit chat and i find her more countryside girl than big town girl. but everyone has secrets, good or bad, as a naturally cautious person, i'd find it perfectly normal to want to find out more from an independent source wouldn't you?

anyway i really appreciate many of the warnings here from bro, especially bro putonren, alot of his words make sense.... as for you...................... other than sarcasm you offer nothing

[littleme]

Originally Posted by naemlo

If I can produce a doc from the bank saying I have 1000 billions RMB in it, u believe it? Furthermore, which bank in this world loan large sum of money to poor ppl?? Nbzzzz she is richer than me.... cold hard cash.... Say only mah, no need money.... say no action is what most ppl do nowsadays. 460KSGD in China, not small amount. Most of us here dun have more than 100K in bank. How the hell she spent the money???

There are only 4 credible banks in china and all are going for IPO. Bank of China is one of them and I even went with her to update the bank book just to confirm it is a genuine one.

The 140KSGD is in her sgp UOB account... saw it from the ATM... and this amount is not even enough for a 150sqm condo in downtown area.. outskirts maybe can get one but not so safe.

As mentioned in previous post... 460KSGD over 3 years... close to 340K invested in properties and rest are expenses over the same period... her friend who was a beauty contestant got almost double the amount from two old men.. one HK and one sgp.

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by sunzi

Aiyo, u are back with all those hurting chinese words.

Anyway as i mentioned to u, if so scare kena cheated or spending hard earned money on WL don't cheong KTV or get in touch with any of those WL whether in ktv, tnn or those from the street. Stay at home and PCC sure won't get cheated.

If wanna KC WL, don't think of doing a reverse KC on them meaning they will fall on u and let u bonk for free. There is no free lunch in this world everything must be pay for whether tangible or intangible stuff. This apply not only to WL even the local gals also.

Come to think about it, I kena cheated by cheongsters more than those WL

EXACTLY! i was talking to another samster the other day, local gals are not holier than thou.. they might not work in ktvs but man some of them can really scheme too..... its also good to know that local gals can actually cost much more to maintain also... although my exposure is limited from wat i can tell, prc girls can actually be more simple minded than local gals and demand less.... as i was talking to my girl, she said something really true... just as many guys who kc ktv girls are worried, the girls themselves are equally worried. imagine you're all alone in a foreign land (maybe with a few other jie mei you meet at work) and your family isn't with you... sometimes the girls are at a bigger disadvantage......

[littleme]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

So do you feel inferior and helpless, after your "gerfrd" showed you her bank account with fantastic figures, and is still being kept by the businessman?
Seems like you are still trailing few steps behind their back, I wonder you are the third party or not, or even a kept man instead.
Anyway not easy to secure RMB $70K in china, unless you have some form of assets.

She already broke off with him... and she does not come to sgp anymore... after she clarified everything with me... she flew back to china... waited for me there for a month while I worked out the emotions back in sgp then flew there to join her... that was about 2 years plus ago... today we are still today.

Buying property in china requires 30% cash downpayment for locals and 50% for foreigners... so a property with sales price RMB$1 million needs RMB$300K cash deposit and rest in loan...

She said she is grateful to that sugar daddy who provided for her during her most difficult times when she was broke and just fresh from the village...

We used to go out with her few close friends who all are either mistress or still WL. One even had "strings" with old men well known in sgp circles.. the world is so small.

[littleme]

Originally Posted by CibLover

Waooowww!!! SGD140k in China means around RMB700k. Can get loans in China so easily one arh?? What business to get such loans? No collateral ah?? Nbzz.....how come here wanna get loan for lunch also very hard??

Its very difficult to get loans for biz in china... but its easy to get loans for properties in china because the property is the collateral... now 30% down payment is required and rest in loan... they don't loan you 100% sales value.. more like up to 70% or more depending on you goreng the bank officer.

You can check up condo prices in big prc cities... SGD140K can hardly buy any decent condo... this fact can be easily verified by bros residing in china... My prc gf is a shrewd investor... thats one thing I respect her for.

[littleme]

Originally Posted by cavemao

seriously those bro who engage PI before can tell me how much it costs???? in case one day i get really serious about this i want to dig really deep and find out everything..........

Bro... forget about engaging a PI in china.. they are just as crooked as the targets themselves.. just be observant when you are with her.. there are many tell tale signs which she possibly can't cover up in time or aware of.

One way to test her is to ask visit her hometown... then stay a few days and make friends with the neighbours.. then match their information and hers and you will know if there is any fishy washy things about her.

Her friends are also a good source.. treat them nicely.. even their bfs.. best time is to have some alchohol and then start probing discreetly.. but don't get drunk yourself first hor...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by sunzi

Come to think about it, I kena cheated by cheongsters more than those WL

Who cheated your ass???

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by littleme

There are only 4 credible banks in china and all are going for IPO.

Since she is half a millionaire n she love u so much, y the hell u still doubt her? She love u not because of your money unless u tell me have more than a millions in the bank. She wants to con your millions.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by littleme

Buying property in china requires 30% cash downpayment for locals and 50% for foreigners... so a property with sales price RMB$1 million needs RMB$300K cash deposit and rest in loan...

Shit I think I'm lost in this thread, anyway let me humtum,

There is a saying, "if u dun have a big head dun wear a big hat".... RMB1 millions is considered 1 huge sum for a PRC. If she can't even feed herself properly how the hell she going to pay for the loan? Seriously speaking my Xiamen apartment costed me less than 300kRMB n mind u it is located in good location n abt 120sqf. She buying that house for investment?? Again if no money how to invest? Borrow money to invest n later go n work as FL?? This will be my first time hearing this story.

Forget it, I give up... it is your life.

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Since she is half a millionaire n she love u so much, y the hell u still doubt her? She love u not because of your money unless u tell me have more than a millions in the bank. She wants to con your millions.

eh he got a point man!

ya she already invited me to her village (wow yes she calls it a village its some find of farming area of something she has to help her mum plant vegetable one, this one i can verify, felt her hands and can tell she does hard labor in field one, abit rough rough seasoned palms)... gonna visit and probe around discreetly... provided i dont get mobbed first lol... she told me i should dress down as much as possible when i go visit her or the neighbours will pester for money lol...

[littleme]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Since she is half a millionaire n she love u so much, y the hell u still doubt her? She love u not because of your money unless u tell me have more than a millions in the bank. She wants to con your millions.

The suspicious part is she wanted to know how much CPF I had... and its slightly more than what she had now... she ever said she got the same as me but who will ever reject more dollars, rite ?

[Acidman]

Does those PRC girsl that ask you to go back to their hometown with them in China means they are really in love with you?