Sexless Marriage...

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Niceman

lol, Bro Frank.
Well said, lol heehee...
Sillyporean ger cant compare on this ground.
Even in China, wives normally dont reject their hubby whenever they need sex. Is a fact. Is part of their duties, actaully, to sextified their husbands.

i don't claim to speak for any others but at least i tried to please my woman in bed and not treat her as if she is a sex slave purely to provide carnal pleasure for me..but when complain about lack of it..they say we treat them like sex slave..

[analog539]

Originally Posted by Niceman

Sad...
I think is time for all of brothers to be frank and open to it.
Time to tell our wives, we NEED SEX and sex is part of marriage, without, is like a marry and be handicap.

Actually, lots of misunderstanding can dun need to talk, once sextified, both parties will give in.

Sex actually can bridge gaps and dissolve misunderstanding, create more understanding environment.

Anybody writing here has already tried this. i can't work out how all these women thing, especially my own wife. Dind't her Mother tell her the score on this? Either hubby gets it at home or will get it elsewhere? What's so complicated?

Simple...no?

Jim

[asdfghjkl]

sex is indeed an important part of marriage.. maybe can buy her some erotic books or magazine to spice her up.. kekeke

[ramon]

I never had sex with my wife coming to 6 years now. So how did it happen? Before we got married she was staying at my house and we had sex like 3 days a week for a few years, after marriage we had sex during her fertile periods cos both of us were really stressed out with work but we want to have a baby. After birth we stop completely, she didn't ask for it and I didn't want to have it cos she's quite a conservative person who dun like bbbj and different positions (she thinks it's obscene).

So I ended up with my HJs in the shower, GLs and MPs. But that doesn't mean I dun love my wife or we dun get along. My idea of having a wife is like having a companion that probably can last a lifetime. As much as I want to look young and be young, one day I'm going to be "lau kok kok" and that someone who is going to stick around with me will be my wife who will nag, scold and chide me till either one of us kick the bucket first.

[analog539]

Originally Posted by jswong

Gent, mitmit and others, you all are not alone. Me also, after wife gives birth two ago. Suddenly avoid sex. Saying its dirty. Last time courtship days, still got hj, bj and lots of fj. Now, have to beg her like hell also no sex. Tried to go back to basic like communicate more, hold hands, give presents, romantic dinners, impress her with many things also no avail. Worse, she sleeps with her child every nite. I sleep alone in masterrm. Even she changed also must closed drs in order not to let me see. Sometimes, I thought of divorce but our communication is good except we dont hv sex. Right now I have to DIY myself. So regret marrying. Perhaps those who wish to be my friends can email to me at jswong88atyahoodotcomdotsg

Hi hear yah man!

Mine sleeps with the littlest one, I sleep with the other ones.....
Not like b4 the kids when she used to complain she not getting enough.....now table is turned. Hardly anything...tried last week, interrupted twice by the kids. She end up giving me tit fuck which is nice but need it everyday, not once per month. She said breast feeding no urge, too bad as her boobs are bigger...also scared of pain after birth and she think she not sexy anymore. Aiyah.....

How?


Jim

[analog539]

Originally Posted by LOWCHUI

Dear Brothers,

I have a flip situation for you guys to consider.

What if wife has become out of shape, put on weight & no longer appeals to you ?

Yes, there is still 'kum cheng'/love, but subject is just not sexually attractive any more.

Yet she wants to 'it' & probably even more gian as years go by?

Then how?

Tell her you no longer turn me on?
Then die die, one have to imagine something exotic while doing it, all in all, a very counter-productive experience that leaves each party worse off.

I am some husbands are in this situation.

Then how ?

At least, this sexless marriage thread situation easier to handle, wife not interested - then no pressure what - just pcc or eat outside.

Easier to handle then the other scenerio I ust describe right ?

I spicifically warned my wife b4 we got married, you get fat, you gone. I'm not going to get fat and you'd better not either. But rules change mah....they're women, the only thing constant about women is they change their minds all the time.

Jim

[analog539]

Originally Posted by TheEconomist

Might as well jump into the fray lah...

The CO and me have sparodic (read sparse) sex for last five years or so - we talking public holidays - only the english ones - say less than 5-6 times a year..

Funny thing is all other aspects of relationship seemed ok lor - what to do - solution? Nothing more to add lah - you can cheat, pay, pcc or whatever lah - I don't think got simple solution lah - sorry guys..

BTW talk? We talk about this until the cow come home, had kids and even the cow's kids come home - still no difference lah..

Raise the beer mugs guys, here's to cold nights, busy hands and rusty weapons..

Couldn't have said it better myself.

Cling-Cling, beers mugs Cling,
Jim

[analog539]

Originally Posted by big_bear

all these talks about terror-wives who dun want sex really makes me feel like not marrying. jialat siah... scared like hell.
might as well dun marry better.

You bet your ass you should be scared.
Stay free.

Jim

[analog539]

Originally Posted by emperor

Please see a good lawyer immediately. She's setting the stage for her hidden agenda.

Women typically love to operate this way - look for a catalyst to start a chain-reaction of events that will justify a course of action. A course of action she's always wanted to take but doing it this long winded way makes her look like the "victim" and you "the evil one".

Despite your "eating out", you're hell of a lot more straight and sincere than her. Protect yourself now! Start renaming/transfering assets and open offshore accounts for your money.

you can rename all you want.....
The only way is the HIDE the asset. All things aquired AFTER marriage are considered matrimonial assets, regardless of whose name they are in. The only protection you have is to HIDE stuff from here AND your lawyer....as an officer of the court, he would have to tell if he knows of any assets you have.


Jim

[analog539]

Another post by me.....
Man this discussion has really got me going.
Few weeks back in today paper there was a full page article my a marriage cousilor that I made my wife read. He wrapped it all up saying, "The more sex you have the stronger your relationship. You MUST have sex and do it often, if you don't you will grow apart.". She read it and replied she has no urge because of nursing....
NO URGE? Like I have urge to hand over all my money at end of the month? I have urge to fix up house, repair everything, keep everything going? She never has to ask for the money, or for my time for the kids, my urge has nothing to do with it. ITS MY DUTY! What about HER DUTY as a wife?

Jesus, this shit really frustrates me.

Typical woman's refrain, "What mineis mine, what's your is ours.".

Blue balls,
Jim

[InnocentBaby]

Originally Posted by analog539

NO URGE? Like I have urge to hand over all my money at end of the month? I have urge to fix up house, repair everything, keep everything going? She never has to ask for the money, or for my time for the kids, my urge has nothing to do with it. ITS MY DUTY! What about HER DUTY as a wife?

Jesus, this shit really frustrates me.

Typical woman's refrain, "What mineis mine, what's your is ours.".

Blue balls,
Jim

oh god.. can see wat is the world of after marriage now. Hopefully I wont be into tis situation. I mean hope i still enjoy sex with my hubby even after i get married or even after i get birth for a child...

[tommyboy290906]

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[verisio]

Bros...

I'm in my mid twenties and I really enjoy reading all your posts and coming to Sammyboy to see more though I have not touched pros and all those funky stuff. I'm still a conservative one at heart but pcc regularly and really enjoy all your contributions which make me learn more about the outside world.

I've had gfs, most are quite ordinary... None too super horny like some of our lucky bros here. Currently single and chasing a serious girl as gf. I'm coming out of uni soon and hope to settle down with a serious gf.

But as I read this particular thread... I'm horrified. Super horrified. I'm scared... I know I'm damn horny. I need to release almost every alternate day to get the tension out. I'm worried for the future if i ever marry a girl and the situation becoems so bleak like what MOST bros describe here. It's making me think twice about getting a wife. I've thought also about getting a serious sex buddy for the fucking reasons minus the commitments.

I can see alot of bros here actually love their wives but due to lack of sex... they just have to 'outsource' it. Really, that's sad, but I can understand it though I've not experience it. I just cannot bear the thought of stopping my pcc routine.

I wish you bros all the best in your search for sex in your marriages... kekeke

[guruking]

<<they just have to 'outsource' it>>

LOL.....I like the way you put across yr thoughts....

[gent]

Originally Posted by guruking

<<they just have to 'outsource' it>>

LOL.....I like the way you put across yr thoughts....

Haha... "outsource" is suppose to cut cost, somehow in this case, it involve $$