How I got cheated by KTV girl

[stephan]

Originally Posted by aishanshan

...i spent almost 6k on her...

started with plane ticket back to china for spring... then later on say need to pay school fees... she got 2k... i pay the 1k that she is short of... then later buy handphone... nokia E66... which she LOST 2 weeks after i buy for her... knn... then after that say want to buy laptop.... i pay half she pay half... another 1k... then go buy spectacles... buy handbag... buy clothes... makan expensive places... nabeh... looking back how come i so stupid... blinded by "love"... she cry few times in front of me before... dunno is it her acting so good... till now i still question mark whether she love me or its all just acting...

she lost the nokia e66 den expect me buy another hp for her... and also see her prc frens got their "laogong" buy for them gold chain gold necklace... wan me to buy for her oso... but i dun wish to buy for her coz already spend so much on her... ALL my savings for the past half year (i just start working recently only) almost gone... then she start to show her true self... start to throw temper, ignore my call/sms... say wan to break up... say there is no future for us one... wan to end it earlier, dun wan to hurt me later on... dun wish to waste my time and feelings... (but she never mention dun wan to waste my money...)..

Think different way lor, u tell urself that u r consider lucky, u dun have 60k for her to cheat, else ur post will only appear another few months later!

Ur story very typical lah, I ever heard a few prc chat with each other... " 现在的新加坡人越来越难骗了。。。 " ... meaning they still can catch "water fish" if lucky, unlike last time, the "water fish" swim over by themself!

[triple h]

it is indeed sad to hear such tings. My philosophy wen enjoying is on a strictly "play n forget". No feelings or attachment despite the constant "stickness". I state my conditions straight to the girls, most of them understand n i dun "tarpow". my khakis ask me why not since there is chemistry...my personal principles. We must remember dat all things done in the "dark" shld remain as it is. Really feel sympathetic for bros in such a state. my humble point is to get your priorities right initially. Dat will stifle any undue stress. Cheers.

[aishanshan]

thks for all encouragement, ya... lucky my savings not alot else damn 心痛... altho it is quite painful half year savings wasted like that... but ok la... now i learn lesson the hard way i will always remember liao. go to cheong to enjoy, fuck-pay-forget.

[Beaster]

Bro you not that bad liao, within my cheong history, i had helped a few girls, just like your story.

First they want to be your GF or you be their BF, then their true color come out liao. So learn from it, just fuck, pay and carry on with life.

U have good friends, go HC fuck and forget!

Hope you recover soon. Take care man!

[prado]

Bros. Look at the bright side lah! if you have fucked her at least 60 time then OK lah. Standard rate $100 each time if more then earn already lah..

[SubaruSTI]

Bro , never too late to learn your lesson ....
With that, hope you can start afresh for 2009 ...and advise any of the cheongsters still in such fix ...

In fact, i got a office coll in such situation too ...into such relationship with a HC girl ...too soft hearted liao ...spending tons of $$ on her ...buying branded stuff for her Coach bag, Ralph Lauran Polo, etc which he himself dun even wear ...She still dare to ask LV from him ...
I hope i can talk him around soon before he dumps in more $$$ ...

Play Safe and Cheong Smart !

[ING ING]

Originally Posted by triple h

it is indeed sad to hear such tings. My philosophy wen enjoying is on a strictly "play n forget". No feelings or attachment despite the constant "stickness". I state my conditions straight to the girls, most of them understand n i dun "tarpow". my khakis ask me why not since there is chemistry...my personal principles. We must remember dat all things done in the "dark" shld remain as it is. Really feel sympathetic for bros in such a state. my humble point is to get your priorities right initially. Dat will stifle any undue stress. Cheers.

Well said bro. But some bros are too new to the KC game and ganna conned in the process.

[aishanshan]

Originally Posted by prado

Bros. Look at the bright side lah! if you have fucked her at least 60 time then OK lah. Standard rate $100 each time if more then earn already lah..

based on number of FJ... is like 1k per fj... lugi big time... lol

[apwd007]

yup, just go out and enjoy... nothing more

[ThaiSunn]

Hi Bros.

Read a lot about the past experiences shared by all of u & would like to contribute my humble views on this very controversial topic.

Recently, I met this PRC gal, very high GFE & mutual chemistry so we started a " relationship", not underground though bec I don't have girlfriend or wife. Initially, she appeeared like other PRC gals, always hinting about wanting to own branded handbags, jewellery, watches, handphone, etc. I provided only the lower-priced end items, $450 & below, & always space out the purchase intervals at least 2 to 3 weeks. In between the intervals, I would give her cheaper items like shoes & dress from Far East Plaza or Bugis Village (very trendy & v competitive prices), & treat her to movies & bring her to see the GP when she came down with flu.

Gradually, I noticed that she reduced her frequency of asking for barnaded items & even suggest going to foodcourt for meals when I had actually planned to bring her to a restaurant. Even spoke to her parents on the handphone (which I bought thru trading in one of my older models). Right now, we are even planning to visit her family in middle of 2009. So far, the relationship has been quite stable & she is very caring in her action during dates, eg, wiping off perspiration from my forehead, peeling off the prawn's shell etc.

Hence, my sincere advice to Bros during the early stages is to observe closely & understand the PRC gal, & start with lower-priced items. At the same time show genuine concern ( if u aren't married or attached) & increase the romance intensity gradually so that if the gal is naturally of good character, she would also reciprocate.

Ultimately, both parties to put in effort, not just material means to keep the relationship going & as gentlemen, we have to accept the responsibility of taking the lead & adjust the tempo along the way.

[triple h]

gentlemen. Honestly speaking though, hw many true life experience stories hv u heard of china brides.. ? I recall an article in the ST sometime ago - the interviewee, a Prc said "that spore men all foolish, meet us prc, get all fluttered w us showering attention to them that they r willing to throw themselves and forego their spouse. Ultimately, dun sporean men know that its $ we want."

[FromBoy2Man]

Originally Posted by ThaiSunn

Hi Bros.

Gradually, I noticed that she reduced her frequency of asking for barnaded items & even suggest going to foodcourt for meals when I had actually planned to bring her to a restaurant. Even spoke to her parents on the handphone (which I bought thru trading in one of my older models). Right now, we are even planning to visit her family in middle of 2009. So far, the relationship has been quite stable & she is very caring in her action during dates, eg, wiping off perspiration from my forehead, peeling off the prawn's shell etc.

Ultimately, both parties to put in effort, not just material means to keep the relationship going & as gentlemen, we have to accept the responsibility of taking the lead & adjust the tempo along the way.

Bro, i think this prc has started to change her strategy. Sorry if i am wrong. I think prc girls treated their parents like god, they will do whatever their parents told them to do even they don't like it. Their parents are even more shrewd, although they are far away back in their hometown, they can control their children, plotted a strategy and eventually migrate to singapore to enjoy life. So, now prc put in more effort than u do! peeling prawn for you, wait till u marry her then see still got peeling prawn anot. Somemore their sex drive is also very high, once they see you cannot make it, they will look for other man to satisfy them. Don't forget they are all the best actress and you n i know what they are in singapore for. Cheers...

[Hooters666]

Have you guys came across this mass email...Amazing guy that dumped this KTV girl but also amazing that this china mei mei wrote a story to seek revenge.

"2004 Feb K first meets me at Tiananmen night club when he was
> working
> > in the OxxC as a trader. I was popular girl in the Tiananmen. K
> start
> > chases me after that which he become a regular customer until today.
> > K
> > waiting outside my school for bring me go to lunch, he looking for any
> > opportunity come to Tiananmen when he got client from happy hour until
> > night time, he usually sit down until the last one leave to the club.
> >
> >
> > 21 Mar my 21 birthday. K bought 1carat diamond ring for my
> birthday
> > gift. We went to bar at Marriott Hotel basement, I was drunk by his
> > friends
> >. We have first sex after he send me go home. After that he
> usually
> > stays in my house. I don't know how he handles his marriage but I only
>
> > know
> > his wife wants divorce.
> >
> >
> > On June he asked me stop night club work after he quit OxxC and find
> > another job increased salary. He promised to me he will take care me
> > forever even when I go back China. I earn quite much as I am popular
> girl
> > in the night club. K earns $7000 each month, he need afford his
> house
> > and car so he does not have enough money for me. I decide to choose
> with
> > him after he promised to me again and again even promised to me will
> never
> > touch his wife in his life.
> > We are moved to Toa Payoh because cheap rental but also near his
> house,
> > but
> > we were cheated by owner. The owner forced us leave his house after we
> pay
> > one year rental which we only stay in three month. We made a lot
> police
> > report but it does not work. I fell crazy when owner come to disturb
> every
> > night time. Meanwhile K changed job again after working BP six
> month
> > then working in the Sxxxx Cxxxx Bank.
> >
> >
> > Sep 2006 I have pregnancy but K give up his baby even he is
> > Christian.
> > He explained to me he is too busy of the work and money is not enough
> too,
> > he promised to me we will have a lots baby in the future and he also
> > promised to me he will never have any other women in his life
> otherwise he
> > will go to hell! So I went to abortion after 3 month on Dec.
> >
> >
> > May 2007 K was hired by Rxx and transfer to HK. He accepted
> working
> > in
> > HK because of the high salary $130,000HK each month. First month he
> stays
> > in 888 service apartment in Central HK provided by company. He invited
> me
> > visited him but I was busy for the school. Thought deep think I choose
>
> > give
> > up my study go company with him in HK.
> >
> >
> > 23 Jul 2007 I first visited to K in HK. He stay in Shama service
> > apartment when his wife not around. Since then I go visited him every
> two
> > month, he bring me to the Disneyland. I found him enjoy the night club
> in
> > HK because all the girls can go out have sex and paid by company.
> >
> >
> > Nov 2007 his friends bring him go to the Dongguan which is small town
> in
> > Guangdong Province but popular of the night club girl. The girls'
> average
> > ages are 18, most of them only 16 and come from small city or country.
> > Compare to HK there is much cheaper. The girls tip only $200RMB for
> sit
> > down one night and $800RMB if they have sex with the customers.
> >
> >
> > 2008 after few times having fun in Dongguan K adopts a 17 years
> old
> > girl and gives her house in Shenzhen so he easily transform from HK.
> Of
> > course this information provide by his friend in HK. That is the
> reason he
> > still needs go visit HK customers every month totally under company's
> > expenses. K start reject me visit him in HK and lied to me which
> > company will transfer him to London and company give him three years
> > employee pass in London. Actually he already back in Singapore.
> >
> >
> > July 2008 K scold to me "fuck off" when I found him in his
> office One Raffles Quay, he never fell any guilt when I decide to give up all the things include youth, money, friends, study and baby. He has no any
> reason dumped me without any responsibility in nearly 5 years. I can not
> believe the man changed from bought 1 carat diamond ring to scold me even want me to die.
> >
> >
> > My parents very angry when they heard K dumped me without any
> > responsibility. They never agree me with him because he has wife but I
> > insist it. My mother wants to talk to him but he refused. She very
> worried me wants come to here to see me. My mother has not good health. Doctor find tumors in her brain result her eyes can not see clearly while her
> waiting the visa. My mother suddenly passes the way 25 Oct 2008.
> >
> > K told me he divorced after know my mother passed the way and he
> > blamed me everything.
> >
> > Today K is very proud in his life because got high salary, every
> > night go to night club having fun with club girl was paid by Rxx. He take
> the night club bill invoice to the company explain it is for customer so
> > company will pay everything. He often go to the Lunar, Tiananmen
> building from level one to level five."

[cultureshock]

every month, 1000+ bros got cheated by KTV girls.

means, every day, 34+ bros get cheated.

Why get cheated when you just wnat to go KTV to sing and touch girls?

[snooker]

Originally Posted by cultureshock

every month, 1000+ bros got cheated by KTV girls.

means, every day, 34+ bros get cheated.

Why get cheated when you just wnat to go KTV to sing and touch girls?

Because all those that got cheated are lying to themselves..thay still live in the past thinking they are still good looking and those Ktv girls are like normal girls outside and like them(not their $$)

They are living a dream, not realizing as you get older, the only way to get a young girl to be nice to u is to PAY! The most good looking feature on you is your bulging wallet that u are willing to empty for them