Sharing my story

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To start of, I am a student. First time i visited this CAT50 thai worker, about 3-4 months back. Well first few visits were SOP. Then she asked me out one day, to Singapore Flyer. I told her immediately, i have no money to go on a ride on the Singapore Flyer much less giving her a free ride on it too. She said nevermind, she pay for her ticket, and i treat her to a meal. Well i agreed, she paid for the tickets, i treated her to a simple fast food meal. Everything went ok.

For the next month, she would 'sneak' out of her 'house' at about 8am before her working hours to meet up with me, and we would go to a hotel for a few hours for bonking session, and after that it would end with a meal at GM. Then she would cab back to her 'house' to work. About 3 of such sessions happened within a month and a half. I would usually pay for the hotel room first, which is below $50, then after leaving the hotel, she would take my wallet and put a $50 inside, telling me to go eat during my schooling as she knew i had not much money.

Throughout this so called 'relationship', i would continually STRESS to her that i have no money, its either we work something out, or we don't meet. So we came to an agreement to pay half-half for he hotel room, but she doesn't know how much i pay for the room, so she she just gives me $50 everytime. When cabbing to GM, she pays the cab fare, when eating at GM, she would intro me to some thai food and everytime she pays for the food as well ( because she has to dabao some food to her 'house' for her friends to eat ). So i i bonk her for free, go to GM for free, eat for free. I just pay for the cab fare to cab home.

She tells me she likes me, loves me and yaddah yaddah the usual what nots. I just take it in casually, as i know the power of GT during my army days of chionging Viet KTVs. I try to create a barrier around myself to prevent myself from being GT'ed.

Then last month, she asked me to overnight her. As usual i told her i had no money. We went drinking one day in the night,as it was her 'off' day, at a TD in GM. At about 1:30am, the time where she is supposed to go back 'home' as instructed by her OKT. She popped the question to Overnight her again. As usual i told her i had no money, and i showed her my wallet with only about $30+ dollars. She told me she could fork out more than half of the money to overnight her ( meaning she was paying money to the house to overnight me ). I asked her if she was serious, she said yes. So i went to the ATM to try to draw some cash, but the ATM was out-of-order, so i told her ATM spoilt, can't draw, she immediately took out the full amount to overnight her and passed it to me. And we cabbed to her 'house' and i overnight her the first time for free.

Then about a week after, she asked me to overnight her again as it was my Birthday and she cannot go on 'off' to go out with me. I told her again, no money. She asked me how much i was short of, i told her i was short everything, the full amount. Once again she agreed to pay the full amount, so i agreed and i went to borrow money from some friends. I did not ask for the money when i entered her room, i sort of wanted to test her. If she is doing this for money of whether she liked me really. After she showered, i acted as if i was checking my mail on my phone while she put the money into my wallet. She even gave me a wallet for my birthday present ( not so branded, but ok, i'm thinking $40-$50+ ) And that was my 2nd overnight, for free again + a wallet with a 100 thai baht dollar bill inside, she said it's for luck.

Throughout these 3 months, she has been calling me after her work daily without fail, and each time up to 2-5 hours ( Yes 5 hours from night to sunrise ). She asked me to call her in the initial week, but i told her the bills were paid by my parents, i had no money to pay. So i had her to call me instead. So she has been buying many HI-cards to feed her hunger to talk to me. I learnt a substantial amount of thai during these calls, and of course i taught her some basic english + chinese as well.

I read SBF sometimes to keep myself in check not to fall for her. And it is going well so far. She has even talked to me about 'our future life' in thailand when she goes back. Meeting her parents etc etc yaddah yaddah. And of course i will not be doing any of those when she goes back as i have read of some tragic stories some Bros shared here.

Up till now, i still refuse to belief that she really loves me. Or rather i tell myself not to, as it is dangerous. But sometimes i feel like an asshole for lying to her so much. I do have money, but i just don't want to get chopped, so i tell her "study, no money" everytime.

Anyway sorry for the load of texts i have just written. Just want to share to someone what i have experienced. BTW, There is no 'moral of the story' for these load of crap i have just written, just pure sharing. Thanks for those who have read. Bros in similar situation, just don't get GT. Remember that they are still fucking many men everyday, make yourself belief there is no 'true love' between you and them. Just have whatever fun you can have.

[sundial]

beware of Thai black Magic when you disappoint her.

KuKu bird might go rotten and fall off......

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Yea. Although i think she's more concerned about harvesting her crops in Farmville than doing that.

But i will take note. Thanks yea.

[hamsapkwai]

hmmm dont tell anyone but i just saw a pig fly past my window

[CaptNeeda]

TS I suggest that you concentrate on your studies. Forget about this Thai Fl. My gut feeling is that she is trying to get out of something from you. Do not fall into her trap . If not you will be in deeper trouble .

[llllllllllllll]

Thanks bro, i'm taking every step with precaution.
I will not compromise anything for my studies, coping
Well for now.

[smartke]

ts, u r very lucky to hv such encounter.
but gd thing tat u din fall for the gt.
there r probably some hidden agenda.
nothin is free...

[Nonteerak2553]

Originally Posted by hamsapkwai

hmmm dont tell anyone but i just saw a pig fly past my window

Maybe TS has the Mario Maurer look, thus this happening na.

Originally Posted by llllllllllllll

Thanks bro, i'm taking every step with precaution.
I will not compromise anything for my studies, coping
Well for now.

My humble opinion na, forget about her. Now she may be paying for you, but who knows later you be paying more then she pay you. I remember bros here mentioned that they can earn as high as 10k per month. So you doesn't know whats her motive behind all this.

[Reoxy]

As usual, I have but one simple, straight forward but very important queston:

DID YOU WEAR A CONDOM?

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by Nonteerak2553

I remember bros here mentioned that they can earn as high as 10k per month.

a popular FL here in sg for 3 weeks can earn as much as 9k sgd, serving 10 customer per day.
my guess is for a popular tank girl, she could easily earn more than 10k on the basis of 20 customers on good days.

[owl888]

TS, I know u r enjoyingthe freebies. But dunn u think u r like “小白脸” ?

My 3 cents of thought.........

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Thanks bros for your views on this. I have been thinking of any possible scenarios of the motive of her doing this.

Yes i have thought of her using the "sacrifice small money to bring in big money" long term plan. Thus i stay firm in not giving her any money, even if i am working next time earning big bucks. Once monetary issues are raised by her. I will stop everything, that is my guideline.

Yes i do feel like i'm a xiao bai lian what to do? Small brother brain thinking more than my own brain.

I have learnt much about thier trade from my experiences the past few months. They basically become a Emotionless individual during work, who try to cast love spells on their customers to make them feel 'wanted'. Thus i constantly pick fights with her every now and then, by purposely checking her iphone whatsapp/sms chats. As i know she is contacting customers to GT them, using the usual GT phrases - "miss u" "i dont want u go out, go home now" etc. Why i pick a fight with her on purpose ? The reason is the same as to what she is applying to her customers, to make her feel 'wanted' by showing her Something called 'jealousness'.

But i admit it is quite dangerous. I do get quite emotional during these quarrels at times. I might deceive myself that i get emotional because i am a good actor, truth is i am human, i have a heart as well. At the end of the day, i remind myself of the Golden Rules shared here. Do not get too emotionally attached, know how to balance the right amount of emotions to be invested as to not set yourself on the path to destruction.

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And yes i know her monthly salary, she tells me how many customers she has in a day. Usually 17-20. She's earning 9k+ to 5 digit sums every month.

Regarding the "did u wear a condom" part. She did request not to use a condom on several occasions when we were outside her 'house' and at a hotel. As i only had 2 condoms with me, she would request for a 3rd time w/o codom. But everytime she did that, i would strongly reject her. When she asks "why cannot ? U no love me jing jing ?" i will give the reply "you baby, i baby, no condom have baby how ? You and me cannot take care" meaning she and i are both young, we can't afford an accidental baby. So she lan lan have to accept the reasoning.

Never do a WL w/o a condom no matter the amount of lust that is building up within you. Think of the consequences before u do anything. 20 minutes of fun in exchange for a lifetime of hell. Better to be safe, than being too late to be sorry.

[owl888]

Wat I see from your story, u look more matured than most of us here in the forum. But nevertheless, do take care & not fall into the KC trap. Always remember play with fire and u may get burnt!

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Originally Posted by owl888

Wat I see from your story, u look more matured than most of us here in the forum. But nevertheless, do take care & not fall into the KC trap. Always remember play with fire and u may get burnt!

Ok, thanks bro. Will take extra precaution.