Sick and Tired of family life

me05 · #1 14-02-2012, 03:26 PM

I am a regular bro with a family. Wake up same time Monday to Friday. Bring kids to schools and sent wife to work. After work, pick up wife and kids from grand-parents' place. Go home, spend some time with kids, put them to bed. talk a while to wife and sleep.

Sat and Sunday is all family life. Life is so repetitive and boring. I want to pull out my hair in frustration. My kids are still so young. How come I have such feelings?

datou · #2 14-02-2012, 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by me05

I am a regular bro with a family. Wake up same time Monday to Friday. Bring kids to schools and sent wife to work. After work, pick up wife and kids from grand-parents' place. Go home, spend some time with kids, put them to bed. talk a while to wife and sleep.

Sat and Sunday is all family life. Life is so repetitive and boring. I want to pull out my hair in frustration. My kids are still so young. How come I have such feelings?

Because u love them not deep enough.
Maybe initially u put them first in priority, but now u r thinking of yourself first ahead of them.

(o)(o) Tuner · #3 14-02-2012, 03:53 PM

TS, how many kids do you have and how old are they?

Watever problem or stress you have, dun think too much. Just concentrate on your work and bring up your kids. That would be your utmost priority.

highlysex · #4 14-02-2012, 04:06 PM

Maybe TS can think why you marry your wife in the first place ? Than work your thinking from there my 2 cents worth

HCKing · #5 14-02-2012, 04:34 PM

whichever other woman u entangled with will also give u the same life after u started a family with her.

unless u choose to be single forever and fark around till yr last breath.

sammyboyfor · #6 14-02-2012, 04:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by me05

I am a regular bro with a family. Wake up same time Monday to Friday. Bring kids to schools and sent wife to work. After work, pick up wife and kids from grand-parents' place. Go home, spend some time with kids, put them to bed. talk a while to wife and sleep.

Sat and Sunday is all family life. Life is so repetitive and boring. I want to pull out my hair in frustration. My kids are still so young. How come I have such feelings?

95% of Singaporeans are stuck in exactly the same routine.

Life is what you make of it. You only live once. Do what you want to do not what you think you're expected to do.

Write down your goals in life and when you wake up tomorrow, take the first step towards making them happen before your time runs out.

thaivisitor · #7 14-02-2012, 10:53 PM

Divorce your wife and pay alimony to look after your family lor....

Then you can live the life of a single man again... and let's see how long you can last at that.

WRX_STI · #8 14-02-2012, 10:59 PM

what did the 'brochure' state for family life that did not work out?

sta1100 · #9 14-02-2012, 11:02 PM

Hi bro me

My is the same as you, but I enjoy it, once in a while go out with your friend makan you will fell better.

Family is more important, you will miss the kids once they grown up

RealEstateGuy · #10 14-02-2012, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by me05

I am a regular bro with a family. Wake up same time Monday to Friday. Bring kids to schools and sent wife to work. After work, pick up wife and kids from grand-parents' place. Go home, spend some time with kids, put them to bed. talk a while to wife and sleep.

Sat and Sunday is all family life. Life is so repetitive and boring. I want to pull out my hair in frustration. My kids are still so young. How come I have such feelings?

Braddah, you could be a life long single Braddah. Braddah going to GL and KTVs night after night and paying for the illusion of love. Braddah, you don't know you have it good compared to the lonely fools that took a different course. Braddah, you need to learn how to cherish what some Braddahs on SBF actually envy but are scared to admit or are too dumb to realize. Braddah, you are in an enviable position in SG society. Braddah, if you want to step off to the darkest side of SG society you give up a lot for an empty cup Braddah. Braddah, don't be a fool Braddah. Braddah, the devil is playing tricks with your mind and you need to resist Braddah.

Iemanishere · #11 15-02-2012, 12:18 AM

Take up a sport bro....

dasreich · #12 15-02-2012, 12:24 AM

Be thankful you have a family .. some of us bros are also looking to settle down ..

Yes, single-hood is great, until you see us in the papers for the wrong reasons .. eg . Smell from HDB flat leads to dead man ..

wally888 · #13 15-02-2012, 01:17 AM

Do u have any hobbies?

joew2005 · #14 15-02-2012, 06:15 AM

u will feel the joy of seeing yr kids grow up day by day ..... yr life is abt them.

hamsapkwai · #15 15-02-2012, 08:10 AM

You could have had a more exciting life with several mistresses . They drain your finances and cause your family to tear apart.

You could have owned a few sports cars and end up having an accident. and be maimed for life

Your wife could have affairs behind your back and drive you nuts

Your kids could be intellectually subnormal or even worse with some incurable disease.

You could have gone and have a good time at the casinos and chalked up a whopping big bill and lose the roof over your head.

Just to name a few

Well all the above didnt happen so thank your lucky stars that you are having a great peaceful life .

Sometimes nothing happening IS a good thing brother.

So be careful what you wish for