Gf doesn't like any kind of intimacy

ViperX7 · #1 25-04-2014, 11:48 PM

My gf and I have been dating for around 2 years now. We do hug and kiss but she doesn't like any other kind of intimacy. We french kiss once in a while but she doesn't like it.

Once while we were frenching, I move my hands to touch her boobs. She immediately stopped me and became very angry. She said that these places are private and said that I did not respect her.

After some time, I brought up this topic to discuss with her. She said that she doesn't like this kind of things as it feels wrong and inappropriate. I tried to explain to her about the need of intimacy in a relationship but she wouldn't listen. She said if I love her then I wouldn't ask for these kind of things. Win liao lor.

Is this normal for her now and will she change this in the future? What can I do about this? We are both 22 and I don't want this to carry on as we grow older.

sammyboyfor · #2 26-04-2014, 02:47 AM

If she's frigid now, it will get even worse when she gets older.

Time to get yourself a new girlfriend.

Tai_zi21 · #3 26-04-2014, 02:55 AM

Why u never throw her back the ques? If she love u she will give in to ur needs also! And why are you the only 1 giving in? I thought it take 2 hands to clap?

mcyeoh · #4 26-04-2014, 03:24 AM

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Originally Posted by ViperX7

My gf and I have been dating for around 2 years now. We do hug and kiss but she doesn't like any other kind of intimacy. We french kiss once in a while but she doesn't like it.

Once while we were frenching, I move my hands to touch her boobs. She immediately stopped me and became very angry. She said that these places are private and said that I did not respect her.

After some time, I brought up this topic to discuss with her. She said that she doesn't like this kind of things as it feels wrong and inappropriate. I tried to explain to her about the need of intimacy in a relationship but she wouldn't listen. She said if I love her then I wouldn't ask for these kind of things. Win liao lor.

Is this normal for her now and will she change this in the future? What can I do about this? We are both 22 and I don't want this to carry on as we grow older.

she cheating badly....time to see the signs kid...

Kuang209 · #5 26-04-2014, 03:29 AM

how you even go thru all this TS?

JohnnyOliver · #6 26-04-2014, 03:31 AM

No sex still can last 2 years. TS, you power!

volcano · #7 26-04-2014, 03:50 AM

i really SALUTE u...i think 99.99% of the samsters here will run away long long time ago liao lor

Feronas · #8 26-04-2014, 07:19 AM

I ended up marrying one like u described TS. It ended up as low sex frequency, every session being mechanical, gets worse after u have kids. She prioritize everything (career, kid, etc) in front of sex, and leave it as only a "got remainder time then do", and not "die die must do" to maintain the relationship.

For guys I think I do not need to tell u where this is going.

whiplash · #9 26-04-2014, 07:26 AM

Wah better cut your losses. Under normal circumstances you should be fucking within a couple of months. Dating period is the sweetest time. If now already like this you wouldn't get any sex after marriage period. Wah like becoming a monk. You want ah?

Robinho · #10 26-04-2014, 07:26 AM

1 week I cannot take it liao.

You wait 2 years.

coolguy71 · #11 26-04-2014, 07:30 AM

TS.. I know exactly how u feel. As I had married one of such girl.

Let me describe. .when my gf and I go steady all I get is just kiss ang hug... nothing else. She is good in very acspect.. can go along with my parent, can mix with my friend.. good host.. never ask for expensive gift or exoensive restaurant. .etc.. low maintenance girl.. but she being a CHRISTIAN. . No sex before marry...

I self believe.. she will be open up after marry.. so marry lor.. hehe

During my first marry night I realise wrong ...as I am have high sex need.. I like to experiwnce different sex.. but now my wife only do one type.. when she and I have sex.. it is just she lie down and I fuck her .. I cum and clean up.

And this is once a month..

So TS .. I believe when u can last two years with your gf without sex.. mainly she is like mine.. good in other aspect.. but sex dept.. she got a D.. but you r able to accept. So if u want good sex.. I guess advice u need to change gf.

Or.. u can go outside and get.. hehe

That is what I do...

Big Sexy · #12 26-04-2014, 07:33 AM

she sounds like a decent girl. nothing wrong with not having intimacy when you are both so young and married. this is the type of woman you should take for a wife, knowing you would not end up being a cuckold..

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Originally Posted by ViperX7

My gf and I have been dating for around 2 years now. We do hug and kiss but she doesn't like any other kind of intimacy.

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