Someone’s Hitting-On my Wife

[itsabt6x]

Hi all, this is my 2nd new thread and I hope I'm not too long winded or boring....please forgive if I am.....here it goes....

Got a situation recently which I hope Bros and Sistas here can offer their opinion and views.

Some background information:
A year back, we put up our flat for sale and had appointed an agent (lets call him T) to handle it. 3 months passed without success and hence, we terminated T’s services. However during the 3 months, he had gotten quite friendly with my wife (lets call her W) and as she’s a homemaker, I let her handle all the communication & coordination.

During the pass year, I know T still kept in contact with W as she will call to consult him on property pricing, etc…(she’s trying to sell our flat herself)…but recently, T had been asking W out for afternoon tea saying he’s around our place and have some time to spare….but W rejected his invites. Lately (just last month), W told me T had been smsing her daily greetings, asking how she is….etc….and with the recent newspaper report on flirtatious sms…..she posed me several very tough (in my view) questions which I have difficulty answering…..

1. Why is T smsing her daily…doesn’t he have better things to do?
2. Is he trying to get ‘friendly’ with her?
3. Doesn’t he know he’s married and he shouldn’t be doing this?
4. Do most married men does this and why?
5. Do I do such thing with other women? (I’m lost for words)

Now here’s my dilemma:
I have TOTALLY no objection to guy(s) hitting on W and possibly succeed. Fact is, W is very moralistic whereas I’m highly open-minded and liberal (with bros Peterpan & Perverse being my idol). I’ve been thinking of ways and means to get W interested (or even entertain the thought) of an alternative lifestyle without any success. So this situation could actually help my cause but I find her questions above (especially the last one) difficult to answer. As much I like to be frank and honest with my opinion, I know I’ll be STRUCK down if I do.

I have tried to side-track her questions by saying that T’s just been friendly and there’s no harm making a new friend even though the business deal did not succeed. W had somewhat taken to my reply and did not raise the questions again. But I’m now thinking how I can make use of this situation to ‘open’ W’s mind and get into the swing of things…(if you know what I’m getting at).

So Bros & Sistas here…your thoughts please…..THANKS!!!

[Toyota Honda]

Crazy, your wife may never come back once she decides to go..

[D!ckster]

u sure bro??

like wat bro Toyota Honda said...ur wife may never come back once she decides to go...also there have been other threads, started by other bros, which had discussed on this topic...maybe u wanna go read those threads 1st?

[blackeagle10]

Bro itsabt6ex,

Not sure what you intend to achieve by encouraging your wife to swing with your propery agent. You better ask yourself some honest questions:

1. Do you treasure your marriage??
2. She is moralistic and you are liberal?? Can she take the 'heat' when this alternative lifestyle come into full swing?
3. What happens if she prefer bonking other men after experiencing liberty of screwing other men??
4. Do you really love her? Can you still respect her as a wife after she had screwed other men and engage in all kinds of kinky sex that even she herself won't do it with you? In the heat of passion, anything goes....

You may think it is exciting to have a full swinging lifestyle but once you started it, you have to to accept all the consequences(good and bad) as well. You could be signing divorce papers very soon if things don't turn out the way you plan.

Well think carefully before wishing for forbidden fruits that are best left alone.

[dionysusex]

I sincerely ask that you think twice, thrice or even four times before you embark on this.

A third party is the last thing you need when you try and get your wife started on alternative lifestyle.

Will you like it? Are you sure you like getting your wife fcuked by another man while you watch? Are you sure it will not come back to haunt you? How will you differentiate lust from love?

What if, upon release of inhibitions, your wife turns to the extreme and becomes more liberal than you? Will you look to ways to cap or limit her "adventures" then?

What will happen to your marriage and your family?

Not that I especially approve of it but your home is a place for you to go back to at the end of the day for security (not just the physical but the mental realisation too), comfort and rest. You should not have to worry constantly in the day about who your wife has screwed with during your absence.

Just my two cents...

[zhivago]

Dun risk it.

She had not tried anything such as these and once she got the hang of it, you'll lose control of her and you'll then regret abt the decision you had now...

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by itsabt6x

1. Why is T smsing her daily…doesn’t he have better things to do?
2. Is he trying to get ‘friendly’ with her?
3. Doesn’t he know he’s married and he shouldn’t be doing this?
4. Do most married men does this and why?
5. Do I do such thing with other women? (I’m lost for words)

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bro this is funny la, a situation like this and you ask such questions. if a burglar breaks into your house and you see him, are you going to ask him...

1. do you break into houses everyday? dont you have better things to do like attending a ninjado class?
2. are you trying to be unfriendly to me?
etc etc...

[spermmann2003]

Originally Posted by itsabt6x

Hi all, this is my 2nd new thread and I hope I'm not too long winded or boring....please forgive if I am.....here it goes....

So Bros & Sistas here…your thoughts please…..THANKS!!!

What i think is why do u still waste time trying to set them up together when there are many samsters here who are most willing to fuck ur wife.

U like role playing? Just post ur requests here . I am sure ur pm box will be flooded.

[dna_gene]

Originally Posted by itsabt6x

I’ve been thinking of ways and means to get W interested (or even entertain the thought) of an alternative lifestyle without any success. I’m now thinking how I can make use of this situation to ‘open’ W’s mind and get into the swing of things…(if you know what I’m getting at).

So Bros & Sistas here…your thoughts please…..THANKS!!!

My advice is if she's not receptive towards such ideas, she probably never will. If you tried too hard, she might be confuse of your love for her. Bro Peverse's is open to such ideas from the start, so don't compare theirs. My gal takes nude photos etc too but not all gals can allow that. If you really succeed in making her swing and fuck with another guy, most probably you'll lose her for good.

Rather than risking your marriage turn ugly, find a gal elsewhere and try what you want with her. However if your wife learns about your little affair, given her characters, your marriage will turn ugly still...

[QUOTE=itsabt6x]but I find her questions above (especially the last one) difficult to answer.

Why do you find the last qns difficult to answer? Are you like T that alway hunt for prey?

[yanki1]

bro better dun try this. since your wife has told u about that T advancement. it means she care for u and is uncomfortable about the whole thing. if shes open to those kind of things, she will have gone ahead and do it withouth telling u. since u mentioned that shes at home during the day and can do anything behind your back and u wun know about it.

i dun think shes open for those kind of things. her forcus might be to run your family well for u, so that u can concentrate on your work and not worried about things at home. dun screw things up. u got a nice wife who is faithful to u. dun waste it.

[manoftheyear]

As far as i'm concern you should love your wife and respect her. Not share her with someone just to satisfied your lust.... as it will destroy your marriage in the long run. Look at US the divorce rate is damn high cos they like to play swing!!!!. Bro don't risk!!!! or you will regret it for the rest of your life!!!!

[D!ckster]

Originally Posted by spermmann2003

...when there are many samsters here who are most willing to fuck ur wife...Just post ur requests here. I am sure ur pm box will be flooded.

My sentiments exactly...rather than 便宜 some outsider property agent...might as well 便宜 your fellow bros here... ...just kidding...

[jimmyccc]

not worth it bro... once u start this alternative lifestyle... there is not turning back... it's a one way street till u reach a dead end... u might end up wanking urself for pleasure with no pussy to fuck...

[donjean]

dont play with fire bro.....
u r not burning your hand but your dick...