Extramarital relationship with married women

TamKorSang · #1 08-07-2007, 02:13 AM

Hi Bros,

I've had 2 relationships with married women, current one still running, and a few flings too, don't know why, all married women.

How common is this? I mean a long running relationship with a woman who's gotta go home to another man. How do you deal with it? Sure abstinence is the best method of non-sh** incurrence, but thats beyond me now.

Just wanna gather some bro's views (knowing possibly flak is on the way) and also experiences.

unsung80 · #2 08-07-2007, 10:09 AM

DOn't let their husband found out, if not you may never log in to Sammyboy to talk about it.

SapienKia · #3 08-07-2007, 10:37 AM

I only had this experience once, 5 year back and it lasted for about 6 months nia, as she got preggie from me and had secret abortion so hubby won't know, after that stop...

While in it quick shiok, so called forbidden fruit .. but after it ended n on hindsight, quite risky, everything on the line ... wat happen if she ki siao wanna keep baby n divorce hubby ... eeks

Midnightiger · #4 08-07-2007, 12:41 PM

I had 2 experiences of extramarital affairs several years back. Let's call them A & B.

For A, then I was posted to KL and whenever I'm back, we had our regular sessions. It was really good. She even introduced her family to me, like her hubby, children and even parents saying I'm her collegue from her previous job (planned story).

As time went on, I started to feel uncomfortable. It's OK if I don't know anyone in her family, but once introduced, even her hubby was becoming more like a friend.

I talked to her to stop explaining the reasons but she still doesn't want to. So I planned to make her stop seeing me by asking for a large monetary loan thinkiing that it might turn her off. What do you know? I received a cheque from her hubby for it!

Then one day, on my regular trip back to Singapore, I was arrested for an investigation of CBT and was held in remand in Tanglin Police Station (near KK Hospital) for 2 nights! Apparently, her husband found out during a quarrel with her and she said something like I was a better lover than him. Damn! So in the end, both of them went to report me saying the amount in the cheque was for something they bought but I took it, etc.

Investigation cleared me, but it was one hell of an experience!

If you think the experience with A was bad, wait til you hear the experience with B.

Glen2712 · #5 08-07-2007, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Midnightiger

I talked to her to stop explaining the reasons but she still doesn't want to. So I planned to make her stop seeing me by asking for a large monetary loan thinkiing that it might turn her off. What do you know? I received a cheque from her hubby for it!

Then one day, on my regular trip back to Singapore, I was arrested for an investigation of CBT and was held in remand in Tanglin Police Station (near KK Hospital) for 2 nights! Apparently, her husband found out during a quarrel with her and she said something like I was a better lover than him. Damn! So in the end, both of them went to report me saying the amount in the cheque was for something they bought but I took it, etc.

Investigation cleared me, but it was one hell of an experience!

If you think the experience with A was bad, wait til you hear the experience with B.

Yikes~ Hell Hath No Fury Like A Woman's Scorn.

CLee2 · #6 08-07-2007, 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Midnightiger

I had 2 experiences of extramarital affairs several years back. Let's call them A & B.

If you think the experience with A was bad, wait til you hear the experience with B.

Sorry to hear about your bad experience. What happened with B ?

kane30s · #7 08-07-2007, 02:03 PM

waiting for story with B

GTOKING · #8 08-07-2007, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by TamKorSang

Hi Bros,

I've had 2 relationships with married women, current one still running, and a few flings too, don't know why, all married women.

How common is this? I mean a long running relationship with a woman who's gotta go home to another man. How do you deal with it? Sure abstinence is the best method of non-sh** incurrence, but thats beyond me now.

Just wanna gather some bro's views (knowing possibly flak is on the way) and also experiences.

I always not agree to stick any relationship to the married women.
This is like you create a fire at your ass-hole ....is very dangerous games
In this world there is many single woman , syt for us to run on
Why need married woman ?

Just for my opinion , do not play fire......
dont forget one day you will married also

Bambie · #9 08-07-2007, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by G+++ING

I always not agree to stick any relationship to the married women.
This is like you create a fire at your ass-hole ....is very dangerous games
In this world there is many single woman , syt for us to run on
Why need married woman ?

Just for my opinion , do not play fire......
dont forget one day you will married also

What you say is true, can you imagine maybe one of the woman mention here might be a samster's wife

Maybe fellow cheongster, then one day find our .... how ah ...

Bronco · #10 08-07-2007, 07:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by G+++ING

I always not agree to stick any relationship to the married women.
This is like you create a fire at your ass-hole ....is very dangerous games
In this world there is many single woman , syt for us to run on
Why need married woman ?

Just for my opinion , do not play fire......
dont forget one day you will married also

Bro, fully agree with u..married woman can see but better dun touch and play play especially our local woman full of evil thought in their mind.U dun know when u lying on the road side or both hands or legs kena break by their hubby in 1 day...

no_faith · #11 08-07-2007, 07:10 PM

yes, it is not gd to play wif fire but if the gal is not a willing party, our bro cant do anything.
furthermore, a fresh meat was offered to your mouth, wont u eat it?

im tinking will there be crisis for marriage in the future?

usmjordan2 · #12 08-07-2007, 07:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by G+++ING

I always not agree to stick any relationship to the married women.
This is like you create a fire at your ass-hole ....is very dangerous games
In this world there is many single woman , syt for us to run on
Why need married woman ?

Just for my opinion , do not play fire......
dont forget one day you will married also

Well said , brother GTO

I strongly agree with your statement,
In this world , there is many SYT , single lady

Dont because of the few sec , distroy people family

Cheers , carry on to the single lady

no_faith · #13 08-07-2007, 07:34 PM

on the good side, i agreed tat we shd not destroy other ppl marriage or happiness. dun care wat others do wif her. wo tui de qi zi ji de liang xin.
i can slp soundly wif no guilt.

on the evil side, u rejected her and she will continue to look for other playmate. she is doing a self destruction on her marriage anyway. how come no1 pointing @ her? if u dun eat, ppl also will eat. why not u?

these are my tots. sumtimes humans are really facing dilemma.
sumtimes really hard to judge wat is right and wrong?

iPhone · #14 08-07-2007, 08:51 PM

best if can avoid many heart may be broke

Simon Monster · #15 08-07-2007, 09:09 PM

I had extramarital relationship with married women (two to be exact) many years back and I had my retribution - what goes around, comes around. Fortunately, I managed to salvage my marriage and promised no more affair or ONS with married woman. Nowadays, I only go for commercial sex. Pay, Fxxk and forget it.