Fell in love with this PRC KTV girl who hurt me real bad

[loneyheart]

Just stand up from where u fallen bro ... u will be ok bro

[titan]

Originally Posted by DunhillSmooth

Bro, you can be a psychiatrist siah! you're right. Time will wash all the pain and feelings away... you know what's the funny thing? I know the answers, but the heart still sibeh KNN...
got any advice to make the heart feel less pain?

been that done that, bro. but your case, u are like her handyman. i rather u spend money for FL/ML for time being. if money is a issue then go JB. go travel and meet new friend. I met my current gf during a trip.

[Adler]

But you have at least bang her before ? More than once.
Right ?

[Filipe]

Use half or less than half the money she is asking for and go whoring.
Will make you forget her at least for a while, get to screw more girls and get actual value for the money.

[fxty1989]

Come on, the answer is very clear, just black list all her contact, then you will find out it’s pretty easy to forget this kind of person.

[Saxan]

Simping -

“Simp” is both a noun and a verb (to “simp over” or “simp for” someone is to engage in simp behavior). These days, the most common definition of the noun “simp” seems to be this:

a man who throws money or attention at a woman in order to gain her affection, even when his tactics aren't working.

" a silly or foolish person "

You decide if you want to continue being one.

回头是岸

[henrikh]

Originally Posted by ilovepantyhose

dun be carrot

dun be robert

dun be simp

dun be atm

Fully agree with you

[nasdaq]

Originally Posted by Saxan

Simping -

“Simp” is both a noun and a verb (to “simp over” or “simp for” someone is to engage in simp behavior). These days, the most common definition of the noun “simp” seems to be this:

a man who throws money or attention at a woman in order to gain her affection, even when his tactics aren't working.

" a silly or foolish person "

You decide if you want to continue being one.

回头是岸

Thanks for sharing.

[meshpenstand]

Originally Posted by DunhillSmooth

Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?

To summarized, you know you got KC and you are okay with it. Despite some frustration about no reciprocation of feelings, it is acceptable to you that you're simping over her.

Now, the help you asked, are you able to afford comfortably? Since, most help is in term of $$$.

If it's not making a hole in your pocket, continue simping away. Sometimes,
it's just a nice feeling staying in the simping zone.

But, for any working lady (any lady in fact, but more for WL), stay away from her. Block her on wechat/whatsapp. Fap more often to get the lust out of your mind, go hang out with other girls more. out of sight, out of mind.

Good luck bro!

[JasonJG]

Just delete her WeChat and block her. You'll feel a sense of emptiness for a couple of weeks. After that, it will all be fine. Both of you will still be alive. You can go on with your life, and she'll probably be hunting for her next sponsor.

[xnarsilx]

Originally Posted by DunhillSmooth

Hi Bros,

looking for sincere advice, and expecting to be flamed for being stupid.

Long story short. I fell for this KTV girl who hurt me conning me my tips and my feelings of course. , She went with another guy, and now staying with him.

Now she says she needs help, and only messages me only when she needs help. She told me many stories which I found out to be untrue, like she already went back China, she no longer with that guy, she is now studying in China. Every time she only messages me, but ignores me when i message.

I stll have strong feelings for her and now she's asking me for help.

Should I help her?

Bro, i wouldnt say stupid but its just not worth it. The money could be better spend else where. Spend it on other hookers, food, yourself, your family. Dont waste it on her.

[Lennyberg]

spend the money she asking from you on another few more KTV sessions. you will find yourself having more feelings with other ladies.

Its a phase you are going through... Don't succumb. Tahan and go see swim more to find more fishes.

[DunhillSmooth]

Originally Posted by loneyheart

Just stand up from where u fallen bro ... u will be ok bro

Thank you Mr Lonely Heart, your nick describes my feelings now. But yes, like what Denzel Washington says "Fall forward"

[DunhillSmooth]

Originally Posted by Lennyberg

spend the money she asking from you on another few more KTV sessions. you will find yourself having more feelings with other ladies.

Its a phase you are going through... Don't succumb. Tahan and go see swim more to find more fishes.

Bro, the advice sounds good. Yes, time cures all heart aches. Thank you. Kinda lost the feel for KTV now though... it's really stupid of me, listening the same songs again and again and again... and again..

[DunhillSmooth]

Originally Posted by xnarsilx

Bro, i wouldnt say stupid but its just not worth it. The money could be better spend else where. Spend it on other hookers, food, yourself, your family. Dont waste it on her.

Well said, Sir. Like my friend said to me "笨是没有药救的“